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| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Lmao | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Nothing wrong with living your life and choosing to spend energy to not bother others. Treat others how you want to be treated. I appreciate not being disturbed and I appreciate feeling safe and respected. It costs me nothing to afford that to others, even if I might be interested in them. The universe has a way of giving you what you want so long as you're patient, and as far as relationships go, that rule has held true. Almost all my close family are female, so I guess I have a certain insight… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?I'm kinda over this discussion either way, but obviously as a man you'll be just fine no matter what you do... | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?While she's not by herself is definitely a worthy distinction. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Ultimately, you end up at the same place, assuming the cold approach is done as tactfully as possible. However, it comes down to a matter of perspective: what does it mean to you that your actions might make another uncomfortable? At the end of the day, if I flirt with someone, or make a pass at them, I want it to succeed every time. This serves my self confidence as well as my own belief that no one deserves to feel uncomfortable or sexualized when they're going through their day to day lives, … | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?There's no reason to bug ppl except in environments like bars and the like in which everyone is there to be social. No one wants to be accosted in the grocery store, or on the bus. They just want normal human interactions, not to be asked out. Again, there'll be a sign if a person wants you to ask em out in environments apart from clubs or whatever. If there's no signal, don't bite is my philosophy. While a person might be annoyed by my actions, and that's all right, it's not ok imo to intention… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 10:08 PM |
| 0 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Must've been a lot of compliments | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?While that's great and I'm happy for you, cold approaching women is a surefire way to make many uncomfortable. As a man, this is simply not obvious, because we are not physically intimidated by the other sex. It doesn't matter whether your intentions or body language denotes that you're harmless, 99% of the time a woman is approached, she has to prepare herself to be harassed. Because of this, women prepare themselves for harassment every time. Don't put someone through that. If they're interest… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 0 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Always wait for a sign. Unwanted advances have this tendency to make people uncomfortable and strain relationships. And before you say anything, I'm currently in a loving relationship with plenty of experience from beforehand, so I know this "strategy" works just fine. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 5 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?Reality can often be disappointing. If the girl who's confident enough to pass out on your shoulder wanted your number, she would have asked you for it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?No. The most attractive thing one could do there would be to allow her to sleep on his shoulder and ask nothing in return, and bother her not at all. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad I'm only learning game to get laidJust remember that girls are good at detecting men who just want to fuck. Your best chance at getting laid is genuinely expressing interest in a person you exercise care and validation towards. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 11:30 AM |
| 3 | What are some hobbies that I can take up that would help me socialize with people while not being fixated at girls?bicycling (I don't do it much though), and tennis (stopped playing years ago). Assuming you still do the other hobbies... There's your answer lmao. | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:55 PM |
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