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You misinterpreted. The study is actually poiting to the exact opposite, Women consume written porn at significantly higher rates when COMPARED to men BUT their preferred (primary) modality is still predominantly visual and by a huge difference from literotica. Check fig. 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:14 PM
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Not at all, porn consumption among women is surging as studies suggest https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30358432/ - "Using all modalities of pornography, 91.5% of men and 60.2% of women herein reported having consumed pornography in the past month." - From 2018 and I can guarantee you if you research for more up to date studies it's possible to find it closing the gap with men, It's not a fringe minority going for porn 24h a day and racking up numbers, it's everyday average people, women who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:44 PM
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I don't think so. You also shouldn't, it just stigmatizes women's with such sexual desires further and maybe that's why you wouldn't know someone who overtly shows off their passion for porn anyway, men themselves hide from this fact even though it's widely watched, a sensitive topic is not getting brought up out of the blue for the sake of comformity and comfort. And also, how are not many women into visual medium if porn websites specifically for videos and pictures who track their users repor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:35 PM
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OP's questioning is a bit odd really. Flawed logic. Porn fueled fantasies doesn't correlate 100% with real life preferences or sexual attraction. Although I differ, truth is women are into porn, just not as much as they would like to admit, it's not a gendered exclusive preference at all and it's okay for them to keep it to themselves and avoid shaming, although you do find on the internet women proudly referring to themselves as "gooners" and even enjoying the same degrading straight porn just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:40 PM
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It's because people hate people neurodivergents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:45 PM
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LiveLeak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:26 PM
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How is that any issue? As long as my partner stays loyal and affectionate for as long as our compromise endures I'm not slightly bothered by that. And I'm also not bothered if she found herself in the same mentality as myself. I happened to date women out of "my type" in looks and personality and far from "conventional beauty standards" before because they were caring and didn't hold back on making it clear, and to be honest I considered marrying them more seriously than any of the more attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:23 PM
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I do, and you won't believe the amount of shaming when men do exactly that, by both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:38 AM
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Fine, throwaway account, such a pity you don't have the balls to say it in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:34 AM
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L take. America ruins shit for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:38 PM
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It doesn't even get results for men and bothers women mostly, this practice should die off honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:24 PM
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Agree, tax me for that instead of war and coups in Latin America
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:43 PM
7

I've never seen a person enjoying being a clown. Except for clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:31 AM
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If women agree not to to say "I'm just going because I want to have some fun with my friends and not be bothered by men" this time like they did with bars, clubs, pubs and such I think this could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:21 AM
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As a dude I've attempted through friends and have them show my profile, get some feedback and regret it deeply, women see it as "desperate" as I got from feedback of friends, the intention is good but the result is not taken optimal, just makes you look weird nowadays. You can't even put yourself out there really, doesn't matter what you do, it'll be seen and judged in negative ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:17 AM
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It's just their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:12 AM
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That was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:24 PM
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Shaming tactics. That's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:07 PM
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Take a sample of a fifty different kinds of vegetables for a kid to taste. The kid only likes two of them. You would probably say this kid doesn't like vegetables much. And that's how often women find men attractive according to research. Even those in the "meh" category for them would count as something like 20/50 and the rest would be just below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:56 AM
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I'll make sure to ask about this next time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:42 AM
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Men do it. Women abuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:35 AM
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This is the bare minimum + she is the table + she don't need a man anyway + she can pay for it herself just doesn't want to + men just care about sex + she deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:06 PM
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👆 Bot speech
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:20 PM
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That's what a bot would say if I prompted it to get around such argument, you can't fool me with your blip-blop and 01's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:18 PM
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Where did you get that specific data exactly? Would you mind to show any paper on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:22 PM
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Feminist movements are all for egalitarianism there would be no backlash if we were to change it today, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:10 AM
