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You’re misunderstanding me, I’m saying numbers that lead to a close, not just getting a number. In person you have 10x more tools for attraction than on a dating app. But believe whatever you want
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:09 PM
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I only go out like 2x per month and probably get a number which leads to sex about 1/3 times. I’m sorry but going out every day to close 12 times per year is abysmal
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:35 PM
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It sounds like the most successful guy you know doesn’t have much game
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:27 PM
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You’re exactly right, this sub has truly had an influx of shit advice lately
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:23 PM
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It’s a place to discuss seduction and casual sex is a huge part of that. Not every post has to be an instruction manual or asking for advice, OP’s experience is interesting and relatable to many here
/r/seduction16/09/24 02:52 PM
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A lot of people who come here are just down on themselves and need advice to improve. And most people can improve. You’re free to give up on that but trying to make other people do so is just bitter
/r/seduction13/09/24 02:04 AM
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I’m sorry to hear things have been so shitty for you man.
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:52 AM
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Ah another incel who comes here to actively tell people to not even try bettering themselves
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:43 AM
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Following advice from this sub helped me a lot. But 99% of it can be summed up as: don’t be needy, don’t be boring, and don’t put the pussy on a pedestal
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:12 PM
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Jack Sparrow
/r/seduction11/09/24 10:13 PM
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This sounds like a little kid’s idea of what is cool
/r/seduction09/09/24 05:53 PM
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The whole post is all over the place with “omg I’m so random and unique” energy. Dude says he’s so feminine and “death before dishonor is not in my vocabulary” but then he yells at people and thinks commanding respect is a top priority? Lol
/r/seduction09/09/24 05:49 PM
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They don’t fuck with me, they are the greatest form of evidence that demonstrates my progress.
/r/seduction07/09/24 05:36 PM
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They are being honest in the sense that most want a long term fwb, not a one night stand. ONS usually suck. It takes time and multiple encounters to learn how the other person likes it and vice versa. Saying “no one night stands” doesn’t mean “no casual sex”
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:42 PM
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There’s also a self-selecting bias, people in cities are more likely to have liberal views of sex
/r/seduction05/09/24 03:39 PM
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Because most of the time she is not going out with a guy just for free drinks. Getting drunk at home is cheap and doesn’t require being around someone you don’t like. Girls trying to take advantage of guys look for a free dinner, not one cocktail. If that guy never gets kissed after drinks he’s probably not acting attractive enough on the date
/r/seduction04/09/24 12:06 PM
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Unfortunately, it’s a pretty nebulous concept and it gets misused a lot. I think the best way to describe it is standing strong for what you believe in while also staying composed. You’re cool, collected, and sure of yourself. You’re acting from deep rooted values not making flippant decisions. If someone disagrees or challenges you, you don’t freak out on them, but you also don’t compromise yourself in an attempt to please others. In a seduction context this could look like a woman roasting you…
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:49 PM
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Are you sure you’re being genuine? Genuine would mean demonstrating a clear sexual interest to these women, not trying to be a nice friendly guy.
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:32 PM
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There’s a self-selecting bias on a show like that, only people who need help are gonna call in. However data does suggest a trend of young men struggling to form relationships
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:38 PM
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Jesus told me we should smash
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:27 PM
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I don’t think their comment was meant to be negative, just a reminder that romance still matters in a LTR!
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:05 PM
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Well what did you think about the song?
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:49 PM
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For sure, I’ve done it with my cat in a cheeky way. Like “come over, (pet) wants to see you again” haha
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:25 PM
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I think you are absolutely right about how dogs restrict your freedom. But I don’t think it will make any difference in bringing women home, unless it makes OP more comfortable asking. If they want you, they’re gonna go either way
/r/seduction25/07/24 03:52 PM
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Why not just plan a date somewhere with some nice flowers? Near a garden or whatever? Because for real bro, showing up with flowers feels like a lot for a first date, we all go through this with the ones we like a lot, but you gotta keep that shit in check and remember what works!
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:48 PM
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She sounds like way too much trouble imo. But it's up to you. I would focus on treating her like the other girls you described. You should be the one going hot/cold not her
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:42 PM
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“Live a balanced life” is probably the best overall advice for most men. We tend to take things to extremes
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:54 PM
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The women they attract on apps are often far more attractive than those they would attract in person What makes you say that? Just curious because my experience is the exact opposite. Online attraction is mostly based on looks, but in person you can leverage both looks and personality
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:12 PM
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Photofeeler helped me a lot, maybe give it a go. I was surprised when I saw which pics scored highest, but using them definitely increased my success
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:14 PM
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What worked for me is to start with apps, going on dates to practice in-person skills in a low risk environment. That taught me how to flirt, so now I can meet higher quality chicks in person
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:07 PM
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I agree desperation is unattractive, but damn I don’t get losing respect for someone over that, especially when almost all women on apps looking for sex still claim “relationship” due to stigma
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:53 PM
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Why would you lose respect for someone because they wanted to sext with you?
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:24 PM
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Research has shown over and over that men prioritize physical traits more than woman. Posts like these are just projection
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:15 PM
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Man, personally I can't stand this kind of interaction. Probably why I suck at making friends though
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:47 PM
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What exactly is un-masculine about saying I love you?
/r/seduction19/06/24 04:31 PM
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Agreed on this, better to escalate throughout but not kiss than to go from zero escalation to forced kiss
/r/seduction03/06/24 03:42 PM
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Just self improvement one day at a time homie. It’s a gradual process for all of us, but adds up to huge changes
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:53 PM
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For dating apps, typically after 5-7 messages I’m asking her out. Otherwise the momentum dies. Don’t worry so much about how long it takes them to respond, maybe like me they turn off notifications and check the app when they feel like it
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:10 PM
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You said it feels like your dating life is on standby. My point is that’s an illusion, just a self-imposed restriction caused by your insecurity around status.
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:36 PM
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Be polarizing. Tease but don’t be mean. Say something unexpected. But most of all, ask her out instead of messaging a lot.
/r/seduction30/05/24 06:31 PM
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It’s more of a respect thing than a feelings thing You gotta own your feelings bro. The reason being disrespected sucks is because it feels bad. You even said in your post it pissed you off.
/r/seduction30/05/24 06:23 PM
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Look at it this way. There are many things that tend to be attractive, including… - money - social proof - physique - appearance - confidence - humor But you absolutely don’t need them all. Broke funny guys get laid. Rich boring guys get laid. Skinnyfat CEOs and roided up dropouts get laid. Yes, you’re being insecure by focusing on your weakness rather than your strengths.
/r/seduction30/05/24 06:11 PM
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Inviting her back to your place.
/r/seduction29/05/24 02:29 AM
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Imo it’s a sign of a flake but worth pursuing anyway, like you said, maximize the odds
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:36 AM
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