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If only you knew. keep swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:08 PM
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You made alot of assumptions here buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:07 PM
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Patriarchy... enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:53 PM
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Where did you make a good point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:49 PM
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"Excess"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:49 PM
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How many deadbeats? Give me corellating data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:48 PM
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Its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:46 PM
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deserve or crave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:54 PM
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I've cheated before, and as much of the red pill ideology that I may subscribe to myself, without being a red piller. I hated myself for it and it wasn't worth it. If you make a contract with someone to be monogamous, you're wrong if you break it. Man or woman. Don't hurt people. Lol I've made a post before about getting the truth from women about dating experiences and was down arrowed and fought against tooth and nail. Looking at the comment section- even though this post was addressed to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:49 PM
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If you're doing your thing and circumstances have you back or have kept you at your folks. Do not determine your value, because some lady thinks you aren't worth her time. As long as youre working hard and doing what you need to get YOU where YOU need to be. A woman's opinion on your current station is negligible. Guys out there, don't let it keep you down. For every woman like this, there is one (although rare) willing to work with you as you get your shit together. Keep it moving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:45 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:42 PM
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I've been downvoted into the shadow realm by bringing this up. It is what it is man. They hot the wall eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:39 PM
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They are there now. I don't need to count men out like you do. They are there right now. You aren't a man and you're judgement is negligible to whatever they need to do, to get themselves out of that condition. You're not dating them. Every woman is a "10" in your world. Let them be delusional, life will wake them up real quick, whether they hide from it or not. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:35 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:30 PM
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Men usually know where we stand on scale of attraction and financial stability. We don't delude ourselves, we get better. ALONE. Sans the handouts and free dates. Every man worth anything- reachea a point where he is beaten, broken, broke and decides to do something, because we don't have a choice. Why do you think more men at 40, 45, 50 have success in dating and partner finding? Because at that point, NO MATTER WHAT, you better have SOMETHING. Stats to back it up if you want to argue, im here …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:30 PM
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cap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:28 PM
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Yes we are and we are more often. Men are waking up. That's why every other post is "where the good men at", "men don't approach me" blah blah blah. We are equal now. For sanity sake, men are starting to prioritize themselves (also suicide).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:28 PM
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Bless you for offering this perspective. God damn this made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:26 PM
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lmao "the prize"? hahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:26 PM
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Learn to play the game and lie better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:24 PM
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Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:52 PM
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It's not injustice. It's delusion and non accountability. You can change definitions, use semantics to your benefit and advantage, move the goal post all you want. The fact is that MOST women hate to be accountable to their actions and would rather complain about men's biology and personal internal standards. Feminism is ruining women's happiness (imho, and sourced data). Feminism made alot of progress towards equitable stance in society for women, alot of good. Today it is wholeheartedly sellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:51 PM
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If these are dad bods, I need to see a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:11 PM
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Fresh and Fit are hyperbolic. They still are on point about ALOT more than people give them credit for. I would watch them for entertainment more than being the face of red pill or manosphere ideology. I don't even consider myself redpill, im just jaded and realistic so I'd probably fit without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:20 PM
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Litterally no reason to touch this one. Delusional opinions are strong as hell today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:16 PM
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Not how you felt (ugh). What we experience from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:01 PM
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Women say it's misogynistic or insecure (see how quickly she went to that) because most male standards make THEM insecure about their past and non accountability. Men's standards aren't intended to do that, they do as a by product of just being what it is. Women hate to be reminded of their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:59 PM
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It's not antiquated. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:11 PM
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you want to change biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:36 PM
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most men HATE clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:35 PM
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Thank you for spitting facts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:33 PM
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help other men get out of the dating trap. Delet their apps, stop having transactional relationships and focus on themselves and their needs. Seeing victims breaks my God damn heart today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:32 PM
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truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:31 PM
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Or a man who's simped so hard his bank account is in the negative triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:29 PM
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No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:24 PM
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Rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:35 PM
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...yo what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:50 PM
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I don't disagree with this. I'm an INFP (Maybe picked up more of the shadow traits in my old jadedness). I was making a suggestion based on her thoughts about herself and the climate of men not approaching women as much. But yeah, I don't disagree with anything you've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:39 PM
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⏰️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:25 PM