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He's doing the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:54 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:19 PM
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Men are allowed to slap a third-party butts without consent in a group of friends as long as they don't get horny (that is part of the equation somehow) by your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:54 PM
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It is a non issue if you keep deflecting it to "jealous" behavior instead, assuming touching other women inappropriately is fine by default is exactly how men have been exposed as sexual predators, as it should be, how should that be any different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:19 PM
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Silence doesn't mean consenting until said otherwise. Them assuming it's okay to do so is kinda a terrible mentality and the amount of women not seeing the issue with it is widespread in the thread it seems, specially given she's kwown to IN A RELATIONSHIP above all that. I'm concerned myself, I think you should be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:10 PM
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You're willfully ignoring the interpretation of data delivered, the extent to which you think alcohol consumption has something to do with sexlessness was totally exaggerated out of proportion to the reality the authors found and their statement is clear about it, you missed the point entirely and I should expect such response since you couldn't make sense of the data. How am I the one trying to fit a narrative when I quoted the authors own words to rebuke the bullshit you just said first? You d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:33 PM
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And it still holds up. The vast majority of virgins do consume alcohol and this is not a predictor of sexlessness as you tried to make it seem, the evidence you put forward doesn't imply aswell, to be more precise there's a bunch of other factors that suggest more deviation from the rest of the population than this, just take a good look on Fig. 1 and see the income indexes and then tell me straight to my face this isn't way more staggering. Or maybe how the most well correlated paper (8) shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:47 PM
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There's correlation there but the study is considering 1% a significant deviation from between virgins and non-virgins, the negative correlation is about 0.025 which basically means the virgins are 2,5% less likely to drink alcohol, the rest of them still do, so much so that the alcohol intake doesn't explicit significant deviation (>1%) from non-virgins. The author also states: "It is unclear to what extent these links are underlain by risk aversion (risk-taking was negatively associated with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:55 PM
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Yeah, bullshit. She's just trying to correlate two unrelated things at once because they seem to fit a narrative that virgins are all shut in and make no effort to go out meet new people, be spontaneous, get drunk or something else that people do in order to become inhibited. I see where she's trying to get into with this argument. The truth is shit is simply not adding up and a large sum men are just expected to be happy scraping the bottom of an empty barrel and told to improve, for hypergamy …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:18 AM
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Yes, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:08 PM
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Based. You're a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:10 PM
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I unironically agree. I would go further and say anything above 0 is already a high BC and should date on their whore league only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:56 PM
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Women want to fuck 12 foot tall werewolfs in their fanfictions, dude. Stop taking these things seriously, at best those are sick exaggerations of unlivable fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:29 PM
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No wonder why men will turn cold after sex, it just makes sense after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:08 PM
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Then it's just fair for them to reject you for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:06 AM
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No. But it's complete delusional to think someone with a plethora of HMV stacies on his DM would settle for one night stand becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:48 AM
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You're right, Guys who make up stories is the kind of shit that women fall for the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:33 AM
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"He pursued me despite both dating several other people at the same time." So you both settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:24 AM
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That's not a feasable strategy to score in the field we're playing. Sorry if truth bothers you but that's not going to change any sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:22 AM
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Spoiler: he settled, he's happy though. But that will bother you nonethless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:11 AM
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The absolute ego death trail left in this comment section lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:08 AM
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Nah nigga? You just ad hominemned your way out you so wack nivga what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:36 AM
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Uh oh, nigga don't have an answer. Just say you dumber than an ape nigga
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:28 AM
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Yes, there is. In your circle you may call this "playing in your league" and we've been conditioned to categorize in ourselves since day one, beauty is one of these categories. Social behavior reinforces this sense of order ingrained in everyone and reflects the primitive act of being able to find where one can position oneself in the group, navigate life itself by developing skills, bonding and FINDING A PARTNER, that's how we came up with families and formed tribes nigga! And that's a primitiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:22 AM
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Obliterated by truth nuke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:34 AM
