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| -3 | Those who have been banned from tinder (match group) did you ever get unbanned?They use facial recognition | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I want to make a group of people interested in seduction AND self-improvement to help each other.Count me in! | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [Video] Casually Explained: FlirtingYa I definitely agree! Not real advice at all!! But funny as hell!! The "Is she into you" video is hilarious! | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm having my first ever Day 2 in 3 hours! Tips are welcome!Dude take a deep breath and calm down! You definitely don't want to come across as over excited which it sounds like you really are. Just go meet her, and chat about whatever you want. You're probably not going to get laid as it's a Tuesday morning. So your goal should be to get a 3rd date and plan it in the evening. Be chill and remember you're not there to get her to like you. You're there to see if you like her. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls at Church???Why do you make an effort to go to church if you're not a very religious person? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get out of "the creep zone"?Send me one too | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What books and YouTube channels would you guys suggest?I agree!!! His stuff isn't necessarily the best advice, but it is by far the most entertaining! | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Best US Cities for seductionAnywhere besides North Dakota! This place is brutal! | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 05:28 AM |
| 55 | Approaching girls out with their parentsDude just don't! There is plenty of girls out there. I'm a guy and even if a total babe approached me, if I'm with my parents I'd feel super weird flirting with her. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 08:14 AM |
| 3 | If you don't have a business card... get oneNot gonna lie I saw a guy do this at a music festival and it worked for him. 1/1 success rate! | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 05:42 AM |
| 27 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolI keep getting older, they stay the same age... | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How to not blow up your phone book when you're getting a lot of numbersAs a software developer that works a lot with CRMs. I've always thought having a CRM for pickup would be awesome. So this article is kinda clever. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 05:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm way more sucessful when I night game alone. How do I get my friend to night game with me ?I think most guys that are good with women do better alone. When you're alone, you're pretty much forced to make new friends and you can't rely on bouncing back to your friends if you strike out. Also when you're alone you can be flexible in changing venues, when situations present themselves. But you don't have to game every night! I'll go out to bars with my friends all the time. I don't approach nearly the amount of women as I do when I'm out alone, and that's okay. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Best way to escalate with someone while they are at work?Of she's on the clock she don't want the... | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 9 | Will the urge to sleep with other women ever go away? Does this mean I'm not ready for a relationship?When I was in a relationship with a girl I really liked I still had urges. But I looked deep inside myself and realized the reason I wanted to sleep with other women was the validation I received. I was so bad with girls at one point in my life that I always felt like I had to prove to the world I was able to pickup good looking chicks. Well that's a pretty shitty reason to want to bang more chicks, especially when I was already in a relationship. The one thing that really helped me stay committ… | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop putting my crushes on a pedestal?I could see this working, but it's something you'd wanna save for 4-5 dates in | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 10:22 PM |
| 6 | How I landed 13 Girls in 1 Month on TinderYou don't have to make a fake Facebook. You can upload tinder pics from your phone. Another option is to upload pics to Facebook and set the privacy to "only me" | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Logistics, I live far from my cityRealistically you're gonna have to play the longer game. Sure you might be able to create enough attraction to take them back to your place but it'll be exponentially more difficult. I actually met a girl at the bar once and we went back to her place which was an hour away. On that drive I started getting really nervous. What if she was trying to rob me? what if there were a bunch of other dudes back at her place? I started realizing how totally fucked I'd be if she tried to pull something on me… | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 02:00 PM |
| 3 | How do I find a girl for a threesome?Night game is gonna be much easier to find a girl. Just go out to a bar and start running your game with the girl you are with. Make sure everyone is flirting with each other and she'll get what's going on. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 12:30 AM |
| 42 | Have you ever cold approached a taller girlYep! I've been rejected 100% of the time I've tried approaching girls taller than myself. I'm also 6'4" and have only had the opportunity to approach one girl taller than myself, so my data might be a bit skewed. | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Which is better, Dance clubs or Karaoke clubs?That depends on your style, and the demographics. I love music and dancing so obviously I'm gonna have more luck at a dance club. That's because I'm having a good time, so I'm way less outcome dependent. But now let's say your local dance club attracts a bunch of dudes and no ladies, your probably gonna have more luck at the karaoke bar. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do people not like the friend zone?It's not bad if you're legitimately okay with being their friend, and only their friend. You should have no romantic interest in them. If you're their friend and want something more this is going to cause issues. You're gonna get butt hurt when she hooks up with other guys, and all other sorts of issues. If you're okay with being her friend and only her friend, then hell ya!!! Reap in all the benefits of having good looking lady friend. | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Emergency. Last minute date. I don't know where to go. Help Me.Take her to one of those frozen yogurt places | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Frendzoned my-self now i get more text than ever.Ohhh ya you definitely did the right thing! Being in the friend zone with a party girl is great! Worst that happens is you legitimately become friends and she invites you to more parties. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Any of you dated girls that were taller than you6'4" here. I've always wanted to try it. But I've only met a handful of girls that are taller than me. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Sexual tension in day-to-day situations (INFIELD)When he said "we should hang out again" and she responded "Why?" He did a great job of handling that response. Very well played! | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Same problem every time I go out aloneSome bars are better than others! Sure you're not gonna have much luck going to a bar where everyone is seated at tables and sticking to their own groups. Find bars where people are mingling around, throwing darts, standing and talking, or dancing. | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Advice: Use proper grammar when talking to anyone, especially women. It goes a long way.Fixed | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Advice: Use proper grammar when talking to anyone, especially women. It goes a long way.If I'm texting a girl, and she is using incredibly bad grammar my interest in her goes significantly down. | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 02:04 AM |
| 13 | Need Advice on "Play It By Ear" DateI want to send the message that this is not acceptable. It's completely acceptable! Sometimes people get sick, or some serious shit comes up in their personal life, or maybe she is just being flaky. Regardless, you sending "a message" is not going to do anything positive for you. Just say something like sounds good, hope you feel better. You won't come off as a wimp. Then tomorrow, make some plans with your friends. If your friends are all busy, and she is feeling better, great go hang out with … | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Got girls number, texted her, 12 hours later no response?You had oneitis on this lady for two years!??? You were really setting yourself up with failure on this one | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How to Best Relay Job and StatusMeh it really doesn't matter. I own two successful businesses and I barely talk about it. For some reason especially when I'm drunk I absolutely hate talking about my businesses!!! If I'm drunk and a girl asks what I do I'll reply something like I'm a janitor, or a manager at BK, or even that I'm unemployed. The funny thing is that for instant pickup bar game, it makes no difference if I'm unemployed, or if I make a 6 figure income. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped by my first real gf last night. Feeling pretty lost, any advice?A lot of people are going to tell you to find more girls, but it's too soon for that. You're gonna need time to heal. It's actually been studied going through a breakup cause similiiar chemical reactions in the brain as a drug addict going through withdrawal. So it's okay to feel like crap and be down on yourself for the next week or so. The first day is the absolute worst!! Make sure you aren't alone, or in your house cause finding her things are just going to wreck you. Go hang out with a budd… | /r/seduction | 20/03/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How to be a wingman?Thanks man! I had a girlfriend for a period of time, and put a lot of effort into being a good wingman! | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 11:20 PM |
| 6 | How to be a wingman?Find a pair of friends. Preferably a pair with a major gap in attractiveness. Walk up to the less attractive one and start flirting with her. Make sure you are acting slightly drunk. She will just be loving all of the attention because she is so used to her friend always getting hit on, and finally she is getting some attention. After a few minutes your friend comes up to you trying to find you, and says to the attractive one something like "sorry for my friend, he had a few too many shots while… | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Zero game to dating an HB9. 2 year journey I'd like to share what I learned along the way.False!!! You can totally Keto on fast food. Jimmy Johns unwich, and Hardee's low carb burgers. Source: I am a lazy fuck | /r/seduction | 06/03/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Can my boring life and uneventful stories actually be fascinating to women when conveyed in the right way?You are probably going to get a lot of responses saying it's all about your tone, style, demeanor etc... Which is true, however nothing can completely substitute good content. Sure delivery is important, but if you can provide a good story topped with great delivery you're gonna have much better luck than telling a mediocre story. So get out there! Have some crazy life experiences, take some risks! Say no to mediocre! | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 10:35 PM |
| 7 | How to prep for upcoming college semester!Lift, make as many friends as possible, get a haircut, get whitening strips. College=house parties. You want to go to as many of them as possible! So much easier to pickup girls at house parties(and house parties aren't nearly as common post college). Ohhh and don't forget the protein! | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Should You Be A Nice Guy Or A Jerk?Don't be either! Be a genuine dude, who doesn't bend over backwards for a girl, but also isn't a jerk. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How a girl snubbed meThe only numbers that should be exchanged in a first encounter is a phone number. Never ever say an exact figure for your income/weight/debt/calories you are that day/whatever. It's just really off putting, and can make the other person feel uncomfortable. It would've been okay for you to say something like "ya i racked up my fair share of debt in college" but never give specifics in situations like that. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 05:37 AM |
| 3 | She's super hot so I don't wanna delete her just yet. She came back to my work to give me her number, btwYep! Just find another girl | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 04:16 AM |
| 27 | What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me?Alright so you have 3 types of guys out there. 'Nice Guys' 'Assholes' and 'Genuine Dudes'. There are a ton of nice guys in this world, and all they do is compliment a girl, tell her how pretty she is etc... But they provide her absolutely no value! They are so concerned about pleasing her that they fail to show how they can make her life better. Girls want to date a guy more important than themselves. So when a guy acts like the girl is more important than he is it's a complete turn off. Then yo… | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 01:41 AM |
