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Men actually think : If she didn't want me when i had nothing, yet comes around after i've done everything for myself, being the exact same person in my core. Why would i take her seriously at my best?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:20 PM
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so desperate to be the victim - the issue isn’t you complaining about your suiters, its about the need to be perceived morally right about it and get religiously defensive - you’ve turned a mole hill into a mountain and have proceeded to blame others for it ​ How is this ok but my sentence isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:20 AM
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There is always this disconnect where women don't see how others react when being rejected, especially if she really really wanted to sleep with the guy. Every guy can attest to being called gay (or worst) when rejecting a woman yet for some reason that doesn't count. Add internet stalking, destroying property, spreading rumors and so on. This is why most of these conversations come off as bad faith/ disingenuous to men. We have zero issue stating and agreeing poor behavior in men on scale. cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:18 AM
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"How do you think the classic boomer “I hate my wife” jokes got so popular? " My observation on this sub is that men often share a single experience and talk about how it shaped their view on women. This isn't true at all. you are Untrue: men are allowed to complain as much as they want about the male suiters in their lives. so desperate to be the victim - the issue isn’t you complaining about your suiters, its about the need to be perceived morally right about it and get religiously defensive -…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:01 AM
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I just do not comprehend how women do not understand they pick men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:07 PM
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It's just interesting how many women pick cheaters when so many men can hardly get consistent GFs. That's our point. Consistently screaming about shitty men really puts your choices under the spotlight. Seems more like women deliberately avoid stability than the men being bad as other men can spot that instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:27 PM
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I never understood the gymnastics of sex is empowering yet i don't feel confident or proud saying how many people i sleep with. So obviously you aren't empowered.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:41 PM
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You cannot be an adult, with a job, in a relationship, expecting one party to pay for everything, without reciprocation. Taking the "50/50" literally shows you just want to talk instead of actually listening and understanding the conversation. It amazes me how much money women make yet have horrible spending habits or massive debt. This is ignoring majority are lowkey sex workers so the money isn't even worked for to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:26 PM
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You must not know any women to say this so confidently
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:43 PM
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Average American woman = 170lbs, 5’4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:00 PM
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imma be honest if things aren't improving with age as a man that is a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:27 AM
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I was a welder in shop with a lot of 40+ year old men who had it no better than what we already know. Ironically only two dudes out of 75 weren't divorced both married girls from their childhood. One knocked his stripper friend up who already had a kid. The other came from money so he married young. Both have been married over 20 years no issues. They straight up told their wives the consequences of betrayal and it stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:06 PM
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Around 25 i noticed when women say stuff like this your confidence intimidates them so they try to break you. There are several videos of women breaking this down about the man not " having an ego" or "thinking he is too good". Plays into the general consensus we are forming that women essentially spend the entire relationship trying to break the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:36 PM
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I almost broke my phone when kev said " you weigh more than an NFL linebacker at your height "
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:27 PM
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Do i really need to break this down or can you take time to consider the implications?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:00 PM
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The average 5'7 dude is 140-150. The average 5'4 woman is 170 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:52 PM
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When I first started identifying myself as Red Pilled arround ten years ago ​ The problem is right here. You start based an identity around these conversations instead of listening, learning, and implement what is relevant to for you. Men walking around calling themselves "red pill" is literally the same as women feminist. ​ Both genders, everyone, needs to develop the ability to step back and look at your actions within the bigger picture. Men and women are human but exact opposites. This is es…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:09 AM
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It’s all about being respectful and kind. It isn't. I only got non-bot, attractive women matching with me, with " i just want a friend to eat out" after taking fire profile photos and getting her number in 3 messages. The less men talk i notice the more women find him "kind and respectful".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:14 PM
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The flare says discussion, where i clearly laid out how women aren't congruent with their words, desires, and actions. Blue is red, red is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:29 PM
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You are demonstrating my exact point reinforcing why men keep things shallow with women. No matter how clear,concise or well intended the responses are always the same.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 01:36 PM
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Wouldn't this be woman 'splain considering you aren't a man or know anything about our feelings? How can you tell me what he is going through? The legitimate mental issue he has is applicable to men across the board. Feel free to quote her post and r/AskMen This should be a moment where questions are asked. Why does he feel that way, why do you say men feel this way?,has it always been like this? ​ this would do wonders for demonstrating our rhetoric about not talking to women about deeper emoti…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 01:12 PM
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How old are you and roughly how many women have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:29 PM
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Men tell each other to avoid promiscuous women if you are intending to date. Not "leave your girl because she is stressed. You'd only get that confused if you aren't actually reading the conversations. mention that he doesn't feel emotions deeply. He hasn't cried in so long and doesn't get super excited for things (he describes it as feeling 'dull' internally). He also said the last time he felt genuinely happy was when he was a child. ​ This is what vulnerably looks like and how every single ma…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 12:28 PM
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Asking the question also implies that thus far you don't see anything worthwhile about them. Asking a specific question wouldn't imply you care about nothing else or see nothing you already know as worthwhile Notice how your answer changed when it made women look shallow? ​ Does anyone at all ask the penis size of someone They scream all the time how anything lower than 7inches is small and not worth their time. It's a mindgame women play with men they aren't interested in and what to feel power…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:45 AM
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I think it is beyond hilarious how poorly women communicate or use words properly. Nearly every instance of a man being confident is exactly what triggers them and is shutdown. Yet the men who play the emotional manipulation game of dating with reckless abandon are "confident". ​ Tell a woman how she makes you feel, state you want a monogamous committed relationship with the intention of marriage : Considered low value, inexperienced. Play along with delusion of casual sex meaning you are "datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:09 AM
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Asking the question also implies that thus far you don't see anything worthwhile about them Like asking a man about his salary or size before entertaining him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:26 AM
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exactly like women expecting to have everything she doesn't, specifically his finances? This is another example of not having issues with things until it doesn't serve you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:25 AM
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You ladies need to stop telling each other to leave for every single inconvenience.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:55 AM
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Plan a day around his interest ending with a fancy dinner date/ mini-vacation for the two of you based on his interests
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 07:47 PM
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Madam C. J. Walker (born Sarah Breedlove; December 23, 1867 – May 25, 1919) was an African American entrepreneur, philanthropist, and political and social activist. She is recorded as the first female self-made millionaire in America
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:38 PM
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People want excitement, they want a fight or conflict in the way of who they’re attracted to, they want sexual tension and build up - not safe guarantees. Its obvious a woman wrote this because that's what women want. I've noticed men play video games whereas women play with men. Relationships are about going through life with someone which naturally will have hurtles not mindless artificial drama. Majority of problems in a womans life would be solved with none sexually based hobbies, and hobbie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:05 PM
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My earnings skyrocketed at 31 over 900% when my degree combo of law and tech landed me a cozy 40h job with the gov of which 20h are spent at home with my remote workstation doing nothing but lifting, playing the guitar and cooking meals ​ 30, moved to mexico, have rent paid 2 years forward, got my house sent up the same. Used to do welding currently thinking of going for computer science so my resume looks good/ wfh . Can you steer me into the right direction for getting a wfh job with or withou…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 11:46 PM
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did you have something important to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:45 PM
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Wow this actually makes a lot of sense. The "ok"looking girls are always making themselves wayyyyyy more important than in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:22 PM
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And also sooo many dudes will be nice and helpful, but only with the hope and the intent that it leads somewhere. Which is why women who aren’t interested often won’t give us the time of day. A warped, solipsistic mindset is why women don't realize men can be genuine until 40 years old. Not everyone being kind has an ulterior motive nor does the natural awkwardness after rejection need to be hyper-analyzed or exaggerated . This is worse if you are remotely handsome because you instantly get assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:04 PM
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Is this not the definition of entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:53 PM