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It's heartwrecking, being the target of out-group ostracism and nonsensical hatred from women is brutal. I remember back in college I would reach out for people that were having a hard time to join groups for academic tasks, in the midst of that I invited this girl who was apparently neurodivergent and was doing everything by herlself up until that point, she started to hang out a bit more with me and other people I was already friends with, some hoes took offense and tried to come up with all k…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:39 PM
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Yet, me no gf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:46 AM
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But the topic of past relationship and exes often come up out of nowhere, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:03 PM
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OOHH THANK GOD. I'm gonna lie everytime now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:50 PM
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We avoid the subject because it just makes everyone else feel uneasy at the thought of a friend having sex. If the dude says anything other than "me and that girl, we did it" it's ear harassment. It has been said a million times before that locker room talk is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:38 AM
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U jealouz cuz mah nigga spittin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:20 AM
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Ragebait as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:29 PM
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Obvious ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:37 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:24 AM
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Lol almost all of them do this, there's only exceptions to the rule, I've been benefited by this, but it's usually coming from women who pedestalize you for looks, LTR like this are bound to fail because people inevitably get frustated you're not as "perfect" on her terms as they assumed by the surface of your skin. Men aren't even trying to hide this fact for themselves, so many "I would fix her" and "she's hot tho" discourse out there, not saying you should all just date someone unattactive, j…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:38 PM
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That is actually better for society because women's choices weren't harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:25 PM
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Holy shit, what an honour! I would record.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:23 PM
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Both are wrong and hypocritical to point fingers at each other but will happen nonethless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:29 PM
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No further proof needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:46 PM
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Has someone ever said they are good at spotting pedos, outside of investigators? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:25 PM
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You're optimistic. I think both sexes are going to disagree doesn't matter the medium used. Best you can do is stay open minded about different perspectives and not let anyone tell you how you should do you without walking in your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:07 PM
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My disagreement with your comment has nothing with being bitter over unrequited love, we know it can happen. He was giving a clear reason for why it doesn't work out as easy as you may think, there's downsides, even for acquaintances, not always the best idea, and you just dismissed his point of view with "then don't be their friend" (??????) wasn't your entire point about men befriending women first in order to get to know them? You notice how you're backpedalling here? Your perspective is over…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:56 PM
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You're absolutely right; men and women only care about themselves and their perspective is limited to what they go through, few people are bothered to understand the opposite sex, everybody is just trying to impose their ideal for third party detriment, not only on this sub but in real life aswell. Despite what we do ourselves there's still people who'll take issue with anything and say they prefer otherwise. Women will never be pleased with men and vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:47 AM
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Fine, so you're just bullshiting your point down our throats against our own experience and telling us to roll with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:08 AM
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I'm not saying it does but it can also go very wrong, it's a kind of risk taking worth considering. No issue with meeting new people but things get weird once the feelings towards someone aren't reciprocal and the rejection implications usually mean a disbalance in the dynamic of the prestabilished friendship or whatever it is and things get weird that both sides cannot mantain said dynamic as naturally as before and there's no need for a rocket science degree to figure out they're gonna part wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:33 AM
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Because they did. It doesn't mean it'll work out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:48 AM
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Getting to know women over time doesn't necessarily results in her feeling more attracted to a guy over time, that's the part you're missing from the equation. If shit goes south the guy basically spent more time and got nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:03 PM
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Depends on the context, and also depedends on her feedback to you and the kind of relationship both are looking for in each other. The terminology "few weeks" could mean literally anything, I think it's more important to track how many dates both have managed to set up and how they went, if man and woman are in for long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:51 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions here. It probably makes mathematical sense that "hit on hundreds of not thousands of women at a time in public and hopefully get a couple dates." if you should consider that if you try more you're set to schedule more dates, but a man also has a life and his day is also having 24 hours + confidence dwindles if you get no results (men can also feel insecure for failing, shocker!). And think seriously about it: does it make sense to keep trying to find a date aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:35 PM
