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Worth noting is that those "lower calorie" foods are just a larger % of water.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 06:32 PM
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I get that take on big pharma in general (trust me, I am type 1 diabetic and it's unbelievable the amount of shit other than insulin people try to make me buy), but for antidepressants I think it's worth noting that depressed people who take them often feel better.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:27 PM
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Antidepressants literally re-balance the unbalanced chemicals. They have helped a lot of people and are certainly worth a try. People have a resistance to a lot of medication, which I understand for almost all "conditions" except depression. Drugs can help.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:11 PM
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She wears an impressive mask
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 05:01 PM
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Definitely the latter from your perspective
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 04:02 PM
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Don't forget the fake tits
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 04:02 PM
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I think she's borderline as well, which makes the hamster wheel analogy even truer
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 03:54 PM
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Can't even imagine what's on the other 153.
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 03:54 PM
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You should see what she wrote directly to me in her breakup letter.
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 03:53 PM
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Way off. Assuming 8% annual returns, $6,000 a year for 22 years compounded annually will be about $368k at age 40. A 4% draw from this would be under $15k annually. ​ Edit: How do you get from "40 years of IRA returns w/ max contributions gets you just over $1m" in the first sentence to "22 years of IRA returns w/ max contributions starting at age 18 will get you $3.4m?"
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:05 PM
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Way off. Assuming 8% annual returns, $6,000 a year for 22 years compounded annually will be about $368k at age 40. A 4% draw from this would be under $15k annually.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:04 PM
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u/pandalitter give me about 3 hours. You better read the shit and give me a thoughtful-ass reply.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:57 PM
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Yeah it's probably not the coffee haha. Glad you have found something that works for you though, just being lean puts you in the top 10% of people these days.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:48 PM
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I feel that way because that's what I have come to understand to be the truth. It doesn't come from any one place. Unmarried people lose the ability to interact with married people once they are married.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:47 PM
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I am hoping my end result will be a positive one as well. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:09 AM
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Thanks for the input; I'll check those places out. I really can't do anything about the dude and would rather not bother with it. He's a cunt but he performs well and they aren't going to boot him out because he slept with one of the people who reports to him. I should be able to report him and get him fired, and at any self-respecting establishment, I could. But, this place is a frat house as I said, and he performs well. It's a sales job. If anything they encourage behavior like this in the in…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:07 AM
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Right, I meant to address that too. AFAIK there is no physiological mechanism which would allow a logical person to conclude that "caffeine burns fat." All it does is pick your heart rate up a little and add a couple calories to your TDEE. The rest of your diet, how frequently you eat, etc. is what determines what kind of energy is utilized by your body in burning up those 10 extra caffeine calories. But just like you can't target fat loss with exercise (e.g. doing sit-ups will never burn stomac…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:59 PM
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That is such a sad way to look at it. How do you structure your relationships? I imagine if your father has been married for 50 years that you must be old enough to have gone through the time in your life when most people shackle themselves to each other.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:41 PM
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Thanks man. The post makes me sounds depressed, which is partially true, but it's not because I am a depressed person by nature. It's because something in my life went horribly wrong lol.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:30 PM
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I think they would equally reprehensible, if you knew. If I found out a plate was married after some time together, I'd let her know I think that's shitty and then next her. What I dislike about it is that I think the world would be a better place if people who committed to other people did not break those commitments. I won't be one to propagate the type of behavior I wish was not present. All we are is the aggregate of our actions. Everyone collectively affects everyone else. Think of yourself…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:28 PM
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If we are talking like TDEE with and without caffeine, I bet the difference would be literally less than 10 calories a day. Then your sleep can be messed with which hurts recovery.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:24 PM
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How she acted was breaking up with me. At first I didn't know she had cheated, I found this out a few weeks ago. She immediately went from friendly lover who I knew well to complete alien and shut-in. Probably due to her guilt. Dude is not married and essentially is the "HR department" there. I have no recourse. He has been inappropriate since she started working here; asking her about our sex life, asking her to have private meetings in her car, rewarding her performance with offers to have 1-o…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:23 PM
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I think the difference it makes is trivial.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:00 PM
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I feel like the Red Pill is about taking agency of your life to be better. How are you better for that?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 05:57 PM
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Because my friends haven't been through something like that. In the post I asked for some men to speak from experience, and I'd say I got a great turnout.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:57 PM