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I think there is an evolutionary component at work here. In regards to this hive mind ability scientist haven't picked up yeah. The degree of repetition is just insane. ​ have adapted to use every method possible to avoid accountability and avoid "getting in trouble" It is more of a coping mechanisim for lacking discipline and mental discernment. Party girls such as "superhead" and brittney renner wrote books which in their own words say abusive men are interpreted as father figures setting boun…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:40 PM
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Because they lie so goddamn much they dont realize the exact same behaviors in each other despite talking all day. Hence we can essentially predict every response, shaming tactic, psychology 101 trick s and so on because they are all doing it. We can't agree on basic things because their ego is built around men being inferior. So it makes more sense to double down on a lie in support of feminism than just admit something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:00 PM
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We are already well aware double standards aren't issue if they benefit, especially to our detriment. There isn't much of a "debate" here. They aren't going to openly admit to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:28 PM
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You could spend a decade dating women to have experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:37 AM
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The thing is what women consider "self -respect" is interpreted as playing games from our end which is why 90% it doesn't get registered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:37 AM
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Well off is 50k+ saying you need anything more in general let alone for children is a either an outright lie or disingenuous. Single fathers regularly raise well adjusted adults on less. Then again women tend to need more money because they lack discipline especially financial discipline. enough to be able to find quality sexual partners Has shit to do with finances arguably men who make money get cheated on because that's all women want. Around 30 men stop fucking with women who say anything ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:54 PM
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but why raise her child with only 150k when she could be raising that child with 250k Because she wasn't that money for her lifestyle not children which women aren't raising. The children get taller but aren't instilled with discipline, morals, values, self-respect, humility. All of human history children were raised with nothing having a monetary requirement upfront is purely for a womans lifestyle and clout
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:00 PM
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Why do men suddenly have an issue with doing chores they would when single when dating a woman? The issue is us spending money, being emotionally overstimulated, and expecting to protect you while simultaneously not being valued enough to where housework is an equal trade. A relationship provides zero benefit to a man if the woman isn't going to be peaceful which none of this is. Having to explain at all is stressful Do you not realise that looking after an extra person is extra work (not to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:18 PM
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Why is the idea that some guy wouldn't give a woman a chance romantically so hard to swallow for them ​ The mods seriously need to step up and ban women for responding to every post about men raping women. You ladies are making it more dangerous for yourself because men are ignoring all for these gross generalizations . Random men are literally going to let yall die if in danger because they don't any drama. How do you think young boys feel reading shit like this ?These inflammatory comments are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:28 AM
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Men generally hate to care for the sick or children and see that as nasty, Generally? Hate? Nasty? That's your perception of men written out as a fact which every single man will respond is ridiculous . ​ Men also dislike working in their own homes Literally no women in construction but ok. The reality is chores everyone should have learned at 5 years old and the same house duties single women do for themselves magically become an issue when dating a man. ​ women must pick up the slack It's call…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:44 AM
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Yet plenty of wives say they got turned off by their husbands 100% focusing on them and not looking at other women
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 01:56 AM
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It's hilarious an adult woman went on an actual date not the "date" euphemism women use for casual sex. Sad part is there were probably dozens of men who tried this with her who got ignored for "not being masculine ". A girl literally called me gay for trying to take her on an actual date. What scares me is the amount of women who spend 10-20 years having mindless sex not understanding why she can't keep a man beyond 6 months. ​ They don't know what an actual date or relationship is because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:51 AM
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I don't have a single attractive straight,bi, or les female friend in my group or extended that prioritized getting married before 25. women who married early for the express purpose of a "starter husband" and relatively unattractive women who married early. Almost 30 years old perfectly remembering my highschool sweet heart i wanted to marry breaking with me because her mother used the same language in this post. Telling her to experiment, she doesn't know what she wants, something must be wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:44 AM
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My guess is that most of these posts are ugly guys LARPing some kind of revenge fantasy of being so hot that women can't help but cheat with them ​ Perhaps average men who tried respectfully getting to know women hardly got play. Women don't publicly comment how attractive men who don't try to fuck are seen as gay,creepy, serial killers. After glowing up becoming overtly attractive to women they remember how shallow women were thus act aggressively sexual. Women go on about how often men cheat a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:19 PM
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Perfect equality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:06 PM
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Is paying for your own lifestyle not considered “independent” by definition.? I can also tell you that I’ve never been “praised” for having a job or paying my gas bill. Sounds like you’re chronically online. ​ basic adult skills get praised as being an " independent woman" ​ Sounds like you got triggered n ran with it instead of looking at the simple sentence. You being a basic adult as in paying your bills and having a job like everyone else isn't a flex. Taking care of your apartment/house as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:09 PM
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I’m convinced most men on this sub genuinely think women don’t manage their own finances or pay their own rent. Well basic adult skills get praised as being an " independent woman" so we ask questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:00 PM
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leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:25 AM
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Shame Insult Guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:48 AM
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I don’t know any part of the western world where a women isnt expected to get a job As we see women have phases of exploration where they'll do jobs as bottle girl, dancer, content creator . So this new wave of women using their sexuality to get paid for years on end doesn't develop good adult habits. ​ Personally I’ve never experienced toxic femininity, nor ever heard of it, Toxic masculinity on the other hand I’ve seen plenty of Interesting how women hang out with women yet never see any examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:41 AM
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Because it's been normal,is normal for women not to leave until marriage for most of human history and the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:01 AM
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but many of those men are just fuckboys looking to pump and dump them In my experience as a glow up man women don't like guys that try getting to know them before sex. It seems they'd rather know how good you are sexually before honestly bothering with legit emotions. Not pursing sex aggressively is what gets you friend zoned or "thinking he's gay".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:13 PM
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That goes in hand with the conversation as men don't let bad behavior with other men slide as an adult. Women don't check other women period let alone physical behavior as there must a "reason" for it. Pretty much there is a certain age where you must conduct yourself as a man. Women don't seem to have that inner expectation of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:26 PM
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Both of yall have to calm down for one. This is a great time to figure out how each other communicates to help handle more sensitive conversations . Above all else you learned how lying to prevent an action might cause the action.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 08:55 PM
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i said 3. he asked who, i avoided telling who exactly for an hour it happened before i even met him. he really cares about his reputation Yall have to stop lying to avoid certain emotions. I will honestly say from this moment on if you think a lie needs to be told leave the relationship. Men value truth, don't worry about how we feel. Don't be a bitch in how you say things but bluntly, concisely, be honest. How are you suppose to have a solid foundation while lying and withholding information yo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:27 PM
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It's a straightforward, basic small talk conversation. No man is looking for a woman to "provide" though acknowledging and reciprocating in the relationship will make you unforgettable. Oh, don't lie or speak in a transactional matter unless you want a transactional relationship. Do you want to be a stay at home mom or have a provider? One is a useful asset , one is a leech. ​ You ladies need to become aware of what words you use, meaning, and perspective. If the first words out of your mouth im…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 01:33 PM
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It looks better asking women what they want instead of listening to men say what women respond to. You know women will give a socially acceptable answer vs the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:30 PM
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"Women want bad boys" myth continues to be perpetuated Because women say what sounds good while doing what they want. The men she sleeps with and date don't have the same personalities. It is interesting the extent women will gaslight dating experiences of men in favor of what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:10 PM
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60 years ago women had no choice but to settle for whatever a husband provided. "Madam C.J. Walker (born Sarah Breedlove; December 23, 1867 – May 25, 1919) was an African American entrepreneur, philanthropist, and political and social activist. She is recorded as the first female self-made millionaire in America" ​ 60 years in the past is 1963 which is 40 years from her death in 1919. So lets stop repeating this lie because women don't actually know anything about feminism other than "doing what…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:02 PM
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Majority of men would be happy working a bullshit job which pays rent and affords doing whatever in his free time. Are women ok with that. no. they want "lifestyles" and men with money. So what do men do? Get jobs with long hours they fucking hate to afford having a girlfriend/ wife. 60 years ago working at a grocery store part-time paid the bills with no further expectations of women. Today if all you strive for is a job to pay bills women consider that "broke" , " no ambition", "boring". ​ Hen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:50 PM
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You made two contradictory statements what had nothing to do with what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:52 AM
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There are plenty of depressed people who get up every day trying to be better. Plenty of happy people who are absolutely lazy. There isn't remotely a 1:1 ratio between mindset and action.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:47 PM