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I thought it was unanimous between women on this sub that commitment couldn't be bought or sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:53 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:54 PM
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Yet women still get played by fuckboys somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:28 PM
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Most men say the exact same thing about women all the time, couples are mutually abusive on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:48 AM
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perfect first date? Go pick her up at her place, she still getting done, wait 40 minutes, she slam tf outta my car door, try to strike up a conversation but she's monosyllabic until we arrive late for the restaurant reservation I made, I look like a fool in front of the receptionist which makes the same contempt facial expression I'm about to witness for the next hour, we sit to order and she doesn't have clue what the fuck "ribolitta" or anything on the menu is, since all she does is eat junk f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:05 AM
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I've been approached four times. None of them were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:32 AM
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Four and that's because I'm really skeptical of dating nowadays. Three of them cancelled, one didn't show up. I have no idea why I still try, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:09 PM
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Well, now we know where you come from. That was something, but I mean no harm on anyone who lives in a vault and has very narrow notion what the world out there is really like, as if there wasn't people walking on the same planet as you in fear of getting killed if they're found to be bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:48 PM
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Arbitrary term? You don't think biphobia has ever existed then? The discrimination they seem to face are just fabrications in order to victimize themselves then? Please make yourself clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:21 PM
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It's not about attractive or not attractive. It's about rejecting partners for the sole reason they are attracted to both men and women, this is biphobic. You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:16 PM
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It actually makes me feel sick, I still hope for the day I won't have to call anyone as such, if it makes you feel better. Thanks for being so inconsiderate, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:27 PM
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No, it actually makes me feel worse that we still have to point out when people are discriminatory, because if we don't they keep on living like there's nothing to be corrected about their prejudices. And even worse when people come in defense of phobic behavior as if the perpetrators are the biggest victim in the whole situation, they aren't, and this is not about her specifically, this is a collective issue we must address to these people so they can develop and stop carrying on with this outd…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:21 PM
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Fine, you do you. You're still biphobic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:38 PM
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There's no narrative being pushed. This is just discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:36 PM
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You can die on that hill and I respect that homie... you're dying alone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:59 AM
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Yes, women struggle with dating too, no brainer, it's not a matter of looks only, guys who say otherwise clearly haven't tried dating as a woman. It sucks not in terms of quantity but quality, still, the only way for them to find someone who they deem capable of LTR is appealing to lots of men first, one of them can be "the one". The obvious strategy here is beign appealing herself both phisically and in manners, and I'm not talking about exploiting oneself into the male gaze because it just att…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:25 AM
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We're on agreement, I don't think monosyllabic messaging/answer count as "leading him on" or it means reciprocation, myself, you've just drawn the conclusion that I do out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:19 PM
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Friendzone is when she gets gf benefits knowing the guy is doing in platonic fashion and leading him on, it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:42 PM
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The truth. It isn't nice to hear, but good to know. Thanks for the honesty. I'd give you an award if I had one to spare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:38 PM
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Same shit going on, just on the other side of the fence. It's really not that different, worthy people are put in the same enviroment as assholes, they eventually end up together. This isnt't proof men or women are all acting or purpose to undermine each other, it's just people being flawed and hurting each other in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:26 PM
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"You have to be in the top 500 of chronically online." new insult unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:14 PM
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Have you tried taking a shower before going on dates? Jokes aside, I relate with you here and it's really unfortunate, I feel for you, and also appreciate that you empathize. But you didn't get the worst part of the deal which is doing all of this while being a cis male, we are just assumed to have the worst of intentions from the go and know exactly what and when to do, some of the stuff you could do or say in the first few interactions could never be done if you were a man, the limitation of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:42 AM
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You find it to be deceitful yet you are giving her a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:50 PM