| 12 | How To Naturally Ask Women OutIt works. You are a guy who will never get a supersized meal. Just like some women will never go out with you. No matter what the fast food employee says, you aren't going to supersize your meal. However, if you were on the fence about it, most likely you'd have a higher chance of supersizing your meal if the employee suggested it to you, rather than asking you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me pick a career pathI believe this sub has a very entrepreneurial mindset, that loves to travel. With that being said I would highly recommend getting into computer programming. Software is one of the easiest industries to start your business with. (I'm not saying its a walk in the park, BUT it does make it easy to start your own business with very little cost, and very low overhead) Programing is also really easy to do while traveling. So once you aquire the knowledge you could travel the world while working. Prog… | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Top 10 seduction-themed movies?I just watched Crazy Stupid Love. The first half was great!! Ryan Gosling kills it. He is a true inspiration for a man in this movie. He is witty, dresses great, and teaches great seduction techniques that would actually work in the real world! Then the second half of the movie gets really Hollywood cliche and it ruins the whole movie. If you are looking for some inspiration watch the first half, but then turn it off. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Having multiple girls at the same Social event?Unless you are willing to go to a social event with her and some other dude she is hooking up with, it is completely unreasonable for you to ask two girls you are sleeping with to go to an event together! | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What should I say in my "About Me" on Tinder?I'm also 6'4" and my profile just says 6'4" It works great! | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Where and with who to try out my recently acquired skills?Everyone, everywhere | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I think I am done with cold approachYou should always text! You have no idea what the girl is doing at the time you call her. You are setting yourself up to loose with a phone call. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys pick yourself up when your feeling like crap?Hit the gym! | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 10:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-close after 4th dateJust remember "Everything is about sex, except for sex. Sex is about power" | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 08:46 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck do you do with your hands when you talk?I came here expecting to find this | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Follow up: Can't pull the trigger. Don't let me friendzone myself.No! Don't tell her how you feel! That's always awkward even if she feels the same way. You didn't screw this up, just next time you see her make sure you are touching her a lot. After that you'll easily be able to tell if you will be successful on the K-Close. TLDR: Kino | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Tricks to remember names?I had the same exact problem as you! So I came up with my own technique and I have not even once forgot a girls name since. Dead simple! Every time you meet a girl and they say "My name is [insert name]" You simply ask them a question on the spelling of their name. So if she says "I'm Sarah" you ask her "now is that Sarah with or without an H"? or for Kelsey just start spelling "K E L S ..." and boom they will jump right in and spell the rest of it for you. (This literally works for any name, ev… | /r/seduction | 11/07/14 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate after using the old "can I use your bathroom?" trick to get into her place?The girls that read through this and say no, are the girls you didn't have a chance with anyways. So even if you do use the bathroom trick, she is going to be wanting you to leave. Hence it's better to use something like the house tour, so you know right away before entering her place | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 09:22 PM |
| 5 | How to practice game in a small town?I had the same problem, I landed a really good job in a town of 1000 people. And I hate to tell you this but it's pretty much impossible to game in a small town. In my town there was literally 3 single girls that were decent looking. So it's pretty frustrating when your on seddit and constantly hearing things like "get rejected, no problem go find another one" in a small town it's more like "get rejected, no problem just wait another 6 months for a girl to become single or move" There was a town… | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If you're bored than you're boringGlad to know I am not the only one who thought this lyric is pure gold/truth! | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How would you guys feel about a seduction Practice book that gave you fairly short segments of material to study, then a structured weekly practice routine to make sure you learn it?What if instead of a book it was a website with videos and interactive lessons? | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice after first dateDude just read this post again! You answered all of your own questions! Yes you are over-thinking the whole situation. Yes you are too emotionally invested in this girl. Yes you do have oneitus. So what should you do? You said it yourself "I know I should be going after lots of girls" Do this!! You don't have to completely cut off contact with this girl, just really back off talking to her. If things work out between you and her great! If not no big deal either. | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | The Gentleman's Guide To Modern American DatingSomeone posted this on here once before. I was looking for it the other day, but couldnt find it! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 06:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The benefits of improv classesYes I completely agree too!! | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 07:39 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned here and how to apply it.For getting the girl you like, the best thing you can do for yourself is to concentrate on getting other girls first! Focus on that! Don't even think of this long distance girl until she comes back. If you have had success with other girls, you will have much better chances of gaming her as well. And if she doesn't go for your game, you'll have a real understanding that there are plenty of girls out there that are much better than her! | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever won a girl back after going full out wuss?Yes/No, Here is a very summarized story about something that happened to me. About 4 years ago I met this girl and totally fell for her. Unfortantly I was a total newb and had no idea what I was doing. You say stage 5 clinger I was probalby a stage 10 clinger, way worse than an AFC. She ended up friendzoning me, and I stayed there for about 3 years, just buying her flowers and telling her how much I liked her etc... Finally about 4 years after I met her I started to naturally get over her. I was… | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 03:16 PM |
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