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The only reason you think this is a systemic issue is because you immerse yourself in the fantasy land promoted by the manosphere. What exactly is the point of asking men to open up to immediately dismiss and gaslight our experiences? Two people just laid everything out and there is still a gaslighting response. No matter how many times we say what we say the responses never change. Most women are not like the caricature you have in your head This is based off decades of dating women and divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
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don’t know why you are getting upset Yall cannot talk about men without using the words " angry" "abuse" "violent" or any other synonym.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:00 PM
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Feminine is an attitude not an action. None of that has anything to do or subtracts from being feminine, a large swath of women are involved in those groups. The goth scene is overwhelmingly feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 02:55 PM
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Well that is perfectly normal especially in the economic climate. I think we all hit a stage in adulthood realizing working ourselves to death isn't living and take time to reassess. Your man will never have an issue with supporting long as there is reciprocation and gratitude expressed. Don't stress you got it. Find a bullshit work from home job to handle a smaller bill (groceries/ internet) and find a hobby to invest in!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 10:41 AM
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I’m sick of the expectations to continue earning high 6 figures Are the men in your life having this expectation or other women? Men in general understand that to be an exorbitant amount of money most men never come remotely close to earning nor need for a decent life. More money doesn't inherently mean more happiness, as you are currently feeling first hand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 09:28 AM
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Constantly pointing how violent men can be in a first world country does nothing but put down the millions of average men who aren't. It is absolutely ridiculous not a single conversation can be have without talking about "abuse" or how a man abused a woman. Women on a societal level do not want to have any conversation about the extreme emotional abuse which is standard in every relationship while consistently asking men to "open up". We consistently try talking about the abuse women do unto me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:49 AM
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Why is there even an insinuation the man must have been violent and why is it okay to constantly perpetuate the average man as raging? Subtle jabs like this are the exact things which de-incentivize men from speaking to begin with. Any emotion which isn't overtly passive gets labeled as "angry"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:26 AM
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Oh you misunderstood. I didn’t say men have confirmation bias, i said YOU did I am a man and nothing i said in this conversation isn't anything that hasn't been repeated by men in this sub or manosphere in general. There are plenty of men who are able to talk about societal standards and pressures they face every day without blaming women You have yet to talk about where women fall short in relationship dynamics or affirm any statement i've said of mens experiences. Which is why i've repeated sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:07 AM
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Love how you try to come at me with shame, insult and guilt and in thevery next sentence generalize an insult towards me to all women: Emotional baiting “Women can’t take criticism” I expect those who read my comments to do so without confirmation bias or agendas against women. Men lamenting on the absence of women's effort or concern in relationship dynamics labeled " having an agenda". "angry" or considered confirmation bias is an exact example of being unable to take criticism. Why do you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:59 PM
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Your comment was fueled with anger towards women with no nuance andspoke for us so it basically to me just seemed like a rage comment. Butif the semantics mean so much to you Shame. Insult. Guilt. Need to be right Women can't take criticism so anytime a man shares his perspective dating women which isn't positive we go straight shame or dismissive. I wasn't angry and have said that twice now. Ironically your entire post was gaslighting and dismissing everything i said as a man dating women in fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:00 PM
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30 and up is when men make up for their lack of success or social focus in their 20s "raging" or what ever shaming language is extremely dismissive. There is never an issue with the endless extremely negative comments towards men yet any opinion which doesn't paint women in a ultra positive light has to mean we are yelling or something. Its a conversation unless i post in caps nobody is yelling or "raging". ------------------------- Seems to just aim to justify older/old men chasing young women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:50 PM
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​ This is exactly what confidence is not caring for the opinions of what others think. >It's why If you are ugly, blindly being confident is a disadvantage. Which means you want an attractive man with confidence instead of an attractive man still figuring himself out. The looks of a person is and should be irrelevant of confidence. You verified exactly what those red boys say , women judge a man's actions by how attractive he is not the action itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:48 PM
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If women understood the lives of men, cared to learn, you'd understand men generally aren't in position to legitimately date women until their 30s. The only men with finances, food body,their own place, life experience, sexual experience in their 20s. Everything women in general expect from a man are rich boys. You can get a few but essentially no man has all that in his 20s. 30 for men is 18 for women. By then we more or less have everything women want or are damn good with the few listed to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:41 PM
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I honestly struggle to see what I or any other man gets out of being in a relationship which purely benefits women. It's essentially us spending money on them while constantly being evaluated with never ending tests determining if we are good enough. It's more practical and far less stressful to stick with friends, pet, and a prostitute/ hookup when needed. Honestly dating is essentially prostitution at this point anyway considering that is the basis of a mans value. No money= no value Write a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:28 PM
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How is this different that 4 other comments here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:17 PM
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Where are these women, what data do you have? real life which cannot be quantified existing beyond your life and reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:49 AM
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Spanish and black people always vibe well so it was a common sense choice for me. An older mexican told me slave ships use to crash often in eastern mexico with slaves running into the wind hence an abundance of afro-mexicans on that side of the country. In America you are every stereotype then held to the highest standard on top . In mexico i am a person. Any attention is positive , usually one person comments on my locs any time i hit the bodega’s. I have a 2bd apartment to myself with my nieg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:38 AM
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Not in my case. It has always been harder to date than get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:24 AM
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I don't have as much experience with Latin American countries but I'm sure it's the same there. as a black man in mexico this was the best decision i’ve made. I feel like a woman with all the attention, dating here is far far better and i’ve only dipped my toes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:48 AM
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Men deal with the harshest most dangerous aspects of society because we are expected to and are built for it. Women have never been so promiscuous of their own volition in all of modern history, biologically are not built for it, and all aspects of degrading western society show how well traumatized women transmute that energy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:30 AM
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There are women content creators compare and contrast how lazy women have become. They would rather band together to change the fabric of society to “ accept” poor behavior than look in the mirror and improve as individuals. As you pointed out older men have always guided, supported , and advised young men . We can see a complete lack of guidance from older women because of the “ women do no wrong “ mentality. Becky G ( mamii) sings about a toxic man yet the music video is her and MIA KHALIFA br…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:37 AM
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•Shame•Insult•Guilt•Need to be right If they start detracting with shame & insulting you are on the money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:16 AM
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He said value meaning (ideally) less trauma ( which has an umbrella under it), fit, and fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:14 AM
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The guys who complain about not settling down werent able to sow their wild oats. However, the women willing to settle down early wouldnt want them A man who isn’t married hasn’t found a woman worth marrying. we don’t know where women got the idea they get to chose who wants to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:12 AM
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The amount of married / engaged / women with kids who give me "the eye" would blow most men's minds here. not the ones with experience. I tell every man in these spaces who try that “ you are a incel “ shit to dress nice, buy a ring and get a drink. once you see how grimy woman are it takes zero effort manipulating them in return which is why they get vehemently mad here. They don’t understand men hate feeling the need to play these games to begin with but results speak for themselves. Bouncers …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:07 AM
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Men in their 20s are the ones who don’t want to settle down. neigh every man online will say they would have settled down in their early 20s if women could act right or got married then raked through the coals in divorce before 30. No matter how many times we explain the process of modern dating women ignore what doesn’t fit the negative narrative on men to form and live out their hivemind fairytale perception where men are only the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:58 AM
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Yeah. When you speak about them it switches to general statements and in reverse. I can’t guess if the female brain comes to the same conclusion hence repeating each other verbatim or there is a psychological gestalt on a societal scale. I know behaviorist are having a field day in this mess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:49 AM
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I want the conversation to moved towards false sexual/ domestic accusations, and tricking men into raising kids that aren’t theirs. My experience happened in highschool so i knew the dark side of women before legitimately dating. They always randomly scream about abusive behavior knowing themselves to be. It is far too common
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:30 AM
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I think you’re just bitter about women. You feel that way then probably follow up with negative comments towards men later on. Some of the worst men I’ve ever met were TRP men who complained about these things ok? “ i don’t wan’t know scrubs “ came out in the 90s yall were “ complaining “ long before men started responding. Some of them assaulted me, some tried to manipulate me or use me for sex under the guise of being a “nice guy that deserves it”. You say i’m bitter about women yet somehow dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:18 AM
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marriage rates are at a historic low of 6% and has been so for well over a decade. These social issues have been compounding since the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:46 PM