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I never understood why this is an issue men keep pointing out to women when it's completely on their realm and straightforward to solve, nobody is meddling their intetions to find new friendships, if men are not actively doing something about it, it's their own fault. It's the same lack of logic as women associating female rivalry with the patriarchy, they have nothing to do with each other whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:45 PM
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It is, who else should speak for her on the subject? Just like anything, you should make clear boundaries and communicate when something bothers you, that goes for both sexes, but most important make it clear what is allowed too, some women seem to not know how to elaborate properly on this, in my experience, and just leave you with a vague notion of what she wants to accomplish in intimacy, but I do want to hear what they have to say and work inside her boundaries, it should be the norm and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:19 AM
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What they don't admit is how looks are above kindness and personality and the degree to which they are shallow, and sometimes even disregard personality attributes altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:46 PM
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Holy shit, like, literally everywhere and all the time, including in this sub. It's tiresome hearing "You just have to genuinely kind and sociable, the bar is hell, etc..." but said guys exist and they still struggle to get reciprocation from women, which means their statement is complete bullshit as the scientific method proves with this research (although I don't think you have given it a read yet). Stop downplaying and gaslighting for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:38 PM
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We don't, mostly. Unless she's a sex worker or OnlyFans creator or HR professional I don't see an issue myself, don't know about others, but outside of this scope I really don't give a shit about what she does for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:28 PM
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Nah, it's not my cup of tea, but I can get behind this if someone were to tell me they're into it, no problem. I always try to figure it out beforehand, it's not like I'm just going out there doing things as I wish or beating sticks into their heads or feel entitled to do anal, that was preposterous of you to assume of me. As I said, I'm open to the subject matter with the partners I've had myself, but what you get out there are women who are not responsible enough with themselves to tell it lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:00 PM
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"Or you talk about it beforehand" So you just agree women should stop beating around the bush and tell for once if they're into it or not. Which is the entire point OP was trying to come across: women gaslighting men about their sexual preferences (the literal title), most of them like it rough despite what TwoXChromossomes says, and some deny for they're not comfortable with their sexual desires, on the other end, for those who are not this kinky, they should just be open about it so nobody get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:49 PM
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👏👏👏 and that's exactly what I think should be done, a woman should know what she's willing to do and what she's not, I've went through the entire thread and an overwhelming majority disagreed women have to tell their partners what kind of sexuality they're comfortable with, so men are just left to wander on eggshells because they're clueless or straight up refuse to own up to their kinks (be it violent or not). Like, how they expect men to just know from the go and not make mistakes along the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:34 PM
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So far I just projected the ideia that you're pretty annoying, not in a single instant I thought of myself having rough sex or just sex with you, and I guess it won't ever happen. I hope it debunks your suspicions, you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:46 AM
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"Women never asked to be choked, men just want to be violent" "During consensual sex a woman asked me to choke her, I think sometimes they ask. "BUT I NEVER ASKED TO BE CHOKED BY YOU" Duuuude, this has to be a satire account, I'm just laughing my ass so much with this "mentally ill self hating women" I think I'm about to explode, the amount of misoginy against women who love choking is off the charts holy fucking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:33 AM
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Sorry, can't tell if you're being truthful or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:56 AM
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What a low condescending ass wording clusterfuck, for real. You know what, fine... men are just violent children who think that think women love being abused and women are just cowards who can't say a single truth to save their own fucking lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:53 AM
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No, absolutely, NO, you totally should, it's for your own safety, like wtf, you're already naked with someone else, sex throws a lot decency out of the window for the time being. I can't believe these are these the same people telling men to "read the room" and "learn social cues" this is so fucking hypocritical, it's like, you should know better, things like that could happen if you don't impose yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:25 AM
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So you just figure out while doing it? Fine for you but that's how men end up making these kinds of mistakes first. Maybe you're in the wrong here, there's not much one can find about while in the act other than if she wants it rougher of softer, I'd rather talk ealier about it, it's oranges and apples, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:29 AM
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You're to twist my words now and didn't come up with a counterpoint to justify your cognitive dissonance to any of the questions I asked you, basically refusing to elaborate why the ungodly amount of double-thinking from your behalf makes sense, I was expecting you to give a proper answers to those, but you didn't, and I'm not assuming you're stupid in any way or form, but I do believe you're willfully neglecting or straight up refusing to provide answers since you can't align both contradicting…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:18 AM
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I do myself, but what you get the most is that women are clueless, and I've had very few partners who could elaborate other than "I like men to take charge", but when they do things go smoother, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:49 AM
