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Yeah 100% true, I’m a rugged big masculine dude and my dating life exploded once I hit 26, I only date women 26 and older now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:35 PM
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I personally think that humans naturally are drawn to people we perceive as similarly attractive. Sometimes I see a beautiful model but don’t even really appreciate my “attraction” to her because it feels pointless. Someone like her isn’t going to be attracted to my “plain” self, and I choose to present myself the way I do because it reflects how I feel inside. I don’t think people on this sub appreciate enough how volatile tastes are among different people. I don’t think conventionally attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:02 PM
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Eh, the vast majority of modern women are needy, insecure, parasitic consumers who rely on the attention of men for validation and meaning. I think women need men a lot more than men need women, sex aside. The new age bullshit about “protection” and “income” is so retarded, women aren’t dating for that shit, they’re dating cuz they’re needy AF and cry if they don’t have all the attention in the room for 5 minutes, just look at instagram for a few minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:34 PM
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I disagree. I’m a man, and I actively chose to wait for sex with the girl I’ve dated who I was the most infatuated with. All my relationships that were built on sex crashed and burned, I learned from that. There’s lots of good logical reasons not to have sex right away, and your post reads like you’re too inexperienced to appreciate those reasons and understand the complexity of real life sexual and emotional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:52 PM
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I agree for the most part, and I’ve also been to therapy, kinda for option 3 (lmao). Long time ago. Haven’t been since. No one is denying there’s lots of work to be done to really get better, but I think therapy can be good for making sense of what your true motivation and priorities are.. and how to approach dating/improving with that in mind. Through my red pill journey I’ve found myself improving and yet not necessarily always being “happier” as a result, largely because I let the goalposts c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:43 AM
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“Casual” sex doesn’t exist. Someone always catches feelings. There’s always emotions involved, both are always making sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:52 AM
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Not “shitty”, but not worth all the complications from setting up another date and/or leading a girl on. Contrary to internet belief casual encounter doesn’t necessarily mean u call her and say “let’s fuck” and she promptly comes over and leaves right after no questions asked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:16 AM
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Nah, it happens. Often times a girl is worth putting up with until you get to have sex. Then u realize that’s all you were after and promptly bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:14 AM
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Getting married before 25 for both men and women seems pretty retarded to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:51 AM
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😬😬 sounds like we are on pretty dramatically different pages as far as what we want in life, but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:29 PM
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Eh, I wouldn’t say that’s the case in a college setting, specifically fraternities and bro cultures. I recognize this is a bit on the extreme end of the spectrum, but guys absolutely look down on the one dude who gets wifed up freshman year of college when there are 4 years of potential sexual debauchery they’re willingly sacrificing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:16 PM
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^ Tell me you don’t understand the post without saying you don’t understand the post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:13 PM
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It’s interesting to hear opinions from someone who can’t quite relate because it’s just so instinctual and imbedded for me. To clarify, think of it like this. The contentment comes from the validation of: several different women are comfortable enough and/or sexually attracted enough to you that they would choose to have sex irregardless of any future potential relationship. It’s particularly validating when it’s a ONS because the emotions are strongest, most exciting and the smallest amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:53 PM
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There’s a reason “Chad” fucks tons of girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:30 PM
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I don’t think women perceive the male hierarchical structure the same way we men do. To some degree, I think more mature men get, the less they care about it. But the reality is Hemsworth is somewhat of a sex symbol in our culture, and that implies women are attracted to him, and that makes him significantly more admirable to the vast majority of people, particularly men. It’s not his acting or his looks, men look up to him because women are attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:14 PM
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Why care about his looks independent of his success/ability to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:29 PM
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Really like this comment. And I would agree. I think the reason I made this post, in fact, is because I’ve recently come to the same conclusion. I no longer really care how many women I sleep or have slept with, and whether or not society instilled that belief in me, it isn’t one I’m choosing to base my self worth on any longer. What I do end up deciding is worth measuring against, is still in the air, and I agree that therapy would probably help me reach an answer more quickly. As I gravitate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:01 PM
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Reflecting on some of these comments, I think I had this opinion more in my early 20s and it has since kind of gone away. I don’t know if that just happened to coincide with me “getting it out of my system” so to speak. But I started to feel pretty confident when I hit 15ish. Before 10 I always felt like I needed more experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:53 PM
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I think you’re taking what I say out of context. Regardless, my point still stands. People respect a dude more if he’s married to a model vs a fat ugly girl. Point is, success with women is judged in society, whether we try to or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:51 PM
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Men in society are valued based on their success with women. Do you think everyone here talks about Chris hemsworth and Leo DiCaprio like they’re some ideal being because of their acting? No. It’s because of their success with women. Age nor position in life doesn’t really take away from the fact that overarching concept exists in society. Successful with women = better, more respectable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:49 PM
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Maybe I’m biased cuz I grew up as an athlete and in a fraternity, so more “macho” environments, but it’s definitely shocking to me that you don’t relate. Obviously not with family or job interview, but 90% of my male friends would be impressed and respect me more if they know I’m hooking up with an attractive girl, or if they watch me bring home someone from a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:40 PM
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Neither is the subject of the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:51 PM
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It’s not “common”. Holy shit lol. Y’all are living in this fake exaggerated incel dystopia. I’ve literally never met a girl who had anything like this ever to her by some random dude on a dating app or some dude who followed her on social media. It happens in real life though. For the record, I’ve been stalked, abused and doxxed in real relationships, and by real exes. This idea that random men are following strangers and harassing them for not reciprocating interest is such an incel attention g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:41 PM