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I think redpill serves for emotional angst & relief until the man is ready to do something about I moved out of the US months ago spending that time distressing and getting back in my groove. You see how degraded american society truly is from the outside which, my health is far far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:20 PM
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The only vocabulary used to describe men is negative specifically the same three shaming and insulting words. Misogynistic, Toxic, Insecure. The woman saying these about a man without a doubt displays 1 if not all those qualities in that moment. It’s just an emotionally distract from whatever (logical) point was made because it was more likely right, hence the name calling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:14 PM
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Nothing in my post said anything about getting women. I specifically noted how men aren’t marrying and exploring CULTURAL options not marriage options. They aren’t intrinsically linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:30 PM
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Sounds like you just don't like women, honestly. This is why men don’t even care to bother. You can’t even listen to our viewpoint without trying to shame or disregard what is said if it isn’t ego stroking. I can't argue with you because I disagree axiomatically with everything you're saying A conversation shouldn’t be seen as an argument and you can’t understand if you don’t care to listen in the first place. This is literally a perfect example of my sentiment , yall literally do not give a fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:19 PM
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The MGTOW movement basically failed i don’t know where you got this idea. Its been on the news a few times about diamond & wedding shops closing. Far more regular men investing in passports exploring other cultural options. There are even women youtubers commenting how men have been pushed too far to do all that in the first place. I think redpill serves for emotional angst & relief until the man is ready to do something about it. Which turns to a post office stop for a passport
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:01 PM
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Make us sit in the corner and think about how bad we are and we'll get better. Men naturally respect & treat women with equity. Which is were the frustration comes from grown adult men who have to treat women exactly as you say, like children, in the first place. A lot of the comments women say about men are projection. Women more often than not act childish which is why they love PICKING childish, single-minded men to lord over and complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:56 PM
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wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:51 PM
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This scenario being sold to men is that 19 year old women are flocking to 35 year old men because older men have money I don’t want to say popular because i wasn’t and stay lowkey however those actively involved in highschool are well aware this is true. No matter what the internet says or how women revise history i will never, ever forget being explicitly told in highschool older men have cars, money, experience and maturity. There wasn’t any coercion girls deliberately sought out and positione…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:31 AM
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I was never really interested in it in the first place; I just took it because it was offered to me, and it was free. This is the attitude a man might have towards a woman who approaches him romantically. But he won't value her much because he didn't have to pursue her This is what women think but not how it works or how men think. When i was younger doing this because “ it’s expected “ the few relationships had didn’t work out and got cheated on. Women say “ you are too nice, no excitement”. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:44 AM
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You’ll see that if you exclude the previous male partners of lesbian and bisexual women I did read it sweetie there is zero mention of caveat or margin of error . You want to find ways to manipulate the data because your assumption and perception is objectively not true https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community https://www.ctcadv.org/information-about-domestic-violence/national-statistics/ Being a lesbian doesn’t mean you’ve never dated a man before why do women say …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:28 AM
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43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime, as opposed to 35% of heterosexual women. less than two seconds on google to see you saying whatever for emotions and need to be right The most popular male YouTuber: Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels actually advocate to men to beat your gf. That bullshit right there shows how acceptable it is for women to scream abuse for things that em…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:19 AM
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This is the reality you’re talking about ok. Post the stats about abusive lesbian and gay relationships in addition to both partners tend to be abusive in relationships. See , blaming men for everything wrong nullifies any power women claim to have. Men talk to each other, discipline and guide younger men. Women can’t even admit they have toxic tendencies in a conversation. It’s easy to see women encourage poor behavior, rather tear each other down than teach and discipline. Men endlessly hear h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:50 AM
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Acknowledging reality isn’t “pulling the abuse card” so why use extreme examples for regular life to emotionally trigger someone? Generalizing the average man as an abusive rapist is the paramount example of how toxic femininity is socially acceptable. Most accusation of rape or assault are not false like emmitt till? A woman lying about something so grievous knowing the damage it will cause and lack of consequence an issue in itself. Women have no issue perpetually being victims yet have zero c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:33 AM
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yeah, women should really be banned for using the abuse card because this is an incredibly toxic generalization . Extreme scenarios are not representative of average relationships and you know this How is it “baby trapping” when it’s well know these men just don’t want to wear condoms How are you going to ignore all other scenarios were the woman is objectively wrong and untruthful ? And why are women having sex without condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:23 AM
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I think viewing the act of sex as sign of political or social opinion is a very dangerous idea. Feminist have literally pushed the narrative of sexually liberated women free of shame since the 60s-70s. A woman who vocally partakes usually isn’t conservative by default. society encourages this behavior That’s an excuse and lesson men get taught as teenagers. If all your friends drive drunk will you do the knowing it’s wrong and not agreeing? As an adult you are responsible for your behaviors. Bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:03 AM
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So women claiming abuse all the time is a appropriate response to things they don’t like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:57 PM
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The men assaulting women and coercing them are not the same men in the nice guy realm. How can women say this about men yet the most basic generalization about women gets removed, shamed, and banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:54 PM
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tinder is 90% men in the UK. Is it because all the women have been driven off Which is a consistent stat in America as well because the few women who use dating apps seek attention vs actually dating. Thats essentially common knowledge at this point. How many people have experienced sexual harassment, How are women allowed to pull and hide behind the “ abuse “ card? not every single relationship the average woman has with men is “ toxic and abusive “ . Society has gotten too laissez faire with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:52 PM
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ok i’ll clarify. ” Abusive men is the PPD bingo freespace.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:10 PM
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Says one person of a few million on reddit right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:09 PM
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How much do clowns make yearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:41 PM
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It's very difficult to establish any positive, constructive, educational relationship experiences when you're run through the gauntlet of being socially and psychologically destroyed all the time. There are 333 million people in america ( if american) meaning statistically people with your story also rise above an succeed as well. My point isn’t to disregard feelings however time isn’t replaceable,.spending literal decades with no improvement cannot improve. Your family tree has survived all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:32 PM
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You shouldn't expect empathy from people if you can't give it back …. nine times out of 10 I could be saying the same thing to you ok. Well i was falsely accused junior year by an ex who couldn’t take the shame of cheating on her rebound. She suffered zero consequences after admitting it was a lie by weeks end and i dealt with that alone from 16-27 until i finally snapped. Hence why i said unless it is an extreme situation you need to be a responsible adult and get that under control after 25. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:06 PM
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but they most likely Therapy or work on yourself. After 25 i have zero empathy for people who willingly do not fix their issues prior to a relationship. You can get a $35-$60 meeting with a basic clinic therapist. We gotta be responsible adults and not drag childhood trauma forever in this era of technology. there are too many sources for this. young teenage boys just don't know what to do or how to act my comment was more centered towards not spending your 20s trying with women if it clearly is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:33 PM
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in middle school i noted in the comments men honestly shouldn’t bother with women until their late 20s being somewhat established ( ties to confidence ) and good looking ( gym,skincare, long hair in good condition). unless it is related to abuse or accusations your teenage experiences shouldn’t carry into adult relationships. That needs to be sorted out beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:23 PM
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Honestly i think approaching women is more of a self esteem issue than anything and not reading women beforehand. I didn’t even bother approaching women until i looked better which gave me confidence even then i forced myself into customer service jobs for a bit to improve my small talking. in reality men don’t start messing with women until their late 20s , their is too much pressure unto boys/ young men to mess with women before somewhat establishing themselves. I don't think girls are really …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:41 PM
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This is a rather contradictory statement given how “ hot girl season/phase “ is embraced. A lot of statements women say are moreso about herself and don’t actually reflect the actions women perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:07 AM
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Women and society at large really struggle with the idea a sizable chunk of men actually prefer deeper relationships than an instant lay. Women “ complain “ about men only wanting to fuck but swear a dude is gay or mental if he doesn’t mind not having sex for a few weeks. I think the hyper-sexual culture essentially forces men to be unconcerned with the women he sleeps with otherwise he won’t get play, won’t be considered masculine, or will be seen as gay. Men have been commenting since the 90s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:03 AM
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Like claiming abuse , right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:11 AM