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But that's the point OP is trying to tackle, and you seem to have not managed to noticed, and if you have nothing to be arguing against it then men aren't just victimizing their partners sexually and getting away with it, there you go, you agree with the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:42 AM
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Fine, I was addressing the issue and I may be hysterical for this but you still can't work you way around the hipocrisy and cognitive dissonance you just messed yourself with previously. If this is not your responsability or stance then why do you bother answering? Why do you bother arguing women are just plain victims and hold no blame while an entire subreddit of almost 2 million women (which is a pretty significant sample) collectivelly agree that men are the sole responsible for misfortunes …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:22 AM
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By the sentece you mentioned above I meant women who don't enjoy BDSM are ignorant about how many women engage in it by their own will and desires. It has nothing to do with book sales or shit, those are the ones that know damn well they exist and are not few, this book being a hit just proves my point and redditors on this thread failing to acknowledge lots of women like this and it's not because patriarchy told them to pushes my claim further.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:58 AM
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That's why I said it has become the norm, not the right thing to do. And again I reinforce "if she's not okay with it, it should be communicated."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:46 AM
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And I refrain to say "that should be communicated". You shouldn't be afraid to speak up to a partner and calling it quits if he were to refuse. From what I know men are just happy to engage in sex, I'm not in women's shoes to speak on the issue of how often they find themselves being forced to do things ond way or another, I've always did things consensually and took feedback. Figure out what you're comfortable with and don't let anybody step over the line. Just don't blame anybody else if you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:37 AM
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I'm from Brazil, more specifically the southern region, which is a whole lot different from the northern region, despite being the same country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:20 AM
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You can just read the whole thing instead, you know, and I mean degrading women exclusively in the bedroom, if it goes anywhere else it doesn't align with my beliefs. Having kinky sex is not a predicator of your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:12 AM
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It's not as if BDSM is pedo but you got a point where some will hide their fantasies or just refuse to admit they enjoy it in fear of scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:06 AM
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"So you think that women demanding degrading treatment conditioned men to act in a way that degrades women?" Yes, most of them, not all, and personal experience from other men here won't leave me alone in this, it's okay, I understand it's hard for some of you find it hard to admit it. But it's true that it's not the entirery of the gender who likes things this way, it's important to remember. "If women are freaky, its societies fault. Of course it is." No it isn't, their behavior with sexual pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:48 AM
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Somehow... You're avoiding admiting women should own up the bad reputation here? Men should basically be blamed because we already have a lot of horrible stuff going on for ourselves? Well, we own up to it, why can't you? That sounds completely hypocritical of you to say if you haven't noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:22 AM
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You only got it halfway the point he was trying to address. OP is pointing put that women are ignorant of their own gender's sexual fantasies involving BDSM altogether and shifting the blame onto males as a whole for their supposed generalized violent sexual behavior, as if they're responsible for the widespread of kinky sex as the norm instead of facing that majority of women enjoy it the most and are responsible for rough sex becoming the norm and expect their sexual partners to follow the pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:06 AM
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This has nothing to do with shaming women, OP is concerned about men getting the bad reputation of expecting rough degrading sex when it's actually women's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:53 AM
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Well, you couldn't be more wrong, because they aren't spending their money trying to find a date, the onlyfans male userbase (60% of all accounts) are 90% married men. They are out there spending money on their wives instead. The stereotype that the onlyfans user is a basement dwelling nonstop masturbator is just a fringe percentage of reality, the most boring looking dude out there, even your father or uncles are more likely to be spending their time and money on porn. Millenials and latter gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:04 AM
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That's actually the opposite. I see dudes putting effort in themselves more often than not, I wonder what kind of people you are interacting with to make such claims with no data to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:11 PM
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Holy shit! That means you got to know them well enough past their looks! Congratulations! You found out what's the purpose of dating 👏🤯👏🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:12 PM
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"Most men are invisible without saying anything. Women only think of dating from the POV of men they would date, which is the same men all other women would date" Truth nuke straight out of the oven 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:08 PM
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Stop and think for a second, what makes you think incentives men to keep being chivalrous if doesn't get them the foot on the door (it's looks from now on) and doesn't help them bond with their love interest since most of them feel inadequate being treated as such according to women themselves on this thread? I'm actually extremely bothered, because I am the kind of guy that has always done this and has always been passionate with showing my date that I'm able of compassion of caring and this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:48 PM
