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A billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:40 AM
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The issue was him dating a girl knowing from the start that she models and surfs, and telling her to stop as it violated his “boundaries”. If you dated a guys who seemed cool, smoked weed with you and just a chill guy in general. Then after 6 months or so, you realized that he looks like someone who had no ambition in life and just smokes weed everyday. Would telling him stop as it now violates your "boundaries" bad? I don't get why it's so hard for people to understand that people change. Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:58 AM
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If a girl hid her history of being a former escort/OF/sex worker and his ex found out she was dating a new guy. Would you think it's ok to inform her new boyfriend of her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:46 AM
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Lol ok. Carry on with that thought then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:28 AM
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So you don't agree that there's a double standard? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:25 AM
7

And that's also yours. But the fact still stands that she only released snippets and not the full convo to make him look bad. And the cherry on top is she only released it 2 years after. You can spin it however you want but theres no denying her agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:24 AM
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When we acknowledge the double standard. Best believe if a man released something like this 2 years after and his ex gf was with another man, he'd be cancelled to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:21 AM
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The real issue here is her releasing it 2 years after and 1 month after his new girlfriend got pregnant. There's no real reason to release it other than to try and cancel him after he's moved on with someone else. If anything, this makes her look bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:10 PM
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Whats fucked up about all this is the fact that she released all of it 2 years after. One month after his new gf got pregnant. That's another few levels of fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:08 AM
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Do you care about problems that doesnt concern you? Cuz you havent donated money to starving kids in africa. Or people dying in ukraine by the dozens. What about the men that deletes themselves? I didnt even mention women in general. I specifically meant YOU. You need meds for your iamthemaincharacter syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:47 AM
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Not once did you mention someone threatened you. In any case, I couldnt care less if you got stalked or not. I was merely responding to what the person above me said. You might just be suffering from iamthemaincharacter syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:11 AM
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Lets be real here. Someone who actually knows his shit and isnt learning will never use "i stalked you and found out your routine" as an opener. Irregardless, If a really hot dude did it, he'd still have more success with that ridiculous opener anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:28 AM
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There will be no divorce because most red pill men will not get married. Its a terrible contract that has basically no benefit for the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:17 AM
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You did get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:41 AM
-4

If by experience you mean women getting dicked down then no. "Missing out" does not apply to women the same way it does to a man. Women dont feel fomo on getting dicked down. Men on the other hand usually feels fomo if they didnt dick down enough women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:41 AM
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Thats why it's so important for men to get that experience early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:18 PM
14