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I know rite? weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:10 PM
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In what way? Genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:10 PM
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I also agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:06 PM
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You're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:05 PM
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Nah it's not terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:04 PM
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🧂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:01 PM
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No I think you're wrong. He cares. Good job my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:01 PM
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Do you date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:58 PM
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They don't believe in gender or biological differences. We are all sexually liberated creatures with the exact same motivations and time tables. We are equal, but women have it worst- Don't you dare bring up science or data you sexist pig. 🥲 Someone take this planet please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:56 PM
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Lol yes you have described my situation exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:51 PM
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If you're reasonable in what you want, and see a guy or know a guy. You may just have to build up the resilience to possible rejection that most guys have to deal with. Risk in dating can't be avoided. If this is something you're truly seeking, Learn more about relationships, dating, male and female differences. Don't listen to the women on this site for information on how to get a man, atleast not solely. Do your homework, become the hunter lol It's rare that a woman approaches a man and it's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:48 PM
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Most of us are kind of done approaching women, but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:42 PM
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Alot of women would have to be happy with just racking up more points and living alone in seniority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:41 PM
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Meh. I'm relatively good looking I guess. My confidence is in the dumps after a terrible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:38 PM
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Men dont worry about your makeup and skincare routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:37 PM
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This is bs. I'm 6'2. I keep myself together. Women will approach me and I know it's for the shallowest reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:35 PM
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I would hope so. Do you want a medal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:33 PM
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Bro im 6'2, in shape. I hate you. You're not even wrong about much of what you're saying. You're still just- shutup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:44 PM
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Don't ever watch Love Island. But do go to the gym. Also fuck OPs smedium black tee wearing ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:42 PM
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Stop throwing out Fi doms, as if you have any real understanding of the term. Youre corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:37 PM
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Not only are you wrong, you don't have the perspective of a man to even make this comment. Men do it (AND ABSOLUTELY SHOULDNT) ALL THE TIME. "Men pretending" WOMEN pretend. Men say wtf we want. If being with a woman he wants to be with and he is simped and lost enough to think the deal is good and he can step up, there is NOTHING wrong with that, other than that man's future suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:35 PM
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SO THE FUCK WHAT. Yes he's doing it for access to the woman. If he does it right the woman's kids are raised and then go out into the world better. You made no real point and the lady underneath you cosigning is just glad you helped cement in her mind that men aren't altruistic just like she isn't. Bunch of bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:32 PM
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it also common
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:24 PM
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Saving men, by giving them perspective. The social decline is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:23 PM
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This was one of the dumbest post I've read today. I don't understand at all what point you're trying to make. This reads like something an AI anti red pill bot would come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:20 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:09 PM
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WHAT is wrong with KNOWING that men, who you're seeking if you're looking for a long term relationship, would rather not be with a woman with high body count. It has NOTHING to to with liberation or oppression. It isn't insecurity and it isn't ego. The standards most men have in this regard are relevant and can be explained. You're selfish. Like you explain this to women and they start crying misogyny. Such nonsense. It's fine not to care, but there's is such an overwhelming number of women scre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:06 AM
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Sick of the mask stuff. Throw the data out there. Tell women and men what's going on. Enough coddling women and shaming men for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:40 AM
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No it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:38 AM
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Don't women know men? You know what we think, how we think, who we are, how we oppress you, etc. Why are you asking men this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:41 AM
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the 6 blah blahs, are most women's icons. Yes. Line up 100 women. Ask them. Not even making a judgement on it. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:36 AM
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lol 😆 Men aren't that attracted to a woman's career or money if he is in a certain earning range. He is going to end up being the primary resource in the relationship MOST of the time. Whatever exceptio to the majority you have, woopdy doo. Saying a man making six figures is nothing is a great example of the points brought up on this sub reddit, but whatever. I just told you the percentage of men in that range as being litterally a rare commodity and you're saying it isn't special. I don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:34 AM
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Sex for men is hard, even if your value to women is high. By hard I mean you have to have something of value- Money, height, career, social competency, status. Sex for women isn't just easy, it's it's basically a non effort. You can walk outside and be approached, and if you're on a schedule- use a bullhorn and pick from a line up. It takes almost zero effort. I'm not sure why you would be surprised, at all, by a man's low body count. Unless he is out there casting a wide net, like it's his job.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:30 AM
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You can disagree all you want. They are attracted to. They don't pick when the man settles down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:12 AM
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So you're telling me that a man who meets a woman's standards today, you know the shallow rundown- 6ft (14.5%), making 6 figures (29%), attractive (20%/app polls, other general polls report women only finding 20% of the men shown to them on these polls attractive)... All of that, being sought by a majority of women. That man having a higher pool of women, vying for his attention. You're telling me that women DECIDE when that man is in and stays in the relationship, also when he gets married (70%…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:11 AM