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Yes, you are, that's literally (literally) what the word stands for. There's no rationalization enough for you to in order to avoid this. Trust me, it's just easier for you and everybody else to own up to it. Men who pick their partners filtering by looks first means they're shallow too, no excuses and it's widespread aswell but I've seen they're actually frowned upon by their own peers with metaphors like "beggars can't be choosers" often used as a rethoric against this behavior, which I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:48 PM
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Fine, at least you're self conscious enough to admit you're shallow, most people don't own up to it. Not up to nobody else but you to decide how and who you should date. Up until this point if I had someone I like or have someone I knew was interested in dating me I would always approach in traditional/old fashioned sense, not solely because I myself enjoyed doing things together to get to know them but also because I was led to believe women also preferred things this way (because they said so …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:29 PM
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I don't think of anybody as someone ugly, even this whole scale of 1 to 10 is a widely used concept that passes me off and this behavior weaponizes looks against people. If you don't find an issue judging people by those standards, then he'll yea, I've dated ugly people, of course, what this has to do with anything? If you were to find your best match but you were not particularly pleased with their looks, you just pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:43 PM
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I haven't been actively trying to date for a year and a half, but before that out of the last 5 women I went on dates with 3 of them were overweight, I don't necessarily think of them as "ugly" they just don't fit into the beauty standard necessarily, almost nobody does, that's fine for me and for a bunch of other men who date plus sized women as well, it's nothing new, we still find them attractive whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:37 AM
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Thanks for the consistent answer, some other people would rather not respond in order to keep their cognitive dissonances to themselves. I appreciate your response personally, because this is the kind of interactions that I relied on for the most part myself when I was meeting someone. Although it does require some work to think and plan everything, I'd feel glad and would be worth doing it after seeing the other party involved enjoyed at end but could be a total bummer if things didn't go as ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:37 AM
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I personally agree with you, but this is likely not going to happen. Like, what's the point of a man even trying to approach slowly when almost every woman on this thread and in younger generations as a whole seem to be only open to engage with people that 1-Is already attractive to her 2-passes the unspoken test that decides within a few minutes of exchange if she wants to have anything to do with the guy. Those two things won't go further together, and it will define what is to be expected fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:44 AM
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Well, sex does mean love for me, I personally wouldn't have it with someone else if I didn't loved a person somehow. Those are two correlated things for me and it makes total sense to be this way, if you don't think they fit in with each other, that's up to you as much as any individual. Maybe you're trying to mean that some men will put sex above love and roll with it disregarding women's feelings, considering the statement that comes right after. Then, yes, men are at fault depending if he's d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:11 AM
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No, it doesn't at all, it doesn't affect them, they're shallow, it sucks for the people who genuinely try to engage with them and know no better prior to doing it. Best you can do is point it out respectfully, but mostly those people are so self absorbed that nothing really matters, they'd rather die on this hill than see a world where looks are not meant to be used as prejudice against others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:02 AM
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Definitely, being shallow is not something to brag about, the issue comes when people won't admit it themselves and fail to self actualize this because their egos won't let them, so they come up with a bunch of rationalization and excuses to avoid the negative label that suits them. Your answer is actually straight to the point. Some people are this way, but most fail to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:45 PM
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Maybe they were taught love was something to be nourished and women would actually grow feelings over time if a man was dedicated enough to spend time and show her how they keep her through court and chivalry and most girls appreciate it. I could be wrong though and most women are not into it, y'all tell me. If I'm in the wrong here, I should agree that these "good manners" in dating should die off for once and all since they serve no purpose for both parties nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:31 PM
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Some men can have game but still just show up to see others score.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:20 PM
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None, it's all up to you. But if someone should refuse to give men they don't find attractive the time of the day (which we can assume it's a large slice of men, as usual for women, and it's also okay) it means they're just picking them by looks, and it comes off as shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:16 PM
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You just expect this to work huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:44 AM
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First thing, this is not the way men were meant to made flirt, It's a double-edged sword, you see, there's so many fuckboys around Tinder that women have come to be suspicious of everything a guy does in the very limited digital landscape they're interacting with, so the same behavior you criticizing here as beign too easily attached is getting encouraged by other women, and I don't mean an insignicant minority. So in order to set themselves apart from the hookups and also show a bit of intetion…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:16 PM
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No, we don't bruj