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The anger phase of what?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:55 PM
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u/speedracer1111 Also I'd appreciate if you expand a little on your toss-out of the moral compass. I have had opportunities already since this breakup to be with 2 married women (separately) and I didn't for the sole reason that they were married. I didn't want to be the reason some other man has to go through what I am going through. Some part of you has to understand that you shouldn't do that to people -- where's your head at here?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:54 PM
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I believe her that it was the first time. We talked about infidelity at the genesis of our relationship, and I made it dead fucking clear that anything like that would be a dealbreaker. She didn't have the balls to tell me she did it -- she just broke up with me that weekend when I came back. I found out the truth later, somehow else. ​ Where I fell short here I think was not setting appropriate boundaries before the cheating happened.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:52 PM
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I appreciate it man, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:50 PM
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I appreciate it man, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:50 PM
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The place she worked is more of a frat house than a company. It's a bunch of mid-40s men, and her -- a beautiful late 20s redhead girl. No other women can handle that job for more than a couple weeks, always get driven out. My god should that have been a red flag.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:48 PM
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Ha that's another thing is that it wasn't just her that thought I was hot shit, it was her entire family and all our mutual friends. Which, honestly -- red flag. Her aunt told her that if she ever left me she would kill her. ​ I also remind myself of the following saying; pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. It will hurt, but it's your choice if you let it bring you down. I like this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:47 PM
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I found out by accident, she never would have told me. But she knew she fucked up. She broke up with me that weekend and just made up a bunch of shit about why. I just left and stayed with other friends and such until about a month later I finally got a piece of info that gave me the truth, which was that she cheated and couldn't handle the guilt, so she broke it off with me. I know about the solipsism, etc. Did the blocking. I need to work on myself a bit before I am ready to get back into dati…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:45 PM
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Sorry you had to go through that, man. Thank you for sharing your take.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:41 PM
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Tough love is exactly what I am asking for :)
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:39 PM
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Interesting, I thought it would help rather than compound any affect. I'll give it another few weeks and then bring it back.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:39 PM
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I would journal about this relationship. What did you learn ? About yourself and her ? What lessons can you take out of this ? Look back and right down all the red flags and warning signs and right down all the times you gave into her frame. I like to write -- I'll give this a shot. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:38 PM
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I've been there and I don't think it's the kind of support I need. The fundamental message (to me) of TRP is that your suffering is your fault, and that this is good. It means you can fix it. Crawl your way out. Change the way you think and behave. Plan and prepare. You can be more than you are, and that will make things better for you. MGTOW people have given up. Their suffering is due to the nature of women and society and no matter what they do, they can never really be safe. It doesn't matte…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:36 PM
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Thanks. I am very patient but this really wears me out.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:31 PM
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I've thought about meditation... might try to pick that up. Also I'll check those vids out. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:30 PM
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her actions speak about her character... not about your value. Thanks, this is good stuff.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:29 PM
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I drank too much of it and like to prove to myself that I don't need things. It will come back, but it's helpful to know I can do without. ​ Also I'm sorry about that man. I know my situation could be much worse. Hope you are healthy now.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:28 PM
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I like this. First TRP pill post I saw was the stoic trio of mindsets posts about negative visualization, voluntary discomfort, and a view from above. I reflect on these often, but did not do so enough in the context of the relationship. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:27 PM
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Have you had to deal with her rebound?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:26 PM
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OK A lot To be better, fundamentally. I don't know, I'll have to try things. Probably a month. The things I have been doing. On it. I guess my timeline is a little short.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:25 PM
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Damn you and your flair! I'll have to think about this. I have a lot of resistance to your opposition to building a relationship. I agree with a lot of the rest but I'd like to think that aside from our bodies, people do not depreciate.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:22 PM
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Who knows if I am getting out enough, definitely less. I am working on this.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:51 PM
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You can't treat a woman better than she thinks of herself. This is probably the crux of it. And please, keep us posted as to your progress from this and any insights you come up with from it. I will. Give me a year.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:49 PM
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Never forgive, or never tell her that she is forgiven?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:43 PM
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I guess all the women I am thinking of have lower SMV than me. Interesting point!