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Not being putting the energy to read a response more than three sentences , especially when it isn’t something you want to hear carries into relationships skills as a perfect example. Not putting in effort for low energy tasks yet expecting 100% otherwise is lunacy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:11 AM
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Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:39 AM
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Humans in general have existed for millions of years that is too basic for misunderstanding. Modern humans for 300,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:37 AM
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shame, guilt, insult, need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:32 AM
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You can’t expect a response if you won’t read it. that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:31 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:26 AM
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I feel like it's used to obfuscate the actual problem and a way to place blame on women for their selection No you read it right, it just doesn’t feel good to consider women might actually have their own general- gender specific- issues. For some reason we acknowledge without a doubt only women have kids but argue against women having deliberate poor choices in men due to no consequences. Disney, social media, distrust of men, willful lack of fathers , reward divorce, and rampant hypergamy are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:34 PM
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i read the post which doesn’t change how men naturally reacted which was the straightforward point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:31 AM
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They were responding to her attention seeking than the other girl herself. If you have to seek validation about your relationship online that says a lot and by large dudes don’t like those types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:23 AM
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I personally always go dutch. This isn’t about you 99% of women do not do this . Many women don't support drafting only men. uhh yea they do even then saying one thing and actually being drafted are completely different. the vast majority of men are likely never going to experience being drafted in the western world. zero way you know what the highly unstable future will reveal. If you think men should sit on the couch while women do all the housework. I asked what women are expected to do in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:33 AM
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single mothers were an extreme taboo , now look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:50 PM
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Men are no longer providers while women stay home. Woman did you just wake up from a coma? It hasn’t been like this for 50+ years and thats exactly what woman wanted. In those cases expecting women to do most domestic labor/ what is your role and contribution to the relationship? as expecting men to pay when both parties work. which is what 100% of women expect so yeah yall are toxic by that expectation and we agree Division of labor must be more or less equal to be fair Life isn’t equal or fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:39 AM
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where men expect women to both work and do the majority of domestic labor and childcare. yes because the man is expected to handle everything outside the house. This reads as laziness in all honest. You have a plethora of expectations on men yet cannot do basic things adults do while single . All the appliances and gadgets to help with house work and it still is too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:31 AM
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women to do domestic labor because they are women by men. so you would prefer being expected to bring money home or do labor outside? The actual problem is you ladies just want to show up and spend money without any expectation on your end. Men would jump with joy if the only expectation was to do laundry, mop, and clean dishes yet this is pulling teeth for modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:26 AM
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So you date men that don’t have jobs yet somehow think that represents a large portion of men? despite leaving the house seeing hundreds of working men daily? can’t. make. this. up. If it's not arduous/easy then why don't those men do their part? We do it without bragging because that is being a basic adult . This is a reflection of you and who you date as single adults do this every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:21 AM
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considering the divorce rate majority of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:09 AM
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Lots of men expect/want women to work, do most housework and most childcare Because that’s what women have done for millions of years and has only been an “ issue” for the last 20. Why do women make having a job and cleaning a house sound arduous when that is a basic component of being an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:34 AM
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I mean in the sense we can have kids until the last day of our lives. Men die sooner die to physical and mental stress . a man who doesn’t have a stressful home environment or feel the need to work his ass out will love longer. Divorced men fall into that metric more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:07 AM
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no no no see you all have some woman hivemind thing going on all having the same mtv expectations of life during the worst economic crisis damn near since great depression during a global pandemic. Then shame men for having standards or speaking back at all frankly, while saying men should express themselves more. The next 5-8 years will be consequence made real. Arguing with nature only wastes time which men have more of. 👸🏽🎓🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:17 PM
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Aren’t you being misogynistic to the women who do onlyfans, strip, and bring bottles? You can’t have it both ways if sex work ,is work, and empowers female sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:06 PM
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Men are shamed for upholding a body count standard because they don’t hold themselves to that same standard. We don’t understand why it needs to be explained . seriously. All yall have to do is open your legs and say yes, thats it. There is zero effort for women to get laid. zero. Every woman on earth can add 24 bodies a day if she wanted to. Men in college know of virgins who hit 50 bodies by the end of a semester. It can take men years to get with 20 women. let alone 40-80 bodies attractive wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:00 PM
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You’re not needed for anything but reproductive purposes. mhm. how is society working out with 2-3 generations raised by single mothers who chose to leave or picked poor men to have kids with? How are women in particular doing being raised without fathers? yall say this but depend on police and mechanics when things go wrong. I make my own money and provide for myself just fine. congratulations you are an adult. We don’t get why women say this as if you are special for doing what adults are expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:31 PM
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bingo. In all honesty being a single guy you literally have zero need for women in your life. Need. There isn’t anything a woman provides that you can’t buy or do yourself outside of reproduction. They really got it in their heads somehow women are settling when they need our money and labor more than we want them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:00 AM
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Women have somehow formed this delusion that experiencing dick adds any value to their life , relationship skills or future partner when all metrics show otherwise Women try to re-write the narrative on body count because they know it is an accurate assessment of character, bought into the hype and are ashamed, thus viciously shame men for one of the few standards had. modern relationships are prostitution which we skirt to admit at large
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:26 AM
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in all honesty i talk to women while out all the time and i’m hella introverted. Guys should focus on having platonic girl friends to feel comfortable speaking non sexually as a start. From their you gotta pay attention to body language and be able to have conversations or jokes based on the person or area. Don’t give a fuck either. Women are emotional so you gotta say some borderline comments to get them in their feelings about you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:31 AM
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imma be honest the obsession with rich guys and 6 figures doesn’t make dating any different than prostitution if that ultimately is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:10 PM
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are you a woman, gay, or new to dating? Other men clearly understood and know what i mean so for it to be this difficult you obviously aren’t a man with dating experiance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:50 AM
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? what needs to be clarified? Thats why i said you gotta be a woman or new to dating because this is ground level knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:08 PM
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Somehow you interpreted the exact opposite of what i am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:20 PM
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You have to be a woman or have zero experience dating to not understand how baseline this is. This shouldn’t even have to be explained or debated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:31 PM
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It comes out full force anytime a man tries talking about a false accusation, how it ruined his social life, ability to trust women, and makes dating neigh impossible. It goes with dating in general. You never see or hear women talk about the relationships that failed due to her actions. They date from 18-40 , break up with near every guy and say 20 years of failed relationships was never their fault. The man always has to take responsibility for mistakes and failures whereas anything good must …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:29 PM
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at this point it’s women trying to keep that idea alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:30 AM
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we aren’t confused rather not understanding how women can trauma and emotionally dump unto a man for the entire duration of a relationship but we have to express in a hyper-specific, unspecified manner. I’d say women are the ones who don’t understand how incredibly draining it is to hear about problems every single day that you have zero intentions of actually solving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:27 AM
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The more i read these studies aware of the dark side of female nature and sexuality there is an abundance of projecting and burden unto men to maintain the image of female innocence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:23 AM
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The reads more about women sleeping above their league than guys trying to get relationships in all honesty which is the core issue in dating right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:23 PM
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That’s a default for anybody so no point was made here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:02 AM
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Standards being character over money and material. Plenty of red pill channels go over what guys look for in women which are the exact opposite of what women want in men interesting how you say men have “ lower standards “ because women tend to call men “ insecure “ when they standby their standards when it isn’t in her favor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:44 AM
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Women love for what is provided not so much the man himself whereas men love the person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:56 AM
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I hope in time it resolves some things leading to a healthier outlook. You want to talk about how lesbian couples have the highest levels of domestic abuse? We could go even further noting the common denominator with all major offenses perpetrated by men & those in prison are overwhelmingly raised by single mothers. which are probably the same ones who “ didn’t need a man “ to raise their children. Or are those conversations off limits? The refusal to acknowledge women do any abuse while consist…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:43 AM