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It’s at least reassuring to know she wouldn’t have even bothered playing the game if she didn’t find me somewhat attractive. Oh women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:28 PM
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That’s not what a nice guy is lol. Again, you’re talking in incel echo chamber terms, unlike OP. A nice guy is someone who is blue pilled. Strongly and genuinely believes women don’t care about strength, masculinity, assertiveness, dominance, thinks that women will respond to soft, weak, gentle, kind, and submissive men. Liberals tell men to be more agreeable, better listeners, etc. conservatives tell men to buy women flowers, pay for their dates, etc. Let’s talk about real issues here and not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:50 PM
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All these pages you’re talking about are dating app or texting app situations. Not long drawn out friendships like the ones OP describes. Maybe an exception are, but the rule is that “nice guys” don’t react negatively in a vast majority of cases. They just quietly resent or detach themselves from the awkwardness of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:24 PM
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This is it lol. One time at a party I hit it off with a mutual friend and asked her # that night. Next day texted her a bit then asked if she was busy that week. She didn’t respond. Never thought about her again. Literally 9 months later, my friend tells me she overheard this same girl telling someone that I was “texting her to watch a movie, asking “wyd” late at night, kept trying to make plans to hang out”. Kinda funny to me. I mean she was a hot girl that probably gets ton of male attention. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:07 PM
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Men sending a few dumb angry messages in response to a rejection on a dating app =/= “violent retaliation” Besides, that’s a completely different situation than the OP is describing. We’re talking about men in real life who crush on their friends for months. No one is suddenly going violent when they realize they’re friendzoned, nor are these situations the origin of the messages you’re referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:57 PM
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This reads like someone observing only incel echo chambers and not real life lol. 99% of Men don’t get violent or aggressive, some may quietly resent the woman from then on, more out of ego preservation than anything, but saying these guys “often” advocate for violent retaliation is NOT reality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:55 PM
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Being the super jacked roided out fitness nut has done more for my success with women than ANY amount of fashion, grooming, haircut, “personality” (cringe) or money/status ever possibly could have or already has. Bro. Do you go to bars? Look around and find the most jacked dude there. Shit, you probably won’t even have to really “look around”. He’s probably confident, smiling, laughing. Commanding his presence be known. Men around him are probably ‘miring, instant social proof and a total domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:55 AM
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Trust me homie at 22 you don’t know haha. I have no clue about most things and I’m 27. But I do know women like muscles and admire fit, muscular men. And I disagree with your post completely. But maybe it’s because I generally like fit girls. Still tho, every woman I’ve been with has sexualized my muscles, and the bigger I get the more I notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:44 AM
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Such blue pilled answers in here lmao, a good man is one who others are inspired by and look up to for guidance and direction. A leader. A rock. You can do more to make people feel good about themselves by being that person vs “sacrificing for those less fortunate than you” and “protecting the weak”. That’s what delusional betas think makes a good man lol. Good men don’t waste time helping those who can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:57 PM
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Lol I was mostly joking, besides, that has nothing to do with my argument. Just pointing out the irony that even despite my rather strong masculine bias I still think the idea women can just make an OF and be set for life is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:30 PM
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They always have been OK with it, now they’re just having to answer for it due to social media and the internet. And the link you posted explains the strategy they’re using to answer for it. It precisely proves my point: the powerful don’t want these people in their circles. And will keep them out at all costs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:00 PM
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What? That’s a completely different argument. Regardless, the powerful will always happily take money from idiots at the expense of our culture’s morality at large. Doesn’t necessarily mean these people see it as “right” or would ever associate with the whores, just means they’ll let the rest of society shoot themselves in the foot for a few bucks. Can you blame them? I’d do the same. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:42 PM
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Go outside bro. Ex OF whores aren’t getting hired to be lawyers, politicians and business leaders lmao. Just cuz some Vox article cries about how it’s wrong doesn’t mean companies are listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:36 PM
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Nah, good men will always run society and good men will always despise whores. This isn’t changing no matter how hard the vocal left tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:32 PM
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You’re vastly overestimating how successful the average girl on OF is. $160 a month is average. Suck a Dick per weekend and you’re there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:29 PM
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Lol dude, it’s even worse honestly, if the ethics of sex work and personal fulfillment mean literally nothing to you, then you were equally as free to suck dicks as a man for the next 12 years and attempt to retire on those earnings. My point is it’s absolutely ridiculous to think that if you were a woman you could just magically be content with degrading yourself for 12 years, and successful enough at it to retire by 30. I hate women as much as the next guy but come on bro that’s just complete …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:21 PM
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Most deluded answer I’ve literally ever seen lol. Basically like saying at 18M you would’ve become a twitch streamer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:45 PM
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What “they” as in woman are asking of men? Or what “they” the incels are asking of women? Cuz I agree in both ways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:21 AM
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Most bars tend to skew toward attractive guys who interact well with the opposite sex. So no, I wouldn’t say I’m “always the hottest guy in the bar”. I can count on at least a handful of women approaching me on any given night out. Most Every girl I date tells me pretty early on that I’m “very attractive” or some statement to that effect. And that didn’t always used to happen until I really hit my stride at 26ish with fitness, grooming, fashion, and confidence. I mean, I’ve always found it fairl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:00 AM
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100% this, I’m a 6-6-6 man. I consider myself an 8, and the reality is I’m not attracted to 5s and 6s. And I largely settle for 7s. For the same reason men who are 5s or 6s settle for 3-5s. I have the same right to be upset about it. I think people are naturally drawn to who they feel are equally attractive to them. On top of that, all the pressure I, my family, my friends, put on me to be dating and have a crazy active sex life is exhausting and demeaning. I got my heart broken by a solid 6 who…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:47 PM
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