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:09 PM
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Only if she happens to be 6 feet or above
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:30 PM
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"I made up a rumor in 7th grade that a 7th grade girl was giving oral sex to a lot of different boys" Holy shiiiit nigga that anecdote no fuckkin wayyyy 💀💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:56 PM
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Bold of you to assume we even get dates with Beckies. Most of us weren't born 6 feet, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:23 PM
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Man, this sub is running out of scenarios, this is embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:33 AM
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Twitter is opinion porn, in the worst sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:10 AM
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This is pobably one of the worst takes I've seen here. Women aren't lucky to be born in a world where their worth is based on sex by a considerable amount of men, I bet you yourself wouldn't take on prostitution as a viable option for your career, it's a wonder that you had the time to type it all out but didn't come to the conclusion that this is just not an advantage in for almost any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:03 PM
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OP just spewing bullshit, harsh treatment doesn't come from looks but how much a manipulative partner think they can push someone's boundaries for their benefit while facing no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:01 AM
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I don't really care and men as a whole definitely shouldn't if they're not related to us at all, because they're obviously not in their right mind. We just find it weird that a staggering amount women keep seeing perfectly fine fruits hanging from the trees and decide to keep picking rotten fruits to eat instead, it's as if they are sabotaging themselves on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:36 PM
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Yes, they're indeed a problem, but you're not victims you were all just dumb enough to get played and don't admit, because everybody tell lies, hell if I were to write every lie and manipulation tactic women employed on me there would an entire bible about it, it happens. And it also happens that women get played because they do. And here we ask again: why women keep failing to realise men known to be players are gonna play them? Isn't that obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:39 PM
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That's every teen and young adult, women at this stage are not committing just as much, they're all just horny. Don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:22 PM
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And I still answered your question. But I think you couldn't handle my genuine response or maybe you expected another kind of reaction to the hypothesis. Still funny tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:59 PM
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It's morally wrong to say you're a victim of having consensual sex, in fact it doesn't make any sense all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:08 PM
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I don't care what my sister does, she's an adult and I'm not supposed to intervene in her life. But for real, a dude is saying he's FUCKING THIMOTHY CHAMALET? Is that what y'all are falling for? I would laugh my ass off more than anything. Is it really the kind of shit y'all are falling for? Tell me it isn't truth plsss HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAHHHAHAHYAHA NO WAAAYY BRUUUH if a nigga can pull you like that you deserve it, be smarter for Christ's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:03 PM
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Why she should be considered a victim for having consensual sex with a player?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:49 PM
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And you ended up sleeping with known players anyway. Enjoying yourself or not. Good jooob
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:38 PM
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That's good point and I'm not going to be a hypocrite about it: Yes, It's exactly kind of like this. I don't have a fucking clue why there's men that think like this, sex isn't that big of a deal to ruin someone else's life for, it disgusts me. But at the same time it's outrageous that you have women out there reinforcing their negative behavior by chasing convicted rapists, abusers and muderers to live their "dark romance" fantasy or some other fucked up shit I can't keep up with. You cannot te…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:19 PM
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There's no actual solution to this, men have been criming since the dawn of time, If you want male perpetrated violence to end for once just line up every XY chromossome human being against a wall and start a holocaust already. That's the most obvious one but not easiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:34 AM
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Ah yes, the shaming tactics and moral aggression always comes eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:38 PM
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There are men out there that do these romantic gestures and aren't expecting SEXSEXSEX but ask those same men how many times they failed to get reciprocity out of this (not meaning they should get btw), guarantee you that 80% just received mixed signals to get misled and used and the other 20% were tall, which is funny because men get thrashed all the time for not "doing the bare minimum" isn't it? Then why when they do and go further on showing it those same men are met with contempt from their…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:42 PM
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Obviously no man is romanticizing war and the way it's potrayed in media is just a fraction of the reason why, if anything we probably get out of the cinema thinking "glad, that was not me", meanwhile women are out there outright saying "why can't men be the same they way they are in the movies?" and friendzoning those romantic guys because in real life it is "corny" somehow. The difference is simple to understand and you just made a self defeating argument disguised as response to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:56 PM
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Is that hard to date as a man under 6ft nowadays? Shit is getting convoluted as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:16 PM
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