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Thanks for shedding light.
/r/MGTOW11/07/19 12:45 AM
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I don’t talk with them, I ignore them.
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 12:07 AM
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That’s a big pill to swallow. It’s just best for me, for us, to stay the F away.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:37 PM
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My mind has flirted with the idea of her cheating before. Again, I wasn’t sure if she was content with where she was in pursuing her head count before settling down, which is what triggered this recurring notion. With the way things went, there must’ve been some contact previously with her ex. I just wrote it off to her not being over him yet, which I still believe is valid. It hurts to realize this, and I was foolish enough to let it slide when she straight-up vocalized being a feminist to a te…
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:33 PM
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I always love analyzing how the events might have transpired had the roles been reversed. My name and reputation would be slandered and ruined across all platforms and publicly.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:17 PM
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I certainly will, sir.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:10 PM
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It does make me wonder how long she’s been preparing for this. Could it have been the extent of the 2.5 months I’d been seeing her and she just kept putting it off out of fear of hurting me? Or was it just this past week? I wish I knew.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:08 PM
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You’re exactly right. I haven’t swallowed the red pill yet but by god with this big glass of harsh reality I’m going to start the process. Thank you for your input.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:06 PM
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It does make one wonder... after all, it was just her word she hadn’t seen him since, however weighted with the truth that statement was.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:05 PM
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Thank you for your invaluable input.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:03 PM
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Okay, that last bit with the microbiology encyclopedia made me laugh, man!! Thank you for that. We had a convo a while back where I actually voiced a concern of similarity to your “effing until she’s ready to settle down” remark. We were talking about us moving forward, and I actually asked her if she was satisfied where she was in her dating life. Like, are you content being with me, a guy who is in it for the long term? I asked if she was satisfied with how much she’s already experienced in he…
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 04:01 PM
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That is so Fd up. There really are no morals in contemporary relationships. I think it’s big in part due to social media. But thinking about going through her phone... she let me do that often this past weekend. And by that I mean she gave me her phone password to access her Spotify to change songs on a road trip we took. Of course I didn’t go through anything else, but it does make one wonder.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:55 PM
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Lesson learned, and the hard way. There’s no way I will let this happen again. I’m going to be more vigilant in future relationships and take things for what they really are; I’m going to do my best to remove any emotional blinders in those moments.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:42 PM
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I just never would’ve guessed if she truly was cheating. She told me in a past, deep convo how we have exclusivity that she holds so dearly. But I know people lie, despite saying anything to not make it sound like it.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:39 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that, I really am. I’m happy you know the truth and have moved on. Crying might not help one individual, but it truly has helped me with grieving. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:35 PM
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Emotion blinded me. Thanks for the input.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:34 PM
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I appreciate your kind words. Thank you. I’m disheartened and emotionally exhausted, but this thread has helped me see things for what they really are.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:33 PM
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Thanks for the support. And while his advice is rather harsh, I agree with it.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:30 PM
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Wow, monkey branching not for success but for looks, I take it?
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:29 PM
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That was my Achilles heel, investing too much too soon. It was my first relationship 3 years after my last long-term relationship, so there was vigor and hopefulness intertwined throughout. That’s why I jumped with both feet forward. Also, another great analogy. Truly, they are helpful. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:27 PM
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I do. And I know now. Thanks for the input.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:24 PM
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I have been regularly for the past 7 years. But now my drive possesses a new shine. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:23 PM
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These analogies are helpful; they’re helping me see things for how they probably really are. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:13 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that, I can empathize. We can only take this as a lesson and move on, focusing on bettering ourselves.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:12 PM
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That’s my fear. And it stems from the fact that she always talked about how masturbation’s nice, but there’s nothing like “that good dick” to her friends (I witnessed this being said). Red flag. I know I shouldn’t judge by someone’s past, but now I’m suspicious the past is going to resurface. Thanks for your words.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:11 PM
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I will do my best. I appreciate your reply and support.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:08 PM
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Her endings things so abruptly after all the fun we’ve had together is why I care so much. She left me in the dust to find herself. I just need to get those toxic “what if” notions out of my head and move the F on.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:06 PM
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Trust me, it’s so much more than just the sex. I really cherished her character and the plethora of similarities we had. We made a ton of great memories, too, which is why it hurt so much and why I cried. I won’t apologize for displaying a natural method of grieving. When she finished on the phone, I told her I respect her greatly for telling me the truth because I know that seldom happens... it’s usually a ghosting. I’m very appreciative of her telling me the truth.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:04 PM
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My intention wasn’t to get hurt, but unfortunately it happened. I’m going to try my best to move on.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 02:59 PM
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It’s so hard, as you know I’m sure. I don’t want her out of my life, but she’s already made it clear to me and I have to see that for what it is and accept it. Thanks for your input.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 02:55 PM
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This is what I’m worried about. Prior to me, and after her last relationship, she did a lot of partying and exploring, as she explained to me. I’m quite aware what this translates to... now is she going to actually take the time to fill this hole or is she going to literally get her holes filled in the meantime?
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 02:53 PM
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That is the question! Thanks for commenting.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 02:50 AM
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Great points. Thank you for shedding light on this.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 02:49 AM
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Thank you, I had no idea this subreddit existed.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 07:04 PM
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