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Yes, that's what censoring is. I'm not putting myself in the cage because women might find my true self attractive. If their relationship is that bad that they are pulled away by simple interactions, that's not my fault now is it? If anything, I did them a huge fucking favor and saved them time/money/divorce/unwanted kids.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:43 PM
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Any further criticism to add? What needs to be changed? Was nothing accomplished because I didn't fuck those girls or something?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:41 PM
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I thought I was pretty explicit in that I was just out to not give a fuck and have fun. Never claimed I was in it to sleep with those girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:39 PM
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I'm not ashamed of my experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:37 PM
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Who said anything about trying to impress anyone? I wrote a report on a personal accomplishment and tried to add an analysis to it. Maybe the execution was lame, that's a fair statement. LtS's response doesn't add any value to this thread.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:35 PM
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I approached this as if coming from a relationship that you would like to keep healthy. If you are in a relationship, you must provide. Providing means creating a reality for your girl to partake in. You sitting out on dances means you are not providing, and that allows her to interact with other guys who will intentionally or unintentionally provide what you are not. Now, outside of a relationship, I completely agree with you. Don't give any fucks about what some random/new girl on the danceflo…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:34 PM
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So it's my job to censor myself as a man so I don't attract too many ladies in relationships, inadvertently homewrecking as an unintended consequence? Get fucking real dude. Until this becomes a real phenomenon I notice in my life, this is the last thing I'm worry about.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:57 AM
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Thanks for the honest criticism. Hard to find around here some times.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:43 AM
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A troll account is the top reply?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:42 AM
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Missed opportunities. That's something I need to get better at. I'm not used to being in that position to successfully ask for numbers, hah.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:22 AM
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I think his height and job will factor in more in his later twenties if he still finds himself single. He also has a lot of bad, BP habits now. I should try to point some of them out to him if I catch him doing it, but people have to want to change before your advice is going to have any real effect. You're right though, I could have done more to wing for him I think. I even caught myself partaking in the "broken windows" habit. If you aren't familiar, it is basically where guys jokingly take li…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:17 AM
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Nothing too surprising here, but I found it to be worthwhile. I have to wonder how many times I've witnessed women abusing men (in any fashion) out in public but it never registered because I have always been conditioned to look out for the opposite?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 12:21 AM
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If I read it correctly, he gave up his job to follow her to a new city so that she could pursue her graduate degree. Later she commented that they became such "good friends" that Allan's to-be wife let HER (the author) pick out his wedding suit. In what world does that make sense? What self-respecting man let's a woman do that to him, and then turn around and let her back in on his marriage to a new woman? Did I miss something here?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 10:46 PM
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I like the other videos in his channel as well. Pretty interesting dynamics they force. Even with over the top awkwardness, many of the girls reactions are not bad at all, and you can tell that some would have let him back in. Almost picking up chicks Trying to kiss girls Asking a girl to punch me in the face Will you kiss me <landwhales They are very short. Worth the watch.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 01:00 AM
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A thinner population of women would drastically increase the size of the dating pool. Weight excluded, it's already a slaughterhouse competition to go for high value girls. That's just the biology of it. The obesity epidemic has only made it hyper competitive to the point that even marginal-but-normal weight women have falsely high SMV, and the competition surrounding them is also very high. It's almost like an economic bubble now that I think of it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 06:40 PM
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I agree that this is a huge logistical problem in the obesity epidemic, all stemming from women taking to the workforce. I'm not as familiar with the history. Did women take to the workforce for independent reasons, or did they do so for economic reasons because men could no longer provide for a whole family? That is, the jobs men typically had no longer paid what was necessary for the average family.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 06:35 PM
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Maybe you're right in that I wasn't completely accurate in describing what the article is about, and it does take a look at the obesity epidemic. What I should have clarified is that their solutions to the problem are extremely blue pill. At best, they describe "lead by example", which is good in putting forth any type of change, but they are also advocating catering entirely to young girls' feelings as well. Let's not bruise their poor, fragile psyches. Both young girls and young boys need a li…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 06:31 PM
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Going to the movies saturday night. Younger female cousin is driving, nearly runs off road and into sign because she's a horrible driver. She gets real defensive and throws a shit fit when her brother same age as me tried to explain that she needs to pay more attention, and that she's not a good driver. After serious pouting and feminine backlash, he apologizes like a bitch for criticizing her driving, basically catering to her temper tantrum. Once you see it, it is everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:11 PM
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Id like to see this as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 12:57 AM
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I'm with you there. For me, Seddit is only half of the picture. It's like a toolkit that allows you to be proficient with women and yourself. The Red Pill philosophy (from what I take of it) is a justification to not be ashamed in using those techniques, and is about finding self respect as men. I followed Seddit for 2 years, and only recently stumbled into TRP. At first, I laughed at all the "bitter losers", and never thought I'd come back. Weeks later when I realized I was still not making pro…
/r/seduction29/07/13 09:52 AM
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I wasn't implying that men shouldn't get married. I'll definitely want a life long partner and kids of my own in the future. But I think understanding the true nature of marriage, being aware of all the aspects, will lead to healthier and more productive relationships overall. Deciding to stay single without settling down with a lifelong partner could be one of the biggest regrets of my life in my older age.
/r/seduction28/07/13 06:49 PM
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What has changed in recent decades is the derived benefit that men and women get from such a social contract. In older times, it was necessary to form that union in order to survive. Imagine being single and trying to grow your own food, tend the entire farm, cook your own meals, gather the wood, make/repair your own clothes, and about everything else that came with the lifestyle of the times. By entering marriage, the tasks could be shared and split, and by doing this, the derived benefit was h…
/r/seduction28/07/13 03:47 PM
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I think your weight is killing you here. You have no problem approaching, and open numerous sets. The common response? They consistently avoid eye contact. You did your part in showing up as a man, but they aren't taking you seriously and they're physically shutting the interaction down before they have to verbally reject you, which is just as hard for them to say as for you to hear (hence the strong negative body language they present). That said, the weight doesn't make it impossible, but it w…
/r/seduction27/07/13 12:58 PM
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