Its always the same person posting a cmv without the intent to argue in good faith. They dont really want their views challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:00 PM
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Your argument fell apart and this all you could come up with in the end? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:56 PM
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The study was agreeing that boys act out more. And the study indicates that as a causation. Stating that if boys were disciplined similar to girls, they would equate to the same amount of conduct disorder. You asked for a study citing numbers and now calling it suspicious? Lol You’re downplaying what an abortion is. I live in a country where 1/3 of the states have banned abortion. My state has basically banned it too. Its still effectively financial abortion. And I live in a country where child …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:16 PM
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I saw no data in the links I pressed on. Link me to the data be use something might be glitching on my end. Since you wanted numbers. ​ No they don't Abortion is effictively terminating any and all financial responsibility. Everyone is. As a social experiment, if you had 100 guys and 100 girls go outside, and ask the opposite sex if they wanted to have sex, who do you think will have more success? There's a reason why 1 in 3 men are sexless within the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:03 PM
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Because they misbehave more. You link did nothing to disprove that. The study compared 4- and 5-year-old boys and girls who had the same levels of behavioral problems. Did you even read the whole thing? Probably not. pro-life, so please dont bother with that argument. Just because youre pro life doesnt mean the argument doesnt stand. The fact is, women have the ability to financially terminate and men dont. And yet somehow women are still being blamed for all the shitty women these guys keep goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:24 PM
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this subreddit will explain that a man not financially supporting the child he conceived is TOTALLY OKAY. This is only in the cpntext of abortion. If women are able to avoid all responsibility, men should too. Thats not the case. The whole “War On Boys” rhetoric is basically men being upset that children, REGARDLESS OF GENDER, is expected to sit down, shut up, and learn at school. This is actually not true.Guys get punished way more than girls. Why don’t guys here want to vet women by personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:10 PM
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You dont think the female body is part of being a woman? Lemme guess, you think transfotmers are actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:12 AM
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I dont disagree with you. I'm just highlighting why they need to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:10 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, women don't need to do any of that. They will be valued anyways. Tbf, they do it because everyone else is. Kind of a self fulfilling prophecy. If every woman out there disnt use make up. They wouldnt be able to date up. Theyd end up with someone on their same smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:51 AM
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Id say more but everyone else countered your delusional take. You need to travel more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:49 AM
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Considering the growth of TRP was largely influenced by the mystery method and the game, I'd say not much. Pick up is nothing more than the application of rp knowledge to get women to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:27 AM
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Except its not at all. Red Pill at its core is accepting the truth for what it is. It doesn't put sex above everything, it just agrees that to get sex, you need to qualify for a few checklists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:36 PM
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>Its the red pill that puts sex above everything How can you call something morally wrong when you obviously know nothing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:00 AM
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To get laid obviously. You're not supposed to take them for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:37 AM
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That has never been my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:30 AM
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How is listing a guy dating younger an exception? Lol 30 is still younger than 60. So men dating younger still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:19 AM
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Brad Pitt is dating 30 years younger than he is. We could list guys all day. Its still pretty obvious guys go for younger girls and Bezos is an obvious exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:13 AM
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Its true. But the wall is different per individual. Some women hit it as early as 25. Some as late as 40. Either way, it arrives all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:55 AM
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Ok then lets use Elon Musk dating 20 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:54 AM
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Even Amber Heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:19 PM
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Most men nowadays dont trust institutional marriage anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:04 PM
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You can define " succeed " in many ways. If the interlocutor is defining succeed in a different way than what you presented in your argument not willing to ask what I meant and to address then there's no way to continue. If you made a post saying No where in the OP you mentioned what success meant to you, so obviously I'll be going by the most common metric of success. You only specified that on the response AFTER. ​ Fresh and fit goal is to create a family or they wouldn't speak about virgin co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:08 PM
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I literally addressed that on the last paragraph. If you don't want your views challenged, don't make a CMV post maybe. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:49 PM
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Ok then let's break down your argument. Your claim is they don't help men succeed. If you don't think teaching stuff about personal finance and physical fitness doesn't help, then what do you think do? Because it can be argued that it does. And while you are right that most men will never become an HVM, that's not entirely their fault. Even man CAN become a HVM, but not everyone has the work ethic to do so. But that's not their fault, that's on the individual. But I digress. And to your point, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:19 PM
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I mean, if you're only watching their After Hours then sure, I agree. But they have had so much more content that that. They've done content about finances, physical fitness among other things not limited to conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:00 PM
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I dunno about most but personally for me, someone who is submissive in bed. And also, someone who is the defacto caretaker in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:06 AM
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Financially better yourself to what end? To live like a king while the rest of the people at the bottom are left to fend off for scraps? The wealth disparity is the largest it has ever been and it's because of the exact same self seving mindset that you have and the people at the top. You can only amass so much wealth that adding more to it becomes irrelevant. The "losers" as you call them is part of society whether you like it or not. If everyone is a winner then no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:49 AM
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Again, I never said it was. And like I said thinking only for yourself is not only self serving and selfish, it has no contribution to bettering society whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:16 AM
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You're thinking under the assumption that everyone has a sense of agency. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 AM
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I never said it was. But that type of mentality is detrimental to society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:33 AM
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The problem with this is the child bears pretty much almost all the consequences for their parents actions which they had no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:02 PM
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Ive had that a couple times. And I fucked it up every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:46 AM
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I swear every TRP extremists out here are just flat out women haters. I mean I guess there's benefits to having a narcissistic mindset and not care who you hurt down the line as long as you get what you want.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:56 PM
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We all want flairs so we can feel how much of a snowflake we are in this subreddit.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:58 PM
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It might just be me, but I personally adhere to the Dark Triad as a core foundation of TRP. But I feel like that's because I already had some sort of sociopathic traits to begin with prior to TRP.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:38 AM
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Keyword: Most I've met my fair share of private people who doesn't engage in social media.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:57 PM
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Let me begin by telling you that I've been in the exact position where you are right now. Suicidal and depressed. And up to this day, one advice stuck to me. ​ "If you really think that life is no longer worth living then not even I can stop you. But since you already feel that way, and before you off yourself, why don't you try to live treating the world as your oyster? You're free to do whatever you want since you're gonna kill yourself anyway right? Do all the crazy thing you've always though…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:33 PM
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I didn't vet her enough because she was someone I knew from childhood.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:54 PM
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I took the nihilist approach paired with an IDGAF mentality. By then, none of that shit that bothers you matters. Do whatever the fuck you want. Just know that consequences still exist so don't doo anything that's basically life altering like getting caught murdering people.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:33 PM
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Not OP but I really like optimum nutrition.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:34 PM
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At this point you might as well put a ring on it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:05 PM
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He preaches reading the sidebar but didn't even bother reading the post.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:45 PM
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The greatest revenge is being happy. She's laughing at you because you're miserable.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:44 PM
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This might be different from what you normally hear from here, but I personally remained friends with most of exes. I still greet them on their birthdays, holidays and other things. And some of them are still good friends of mine who i still see in many different occasions. While it is normal to feel threatened, that reaction is entirely upon you. You won't be able to control if she will leave you or not. You can't control her either. You shouldn't. If you can't handle the thought of her still t…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:28 PM
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Daily Routine: 7am - Wake up, Shower, Prep for work 8am - Drive to work 5pm - Get off Work and Drive home (40 mins Drive) 5:40 - 6pm - Meditate 6pm - Dinner 6pm -9pm - Do Whatever 9pm-10:30pm - Gym 10:30pm - 11pm - Grooming/Shower 11pm - 1pm Do Whatever
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:02 PM
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Weird case for me. I escaped the 9 to 5 life. Ran my own business for 2 years. Went back to the 9 to 5 life. Granted thats probably because i wasnt making enough.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:15 AM
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Date? Hell yea. Marry? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:51 PM
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I'm 30 and not married. I cannot emphasize how much more freedom I get compared to my married peers. I have no one to report to and I own all of my time. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. The only downside to not being married is you lack the daily companionship and access to easily available sex( which is sometimes not even that available even if you're married). ​ Now, to compare, I have a few friends who are so limited by what they are able to do. Just because of the fact that they ha…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:42 PM
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Everything else still applies to the rest of the world with the variance of culture added. The only difference here are desired qualities. Try and compare desirable men in Korea compared to desirable men in US or Europe. Another difference is how advanced feminism is in the Western World compared to Asia where patriarchy and fixed marriages is still a thing. Extreme hypergamy in US is just a byproduct of culture and you're doing a false equivalence. Chads still exists there regardless and will a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:13 PM
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I retrace my steps and fall back to my old mindset. In the end it all boils down to frame of mind.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:07 PM
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Almost everything else in TRP is a heuristic so what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:05 PM
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> Hypergamy and branch swinging - not all women will branch swing to a better option if one is presented to them because some women prioritize long term gains over short term gains and see leaving or cheating on their husband for a whim as a really bad idea. I feel like you don't have a thorough understanding of what it means to have a dualistic mating strategy. A.k.a. alpha fux beta bux. While it's true to a certain extent that after women settles, it will lessen their capacity to swing up (ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 07:54 PM
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This is true. I met someone who was a SAHM and was married to a doctor easily making 200-300k. They've been married for 17 years with a kid. She still wanted to cheat with me. I never fucking understood it. The only explanation was because he did not have enough time for her. That was fucking it.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:09 AM
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The real question is, Why the fuck are you so hung up with this ONE girl? Let her walk away. She said no, so do an immediate pull. Don't initiate contact until she does.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:26 PM
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Could not have put it in better wording myself. TRP is just a guideline. It just shows you the consequences of your choices so you're better prepared in making them.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:37 PM
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Is this the same as doing an immediate pull? That's what I do normally. It sorta leaves her wondering wtf.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:56 PM
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Let me just say that I was in this boat and I can probably relate to how exactly you're feeling right now. I probably still am in this boat honestly, but let me start by telling you that it's okay to not have a purpose. The thing about not having a purpose is that you just have to be able to accept that fact. And when you do a lot of things will open up for you. I personally don't have much that I really am passionate about, so I did the next best thing, I tried doing anything and everything. I …
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:50 PM
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3rd time, I was a lot more physical (but I don't really know how to escalate properly). I had her sitting essentially in my lap, head on my shoulder, my hand rubbing between her thighs. I was too much of a coward to try to kiss her again. I just was afraid that she would leave (and never return). Ok. I can't believe she let you get this far and you didn't try kissing her again. Don't fucking listen to a lot of the incel comments that I just read here. First off, I have no idea what the sexual te…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:50 AM
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Basically, my type of women is a shut-in. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:12 PM
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What kind of incel question is this.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:03 PM
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Ex did this before. She already had two kids by then and married. I met with her because we were still technically friends but only in a public setting and never in my place. When she tried to hold my hand in the car, I knew then that I'd have to stop seeing her again. Never replied again after that. I feel sorry for her husband really.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 08:55 PM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:35 PM
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Well, you asked what's different between the two. End result is irrelevant. It's a matter of which is easier to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:34 PM
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Which is nowhere near downright lying about promising fake commitment just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:25 PM
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I have long since read anything besides the sidebar and IM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:16 PM
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Calibration of one's self is easier when you're self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:01 PM
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I've never, in my years of reading TRP , ever read anything that suggest that lying about promising commitment for sexis a good thing to do. That goes against all of the core tenets of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:00 PM
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Not with your woman. But sometimes I talk to platonic woman friends about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:55 PM
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He must be seeing women with lower standards with all those categories and giving off the illusion that it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:15 PM
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I did this. And then I realized that the women that they were dating was not someone I would ever date. I guess I just have a higher standard when it comes to LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:05 PM
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That's the beauty of RP ideology. There is no set standard on how you should live your life. You can be RP and still choose to marry someone. RP ideology will just show you all the possible consequences of that choice. That's why it's called hard mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:58 PM
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They have more baggage and are better at lying,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 10:40 PM
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First off, lets separate RP ideology and RP men because those two are entirely two different things. To address your second paragraph, let me just say that you're right. This is primarily due to pair bonding. The lesser the N-count the stronger the pair bond. BUT, this is just a concept. It is different for other RP men who would rather enjoy the decline and just spin plates. Ignoring 30+ basically translate to women who have crossed the wall, It's not a specific age. Again, it's a concept. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:40 PM
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Not even close to true. RP men believe that traditional marriages doesn't work in men's favor. Even then, MarriedRP still exist for those who want to engage in "hard mode".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:27 PM
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Lmao that's what actually caught my eye in the beginning. A dude who lets his woman pay for her. After that the rest of what I read was straight up garbage and purely rant. This guy doesn't even deserve a proper response to his inquiry. Edit: The fact that he is too concerned about the type of men his gf has previously slept with shows a shit ton of insecurity.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:24 PM
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I'm aware that it was a lie. But having two women cheating, one being my ex girlfriend and the other, a wife of another giving the same excuse makes me wonder if there was any correlation or is it just always the most convenient excuse.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:04 PM
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I must say, I've experienced both sides. And I still don't get why they do it. Being the person cheated on, her excuse was that I didn't have enough time for her. And being the guy she was cheating with, The same excuse was said as she said her husband barely had time for her. Not I'm not sure if there are any correlation but there must be something there at least.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:06 PM
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I can't fathom the amount of people thinking of TRP as a cult. The community of TRP is vastly different from the core principles of TRP itself. Most of the people get in there during their anger phase. Eventually people leave and move on with their lives after absorbing everything TRP has to offer. Some applying different things to improve their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 03:51 AM
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I just had to fact check this and holy shit it's fucking true. More than 40% of them do kill themselves.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:41 PM
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I wish I've read this a few years ago.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:25 AM
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I've been depressed. So I can personally relate on whatever he seems like he's going through. The problem with depression is, no amount of external advice will ever help you. That why it's so hard to deal with. Everything must come first from you. Because if he doesn't forcefully adjust his mindset, nothing will. Motivation is fickle as it is. What he needs is develop as sense of discipline. Treat the world as if it is your oyster and everything else is just there to entertain you. Be selfish. L…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:36 AM
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It doesn't help in the sense because you're jacked. It helps because it bolsters your confidence through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 09:06 PM
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I agree. But in a situation where you have two options, I'd prefer having unrelated people help out than let a child starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:08 AM
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Such a Utopia is indeed ideal. However our society is far from it. Whether to consider a fetus in different stages of pregnancy a full fledged human being is subject to another discussion altogether so we can just leave it at that. That does not also mean pro-choice=pro-murder. If you had two options, one being let an innocent child starve and the other have society carry the burden of raising the innocent child, would you really chose the former? Having the child's parents take full responsibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:07 AM
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True. They still don't choose having incompetent parents. Should they starve because they had bad parents? I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:43 AM
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I have and will always be pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:41 AM
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It's an extreme but is that really any worse than letting kids starve that most people posted here and agreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 02:43 AM
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This "Every man for himself" conservative philosophy is what I despise the most. It's a fucking society. It's supposed to act like a support system. A child does not have a choice on who their parents are going to be upon entering the world. Punishing a child for having incompetent parents is such a fucking stupid concept. If this was the case, then we might as well euthanize disabled people that are worthless to society Hitler style because they can't contribute to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:33 AM
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Some people just can't accept the fact that their LTR isn't the unicorn she is. The amount of people here that is deeply concerned about her past bothers me. If you can't accept the fact that she has a high N count and it bothers you, then leave. If you couldn't care any less, just enjoy the ride while it lasts. That shit will probably not last forever with a fuck ton of red flags.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:30 PM
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Interesting take. My degree of acceptance in regards to N count varies by location. Dating a girl in a much more conservative country that has an n count of more than 5 is a deal breaker. But when I dated a women in a much more liberated xountry, I found 20 to be acceptable. But that's just probably me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:16 PM
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I used to have this problem, then I read the egg by Andy Weir. It's a short story but what I basically got from it was we are basically just one consciousness experiencing itself. Now I'm not claiming that is true, but man did that got me out of my existential crisis. You're being so certain that life has no meaning, but the reality of it all is, we dunno jack shit. And to function with the belief that there may be a meaning to it all is so much better than to function believing there isn't.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:52 AM
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He's not wrong. The quality of posts there degrades by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:53 PM
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How is stating an opinion of mine regarding people that can't be convinced otherwise circle jerking? The post I replied to literally called it retarded and I'm the one uncivilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:12 PM
1