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:39 PM
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I sat back and thought about this and most of you is right. My only counter to your point would be the time we shared. The one thing she had which was one-of-a-kind, which no one else currently has, is a little bit of me. We came together in a lot of ways through that time. She herself is "leavable" and replaceable, but she herself literally WAS me, a little bit. So, that part of me goes with her. Just playing devils advocate here, important to note that I'm not hung up on her, just working thro…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:37 PM
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Stories are tough because only one person writes them. There'd be some bias in there. And straight up I like to write, so I'd take like an hour or more to do it. Then me putting the story in my post would make me look like a nut. No one would read it through and even if they did I'd likely get advice I have already heard from telling friends in real life.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:07 AM
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I'll consider it. It wouldn't help.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:58 AM
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I haven't even begun to think about how I'm going to deal with her inevitable relapse yet. The criminal sympathy (or lack thereof) is helpful. Thanks for the new take on it.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:57 AM
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It may be helpful for me to write down things I dislike about here, I like that idea. Onwards and upwards indeed, my friend!
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:47 AM
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You can't see red flags when you're wearing rose colored glasses. This is one of those dumb quotes that actually smacks. It's hard for me to accept the AWALT mindset 100%. I feel like I know a lot of women who would just never do something like that. Part of me always knew that the girl I was with was the type of woman who would. Now here we are. Thanks for the input. I am looking forward to the emergence.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:45 AM
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Then I realized that the problem was me: I went into that with the wrong attitude, and let her control things. I was displaying some beta traits (jealousy, complaining, etc.). I was still relatively young and stupid. I am coming to this conclusion as well and it is uncomfortable. Old me is dying, new me doesn't know itself yet.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:39 AM
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Ha you'd love the whole story. Sales.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:38 AM
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This is one thing I have learned as well upon reflection; nothing she every said really mattered at all. The truth was to be found in her behavior.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:37 AM
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Your vision of yourself becomes cracked as the cheating is physically manifested evidence that you are flawed. Yep. You are free again. Am I really free if it came to be on someone else's terms? I feel pretty stuck. I get what you are saying though, and I hope I can come around this this soon.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:36 AM
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Thanks, this is comforting. Just hard to wait it out.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:33 AM
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Thanks, there were definitely some red flags. Some of which we addressed, some of which went unnoticed. I learned a lot for sure. 8 years is a long time... what did you get in to that you had been missing out on?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:33 AM
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It's not that I miss her. It's that I am shook by how shook I am from being cheated on. Took away all my control. I like the Halle Berry analogy though lol.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:31 AM
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How do I deal with the part of me that actually feels bad for her?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:29 AM
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Thanks. Tinder was a lot of fun in school, maybe I'll give it another go.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:27 AM
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Thanks, this is helpful. Definitely easy to forget that it wasn't all great and that when it was, it was because I helped to make it that way. I like #3.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:26 AM
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I was in this position with my LTR of 7 months (after finally getting out of the friend zone in a great 6+ year friendship). She cheated, and I told the only family member who was ever on her side in her life about it. Mad regret -- just made things worse. I actually contemplated writing her grandmother to say I made the whole thing up, that's how bad it got. The bottom line is it will not help you, and that's what you should be concerned with. It will make her life harder, maybe -- but probably…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:42 PM
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might be the move.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:46 PM
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Interesting, didn't pick up on that
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:46 PM
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My summary made it sound this way but I'm reasonably confident it didn't come across like this. This was total time invested of like 1/2 hr. But appreciate the feedback, I will just wait.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:46 PM
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what's LJBF?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:02 PM
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Ask TRP sidebar PDF My b, thanks for the links
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:51 PM
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Thanks. Tough to accept all this at once.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:36 PM
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So definitely want to chose B; what the hell would we talk about? Is there a way for me to get some power back before I ghost?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:23 PM
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