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Hey whatever. get yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:24 AM
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Doesn't scare me. Lie to me and make it convincing. Be an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:23 AM
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I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with lying if you're trying to (I know this is offensive to women today) find a man. I know- the trash gender- But fuck it. Women have standards and men have standards, it's not changing that much. Lying is fine. I have no delusions that most women today are painted zebras. My thing is, just like women don't want to be disrespected or embarrassed by their man's lack of money, career or general ambition, don't embarrass and put your guy in bad situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:21 AM
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This come back is so tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:06 AM
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HOW is it gaslighting? Women tell men all the time about their standards, as soon as a man mentions their own it's oppressive or shaming or misogyny. Like this shit is so damn lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:04 AM
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Why do so many women truly believe that your sexual experiences with MANY different partners does not show AT ALL in your social behavior. It is experience. Men aren't lie detectors, if you have any sort of social competency- a person's personality and the way the hold themselves can indicate experience. Women do a great job at hiding it, or not at all, but your experience in life shapes you. Multiple partners, the choices and behavior around it, the relationships you've been in. TELL A STORY. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:03 AM
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Said by some lady. Wtf are you talking about? Why is it always some woman telling people what men think, feel and do? You have absolutely no idea what you're saying. You don't know anything about men. At over 30 I'm really and truly realizing women have absolutely no idea what men think or feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:59 AM
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Widows got benefits after their spouse passed... devorcees are monetarily covered for life depending on the length and status of the marriage... dating is free shit. Having children has a time constraint. During the hot girl period of the life most women today are enjoying they "don't need a man". 30 rolls around and it's uh oh time. The men have options, if they've stabilized themselves and managed to keep their resources. So does this count as survival? Alone with your money and degrees is a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:56 AM
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I have seen, heard and experienced an OVERWHELMING number of women having fun dating, and being sexualy free- until a certain time and biological constraint forces them to start deciding there next move. So many women deny this is a factor in life, until the "where the good men at?" period of life. They seem to be having fun now though. Free dates, dinners, trips. Why not right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:24 AM
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This just isn't attractive to the men most women want to have a long term relationship with. It is what it is. Free country, do what you want, accept the time and options your left with.🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:20 AM
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Women decide who has sex. Men decide who has a relationship and marriage. Do what you want. Understand what limits your availability to the standard you have for whatever you want to do with the opposite sex. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:19 AM
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So you took the point that your less attractive friends being in long term relationships might mean that looks aren't that attractive? WHAT? That's really a question you have? If you're a woman I am truly stunned that this is the thought. Attractive, "successful" women want to date and believe they deserve the VERY small percentage of high earning, attractive men. These men pick from a large pool. That's one of the biggest reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:16 AM
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No. Men are trash remember. Teach the women to shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:11 AM
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You have much to learn young padawan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:13 PM
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"why am I able to date multiple at a time " did you truly just ask that? So many directions I can go right now with your responses.. You're 22. I'm just going to drink my tea. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:31 PM
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vibes, feelings. stahp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:30 PM
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Not bitter. it is what it is. Wish more guys were aware and stopped chasing. Facts are facts. biology is biology. I hope the studies backing future trends play out better at 30 for you than it does for most men at 30. Not looking great though. Gonna be some cold winters. The modern dating scene is in my favor, without going into details. It is what it is. I just want men to save themselves from the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:10 PM
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Dating is a pretty great deal for most future cat parents. Return in 10 years and good luck on being the minority of a majority. God's speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:58 PM
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do you boo🐈‍⬛️ feels good to know where things are headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:39 PM
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not be delusional about your options, value and length of time to all chase the same dude who doesn't want you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:34 PM
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That's not a struggle. That's delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:35 PM
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Are you actually surprised by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:35 PM
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and common
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:13 AM
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🤘🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:48 PM
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I have a great group of female friends, but it took work and I'm glad to have the girls in my life that I do. They are invaluable with advice on things and even vetting romantic relationships- IT does though, take more work to reach a true platonic friendship than it would with guys and that just comes with real care and understanding. Absolutely worth it to have a mixed group of friends. I'm not a red piller, I'm just 35, don't care about being canceled and I'm a firm believer that men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:55 PM
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I gotta get me one of these attractive sociable networks. thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:50 PM
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I think its just an either natural or common thing. I'm sure it feels good to have someone you can depend on. The lines just get blurred sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:17 PM
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I think its absolutely necessary for a man to know women are humans. I just have a hard time believing most women want a man to have female friends. Observation and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:14 PM