Some people just have a hard time understanding the fact that the opposite sex can never be equal. Any effort trying to explain that is lost on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:08 PM
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He was simply stating an obvious fact. It is easier for the majority of women to get laid than the majority of men. Hence the accessibility to resource a.k.a. sex. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:10 PM
2

To put his point bluntly, the purpose of the alpha is to be the most desired mate. In now way is any of those attributes constitute a desirable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:05 PM
3

The 80/20 rule exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:48 PM
1

I seriously snap at ugly guys who bug me when I am wearing headphones FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:08 AM
44

Normally I would agree with what's said above, but this is obviously a comfort test. It's not a plate. It's an actual LTR and if you have a plan to wife her, you can't always go full alpha 24/7. One of Illimitableman's classic came up to mind as a response. "Nobody's good enough for me, so I chose you".
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:18 PM
2

Why is it that most of the people with issues, their main issue is their mentality? If you wanted to succeed as bad as you wanna breathe, then there's nowhere else to go but succeed. The very first thing to change is your mentality. Work on that.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:54 AM
10

This is the only sensible answer to this. There's not enough context or story to go straight to assuming so much with very little to go on. The truth is, it will have to be up to his judgement as to what he feels it is. It's never that black and white that most people here claim it to be.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:47 AM
9

Only if he was really interested. Otherwise, the effort is not worth it. I would've personally just said okay or "yea you do that" and soft next. This behavior is really off putting.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:31 AM
7

As the saying goes, "Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power".
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:08 PM
10

A.k.a The reverse orbiter.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:20 PM
8

I'm a guy that doesn't speak in certainties. There have been girls that I didn't want to have a relationship at the moment and just wanted casual sex but eventually ended up dating them after. If that is what you feel about her at that moment, then tell her exactly that. Honesty will bring you a long way.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:40 PM
2

Not OP but I personally started with just simply being aware. About the negative and positive things surrounding me. You then slowly start to realize that there are just things that are outside of your control. Bad things will happen and you will have to just simply deal with it. Meditation is so good for this because it keeps you present. Because at the end of the day, it's not the negativity that you have control over. It's how you react to it. It's one of the basic keys to stoicism.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:58 PM
30

The irony is you're here asking TRP for advice, about women. That you get more interest from the people in here. It's fucking laughable.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:48 PM
2

By mental state, I meant your mindset. It seems to me that you're looking for external reactions rather than internal. You seem to be focusing on all the negative results. The quest to self actualization isn't dependent on anything external. It's all internal. Changing your mindset will lessen the "burn out" feeling you're having right now. It may as well remove it all together. ​ To start off, try focusing on all the positives first.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:08 AM
8

Have you worked on your mental state yet?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:03 AM
5

Because it is amusing. Functioning with the mindset of "the world being your oyster and the people in it are made for your own amusement" is a thing for some people. It is only petty if you think it's petty, otherwise it's entertaining. It's very Dark Triad if you think and look at it from a different perspective.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:04 PM
14

Not OP but I had something like this. It was a plate. She did all of that so she could be upgraded to LTR.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 08:04 PM
5

Different times. Women now are more independent than ever so it won't happen the way it did back then. It still boils down to supply and demand.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 01:08 AM
1

"Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power." - Oscar Wilde
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:17 AM
1

typo. OP's post history.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:26 PM
2

Bullshit. TRP does not only apply to, nor all about, white American culture. TRP is and will always be an ideology that reflects sexual strategy. Sure, cultural differences and location may play a role on how it is applied, but race is irrelevant. All of TRP's core tenets is valid EVERYWHERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 06:28 AM
6

