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ICWilfred/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 10:54 PM
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U/obsidian_pill This is great advice. Hey! Why don't you, or other people here list off some advantages for HIM to get married? Then the OP can take those and show it to him. If he has that much trust in reddit, surely he will be willing to see your reasons. The best reason they have for him to get married? Health Insurance and BAH Yeah! Marry her for the Insurance! Then there's this gem by u/Seldarin... You answered your own question: "I don't know what to do now, had I known this was his posit…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:09 PM
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relevant RSD Tyler talks about congruence.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:52 PM
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yet here you are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 08:50 PM
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oh jeeze, I should have realized I'm dealing with a narcissist. u/cheerma posts to u/ofspock once again, do you have any examples of how trp would be toxic to a ltr? you feel the need to respond with: once again, do you have any examples of how trp would be toxic to a ltr? Have you ever been in a LTR to understand the examples? Which is a dodge of the question and a personal attack on u/Cheerma. u/Cheerma then asks do you have any posts that arn't personal attacks at me? to which you respond Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 08:44 PM
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Have you ever been in a LTR to understand the examples? No not a personal attack at all. You chastise for the dodging of a question right after dodging a question, I think some call that irony
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 08:26 PM
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They're
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 11:47 PM
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The author is biased, he associates dominance with being an asshole despite the research having nothing to say on the matter. ...women will still pick the dominant asshole over the upstanding prestigious man.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:47 PM
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Best break is a clean break.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 07:44 PM
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Ugh, not me. I don't want to be "taken care of", and many women don't either. Are people who claim to be both a man and a woman hypocrits?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 05:18 PM
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What certain colored pills way of thinking?
/r/MensRights01/07/14 07:13 PM
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umm... we do not have a public-health problem our society is demonstably struggling with. How does one even demonstable? Kidding aside, the idea of the "rape culture" you're no doubt referring to is more a mental health problem than a public health problem. one source
/r/MensRights30/06/14 04:40 PM
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Nick Perry disgusting sexist male bullshit that I do not agree with. Hopefully reverse psychology.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:11 PM
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Nah, it's only because all of those women had behaved in such a manner at one point or another. They're anger is a form of guilt. Now that's sad.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:08 PM
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Well at least the husband didn't fall for the 'he wore down my defense' defense.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:34 PM
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I'd argue this is true Nope. There are classes, there are leagues. Do a majority have to worry about this? No, but it does exist. Go down to Appellatia and meet some 20 year old with no education, a mountain dew and meth addiction and tell me there are not leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 06:55 PM
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Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 11:51 AM
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http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_Cave Don't tell me what is real and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 11:44 AM
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Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/14 08:52 PM
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Yeah! Well... except for advocating retarded bullshit like preemptive punishment, but besides that no silliness at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/14 12:57 AM
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We're in the same book, just on a different page.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 03:39 AM
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So, in order for you to find the fat man attractive he would have to raise his SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 10:53 PM
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Arousal triggers are something that can be learned Now there are men that cannot trigger an arousal from me for sure Do you see the contradiction? So, you yourself have placed value on these men. Your ex had a lower SMV than some other ex's (presumably) but made up for it in other ways (triggers) The fat man in your opinion has an extremely low SMV and would have to have and extremely strong, as compared to the hair pin of your ex's, trigger. (he'd better be a millionaire)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 10:35 PM
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The whole idea of value is completely subjective. I am a millionaire who wipes his ass with 100s. Those hundred to me have little value. Others would kill for those shit stained benjies. Subjective value. Edit: you act as if you do not do this. Say you meet a new friend, but every time you want to do something the friend blows you off. Eventually you are going to get tired of that friend are you not? The friend did not bring value to you, whether that value is sex, security, emotional crux ect..…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 10:00 PM
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I think here lies the crux of the problem of trp. Is it universal? No. Let's not be stupid. Does it work for the majority? I can't say. Do some of its tenants hold true to relationships I have had and have seen? Yes I think so, but personal anecdotes and all. Behavior and relationships are not black and white issues in the least, especially with today's odd culture. There is also the possibility your click or who you identify with and attract are those who do tend to be more dominate women causi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 09:47 PM
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Perception creates the world around us. Our lifes are an individual experience. Every book I read, movie I see, experience I have changes my world view, changes my universe. Say you are a three year old. Everyone tells you Santa is real, you see him at the mall, you put out cookies and he eats them, you get presents. To you Santa is real, albeit only in your own mind, but you are wholly convinced he is real. All the evidence is there. This is the idea behind The Matrix, Neo's life was real befor…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:32 PM