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It would be healthier & more productive to get therapy resolving those issues instead of parroting misandry. You can’t say men are abusive followed by men are afraid of women with jobs, which is frankly dumb. The actual issue is women tend to stay in work mode at home which translates to being more masculine . I don’t really like that phrase persay but it’s the current terminology . I am extremely positive women created the perspective of men “ being afraid they have jobs “ because it makes zero…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:40 AM
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Extreme: exceeding the ordinary, usual, or expected- : to the greatest possible extent Why are your friends choosing abusive men to form relationships with? What glaringly obvious red flags are they ignoring due to feel good emotions? Women rush to why aren’t men x,y,z because it’s easier than looking into the mirror wondering why you attract and are attracted to such men. A large majority of women have poor or zero character because they focus on a career, casual sex, or their looks. I’m ignori…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:26 PM
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Realistically that won’t work and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:44 PM
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Women only focus on the extremes because thats an emotional trigger nobody is going to touch. You don’t care about my points because they don’t effect women and you don’t see men as humans with emotions. Yet if you had a son who’s ex/girlfriend accuses him of rape which later she admits was done out of spite or to skirt accountability for cheating ; watching him turn into a shell of his former self, this would be taken seriously because it personally affects a man you care about. Plenty of woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:41 PM
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You are already dismissing the idea of women being toxic let alone thinking they will act exactly like men. Women won’t even consider the idea of toxic women if it isn’t an extreme instance which is rather childish. If we considered refusing accountability, emotional manipulation, false accusations , gossip, physical abuse, transactional relationships, monkey branching, using men for free meals, etc as toxic femininity this would damn near be the average woman. Considering how screwed dating is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:13 PM
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Getting screwed in divorce court is probably why he won’t marry. So instead of wasting these women’s time he cuts them off early enough so they still have reasonable time to marry someone else. Like; this is extremely straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:47 PM
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I agree. Ultimately i’m looking for a first generation middle eastern or super conservative latina girl. Pretty much one who’s religion or culture would stigmatize that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:20 PM
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Men better themselves to be good partners in a marriage for women who want to stay 21 with a party lifestyle, that’s the problem. Girls literally do not know what men want, how to talk to men, or even care at a basic level. It’s just a list of expectations we need to meet starting with making 100k+ followed by ( somehow ) being better than all the past guys she’s slept with, insert whatever fantasy life she wants. we could go on but it isn’t realistic whatsoever to get majority of their list che…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:30 AM
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If you have any 60+ year old women they outright say it’s just an excuse for poor behavior, literally laugh. Now being able to live in mexico that isn’t something you’ll hear women say either. Ignoring any medically extreme cases because those always get used as the norm now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:40 PM
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You understand that is our biology right? Literally our purpose to reproduce much as possible or be able to when needed. Socially that is only a thing from undisciplined men and not highly praised among us as women make it seem since an array of problems can stem from sleeping with the wrong woman. This opinion honestly comes from women who lack decent male figures in general, only talk among women, or have poor dating choices. Believe it or not but that’s rather derogatory to say especially whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:02 PM
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When you argue against basic biology and our drive as a species you’ve honestly lost the right to any meaningful conversation. Which is essentially where “ feminism “ is currently. I don’t see how “ respect a man’s time and money “ equates to “ hire a sex worker “ -which yall shit talk in reality -. As a full grown woman you can’t act like the end outcome of spending time and money isn’t sex, we aren’t trying to be your nonsexual friend. Don’t pretend a man talking about a relationship upfront i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:15 PM
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see women love to respond “ not all women” never having to date women yet paint men with a broad stroke. They way women feel about forced sex is how men feel about their time. Women have zero respect for the time and money men waste “ dating “ which is why some want it upfront. Ofcourse that’s misogynist and insecure , since we have to give 110% every single time with zero assurance of a return. If you aren’t interested in sleeping with a man don’t accept his money or time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:48 AM
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Sleeping with a man isn’t the same as being in a relationship . I wish women would listen when we try to say just because a man sleeps with you doesn’t mean he would date let alone marry you. Even then if all you have to offer is sex he will treat you accordingly , there need to be actual skills/benefits offered beyond sex. When men explain our pov in regards to relationships and sex calling us “misogynist” makes us not even bother trying to help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:12 PM
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They sleep with guys out of their league in hookup culture expecting ( see) a relationship then get mad the man isn’t interested. If she dates guys on her level afterwards she’ll still be stuck on him then cheat/ sabotage and blame everything from there on unto all the regular guys she never acknowledge and will ignore afterwards. TBH that demonstrates how women aren’t meant to sleep around. Eventually a guy is going to unlock her box and she’ll be stuck on him forever. At the same time just lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:31 AM
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You said going half on bills is equality but women because yall play the picking and choosing of equality when it benefits you than using the word equity. don’t males in the animal kingdom provide? what do you bring to the table besides bare minimum relationship expectations ? You are clearly one of those losers Hit a nerve you want the beneifit of having around a woman No . I am the benefit to her life as you’ve shown women hardly bring anything to the table yet reap all the benefits. And still…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:37 PM
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Last time I checked it isn’t women who are ending up sad and lonely it’s men, while women are most happy when single. how many women do you know at 35 with no kids that are proud of that? Men are starving for relationships but ultimately we have videogames and escorts until 50, your clock is far far shorter. Personally I couldn’t give a flying f if I end up single or not, we can tell by the energy you don’t have a grown baby to look after ? pretty sure it’s the man providing nearly everything to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:13 PM
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naturally this is generalized to the west
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:38 PM
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You can’t simultaneously call another gender entitled and losers within the same sentence, the air of entitlement surrounds you. Majority of men just want a basic human connection, women are the ones aggressively pushing the idea men only see women as objects despite you all creating this hookup culture environment. Which is causing a lot of you to be single and childless at 35. The never ending vitriol and hatred towards men, which arguable could be considered dehumanizing; how do you expect me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:33 PM
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being direct doesn’t conflict with femininity; most women think they need to act masculine in order to be direct which is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:24 PM
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And the guys who don’t have issues with women that have nothing to offer besides pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:37 AM
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Plenty of women do focus on dating one guy at a time. I clearly meant 3-5 dates with the same guy. This comment alone shows you don’t have experience dating right now or think you are special. The exception would be singular focus that isn’t a norm in hookup culture. Who the fuck has time to date 3 guys in a week? Women who go on dates. you clearly don’t date or have female friends this is normal Why are you assuming women are regularly have one night stands with 3 guys every month? That is an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 AM
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Most women are fucking men if they go on 3-5 dates. That's not "sleeping around" Considering women don’t focus on one guy at a time if you see 3 different guys a week that’s 12. 3 are probably going to be ons with 3 to “ date “ so in one month you got 6 dudes yearly 72. if you want to be “ modest “ we can say she only sleeps with 32 a year, it’s basic math. But lets not act like women generally only sleep with 12 guys an entire year. Women “ never have a problem “ until things are laid out in fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:05 AM
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women tend to play that card when they can’t actually respond to what was said, which you have yet to do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:51 PM
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historically the middle east hasn’t been the best for women i think we all know that. India has had a caste system for eons with china recently being more… overtly unappreciative of women. Being the longest standing civilization with vast surface area pinning down how women are treated would go beyond this conversation if done properly. Those would be the big 3 leaving out hundreds of other countries with innumerable cultures. Africa is largely tainted by colonialism with precolonial history of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:41 PM
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there isn’t a double standard because men and women are not the exact same this is elementary level biology. Men produce sperm our entire lives because our biological imperative is to spread our dna as much and long as possible. 90% of a woman’s eggs are gone by 30 because she is meant to have children before then. Biology doesn’t conform to society. There is a reason women who sleep around end up on SSRI’s & constant “ situationships “ , you are biologically primed to have kids before 30. Not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:49 PM
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how about actually reading instead of emotionally reacting to words nobody said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:48 PM
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SA and DA are forever excluded from these conversations because that’s the jail free cards, those are exceptions not the norm. The rest is essentially justifying poor decision making since there never seems to be an issue thinking 5-10 years ahead for career goals or school so no cognitive impairment is at play. "Humanizes them" Oh get screwed. You men through history used that crap to treat women as property and stalk our sexuality. For one i’m not european so none of that applies to my culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:55 PM