It's been a while since I've been so triggered in this subreddit that I actually reading up on his post history. Fuck me I know. But I JUST HAD TO. I needed perspective on how this person thinks the way he does. Even if it's only based off his comment history. Thankfully it's not that long. I've been wondering why his mentality was so out place. Not a single thing he said would suggest he actually read the sidebar and took it to heart. Then I realized, he had serial LDR's with people he never me…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:30 AM
3

The one thing I always did after the break up is remind myself constantly as to why I broke up with her in the first place. That always kicks me back to reality. The problem with your situation is you weren't really very detailed with why you two broke up besides constant fights and arguments. The fact that she added you on Facebook means two things. One she is over you and doesn't mind being your friend. In which case you'll have no option but to move on because she has. The second, which is pr…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:46 PM
2

TRP is like social media. You only see success, not the failures behind those success.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:41 AM
10

I have a similar method. Except it's cowgirl and me hand on their clit. HOWEVER, almost each and everyone of them always remembers the rough sex. Whenever I ask, which is the most memorable, or the one that they felt and/or enjoyed the most. It's ALWAYS the rough sex.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:27 PM
3

I'd normally agree, but I always act accordingly. Verbal assaults are easily shrugged, however, it escalated to more that just verbal. He was physically hurt. Revenge is a very normal thought in this case. I'm not saying he should or shouldn't retaliate but in the case that he does. He should do so in a way that his opposition would have no way to retaliate back. Some people needs to be reminded that shit has consequences. Him gaming the other dude's girl and closing is a perfect retaliation. I'…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:28 PM
3

You become the people you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:23 PM
59

I used to be in your exact position. Nobody can actually blame you when you feel the way you do. We're all wired to feel that. That's just your subconscious telling you that that type of girl is very rarely LTR material. However your desire for her affects how you view her and creates a conflict in your mind. You want her to be someone only you had. But the fact that she isn't is what makes that conflict. ​ How I dealt with it, I simply approached it from an IDGAF state. Zen state if you want to…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:37 AM
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It's all about the mindset on how you want to approach all of this.
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:22 PM
12

The whole time. If you can finish inside her, i just keep going. I can somehow retain the erection and that shit lasts forever.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:59 AM
-1

Not even remotely true. Enough attraction can make any woman willing to try anything. I'm speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 11:10 PM
2

The way you view things is unsettling. It's like a never ending negative thought after negative thought. And sadly, no one else can help you from that department but yourself. My advice, Think of it in a simpler way. The first thing that you should be doing is set a goal. Whenever you do something, always ask yourself, does this help me in achieving my goal? if no then simply disregard. At this point nothing else really matters but improving yourself so just focus on that. You can learn and appl…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:42 PM
1

This is implying that the burden of child support will get transferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:20 PM
3

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style? I wouldn't know. From the range of 3-8 depending on who's looking. I prefer a binary system when I rate people. Also, Asian 5'7 dress well when I want to. 2) Are you overweight? I weigh 165 with a bit of a belly and no 6 pack. Does that count as overweight? I frequent the gym enough times a week but I don't really watch what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:13 PM
1

To be desired and loved in relevance to nothing. That is a man's definition of loving. One that woman is not capable of. This is pretty much how RP sees it. https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/ Read these if you feel the need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:08 PM
1

To be loved intrinsically basically means that "no matter what happens, she'll love me unconditionally". We both know it's not possible. Things change and nothing is unconditional, hence the aphoric of "it's just your turn" being a reasonable mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:00 PM
1

But by then, would you able to say men are loved for anything intrinsic, considering the fact that anything can be lost even charisma and personality. Are you still able to say you can love them for who they are rather than what they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:53 PM
1

You're asking the wrong question dear. The right question, like I said, would be "would she still love me, if I lost everything and had nothing else?" The answer is almost always no. Also the moment where your turn "ends". Which then warrants a follow up question being, "was I really loved for what I was or what I had?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:46 PM
2

Pardon my poor choice of words. I meant the aphoric of "She's never yours. It's just your turn." Marriage vows means nothing. You are only love for what you are, since like you have beautifully phrased, there is no such thing as unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:39 PM
2

There is no such thing as unconditional romantic love. Which is exactly the point of the metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:36 PM
3

"You don't love him for him, you just love him for his confidence and his talents and his sense of humor and how he treats you!" Which, like... duh? Those are the things that make up who he is. The problem with this is, men are not impervious to tragedies and other things that will cause them to lose all that confidence, sense of humor and such. He could lose his job, fall into depression and so on. Would he still be loved then? Edit: to add to that, men love for the sake of it. Whereas women lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:26 PM
3

They both do but they have different end goals. Men are biologically designed to spread as much of his DNA as he could whereas woman, are biologically designed to have the best ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:42 PM
1

Has no one in here seen the purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:25 PM
1

Societal hierarchy would still exists though so status would still determine attraction. If everyone looked identical then there's still personality, likes, dislikes, hobbies etc. Intimacy and sex is a primal thing so unless you eliminate that too then the desire to find a real person to be with would still exist as well. Marriage is a social construct. It means nothing really even to today's society. Realistically, I would guess most relationship would be polyamoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:47 PM
5

Huh. I actually agree with your sentiment. I've met enough women of asian descent that would fawn over someone like Lee Min Ho and would consider someone like Brad Pitt alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 08:37 PM
3

I would be okay with her not being a virgin. But a woman with a high n-count would require a more detailed vetting even if our personalities are in sync.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:19 PM
3

Because her virginity will not determine the stability of our relationship. Our compatibility will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:40 PM
5

Not Op but, virginity means nothing to me. What matters to me is how compatible we are. This, however, doesn't mean n-count is taken out of consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:21 PM
1

That's true. but it's not like they can call you out for being Red Pill when you keep to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:08 PM
24

I've yet to meet anyone in real life who knows what Red Pill is. I'm even open about my views and principles in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:33 AM
1

What about the guys not fucking nobody?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:27 AM
1

The true question is, considering he's already a lost cause is, why the fuck are you still friends with him? Do you not have the ability to have other friends? In my experience, the BIGGEST mistake of anyone claiming to be RP is trying to help people who is not willing to help themselves. Been there done that. The best way to gelp anyone is be the model they'll look up to. You're never supposed to show them the way. You're suppose to be what it looks like when they find their way. And the thing …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:59 AM
3

By having the mindset that you can walk away and be just fine.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:01 PM
1

You missed the part where I said 6's feels like they're an 8 due to hyperinflation of the female SMV in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 08:34 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with hypergamy at all. It's biological. It's only hated by men who does not belong in the top 20%. It doesn't take more than common sense to understand why. And to make things worse, there's a hyperinflation of female SMV due to demand and more often than not, a 6 female feels like they're an 8 entitled to a 9 male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 05:53 PM
1

It hurts to read this myself. I've quit cold turkey off DOTA but I'll be damned if I don't say I've stopped gaming completely. Don't get me wrong I consider myself a pretty reformed man. I've changed up majority of my gaming time to sport or other competitive nature activities. I just can't seem to get off gaming in my life in general. I've been planning to learn programming with the gaming time I consume. I just never had the consistency to keep at it and find myself reverting back to gaming.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:56 AM
2

You're mentality of you putting yourself below her is something I do not approve of.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:36 AM
1