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Saying 'more' is applying value. Saying a person is more attractive than another is saying a person has a higher value of attraction ie a higher smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 06:57 PM
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Of course it exists. Everyone attempting to form a relationship with anyone else places a value on any potential for said relationship. All of us have those in our lives we decide not to give attention to and selfishly enough this is because of the perceived value on the rejected party. Relationships are give and take. I have something of value: time, energy, wealthy, looks, security, comfort. You have something of value: time, energy, wealth, comfort ect.... let's trade, ie have a relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/14 06:21 PM
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Why not? We are the masters of our own universe. If something exists in my mind it might not be tangible, but it exists in a certain context.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 11:50 AM
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I think the contradiction is if they are in one's own mind then the context the live in is fantasy causing the 'don't exist in any context' to be the contradiction.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 11:21 AM
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Doubtfull. It is human nature to pick a side, a team, somthing I can be a part of. A way for a slothful individual to be able to point and say "this! This is what I believe!" rather than formulating their own opinions by diligent research, empathy, and reason. I'm guilty of this at times, most of us are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 09:18 PM
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I'm glad I did the edit as no I didn't get it at first, I thought you were attacking me. A very interesting point one I think I agree with. A point which would fit in the thread u/Lynn1975 did on feminism ruining sex lifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 05:36 PM
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Can we get rpw to chime in on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 05:31 PM
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Anyone who would allow others to so thoroughly dictate their personal philosophies is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 05:29 PM
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Fair enough, but my confirmation bias is the self improvement. Going back to the gym, having confidence in all relationships, and taking control in the bedroom, all advice taken from trp which has been helpful and positive changes in my life. There are definitly those who take the 'alpha' crap way too far. Edit: wording
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 03:28 PM
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OMG I cannot believe you you mock my scientifically proven idea that 50 shades is pure trp! How dare you! Definitly just having a fun discussion ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 03:17 PM
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From what I've seen the main focus from the main contributers is; how as a man to I get the utmost out of life? Now, yes sex and women are an important part of life so there will most assuredly be an incredible amount of topics on getting laid. Remember though that trp is not r/seduction or r/pua but a more rounded approach to life which has the side benefit of attracting women. Also, it is a men's forum which often has a locker room type mentality where a lot is said behind a veil which does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 03:14 PM
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It's sad when one cannot be blunt without being lambasted with name calling. No one is advocating hate of any kind and to be in control of a relationship does not imply controlling every aspect of a person or their life. Well, not if done in a healthy mature way. Edit: maybe I missinterpreted. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:55 PM
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A spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:45 PM
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It's an open world game where you go around jacking cars beating hookers and shooting cops. Among other things. Apples and oranges for sure, but yes I believe it does show that those who play it if free from consequence (key) would like to behave in such a manner, but understand we do not live in that world. The difference being is we can and do live in a world where a relationship with a dominate man can be a reality free from such consequences as would be seen from jacking cars and shooting co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:43 PM
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Not all of trp no, but the theme of want of females to have a dominant man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:35 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head at the end. We really don't know about female sexual desire. All we can go off are personal anecdotes which is tricky. So, we look to real world examples to give us ideas as to what is actually going on in their minds. When it is seen that women swoon over what some would call abusive we have to sit back and really think as to whether it is the dominant decisive man that is wanted or the goofy British blooke. I think the rom - com industry works so well as it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:34 PM
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Most likely a combination of accessibility free of judgment and publicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 02:19 PM
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My two... Girl in the car: while staring at each other give a smirked smile and a nod as if an invitation for her to get out of the car, impress you are approachable and want her to do so. She does great, she doesn't walk away. Girl on the sidewalk: not sure if that meant anything other than she's paying too much attention to her phone. As for the cards: If you do have a job it's a great way to show worth rather than scribbling on paper or just typing into a phone. The cards, whether business or…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:34 PM
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I wonder how many of the 100 million referenced were just an attempt to see the fuss which did not really appeal. I'm sure the numbers are skewed a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 12:28 AM
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Now the untapped market aspect is interesting as 50 shades road the coattails of Twilight giving it more attention than it otherwise would have. I argue there is a difference between escaping through reading a spie novel and having a visceral reaction to a BDSM type novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/14 12:23 AM
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I downvoted you because your post added nothing I had not already touched upon, and rightfully so as it appears your post was an attempt to bait me into a discussion with you. I downvoted again because you whined about it. I'll bite... I get your point about the anecdotes, but we all form world views from experience. To give a personal anecdotes is not to attempt to prove anything, but to share an opinion. This is what I believe, this is why I believe it... personal anecdote on why I have said o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 11:56 PM
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Ah crap that was meant to be a reply to an individual I was having a discussion with within the thread. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 11:55 PM
