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A fundamental flaw in your thinking is this "repulsive" conclusion. You are viewing attraction thru men's perception. We are almost entirely visual. So your lack of success with women translates in your head into proof that you must be repulsive. This is completely flawed logic. Your lack of success, I can guarantee you, has much more to do with something you are doing/not doing. Think about that for a minute. We can't change our genetics, but we can relearn how to be social in such a way that g…
/r/seduction09/12/12 06:06 AM
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My advice. Stop worrying about meeting a SO for the time being and just work on being more social. Start trying to start up conversations with random people in public. Try to make what I call 5 min friends. If you are in line waiting, strike up a friendly conversation with someone around you. Grabbing lunch by yourself, look for another solo eater and ask to sit at their table (as far away as possible so its less creepy). Sure, some will say no. Some conversations will be awkward as hell. Who ca…
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:40 PM
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Then the "puss out" line probably wouldnt have worked for you anyway, since it wouldnt have matched your tone. I'm more of a "call them on their shit" type (but they also know that from reading my profile), so it works for me (although it probably does infuriate them)
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:22 AM
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Good, that means that odds are she will contact you. If she doesn't after a couple of days, then you can reinitiate the conversation yourself and simply just be like "sorry, things have been crazy on my end. How have you been".
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:14 AM
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I'm 40, so I don't know how relevant my answer is for you young'ns, but having gone through my share of relationships (including a divorce), I developed a rule that is now known in my social circle as the "Rizz recovery rule". It goes as follows: "The best way for a man to get over a relationship is for him to go out and fuck 10 other girls". Pretty simple in theory. But at first just getting out there is tough to do. Then, even when successful, your heart really isn't even in it, so you have to…
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:12 AM
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Personally, I probably just wouldn't respond (depends on how things were going, if you felt like she was vested and interested, then I'd do this), and after a couple days she will probably send you an email trying to re-establish communication (Usually something like "what happened?". Then you can either ignore the shit test, or ask the question again at some point, but prefacing it with some sort of "without trying to puss out like you tried the last time I asked, tell me something shocking....…
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:03 AM
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I've had the best luck in picking girls who I had noticed were into one of my friends, or a buddy in my social circle. Then either directly approach them about that, or use your insight more subtly. Believe it or not, direct approach tends to work a lot better for me. "You seem like a cool chic, and that you'd be fun to hang out with. Tell ya what, I'll help you out with (*insert name here) if you'll be my wingman saturday night. Bring as many girlfriends as you want". Then just make sure she ha…
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:47 AM
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I agree, plus it also is sort of that push/pull, hot/cold mentality. I call it the "cat string theory" (I probably heard it called that before, but can't remember a source) I can totally see how it keeps her guessing, and women love to be in that sort of WTF state of mind. It also gives them the perception that they are chasing, which is a huge power shift. And it is different, and probably unlike anything that any guy has ever done before
/r/seduction08/12/12 02:31 AM
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"I'm getting a bit bored so i'm going to go talk to my friends, but I'm going to kiss you before I leave"> Brilliant. I love everything about this. It will be used.
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:59 PM
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I think she is out to get hers, just like you are out to get yours. You took her "slut defense" to be labeling the relationship as "fuck buddies" so you avoided doing that, when really her defense is the sleeping over (you don't sleep over and she feels like a slut). So if all you want is a fuck buddy relationship with her, I think it's there. Just plan on spending the night. Personally I would avoid going out in group settings with her, and just keep it simple and true to what it is.
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:53 PM
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I have just recently started reading seddit, but am a 40 year old male who I guess you would call a "natural". (it's funny, I came here simply to get a chuckle from the whole "pick-up" aspect (on the surface seemed ridiculous to me), and ended up realizing that tactics that I realized years ago work (and thought I had come up with), actually have names, and are discussed openly on here.) I like sex, and "closing" quickly (not necessarily sex that night, but definitely laying the groundwork for i…
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:33 PM
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I'm just going to be honest here, and you can take that for what it's worth. I am by no means an expert in "seduction", but I am a 40 year old man who routinely "dates" 22 year old HB8's (to use seddits scale). You of course have no reason to believe that, and I have no intentions of trying to prove it. However, after reading your comment the very first thing that jumped out to me is the fact that it doesn't seem to me that you like yourself. How can you possibly expect to get a girl to notice y…
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:22 PM
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I think the better point of "rating" them is for strategy. I like to tease and bust balls, so to speak, and will have a different approach with an HB7 than I would an HB9 (I rarely give 10's). For example, if while on a first date a beautiful, radiant HB9 or 10 suggest getting an ice cream cone I might say "Oh my God, we aren't even dating yet and you are already trying to put on the relationship 15?!?" I would never say that to a 7 (or a 8 that was less confident) But a true 9 or 10 has a certa…
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:48 PM
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In this case all the evidence indicates that you are correct and that his was the correct approach, because it worked. I just know that for me, personally, I try to stay in that confident, (statement making as opposed to question asking) mode. I am also a big believer of understanding the principles here in seddit, and then tailoring them to fit you. It could very well be that his body language and other subtle cues have a sappy (to use your word) side to them, and that had he tried to power thr…
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:27 PM
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Prefacing your coffee comment is way better than not asking her out at all, but personally (I like to tease) I would have said something along the lines of, "Since you OBVIOUSLY aren't very good at tic-tact-toe, I'd like to offer you a free tutoring lesson over coffee soon"... Maybe not those exact words, but you started off being silly and she was obviously receptive, so I would have stuck with it. I think the preface ever-so-slightly takes away from the confidence you've already demonstrated, …
/r/seduction06/12/12 01:35 PM
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Let me first start off by saying I am NOT a SEDDITOR per se...I am a guy who was lucky enough to be your typical "natural game" kinda guy. The perceived Alpha Male (College athlete, firefighter, yadda yadda), but was blown away years ago when I read "the Game" and realized others knew (and had even identified and labeled, and broken down in amazing depth) how laws of attraction work. You see, I am extremely analytical and observant, and had been intrigued by buddies of mine who did very well wit…
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:19 AM
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