1.Yes. Majority are for networking purposes. No need to keep in touch. I only see them in functions and events. 2.There shouldn't be. I only keep less than 5 friends that I can consider to be there no matter what. The rest are usually just people I see in parties. Well acquainted, but not close enough for me to be considered as an actual friend. 3.Keep the relationship mutually beneficial. There was once a DJ I haven't talked to in months ( I run a party related business) and he usually hooks me…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:58 AM
1

Use less emojis for starters.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:43 AM
5

Loyal - ChrisBrown
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:31 AM
1

Since you asked for my honest opinion, I, for one, am not a big fan of keeping track of someone else's n-count for a few reasons. The first being, you will never really know what it is, so to me, it doesn't matter. You weren't there when it happened. The second is that caring about someone else's n-count (considering it not anything over a hundred) is a big sign of insecurity. The fact that n-count affect a womans' ability to pair bond still exists, but that shouldn't be a major factor in your d…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 07:14 AM
1

Exactly. If she decided to opt in for child care then by all means. But you only want to make it more fair when it's advantageous to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 09:01 PM
1

My question is, why do you want to plate this one? Is she not LTR worthy or you're just not looking for anything long term right now?
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:40 PM
1

She could've had an abortion. She could've put it up for adoption. She has all the choices to opt out of child care. Why can't men have that exact same choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:14 AM
1

I don't understand how you can compare something that's objectively quantifiable to something that isn't. Simple. Both has value. One is quantifiable, one is not. And no, value is not naturally quantifiable. I.e intrinsic vs extrinsic value
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:06 AM
1

our idea of what the value is is subjective, even though value itself exists objectively It is. We use math to quantify it. Hence the idea of 1 +1 =2. Happiness also has value but isn't quantifiable, so we can't use math to measure it. I used it as an example to show you that value can exist without math. You claim value and math is one and the same. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 01:50 AM
1

You can't measure the value of happiness with the usage of mathematics. Objectively maybe, but it's not quantifiable. Value isn't math. Math is a tool to understand, or rather, define value. Even waves exists naturally, but the state changes whenever we try to interpret it by observation. Hence the claim everything is left to human interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 01:21 AM
1

A concept of value will always be there. Math is nothing but a human created tool to interpret value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 01:00 AM
2

please don't ask me to disprove fate, I'm already straight up talking outta my ass. Lmao. To be fair, this was a very philosophical question that posits no absolute answer. I just find it more reasonable to believe that truth is nothing but a human construct. Essentially, almost everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:54 PM
1

I skimmed it. Even read a few comments disagreeing. You're missing my point. You can claim math to be an existence in and of itself that we discovered all you want, but the argument stands. There's no absolute proof that math isn't a human construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:27 PM
1

Math is the behavior of the universe. This isn't absolute fact. It's a claim. Same as how it can be claimed that Math is a human construct made to better understand the world. Most non-platonist believe it to be a human construct. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/256838918_The_Reasonable_Ineffectiveness_of_Mathematics_Point_of_View
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:21 PM
2

what is more powerful? The event, or the interpretation of said event? Because, future events are going to be influenced by people, who are acting out of their beliefs. Which I consider to be either already predetermined but that's just my belief (free will vs. predetermined fate). But that falls into a different philosophical topic altogether so I digress. Either reality is truth, or perspective is truth. We can never truly know reality because we have such limited perspective not to mention we…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:13 PM
1

Math is nothing but a human interpretation with regards to value, or anything related for that matter. It's man made. P.S. Think of it like this, Colors don't exist. It's just a variance in wavelengths. Since our eye has no capacity to interpret it beyond the colors we think we see ( and also the reason why there's a limit in the spectrum of what our naked eye can see) it created the colors that we know of today. Since we have limited knowledge on how the world actually works, we created math in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:51 PM
2

(Note: I'm just playing Devil's Advocate) I'm aware you are. But my claim is that there is no truth. BP has their beliefs and RP has theirs. neither is truth but belief. Now, if we delve into quantifiable and observable evidence, there would be a basis for said beliefs. It still doesn't make it true, but rather, more believable. In essence, that's what science is. Ergo, truth does not exist, it's human interpretation of a belief claiming it to be true. P.S. Granted, I'm heavily influenced by Nie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 09:00 PM
2

Why does it have to be? If it's advantageous to women it has to be more fair but if it's disadvantageous to men life isn't fair so deal with it? Get out of your special bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:04 PM
3

If truth can be interpreted as anything depending on the individual, then by definition it's not true. You can claim that there's an apple tree in space, but that doesn't make it fact, so therefore, it's not true, in relation to reality. It's a belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 07:48 PM
3

The truth doesn't exist. Everything is up to human interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 07:36 PM
1

You're the one who suggested child support is ideal because it makes life more fair. You said it yourself. It isn't. So get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 07:22 PM
1

How is not having a choice in the matter fair for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:38 AM
1

This is a COMFORT TEST not a shit-test. That's at least what I got from that verbal diarrhea. She wants you to be protective and mateguard because she feels like you don't give a shit about losing her( (which is the right frame but your delivery is all wrong). Maintain a stoic personality but you have to at least make her feel that she is your woman without looking insecure.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:51 PM
2

Closing is heavily related to internal state bud. Unless the woman actually closes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:11 AM
1

Not necessarily. It does however weaken their ability to pair bond. Pair bonding will always happen. There's just a variance in degree of how strong it is. Which is theorized to correlate to n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 09:49 PM
4

Chad exists. Except it's different for every woman in regards to who Chad is. It's a a metaphorical figure not a literal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:34 AM
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I was addicted to DOTA for the longest time. I quit cold turkey. How I did it was pretty extreme and took a lot of self brainwashing. Every single time I would fire up my computer and queue up a game, I would ask myself, "is there something else I could do besides this at this exact moment to better myself and get me closer to my goal?". So one day I decided fuck it and called up every single friend of mine and tried to figure out if they had the same interests as I did. I had one(that's all you…
/r/seduction03/12/16 03:12 PM
1

Personally? I would befriend him. Then gaslight the fuck out of him.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:37 PM
1

Your mentality is the issue here. The fact that you already think that you're not charismatic makes you not charismatic. It's a self fulfilling prophecy and it's not something anyone can help you on. If you can't change your mentality, nobody else can. Saying you're not charismatic enough to mingle with complete strangers is just an excuse you already solidified in your head. Besides, who gives a fuck if you look awkward? Truth is, that's just you overthinking things in your head. In order to in…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:33 AM
1

That few hours of gaming here and there can be spend to going outside and literally chatting up anyone and everyone. It seems to me that you have little social life.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:16 PM
1

My greatest tell is when her blowjobs doesn't scrape her teeth on your dick.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:27 PM
26

Let the situation play out on it's own. She cheats, ditch. She doesn't, you remain stoic and maintain the IDGAF mentality. Took me a while to not be jealous and mateguard until I realize that's just insecurity playing against me. Switch to the mentality from"How dare he touch my girl" to "I dare him to try steal my girl, if he can". Either way, just be unphased.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:19 PM
2

I use a BPA plastic bottle. Any source on that? Would like to read more about it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 02:40 PM
4

I have a 2L plastic bottle that I refill 2-3 times a day.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:31 AM
-1

Race is a social construct though. But gender is biological, can't argue that.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:21 PM
1

There are no truths, everything is subjected to human interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 03:16 AM
2

Self actualization is actually the goal. For me and for majority of self aware RP anyways. see Core of Alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:23 PM
3

Sound insecure to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 03:35 PM
25

You don't love the uggs if you can make the pretties love you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:40 AM
1

