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I can't lie, it sounds cult-like. I'm always wary of terms like this.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 12:15 AM
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It's fairly sensible in theory. Just a shame that the concept is sometimes so insanely abused.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/16 03:36 AM
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No need to be sarcastic. I'm pretty sure that the person above you isn't saying what he did was okay, just that they don't feel it's nearly as bad as "actual rape". You don't have to agree, but there's no reason to get upset.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 06:19 PM
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On abortion though, I feel like it's hard to determine when a human gets human rights. Yeah, abortion is such a difficult one to tackle. The biggest issue I think is that really, there probably is no absolute answer. In the end we're going to have to find a middle ground that both sides agree with. It is a difficult conversation, but honestly, you at least are open to discussing it in a civil manner with people who disagree with you. The same can't be said of many others like some of the mods fo…
/r/MensRights14/06/16 05:47 PM
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So you agree with me that such a promise should be legally enforcable? Op. Sorry, I misunderstood somewhat. No, I wouldn't agree with that being legally enforceable. I can see why you think it should be, but I just can't reconcile that with the fact that invariably you would end up with situations where a woman changes her mind after the fact, and she is now being legally forced not to have an abortion. Unless of course you're suggesting that she could have an abortion, but then she would potent…
/r/MensRights14/06/16 05:42 PM
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This is a mostly reasonable argument I think. For someone in that category, I think its fair for them to ask a potential sexual partner to make the make a good faith effort to see the birth and raising of the child through. I think its fair for a women to ask that of a man and for a man to ask that of a women. Especially as long it is a request. No one should be able to demand something of another's body. Now, the risk with this approach is that people can be manipulated, via guilt or something …
/r/MensRights14/06/16 04:48 PM
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I agree with this. It's where I hope we end up one day, but until then I think the decision has to be left firmly in the hands of women because in the end it's their body and their physical risks. The emotional risk us men have is equally shared by the women so it's mostly equal on that footing.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 04:33 PM
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So would you argue now that if a woman wanted to have an abortion, she should be stopped if the father wants to have the child?
/r/MensRights14/06/16 04:08 PM
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To be honest mate, I would argue against you on this one too. I think men should be able to opt out of parenthood so that they aren't financially trapped. But as for having equal "ownership" of an unborn child, I think it's fair as it is. You have to understand, in a perfect world both the man and the woman would have an equal say in whether or not the child should be carried to term. But the world isn't perfect. There's a imbalance inherent to the situation. Women have far more risks and drawba…
/r/MensRights14/06/16 04:07 PM
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the identity of the victim is hidden. True, I forgot about that. But I was more referring to the effect that has on the people around the victim. When everyone around you makes a big deal of something and they treat you like a victim, it reinforces that mindset regardless of whether or not it was true beforehand. This happens with more than just victims of this kind of thing. I recall one of my uncles died, he was rather close to me in fact. One of my favorites. But I've never been one to get sa…
/r/MensRights02/06/16 10:39 AM
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To be fair, he's not saying that none of that can possibly happen, I think he's saying does it always. be afraid of women for the rest of his life (happened) That doesn't always follow. developing anykind of sexual disorder (has also happened) That doesn't always follow. feeling shame and feeling abused for the rest of his life (happens a lot in those cases) You're right that that happens a lot in these cases, but of course the cases you're referring to are also cases that end up going through m…
/r/MensRights02/06/16 10:08 AM
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I hate it so much when people insist that it's rape culture to suggest preventative measures. Like, I can understand if you're saying "Don't go out late at night" to someone who has just been raped, but who the fuck does that? Whenever I say that, I'm always talking to other people, like my little sister, or her friends or women I know. They haven't been raped yet (nor are they likely to be), and it would benefit them to be aware of this stuff. Especially because apparently (As evidenced by the …
/r/MensRights24/04/16 04:24 PM
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Assuming the point is "it's not fair" then it's still pretty valid. Logically, it doesn't completely follow as a comparison, but the overall point is quite valid I think. Man and Woman have sex. Both consent to sex, in having sex they accept the POSSIBILITY of pregnancy. Woman gets pregnant. Woman has two options, carry the child to term, or abort. Man has no options. Wait and see what the woman chooses. I understand that they face different risks here. But they came into the situation with an u…
/r/MensRights07/03/16 12:07 PM
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I'd like to hope that he isn't suggesting that they're the same, but that the situation as whole disadvantages the man. It's a situation which cannot by definition be called fair. The repercussions and autonomy are all in women's favor.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 12:03 PM
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I appreciate that. I should have explained myself better. But when I say warped I mean that they themselves do in fact stress about what they're going to do about their poor grades. They ALL apply for university, and they ALL were disappointed by the grades they achieved. It pains me to see them grieving terrible grades, but at the same time it infuriates me that they didn't even try in the first place. They don't revise to any great extent (I see their messages on Facebook when they go party), …
/r/MensRights09/08/15 05:06 PM
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Do you think there could be a fix? Or a better system?
