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One way, if you're in a crowded environment trying to go somewhere, is to grab her hand and lead her through the crowd. It will reinforce that take charge attitude.
/r/seduction25/09/15 03:50 PM
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well said.
/r/seduction25/09/15 03:22 PM
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Great attitude bud!
/r/seduction04/09/15 12:50 AM
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I can relate.
/r/seduction26/08/15 12:39 PM
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This has been my experience as well.
/r/seduction21/08/15 01:34 PM
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This is the EXACT situation i went through buddy. I just got out of this a couple days ago actually. We continually fought because i wanted a relationship (and we pretty much had one) she just wouldn't admit it to herself. (sound familiar?) My advice to you from my own experience, is to let it go man. As much as it hurts to hear, its not going to work out. Shes going to emotionally use you. If you decide to stay, realise that you'll continually go down this rabbit hole with your needs not being …
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:33 PM
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Loved your post. Especially about taking time to recover. I'm going through the same situation as OP, but this end of a relationship is different. Usually i'd have another couple girls as back up but i don't want that with where i am right now. I want to "recover" and feel/work through this pain instead of going out and getting hammered/bringing home a new girl. I'll be fine, and my life is actually quite well right now but i've definitely learned from this experience.
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:28 PM
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Workout, find a personal style, find a good hair style, figure out what facial hair looks best on you No, nobody wants a pushover
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:04 PM
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First off, get this notion of you being only logical out of your mind. You're acting emotional right now, you have emotions, you just have to figure when to be driven by emotion and when to be driven by logic. That is emotional intelligence. If you're a programmer then you obviously have the intellectual capacity to study women and their behavior. The more you start to study them and how they act the more you will be able to adjust your behavior when interacting with them. So no, you are not doo…
/r/seduction27/07/15 01:57 PM
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Yeah definitely. It's a million times better to say something along the lines of "I don't usually do this, but I just had to come up to you and tell you how great that dress compliments your eyes" than to say "hey sexy mmm"
/r/seduction15/07/15 05:17 PM
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Hot girls literally get told that they're pretty on a consistent basis, so when someone comes up to them and tells them how pretty they are, its something they've heard a thousand times before and they weed out those guys. Its better to start a random conversation and go from there.
/r/seduction14/07/15 08:55 PM
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Exactly. She's either going to be interested or turned off and either way it shouldn't affect you. I will say it's tons more interesting than the generic "I work for xyz corporation"
/r/seduction14/06/15 05:56 PM
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I think the texting part is just normal. I've had a lot of text convos that just seem to fizzle out. The language barrier is probably the biggest hindrance for you man. I was doing game on a Finnish girl once and trying to get past the language barrier was like pulling teeth. Maybe try to play some push pull when you get their number. Something along the lines of "give me your number and maybe I'll text you ;)" Other than that, cultures are different and I'm not going to pretend like I know Asia…
/r/seduction02/06/15 04:13 AM
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How is your texting game? Do you flirt a lot with them, or is the conversation stale at times?
/r/seduction02/06/15 03:41 AM
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Never thought about an improv class! Thanks for the idea!
/r/seduction02/06/15 03:20 AM
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Great job on going after that kiss, it's liberating when you get out of your comfort zone and that's where self improvement happens One thing I'm noticing is you're focusing too much on what you're doing wrong. I know it can be nerve wracking being on a date with a girl, especially when you're inexperienced but you've gotta relax and just go with the flow. When you worry about the situation, she will notice and you lose that connection with her. I would suggest realizing that as long as you keep…
/r/seduction02/06/15 03:17 AM
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I said my major isn't interesting to most people. That doesn't mean I don't find it interesting. Start talking to a girl about layers and tcp/ip or that program you made and watch how fast their eyes glaze over and they'll quickly change subjects. It's not going to matter how passionately I speak about it. So I have to find other things to talk about which is fine, I just have to get more creative.
/r/seduction15/04/15 10:53 AM
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Dude I feel you. I work full time and go to school full time so my schedule is literally packed. My major isn't exactly interesting to most people (IT) You just gotta do the best you can right now man, and know that once you're schedule opens up you'll be a more interesting person because you'll have time to pursue your hobbies. I know that's the case for me at least.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:43 AM
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I love what you've said in this post! You're a very intrinsically motivated individual, and you'll go far. As to your questions, this is what I would suggest which is only my opinion cause I'm on this journey as well. Toxic relationships - you know to cut them out, but what I have done in the past is phase out my relationships with toxic people. Maybe it's my less confrontational nature (working on it!) but I don't believe in burning bridges. I gradually hangout/talk with these toxic people less…
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:47 PM
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Fear of failure is paralyzing. You have to just escalate
/r/seduction16/02/15 03:25 PM
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At the end of the day this is what it's all about. Am I a pua? Hell no, but I get girls because this is how I treat them.
/r/seduction16/02/15 03:23 PM
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Very well said.
/r/seduction15/02/15 12:35 PM
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Accept that your friendship with her is going to stay just that - a friendship. She isn't interested In you and you not watching porn isn't going to change that. I'm sorry buddy, I don't mean to give you the bad news but you'd be better off talking to other girls. Remember not to get attached to any one girl (maybe after you actually begin an intimate relationship then yeah get a little bit more attached)
/r/seduction15/02/15 12:32 PM
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Tough to say man. Sounds like you have your head on straight (my comment was more directed at seeing what kind of reaction I got) Are you being mindful about each girl? Getting really interested in them? Sometimes I think luck has a big part to play in it as well
/r/seduction14/02/15 03:09 AM
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Girls might be picking up on how desperate you are
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:29 AM
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I would never directly ask a girl, I think it's one of those things best done subtly
/r/seduction04/02/15 04:44 AM
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Good job OP, originally I thought the same as some of these other posters; that you were just showing off but then I thought of what you were really trying to say. You learned your game. You don't have to be some pua to get girls, you really just have to be confident in yourself and it looks like you found it. Congrats!
/r/seduction04/02/15 04:42 AM
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Can confirm was one out of 3 guys in a class of 27 people
/r/seduction26/09/14 04:51 PM
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