Photography.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:35 PM
2

I've met a couple. Some actually was married and had their husband die on them. Some just didn't have a choice so i leave my reservations at the door.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 04:06 PM
2

Obsession is the wellspring of genius and madness. - Michel de Montaigne
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:53 PM
-1

If you want it bad enough like how you breathe air, there is no such thing as getting burned out.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:39 PM
-11

Artificial charm falls into the psychopathic territory. Ego falls into the narcisstic category. So by essence shouldn't a triadic personality be the ideal? Considering everyone has a hint of machiavellian traits.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 02:43 PM
1

I would counter argue that those gut feelings are still analyzed on a logical level.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 04:22 AM
1

By that logic putting on make-up is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 11:11 AM
1

We do everything for a reason cuz.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 03:56 AM
1

Keep in mind that dread is only applied when your SO forgets your value and your power to walk. You don't do it to play on their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 08:04 PM
8

You don't care if she cheats on you and fuck other men on a regular basis? Dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:23 PM
1

Dread, to me, is giving them the sense of competition. Nothing more, nothing less. You can achieve than by simply doing nothing. You don't make them jealous it should happen naturally if she perceives you as a HV male. Them being jealous is something you absolutely have no control over. Females do this too(the don't actually do it, it just happens), simply because it's natural. Any women slightly above average is simply desired much more than your slightly above average male. Thus, creating a dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:18 PM
1

Jealousy is on you. Do you not have full control over your emotions? Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:48 PM
2

Making someone jealous =/= dread game. Why the fuck do people keep these assumptions? I'll leave this here for you to read and hopefully understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:26 PM
5

Same bracket according to maslow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:21 PM
12

This is why majority of independent women with trust issues end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 04:00 PM
1

Definitely in need of some really good marketing books right now.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 06:08 AM
0

I'm also in the process of establishing 2 businesses right now. this help a ton in terms of perspective in client relations/building. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:42 PM
3

You could be a fuckin' bum for 2 years. If she thinks that your SMV is significantly higher than yours, she will stay. Their valuation is always different, some prefer money, some looks, some personality etc...
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:18 PM
2

That's the supposed mindset. Like I said at the end, your perceived value is not dependent on you but up to her. Goals varies for each individual. Shooting for LTR is considered the hard mode compared to just simply enjoying the decline.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:25 PM
1

she perceives as having a much higher SMV than her Incorrect. It's with someone she perceive as having a much higher SMV than you. This is why TRP advocates self improvement. The goal is to not get cheated on. The goal is to attain such a high SMV that she wouldn't have much options to cheat on you with. Then again, SMV is percieved by her. So not much you can do about that.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 03:05 PM
7