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Be picky. If you're doing well getting dates and attractive, treat yourself like you're the catch. You are. Don't let the zeitgeist or social media or even what women say let you forget that you are. No one is owed you, even if most women think they're owed some HVM (such a delusional and dumb label). Do you sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:22 PM
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What is socialization? Socialization is exactly biologically informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:13 PM
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sure. it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:03 PM
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Because the choice to stay and leave can often be fical and fleeting for women. You don't need us, so why stay when there's a problem. It makes the risk financially and mentally great. Also if a man wants sex and seems of value to multiple women. What does he gain by being in a relationship with one woman. I believe in relationships but im offering a reason that many men have until they decide to jump into the fire. You don't need us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:53 PM
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They want the benefits of having their cake and eating someone else's cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:51 PM
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In your 30s this happens alot and it's soul killing imho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:50 PM
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I'm so happy this response came from a woman. Legit gives me hope in common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:49 PM
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elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:46 PM
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There's often no cost other than reputation and potential disease and pregnancy for women. it cost them nothing and it's easy. Why wouldn't they do it until judgement comes, which women don't care about now. Casual sex for men and women is different. I absolutely believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:46 PM
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I kind of agree with this. As much as a bang the drum of dating unfairness for men. Casual sex can really start to kill you mentally. Atleast in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:44 PM
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Your guy friends also help you more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:43 PM
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No. I don't mean that. I mean that in excess. That's what I mean. Your guy friends do this less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:42 PM
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What culture are you living in where dating outside apps is viable or common. Men don't even approach women very often because of the social climate. I'm not saying you're wrong, im just saying I'm not seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:41 PM
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Being picky is harder, but ABSOLUTELY necessary for happiness. Just deal with the fact that it's going through fire to find a diamond. I'm a broken man, im kind of defeated in the dating game- I still after all my experience, recognize that this is the way forward if you want to find a good person who cares about you and makes your life better. Friends included. I know it's possible. Just have self respect, boundaries and don't budge AT ALL just to be with a woman. Be yourself and respect yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:39 PM
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So you don't believe the stats on dating, marriage, child rearing can give any insight into this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:36 PM
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The problem is they don't choose men to have relationships with, they choose men they think would want to have a relationship with them. Money for men offers you options in who you choose for a relationship, it offers women the delusion of thinking they could have a relationship with a man who has options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:35 PM
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Women don't care about having kids until they care about having kids and then attack men for having options at the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:33 PM
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"junk science" are stats "junk"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:32 PM
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Is it the red pullers who deny biology or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:31 PM
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Problem is, this is most women. so you just need to be as picky when dating as you would be with making friends. even that doesn't save you from the potential jealous territorial nature of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:30 PM
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um sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:28 PM
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Having female friends is great for gathering data and perspective. I have never had a female friend where at some point they don't ask for SOMETHING though. Move this, drive me here, answer my text etc. If you're cool with that, it's fine I guess. Until your unfortunate enough to get into a relationship and your girl wants you to delete your female friends because she needs total claim over you, until the pull to greener grass causes her to leave you high and dry. I know I'm a broken man, no nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:28 PM
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This is extremely common behavior around many women. When you're weak, they start "feeling" the pull elsewhere. Then they are confused as to why men are reluctant to be vulnerable around them. For our mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:25 PM
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well finding love seems extraordinary nowadays. And I don't know if its a small vocal minority or a greater trend, but it seems like men are going there own way and women are going there own way for awhile, until they get to a point where time starts to become a factor. Older men seem to be alone, make it through the fire of rejection until they are stable enough to be of value to women. I 100% know this isn't all of either genders, but I do think the perception of this idea is poisoning both we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:55 AM
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Not sure how old you are, but if you're in the dating market.. these choices of cooperative women are so few and far between. Their is a cultural of selfishness and quasi independence. Women today are doing well, educated and their standards are so high. These things aren't inherently bad, but when a woman believes she has a million options forever, it just seems like such a risk. The seeming fickle nature of this female dating culture just makes it terrifying. You bring up all good points thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:28 AM
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You know what, I'm going to apologize. I litterally didn't see your small wording at the end. I actually 100% agree with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:11 AM
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The stats are more split than I realized but 98% of people receiving alimony are women. It just often seems that the woman a man is likely to be attracted to and settle down with generally is the breadwinner, whether she's a house wife or not and if they have children the risk of asset loss in divorce increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:56 PM
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A prenuptial is almost always grounds for a woman not to go through with marriage anyway. She won't benefit if things go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:27 PM
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I really appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:26 PM
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A woman who is flexible, truly excited to be around you and takes initiative to reach out to you is hard to find but a great indicator, I've found.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:24 PM
4