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women aren’t men ,why do you have such a desire to be a man? we are not the same , i have a dick you get periods , our bodies and brains function differently because of our reproductive difference’s. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should, especially knowing future repercussions. Nobody said be a virgin but if each person you sleep with adds to the list of problems why keep doing it? I’m at the point myself were i will be looking for younger women who haven’t spent years sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:23 AM
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then when men “ get better “ and don’t want her we’ll be misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:10 AM
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Man it is beyond old women taking zero accountability in their own faults. Yall deliberately chose walking red flags or make obviously poor choices yet cannot ever admit maybe there is something wrong with you and the decisions you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:02 AM
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The question , instead of as usual framing it in way men standards are negative. Why do you need to sleep with so many people anyway? I never understood why women would rather spend 5-10 years hooking up instead of investing that energy into relationships. Especially knowing men see it as lack of discipline and inability to actually have relationships. Nearly every woman i’ve “ dated “ or known who slept around has extreme issues in actually having a monogamous relationship. Either they can’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:12 AM
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it is literally plastered everywhere women want men who make six figures. You have to not be actively dating or not have social media to even pretend that isn’t current reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:31 AM
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https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2017/08/more-adults-living-without-children.html Not like kevin samuels built his entire platform of the matter but you know better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:34 AM
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Yeah i’m pretty sure it’s women who are over 30 and single because of their high standards. Men can actively date well into their 50s, i think this is framed in a way to make a womans issue a man’s fault as usual. Women would have more success if they stopped overvaluing themselves and downplaying their part in failed relationships. It cannot always be a mans fault
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:47 AM
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we know this from the obsession with 8-9 inch dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:39 AM
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because as men we are thinking of the other men banging her within an hour; while she “ likes us so much “ to make us put extraneous effort over time for something other guys didn’t have to work for while also drastically toning down the experience. The issue is women don’t care to learn how men think or even bother seeing things beyond their own point of view. Like everything else in modern dating it’s better to gaslight the man into going against his own judgement rather than actually doing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:29 AM
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because as men we are thinking other the other men banging the hell put of her within an hour; while she likes us so much to make us put extraneous effort over time for something other guys didn’t have to work for while also drastically toning down the experience. The issue is women don’t care to learn how men think or even bother seeing things beyond their own point of view. Like everything else in modern dating it’s better to gaslight the man into going against his own judgement rather than ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:27 AM
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Being desperate is forgoing your self respect to preserve a girl’s ego. He is clearly setting his standard which is always an “ insecure “ thing for men to do. When in reality women are insecure about the consequences of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:50 AM
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It’s really fucked how how women refuse to accept we have different standards & perceptions in regards to dating. Also how they hide stuff amongst each other with it always drunkenly coming out later. There wouldn’t have been anything wrong with her bringing that up early on for you to decide if she is your type. things like this pretty much solidify women know men don’t like sexcapades but pick temporary fun over long term consequences. imagine yall are married with everything being fine for an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:32 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:02 AM
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im speaking outside of the movie. Women love talking about porn with men but skirt the social media addictions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:57 AM
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porn for women would be social media not romcoms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:45 AM
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he gives off that “ slightly older kid who sells drugs on the playground “ vibe. Like, i think it’s more of an emotional reaction than the guy actually being anything. His entire message summed up is “ don’t make women the center of your life” which we should all get after 23 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:35 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0304387815001327
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:03 AM
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who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:43 AM
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I feel that’s such a simple thing i can’t even explain. Ever since birthcontrol was implemented divorce rates and single mothers have been through the roof. There was a major social stigma with relations outside of marriage or being a single mother which drastically prevented women leaving due to “ feelings” or the notion children don’t need fathers or stable parent relationships. Now women can have several kids with various men with zero shame or consequence. Women can literally divorce a man b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:02 AM
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you are asking how making women accountable for their glaringly obvious dumb choices helps men (society) as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:00 AM
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Because i want to obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:03 PM
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i literally do not care about the opinion of random people online
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:10 AM
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It’s largely holding women accountable for their own toxicity instead of blaming men. You never see women admit fault in why a relationship didn’t work out the universal answer is always the man’s fault somehow. Even in person trying to get a woman to see let alone admit she was wrong, on anything, can be one of the most difficult things a man can deal with. Women don’t think outside themselves to consider they aren’t perfect and carry their issues with men unto each relationship expecting the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:09 AM
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Women will gaslight basic biology than admit being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:50 PM
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So they aren’t the same, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:41 PM
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So why aren’t men as emotional if our brains are 1:1 exactly the same? Why don’t men get crazy once a month if the chemistry is 1:1 the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:34 PM
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So why don’t women stop making these jokes? It’s like yall never take any responsibility for your own behavior or acknowledge that of women in general; while bringing up the negative behaviors of a few men projecting that unto all of is under “ possibilities “. Men don’t talk about other dudes dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:16 AM
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nah thats what women say when they don’t like an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:53 AM
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So your eyes and feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:40 PM
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Why does it bother yall that we are different? why do you want to be exactly like a man so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:40 AM
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The brains are wired different between men and women bruh. No amount of commenting is going to change a fact regardless how it makes you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:49 AM
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google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:17 AM
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google and come back i’m not debating what is essentially common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:03 AM
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Nobody was speaking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:03 AM
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yerp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:38 AM
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yea because i’ve seen it, consistently. For all of human history younger women and older men have been paired, plenty of studies showing why they attract each other. The only reason it is an “ issue “ now because older women are becoming increasingly single so instead of improving themselves they would rather compete with younger women & start trying to shame men for naturally liking younger women. (bitter) Women have a habit of using extreme perverse instances as standard instead of a deviation…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:37 AM
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i’m assuming you are just responding and not taking the .1 seconds to check before responding with google
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:42 PM
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Yall are the ones dragging it off topic nobody was talking about random hypotheticals you can clearly read from the first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:41 PM
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The brain is a physical part of your body fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:39 PM
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what is this middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:39 PM
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and women have dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:24 PM
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There is no biological evidence or are you ignorant/ willing to ignore evidence to fit your preconception? really no point in trying to argue a scientific fact, everyone should be well aware of and is easily verified using google. Nor have i ever met a woman who wanted to argue against this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:35 PM
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At what point will you realise that you can't uncritically label every difference between men and women as "biology"? So what purpose did this comment have? Nobody should be arguing basic sex ed being women mature faster which was the only thing i commented on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:10 PM
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I would prefer not typing a paragraph explain to reddit what a club is, why people go to clubs, and the type of people who go to clubs. The simple point was they aren’t stereotypical old men but i’m sure you’ll overanalyze and break this comment down too 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:59 PM
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somehow your logic warped that way so thats what you want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:52 PM
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The ones that look good at 50 or don’t look 50 at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:46 PM
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That men and women are biologically different and no amount of whatever feminism this is now will change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:45 PM
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How big is your dick then woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:47 PM
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bro ,see , this is not what we are talking about Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:39 PM
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Talking about guests not employees
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:32 PM