It is often cited that men are naturally encumbered by the " burden of performance". I see it as a gift. Unlike women who's value is often measured through their depreciating looks. We, as men, got it good. Our value is determined by our success, what we create, and what more we have to offer. Our potential value has no theoretical limit, for it is forever, oh so malleable
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:14 PM
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You got me imagining batshit crazy hawaiian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 09:13 PM
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Morality is subjective though. Amorality is just a logical approach to a certain act without bias as to whether it is moral or immoral to an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 06:23 PM
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Interesting flair. Anyway, you're correct. However, more often than not, "all you want me for is sex!" is used as a go to phrase to make the husband feel bad for wanting sex from his wife. It's rare to see men marry just for sex and sex alone. Most actually prefer companionship and intimacy. Sure you've put it in perspective but how often is it that men complain that they're being used for money? Especially if they're getting sex regardless?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:02 PM
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Ironic don't you think? But to be more precise, alpha males who lack the intellectual capacity and self awareness to control themselves and conduct themselves are the ones that are in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 05:14 PM
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This reply straight up solidified the fact that you know nothing about what awalt actually means. Read again some more and try to understand. Then you can come back and "pretend" you want your views changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:10 PM
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In terms of sex then yes. Sex toys aside. A vagina is meant to be penetrated by a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:04 PM
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Sex, for women, is an act of giving. Sex, for men, is an act of conquest. So, what value is there for a woman who gives it away for free? in contrast, how great is a person who has conquered many. To put it as an analogy "How great is a key that can open many locks and how shitty is a lock that can be opened by many keys?" Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to commitment. Bloopies dream of the sexual equality that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 05:32 PM
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You patronizingly assume I'm unaware of the word's meaning. You are. It's you who see it as a one dimensional criteria. If you bothered to read and at least try to understand what I posted(article included), you'd understand. But considering you posted a CMV with zero intention of hearing the other side's argument, but rather, argue with your biased point of view, I'll dismiss you as a troll. Why are there no positive traits in AWALT Since when was hypergamy not a positive trait for women? You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 05:26 PM
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Sigh... Here have a shameless plug as to what AWALT actually means. What is AWALT? Superficially, it’s an acronym that stands for “all women are like that.” Psychologically, it’s a heuristic for evaluating female mating behaviours. How is a heuristic defined? Well according to “the free dictionary” it’s: “a usually speculative formulation serving as a guide in the investigation or solution of a problem” This is exactly what AWALT is, a speculative formation serving as a guide in the investigatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:57 PM
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Every guy was a stranger at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 10:46 PM
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RP is not a brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 09:21 PM
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I don't believe that any man that wants to commit is a "chode", "looser", or "beta", and frankly I find it ironic that a sub full of men claiming to want other men to have options turns around and shits on a man for choosing one they don't agree with. This, by no means, is the TRP consensus. There are three ways to apply TRP. MGTOW, the decline and the "hard mode" a.k.a. marriage. The fact that so many TRP members seem to think its perfectly acceptable to sleep with married women. If you don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:58 PM
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What gender and pill are you? Male. Red Relative to your age and marital/LTR status, do you have a lower than average number of friends, average, or higher than average? I wouldn't know what the average is. but I have a shit ton of friends/acquaintances. and roughly 5-10 close ones. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert? Both. Depending on the situation and the place. I can be extremely outgoing or passively observing in a snap of a finger. What percentage of your friends are of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:19 PM
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Never thought about why they decide to go for beta guys once they had enough assholes? I have. The whole of TRP agrees that this is just simple dualistic mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 06:10 PM
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In terms of looks. Sure being smart hold some form of value. but if your face looks like ass, no HVM would go for you. For men, Looks is the number one priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:18 PM
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Leftist red here. The fact that there will always be burger flippers cannot be disputed. The only thing that bothers me is that if nothing is done about it, the financial disparity will just get bigger and bigger to the point where are revolution could possibly happen. Your approach is good... for the short term that you are alive. Try looking at the bigger picture. I also believe that Western civilization is objectively the greatest culture to walk the earth and cultural marxism is a threat to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 05:11 PM
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You would never see a high value male settling for a far inferior woman regardless of how smart or achieved they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 04:54 PM
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Your fear of failure will cause you your greatest failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 04:10 PM
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A car door would be a different story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 06:42 PM
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Lol. Silly reply. The noncorformity in your reply is hilarious though. I never said you needed to submit to anything. I claimed a fact. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:10 PM
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I hate stories like this. The story gets so biased only hearing one side of the story that I will always never make an assumption. Every single person telling a story will always skew the story in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:39 PM
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That's what I'm highlighting. You highlighted nothing though. All you said was "do this, then do this, then do this." What exactly are the "behaviors" you speak of. You keep saying "red flags" without actually specifying what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:15 PM
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Because that's just part of the improvement. TRP is about sexual strategy. Hypergamy, AFBB, females as natural machiavellian/solipsists, hamster rationalization etc etc all that TRP jargon. The goal is to improve yourself to be able to handle all of these and adjust accordingly. Because whether we will see it or not. That's reality. It's inherently biological. That's why most men who come to TRP from the beginning are all in the anger phase. Because they've been taught the exact opposite of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 06:42 PM
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There's no way to hide a tactic like that. If you 'recognize' the pattern, you can see the pattern. Are you saying that trying your best to look good, be charming, be confident, be sociable and essentially utilizing every attractive trait a man can have wouldn't attract you? It will always attract you, whether it's done consciously or unconsciously. Amused mastery is a certain behaviour that can't be adapted. False. No need to expound on this. Frame control is a certain behaviour which by defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:58 PM
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Morality is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:49 PM
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Morality is subjective. Also, if you prefer to be the beta provider to get laid with some chick giving half assed to almost no effort in sex then by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 02:28 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 02:26 PM
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Endorsing an idea and being biologically inclined to fantasize about being "ravished" by high value men are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 06:01 AM
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That not all of TRP collectively endorses the same things? Edit: This is not to say that the idea doesn't hold any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:32 PM
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He's arguing with a counterpoint. TRP isn't what OP describes it as either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:08 PM
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TRP sells itself as self help That's because it is. Although I don't disagree with you with the fact that the main sub is overwhelmed by the anger stage. But everyone has to start somewhere. I was at the anger phase at one point as well, which was roughly 3 years ago. TRP is full of ideas. You don't have agree with everything. Everyone endorses different core ideas. many guys who are already fucking lazy get caught up in women suck rather than let me get my shit together for myself. This is a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:05 PM
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http://news.ubc.ca/2011/05/24/happy-guys-finish-last-says-new-study-on-sexual-attractiveness/ TL;DR It's attractive because it accentuates typically masculine features. Whereas smiling is associated with lack of dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:20 AM
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Not everyone in TRP endorses the same core ideologies. It barely has any structure let alone an "obsessional neurotic" one. You have too much Lacan and Freud influence and have made biased observations due to it(in regards to TRP specifically at this point).Have you ever cared to read and understand in a neutral point of view what the manosphere, let alone the sidebar, and all of TRP's core ideologies are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:29 PM
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To put it short, they can. But, like everyone else, has to face the consequence of that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:20 PM
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That's your opinion and you're free to have it. It can't be always about what you think and what it seems like to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 06:41 PM
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Prejudice is a great time saver. You can form opinions without having to get the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 06:32 PM
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This model validates man's insecurities by giving him decision power and demands An insecure man is not RP. the woman doesn't question decisions and abide by them (congratulating the man when it goes well, shutting up when it goes wrong). On the contrary, every woman is free to question the decision. But it must be reasonable enough to be taken into consideration. men with poor relational skills Again. Not RP. A type of man that you mentioned wouldn't work on any relationship model. Why does PPD…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 02:30 PM
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Do you have anything better to say than "read the sidebar"? Does it make you feel better? You act like TRP's sidebar is the bible. Not everyone agrees to the whole thing. TRPers don't even endorse the same core ideas most of the time. But I digress. Again, I repeat, for the second and last time. No one is saying self improvement is the core-message of TRP instead of sexual strategy. But it's still the most important thing. Even reading the sidebar that you so adamantly insisted is improving your…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:48 AM
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You're assuming it was a joke. Highly doubt it. As the troll post goes, He had every qualifying beta trait. His SO insinuated that he needed more money to have more sex. Sex should never be transactional, nor should it be a reward for making more money, of for anything else for that matter. I think RP's reaction is warranted and dignified.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:59 PM
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I thought there was a consensus that this was a troll post. It looks like stories specifically written around these common mistakes men make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 08:07 PM
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Bruh...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 07:22 PM
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I never said you're wrong though. We all agree that TRP is a male sexual strategy opposed to Feminism. I still disagree that you can have "Game" without improving yourself. Mastering Game is in essence improving yourself. Learning the core-teachings of redpill and it's entirety whether you agree to some, all, or none at all is still improving yourself. Sure it's a byproduct, but it's still the most important thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:17 PM
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You can't have sexual strategy without improving yourself. And I believe most would agree that that's the most important thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:48 PM
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How sad that such a good question was not refuted, but rather, dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:26 PM
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There's a fine line between cockiness and confidence. Cockiness usually applies to those who still fake it to make it. Confidence is when you made it. Cockiness is off-putting. Confidence is charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:32 PM
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Dualistic mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 07:37 PM
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What he said. Also, hypergamy has nothing to do with relationships. It has everything to do with who a woman chooses to have a relationship with however.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 05:11 PM
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Since when was strawman=sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:23 PM
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Yes, because women would never lie about their n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 05:34 AM
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Most common setup for a period of time and by no means universal. Both history and anthropology tell us there are times when matriarchal societies exist or being preferable. "The evidence available to us regarding gender relations in prehistory is sketchy and ambiguous, and always subject to the interpretation of biased individuals. But even with these limitations, what evidence we do have from prehistory cannot support the weight laid upon it by the matriarchal thesis. Theoretically, prehistory…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:31 AM