/r/MensRights09/08/15 03:09 PM
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What about once the research is actually out and released? When people like you see it, you can then spot poor methods, quality and depth right? Or can other researchers straight up greenlight horrible research and forge false results that were not obtained using the claimed methods?
/r/MensRights09/08/15 02:50 PM
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Damn. I did not know any of that. I'll find that youtube series so that I can get better educated on that. So would you say the system needs to change? It shouldn't be so easy to break the system. Are there any authorities above the researchers?
/r/MensRights09/08/15 02:36 PM
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Surely there's at least ONE researcher without a significant bias? Regardless, in the end the researcher can do whatever they want, it won't overcome scrutiny of their method or their results... I hope.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 02:14 PM
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I think it's worth taking a look to see if there is a reason for it, but people need to be willing to accept whatever conclusion we find, and unfortunately I highly doubt anyone would be willing to accept that girl could be on average inherently less talented at some aspect of intelligence.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 02:07 PM
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Damn. Sucks that you were actively sabotaged by some teachers. Good to hear that disappeared later on though. I do agree that teachers need to be better when it comes to treating students equally. Its too bad that becoming a teacher isn't a particularly difficult thing to do. There is far more supply that there is demand in most 1st World countries, which results in a greater number of poorer teachers who have blatant weaknesses such as gender bias.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 12:33 PM
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That very well could be it. I don't really know. Do you have any experience with this kind of thing? Or is this just critical analysis based on experiences?
/r/MensRights09/08/15 12:24 PM
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As someone who just finished school I've seen and been around far too many guys who are not unintelligent, but have such a warped attitude towards school and education that they never really commit themselves, and are all too focused on other less important things. One of the biggest things I've seen myself is that girls are typically far more organized and disciplined when crunch time arrives, and I can't bring myself to believe that its because they're inherently significantly more organized. …
/r/MensRights09/08/15 11:42 AM
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I'd like to think that this campaign wasn't thought up by MRA's, because the one thing the article does get right is that it's a poor campaign. The slogan is silly, the 'issues' it puts forward are of the smallest possible issues that men have in society and they make MRA's look petty. But more than that I think it's sad that the author of the article takes so much glee from mocking a movement that is theoretically looking for the same thing as feminism. Why can't we all just get along?
/r/MensRights29/06/15 09:15 PM
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Yeah, if the police had intervened whilst he was still defending himself from the initial attack then I'd be all for him not even getting reprimanded, but she had already backed off when he went after her. Not the best decision on his part.
/r/MensRights28/06/15 12:29 PM
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To be fair, I don't think the cops saw her attacking him. They just came in and saw a guy attacking a woman and assumed that was the case. Does it suck for him? Hell yes. But I understand why the cops did that. He looked like he was being the aggressor. And I don't think we can really expect the cops to come in and take their time asking questions before diving in, especially when there's a chance someone (lets be honest, probably the girl) could get hurt. But it is stupid that they both got fin…
/r/MensRights28/06/15 11:33 AM
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Ah, I see. I suppose I'm mostly in the same boat then. Splitting it into gendered movements is detrimental to the very concept of making both genders equal. Egalitarianism is the way forward.
/r/MensRights28/06/15 04:03 AM
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Gender inequality doesn't exist? I'm slightly confused on that point. Could you elaborate? Do you literally mean that you don't believe that there is any general inequality between men and women?
/r/MensRights28/06/15 03:58 AM
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That sounds like a point that doesn't lend much to the discussion really, because it could be flipped round to say "It's because men are expected to be stronger and better than women that women have discrimination". In the end I don't think it matters. What matters is finding a way to fix the problem itself, not whether or not its the men or women who are more disadvantaged.
/r/MensRights28/06/15 03:30 AM
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