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Sure Russia is an assuption. But I've spent time in the middle east and all over south america and many of the families I met abroad were very much what we would describe as patriarchal, but the wife ran things in the background. Captain first mate. We also have to keep in mind we are talking ideals. Examples to contradict said ideals can be found everywhere. Also, when talking RP we're talking strong mentally, strong physically, and strong emotionally men and I fully recognize not all men can i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 10:39 PM
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Interesting you choose to point to the wealthiest and most powerful country in one region of an example which includes several regions worldwide. What about the gauchos in Argentina and Chili? Japanese? The rooskies? Shoot a majority of Americans historically. There definitly examples of the extreme which can be used to prove your point, but again, those are the exceptions we hear about because they make good stories. We don't hear the of the strong men who are the face of the family whom have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 09:02 PM
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There are many middle eastern women wearing full dress who look at our scantily clad women and call them whores and adulterous. Just because you have a limited propagandize view of a region proves nothing as to the worth of its practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 08:45 PM
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We're off topic. Let's get back on. Sure I'll concede there are those in undeveloped countries whom live lifes of plight and misery. There are also those in developed countries who live their lives full of plight and hardship. Neither case truly has to do with rp or bp, as rp does not promote violence or degradation of women in any way. And my example of those countries is of the norm, not the violent exceptions. You missed the point of 50 shades. 50 shades is a Machiavellian story of an older m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 08:38 PM
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One is not to concern thrmselves with the plight of others in a distant land as if they truly know their plight. We are to concern ourselves with the immediate, with the community in which we reside for there is it where we can make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 08:23 PM
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Sure we hear about the negative exceptions, but the rule is closer to the captain first mate theory trp premotes. Think about it like this: Why is 50 shades of grey so popular among western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 05:59 PM
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Only a small percentage of the world falls into tbp; the educated western one. The rest of the world generally behaves more rp then bp. Russia, China, india, middle east, south america...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:41 PM
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Second paragraph top post. "Nobody should be made to feel unsafe or uncomfortable in any situation, period" This mentality of the world should be bubbled wrapped is a lot of what is wrong today.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 08:45 PM
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And I pleasured it so hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:20 PM
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Read the last sentence of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:17 PM
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Keep reading... I already have pleasured content from the OP to prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:13 PM
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She selectively excludes those she deems as radicals to make her more credible.... Kinda the whole point of the fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:01 PM
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Hmm... I get what your saying, but I read her talking about the radicals fems as the no true... You can't listen to the radical feminists because they're not true feminists, a true feminist... That being said I concede one cannot include the extremes of any movement in an argument and win. But those darn squeaky wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 03:38 PM
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I'm new... Two weeks old so I'm ignorant on how to do the quote thing but... Actually yes "To be honest, I know why you hate feminism. Hell, I hate it too (or at least that version of )." "Realize that there are a metric shitton of definitions of feminism. Just because someone is Black doesn't mean they like rap music. Just because someone is a self-described feminist doesn't mean they believe in the most out-there, radicalist feminist ideas..." No true feminist would think that... http://ration…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 03:11 PM
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Swing and a miss. Not even close.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:15 PM
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...to libertarian because everyone is full of shit... Yes we are.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:42 PM
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I have, and no not on starbucks but on bud, Budwiser and cigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:28 AM
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For others.... what I am doing, not trying, is pointing out your entire argument is based off an accepted logical fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 04:19 AM
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You mean there is no true scottsman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 01:34 AM
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Then by your own admission there are no unicorns, only donkeys on which a dildo can be strapped, for once frame is lost the straps holding the horn fall and all is left is ass.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:09 PM
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Not in any context. The whole idea of the unicorn is it lives in your own fantasy. Unicorns are an illusion brought to you by the fantasy ideal of true love and soul mates. There is no such thing as a unicorn in reality. Thinking you can find a unicorn will only lead you to disappointment in finding out what you thought was a unicorn was just an ass with a dildo strapped to its head. Hard truths. Edit: yes I see the contradiction in saying they don't exist in any context then saying they live yo…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:37 PM
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If unicorns did exist they'd be referred to as something rare not something which does not exist.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 12:58 PM
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The thing about unicorns is they do not exist. Hence the reference to a mythical beast.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 11:18 AM
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Confrimed. His apartment.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:47 PM
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Take solice in the fact that 18 is not your physical peak at all, then get that ass in gear!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 01:59 PM
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The side that says the girl is in the wrong.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 04:02 PM
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