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If you haven’t seen younger women with or chase older men that is one thing. But that is a good morning laugh if you really don’t think 23 year old college chicks do not like 50 year old men. Walking into any club instantly destroys that bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:23 PM
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Body count for men is money to women which is why i gave that example.I have no idea where porn came from or understand the relevance. You can only have a pattern with consistent repetition hence why we would rather not deal with the mental mess of a woman who’s gone through men without care. we agree on that point the rest is you forcing a woman’s perspective on men’s reasoning which is why you aren’t understanding. As for the age gap that is straight up biology and all of human history . I dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:16 PM
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At what point do you realize biology isn’t a social construct to be edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:38 PM
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There is still a disconnect between “ i don’t care what people think “ and “ who i have sex with is private”. I’m not asking you specifically but women use that contradictory language to skirt answering questions they feel uncomfortable then project that unto men who are doing their vetting process. women love asking how much money money a man makes but guys can’t ask how many men a woman has slept with when both are numbers. Yet the man is insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:29 PM
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wouldn’t you be the insecure one for not being about to talk about sexual history? We struggle to understand how it’s now empowering to be promiscuous yet for some reason woman don’t want to talk unless they are comparing you to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:44 AM
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Why can’t women take responsibility for their own actions when negative instead of throwing the blame men card? The entire conversation is disingenuous since no woman proudly declares her number when asked. Men ask because women with milage almost always come with a list of unresolved issues to solve , a handful of guys she’ll be comparing to and probably unable to be satisfied or burnt out. Women are quick to call men with standards or those that actually vet insincere because they probably don…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:41 AM
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Who is talking about sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:49 PM
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because the feelings men express beyond negative ones generally aren’t liked by women unless it’s towards them in a hyper-specific manner serving that individual woman. We go over this all time women truly don’t care unless it’s expressed a certain way for certain reasons at certain times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:14 PM
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After a certain point of repeating bad behavior than yea. Nobody is ever talking about single instances with these examples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:15 PM
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Previous generations of women were treated as objects, as commodities and now that we have choice we don’t have to settle for low quality men to avoid being homeless. TBH yall traded that for objectifying yourselves with “ fun “ , being hypersexual on social media and leaving stable relationships for a emotionally driven hookup which then leaves you homeless or back at moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:43 AM
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Not saying it isn't rough for guys too, but you can't just discount women's experiences all we ever hear is womens pov because any comment from our end is speaking over or being “ insecure “
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:35 PM
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You're just thinking of examples where that isnt the case and making entire generalizations about it. I mean in brutal honesty that’s all relationships are at this point. The man is just a walking atm with some adventure until the monkey bar swings due to boredom That’s reflected in divorce rates which are overwhelmingly filed by women because that’s in your favor as well ,there is even the term “ starter marriage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:33 PM
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And yet you guys still complain no matter how good you have it. because we give for you to take which is what the post is about. The relationship essentially sits on the mans shoulders while you get the fun ride
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:04 PM
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the honesty is refreshing but also why there are so many suicides
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:38 AM
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This also leads to woman not take responsible for they own inability. She will then tipicly blame "drifting apart" as the reason when actuality it's because she just ignored that she was still in a relationship. i really wish we could put a spotlight on how women want the freedom to do everything without consequence. So many of their behaviors boil down to lack of responsibility which is why everything is the man’s fault. You will rarely hear a woman admit her own poor choices and if so it’s bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:35 AM
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The movement is why sometimes you can reach it in the same position and other times not. Researching female anatomy instead of depending on statistics would do you better. Her level of arousal is the biggest factor of what goes on down there which is why initially it might not fit but will easily 10 mins later. vaginas stretch in adjustment which usually happens in LTR hence “ perfect size “. This sub needs to stop taking statistics as defacto while understanding even 1% of a million or billion …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:08 AM
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G,O,A spots my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:50 AM
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the cervix moves….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:41 AM
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Men only have an issue in this regard because of women. We literally talk about this. I'm 100% acknowledging biological aspects for dating in a genuine manner which will go against the current social trend if we are to be realistic. That's why it's unhealthy to have such unbalanced criticisms when one side is blind to what they positively respond to vs say they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:00 PM
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The issue which gets conveniently ignored is that women are nonstop emotional outbursts which we are " naturally" supposed to be ok with yet men need to limit their emotions in a way which makes women comfortable. You are literally telling us our emotions are only valid "in a correct sense" yet we have to deal with emotional outbursts over the smallest and most random things the entire relationship. Like men don't think it's unnatural to burst out crying from nowhere about something that happene…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:38 PM
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I thought there was a clear difference between romancing an interested partner vs moving heaven and earth for a woman you met an hour ago. Don't complain about lovebombing when this is exactly what you are rooting for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:07 PM
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i think they also don’t care either. i’ve noticed threads always seem to die when an issue falls more on women lacking accountability / responsibility than blaming “ toxic masculinity”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:19 PM
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No SO should be the only person you rely on to shoulder your emotions if you have a mental health issues. So where is the line I get the reinforced societal BS, but how do you change it? You start calling out women and men who tell you that it's weak to show and talk about your feelings. I don't know any women who talk about their issues "in a perfect world". I've typically seen men express their issues with anger, withdrawing, sullenness. that’s what i mean by “ perfect world” . You don’t think…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:12 PM
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our SO can't always be the person you rely on how exactly is this supposed to work with how emotional women are? This is what guys men about being the therapist because it doesn’t work this way in reality. You have to know when to see a professional why is there a line for men when venting emotions yet women by no means have one and would feel insulted to the moon if this was said. I don't understand why this sub thinks these two things are mutually exclusive reinforced societal experiences. maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:21 AM
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women seem to really struggle with the idea of men wanting to be desired instead of “ he’s ok “.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:49 PM
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How about dealing with your urges yourself Enters porn addiction & ED just like women you should research the differences we have towards sex biological and stop pushing social standards on every single instance of interaction. many decent people do it Implying sex workers are indecent and wholly ignorant of the rampant porn addiction/ed men have. Are you telling me the only options are sexual exploitation, sexual assault or being used and lied to like f-boys? Like, are you actually thinking or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:11 PM
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Are women completely oblivious how offended they were when dudes said they wouldn’t date a sex worker in a post last week? This is honestly a perfect example of the double standards we point out Woman sex worker- don’t judge her past, people change, she might not have even liked it Men who see sex workers- Ew, never
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:58 PM
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like, you know what the context use, was used in. I don’t think women understand the strong urge men get after awhile it’s our biology. Would you rather men see sex workers or fuck & leave you? can’t have it both ways or really dictate how the opposite sex should handle urges when dating isn’t working. Shouldn’t you think sexual assaults towards women would drastically drop if men could appropriately get urges out? We don’t have the same thoughts towards sex with is literally the nature of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:52 PM
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tbh i dislike how women perpetuate their own bias & insecurity's on men which gets men in trouble for the same. Women seem to think shitty men is synonymous for men in general but stress “ not all women “ if a similar sentiment is shared. It’s the same with race; bad experiences with white men are so so when one black guy means never black men ever again. Yea we are painfully are aware how shitty poorly raised & socialized men treat women. Why does this need to be discussed in every single topic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:06 PM
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i didn’t mean to tick you off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:44 AM
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It’s tiring figuring out what women like and what is the best way to go about things. it’s always the opposite of what you are doing that’s why guys are essentially giving up dating and encouraging women to seek their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:21 AM
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isn’t that rather presumptuous though? Girls assume the same of me because i like fitness / hiking. long as we can atleast have walks around the neighborhood and do easy hikes literally once or twice a year no problem. Any decent person would encourage more healthy activities, hope their partner would entertain their hobbies but never force someone to partake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:55 AM
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Well what is the natural mating process for humans? each society approach's this differently without there ever being underlying consistency or requirements. there aren’t many ( any?) documentary's focusing on humans as an animal without any anthropomorphism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:50 PM
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is the woman an adult capable of making her own choices or not?
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