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Male-led relationships often don't last, either. So what? Untrue. You just contradicted all of TRP with this statement. How so? Physical fitness, financial status, and intellectual capacity, personality, social standing, etc etc i could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:06 AM
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Have you even read the sidebar of TRP and learn what it's actually about? Or are you just gonna throw wild assumptions as to what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 01:58 AM
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Yet most people take pictures of a bugatti. Imagine that. Getting back in point(you're getting carried away from an analogy). He blameshifted his SO for his misery. How was this RP? There are certain RP components required to make C/fm work. Blameshifting for your misery is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 01:57 AM
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What happened in this case is an example of C/fm and how much it can suck. As I've said, driving a bugatti without knowing how to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:55 PM
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Have you seen asian culture? Middle eastern? Muslim culture? Religious cultures in general? That is the most common setup for a relationship. TRP was created for the western demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:52 PM
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And it made him miserable. Did he do something about it? No. He blameshifted his SO for his misery. How was this RP? He drove a bugatti without knowing how to drive. RP doesn't make guys think what kind of relationship you should have. You get to choose. Spin plates, LTR with a captain/first mate setting, or just straight up go MGTOW. Again bloopies always make it black and white. TRP is an amalgamation of different ideas. Captain/first mate is just a sexual strategy TRP promotes. HOWEVER(with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:46 PM
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The core teachings of TRP and the most important one, is to take control of your life. It's like learning to drive. What's the point of giving you a bugatti/captain first mate if you don't know how to drive it/can't control it? He didn't get what he wanted. As she stated, he was stressed and miserable. He's not even applying the core teachings of TRP. He was unhappy and blameshifted his S.O.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:21 PM
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It's not. But it is the ideal relationship model for a man with a TRP mindset. It's never black and white. Statistics just proves what is the most ideal relationship model is. Out of curiosity, I wonder what made your partner wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:13 PM
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I'd explain this in depth when I get home in an Edit. Read my reply above.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 06:46 PM
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To make it short. TRP philosophy is all applied internally. And according to you, he clearly wasn't happy with how his life was going. TRP advocates prioritizing your own happiness. Sad to say, he wasn't applying any of the core teachings of TRP. You're just a casualty. You had the relationship model right. He just didn't have the capacity to deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 06:37 PM
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I'm not denying it. But it doesn't mean it's ideal. TRP promotes Captain/first mate because it is statistically proven to be the most successful relationship model.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 06:19 PM
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There will always be imbalance of power. It is never truly 100% equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 06:12 PM
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If you bothered to understand TRP. Nobody actually advocates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 05:13 PM
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Red pill theory in it's entirety is often misunderstood and generalized to the extreme versions of black and white. Nobody bothers to learn the idea. Besides, it's easier to hate what you don't know or actually understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 05:12 PM
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You cannot classify an ideology as its group and practitioners. You don't "practice" TRP. It's an amalgamation of different ideas and principles of how one should live life in the most optimal way possible. It's not a specific way to live life. It will be different for everyone and that's what made it attractive. Everyone applies TRP differently into their lives. You would know all this if you even bothered to study or at least do some research behind the idea. Essentially, what you're saying is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 05:09 PM
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Are you claiming some relationships are perfectly equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 03:44 PM
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Things like compassion, pity, and altruism can affect power dynamics in a relationship in a huge way. You can have all these traits and still have a redpill mindset. RP does not want to acknowledge this, or sees those things as weak and instead overcompensates for the lack of power in their own lives by focusing too much on the dominance aspects of power dynamics. Why do people do this? Some RP men desires to be altruistic and in no way sees this as lack of power. Have you ever bothered to read …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 03:36 PM
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I've seen quite a few relationships where the woman likes being in power and where she doesn't try to seek out a relationship in which she is submissive because she enjoys her power. It really depends upon the personality of the man and woman involved. These types of relationships often doesn't last. I've yet to see a relationship where a woman is superior to a man in terms of physicality, financial success, and intellectual capacity(personality counts too but it is almost always after the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 02:02 PM
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It can't be equal. Hypergamy wouldn't allow equality. The moment she sees you as her equal, be it in terms of power or SMV, she will dip and find someone to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 12:13 PM
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Some people are willing to put up with unkindness from people in order to have sex with them. Baffles me, but that’s the way some men and women are. Why do you think hypergamy is a prominent idea in TRP. This type of scenario doesn't baffle anyone there. Women do this because they consider his SMV higher than hers and is much more willing to put up with bullshit like that. Men on the other hand allow such behavior because he's pedestalizing the woman, in which case, he shouldn't. This part, coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 12:21 AM
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But they do have that option. That still doesn't change the fact that some profession are gender biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:37 PM
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AWALT is often misunderstood in this sub. It is a set of principles all women possess. Hypergamy, solipsism, and machiavellianism. This are the three principles that make up the AWALT umbrella. From these principles branches of certain behaviors. The only difference is the frequency in which every woman applies said principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:19 PM
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He was classifying the difference between Beta and Alpha traits. Red pill mindset and blue pill mindset are entirely different things. You can have Alpha qualities and still have the Blue Pill mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:14 PM
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Morality is objective. That's essentially what he meant by any action can be moral depending on who is looking. i.e. Would you consider murdering a murderer moral just or is it immoral? RP mindset would say yes it's moral because it is justified by the fact that you prevented him from killing other innocent people where as BP mindset would say it is immoral because murder is murder disregarding the fact that that murderer would've killed more innocent people had it been left alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:14 AM
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Short for kinesiology. Science of human movement.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:26 PM
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You're insecure in your physical appearance. That reflects to your body language. they can smell that from a mile away. Where's the confidence in that? Keep escalating. You pedestalize women by simply saying you like the prettier ones. It's either 1 or 0. Treat all the ones you wanna fuck all the same.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:55 PM
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I use to think like that. Until I realized that my mentality is fully under my control. Blaming tends to dwell on things you no longer have the power to change. Instead, focus on the things you can and accept what you can't. Only you have full control over your life. So blaming anyone else for your upbringing doesn't really help you or anyone.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:07 PM
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Also Canadian. But point at hand, you're nitpicking issues that are not even political. It's personal. As I have said, TRP should not be politically attached. Not all political issues is as black and white as people here make it seems.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 10:30 PM
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Leftist here. TRP should not be politically attached. It is and will always be meant for self improvement to me. It should never take a political nor religious side.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:17 PM
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I disagree with some parts of your conclusion. I analyze non stop. But it's just something that's natural to me. Analyzing to me is like breathing. That's how I observe and calibrate.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:25 PM
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Always make it about her. Capitalize on the universal truth that everyone loves to talk about themselves. And just listen, listen, listen. Not to what she says, but how she says certain things. Calibrate from there. DHV is almost always subcontext in the form of body language, subspeech etc... It's rarely ever about what you actually say, unless you actually say some outright stupid stuff.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 05:58 AM
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I disagree to a certain extent. Maybe because of cosmetic surgery. But theirs is also malleable but not to the same degree.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:21 AM
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The only difference between a self made alpha and a natural is the awareness to what they do and why they do it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:47 PM
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ROUND 1 Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Oh my God! Yes! How did you know? I have sex 3 times a day with 3 different women.(Agree and amplify) shit eating grin after. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” Not to all. Only the ones asking. (Keeping frame) Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” My pet camel died. I think I overfed it. (Obvious sarcasm) Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” I lost count. Should I start over from 1? (Pretty dismissive o…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:54 PM
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If other people's validation matters more than yours. You didn't vet your woman accordingly. She wanted to use him for social proof. Intimacy should be between just you two. It's not something to just flaunt to the public. I'd personally next her.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 04:27 PM
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This is deflection. A woman has a few arsenals at her disposal. The first and most common is blame shifting. The second is deflection. The last is topic dismissal. I wanted to write about this and will once I get the materials in order.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 04:15 PM
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Alpha to me is, becoming the best version of "your"self. Because it has to be all about you. I hate this talk of comparison. Who honestly gives a fuck if you're not 6'0 200lbs of pure muscle and only 5'7 at 170lbs of lean muscle? The former isn't the best version of you. That's the best version of someone else. Genetics isn't even half of it anyway. Most of the things that really matter is within your control. Wealth is fully in your control. I can also say the same with personality. Just becaus…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:26 PM
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Mostly insight and experience. I would suggest Joe Navarro's book regarding body language as a foundation.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:45 PM
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I would say oatmeal. But I'm nowhere near as fit as Omlala. Either that or brown rice.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:37 PM
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This is rarely ever the case. Because the pair bonding from her first committed partner gets so strong it overrides her hamster. Why do you think over 80% of women who married a virgin never divorces?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 02:48 PM
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Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 04:02 PM
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Always approach a woman as a machiavellian, never a logician. It's easier to use their emotions against them to allow them to be compliant rather than rationalize their actions and have them defiant.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure he means the opposite of short term feel good stimuli. Essentially, he's saying to create a big goal for yourself that takes a while to attain and maintain discipline while trying to achieve it. Example would be, I want to hit x weight at x% body fat as long term and short term would be, I'm going to gym today.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:17 PM
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That's your pride and ego talking. I've learned to shed that to ultimately give the most logical response every single time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 05:25 PM
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My easiest go to is the most used up one. "That's what she said". To be honest it doesn't matter what it is. Say it with confidence. Show interest. It doesn't matter if she reciprocates or not(Outcome independence). Read up on amused mastery and incorporate that to your joker personality.
/r/seduction06/11/15 04:27 PM
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You can always throw jokes with sexual innuendo.
/r/seduction06/11/15 02:47 PM
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What you're saying is essentially MGTOW. I take TRP as a way to just improve myself. Everything else is just theory that I choose and pick from whether it will help me strive for my goals or not which is self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:32 PM
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I'm always up for the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:27 PM
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If they're behind me, I'll hold the door open for anyone. Regardless of age, sex and race. Then again I live in Canada so....
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:15 PM
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