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| 10 | Severe depression after wife dumped me and divorce.You will find that your story is far from uncommon. People like your ex will embrace and believe anything that makes them feel right. They cannot be the villain so everything is going to be your fault -- they fell out of love, they will claim you did things you never did, you weren't their soul mate, and so on. Then you will watch them cheat down, end up with losers and eventually be the same horrible person they were with you with anyone else that comes later. Healthy people I know who divorced… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Divorce and security clearanceQuestions about your clearance are probably best addressed within that world. You are not going to be able to hide a divorce, if you do try be assured that would impact your clearance. If you have periodic background checks they will be contacting your ex at some point. So if she is already claiming sexual abuse and is stating she wants people to know they will eventually hear it. Assuming you are innocent here then you need to protect yourself and get a lawyer and stop assuming she will not att… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you factor in closing costs when buying your Ex out of the home with a Refi?I had a hard enough time convincing my future ex that we subtract mortgages from market value then divide the equity in half. No way would explain the closing costs as part of this was going to make sense to them. Just mumble is still going to be cheaper than a lawyer and going to contested divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | I want 70% custody of my son. My soon to be ex wife says, that “I’m competing.” Am I wrong for wanting to spend more time with my son?Probably that she thinks you are going to get something nicer than she will and your son is going to want to spend more time with you. At the start of the separation/divorce talks I was going to make a quick move to an nearby area I always loved. Mentioned it briefly to our child when discussing with her what life would be like after we separated. She was excited to live in that area as well (fun location, walkable, not boring burbs were we are now). Wife got mad we were excited and told me I ca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 02:26 PM |
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