ILookLikeADeer Archive

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1	Confidence and consent A simple conversation before you even start always works. Ask her what she's into, what she's NOT into; talking about it before starting can even work as a sort of foreplay.	/r/seduction	01/08/19 09:00 AM
19	How to tell if your eye contact is creeping a girl out? (Girl here) Smile a little when you make eye contact. When guys keep glancing over with no facial expression at all, I have no idea why their looking at me. Are they being creepy? Are they trying to flirt? Is there something on my face? Am I being the creepy one? My rule is to make eye contact once, look away, then make eye contact a second time and throw in a little smile to show you're friendly and interested. Quality over quantity.	/r/seduction	01/08/19 08:58 AM
15	Casual sex offer, would you take it? If you want to do it, do it. If you don't feel that attracted to her (physically and personality), then don't do it if you don't want to. You're always going to be scared for the first time regardless of who it's with; in fact, you'll be even more scared doing it with someone you REALLY like rather than someone who you only kinda like. However, don't do it purely for the reason to get experience and lose your virginity because that's a terrible reason to ever have sex with anyone; but if you lik…	/r/seduction	30/07/19 07:14 PM
3	What are your seduction methods? Watch this video: https://www.facebook.com/e4madeinchelsea/videos/715871658767822/ Don't pay too much attention to the guy and blonde girl, but listen to what the 'dating expert' has to say about eye contact and the 'upside down triangle' - it's powerful. (Only link I could find was a facebook one). Make sure your eye contact with a girl is strong from the start and read her physical cues. If she returns your gaze, congratulations; you're in! Keep it up while chatting to her and eventually, if t…	/r/seduction	15/07/19 02:02 PM
3	What are your seduction methods? You can absolutely feel intensity through eye contact! Eye contact is the absolute best dating tool for me, you can 100% tell through strong eye contact if the chemistry is there or not and if you can take things a little closer I can actually tell from good eye contact if a guy wants to kiss me or not, its a powerful little trick	/r/seduction	15/07/19 01:30 PM
5	What are your seduction methods? Not a guy but I find strong eye contact gets me everywhere, every time.	/r/seduction	15/07/19 12:09 PM
3	Did an Approach Today (plus thoughts) I always find the best way to approach a group is to reference something they're all doing, like if they're standing in line waiting for a fair attraction/stall, or if they're holding food ("hey that looks good, where did you guys get that?" - just cheap and easy ways to start up a conversation. Its better to open to the whole group first and then zone in on the person you're interested, because then that says you're open, friendly, and her friends are more likely to approve too. Ive had guys ap…	/r/seduction	15/07/19 08:28 AM
2	This Can't Be So... (Girl here) It seems to me like you're focussing too much on methods and science. That isn't what attraction is about. Theres raw, animal chemistry that plays a big part in attraction, and its down to you and the person you're with to pick up on those chemical cues; you can't force or change them. It sounds to me like you need to take a step back when you're with her and just be in the moment (excuse the cliche) and stop thinking so hard. Touch her because you want to touch her and she wants you…	/r/seduction	15/07/19 08:18 AM
3	Did an Approach Today (plus thoughts) (20F here) My advice would be to not shake hands with her, its a little odd; its not a business meeting! Other than that I think you did the right thing by reading her cues and walking away, but next time chat a little to the friend too! Nervousness is expected; I get nervous even when I'm the one being approached and not the one doing the approaching. For this reason, don't be put off by approaching groups of girls, it might actually work in your favour as girls like me who get nervous when a g…	/r/seduction	15/07/19 07:57 AM