Omg. stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:22 PM
3

Then why are so many women hitting 35 and looking for a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:21 PM
1

Right so marriage is a liability. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:20 PM
1

It isn't any other activity. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:19 PM
0

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:16 PM
1

Most men stay. For better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:13 PM
2

Answers like this is why I don't think most ment should ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:13 PM
1

maybe because there's a real trend in the dating realm and not a matter of love. so much denial of facts. women denying their behavior, men being lost and cunfused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:09 PM
17

The amount of times a woman has mocked me when going through a difficult time is traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:03 AM
-1

Thats great. Not America or American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:01 AM
1

Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:58 AM
1

Please do go full Hasidim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:56 AM
1

I don't even know where to begin with this... All men don't give attention to women in order to "use your body for sex". WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:56 AM
1

I don't think it's as simple as just not giving attention to women. We like you. We aren't often seeking a woman for her financial or social status. Men are attracted by looks and femininity, kindness etc. How are men supposed to be expected to not give a woman attention if that's the only way to be noticed by a woman. Just wait their whole lives and hope to be noticed? I personally don't try to "pick up women" and I'm often uncomfortable with the attention I may sometimes get (shy boy), but how…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:53 AM
4

If youre a woman who has experienced any sort of attention from men. Known what it feels like and developed with that being a part of your life and you woke up tomorrow and for the rest of your days you got absolutely no attention from men, you would be fine with that? I'm going with that you are attracted to men. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:41 AM
6

You wouldn't survive that world. You need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:20 AM
1

Do you think that if a man is with a woman with a high body count, the possibility of traumas, dram is any higher than one without? Example: she has gotten around locally and jealous man you had "fun" with encounters you with your partner. Is there nothing to this that might concern your partner? It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:12 AM
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High body counts create so much risk for men. Especially if the "fun" happened locally. Like why is this difficult to understand? Do what you want. It isn't attractive to most men who want don't want to deal with everything that a promiscuous women could potentially bring to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:06 AM
1

"I understand why a man might not give a shit" No you do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:04 PM
1

SEX IS HUMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:11 AM
1

Sex is human.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:10 AM
1

What do you get out of having commitment from a man? What does the man get out of it? A drain in resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:10 AM
1

"women don't need men"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:09 AM
1

There is very little benefit for a man to get married. Getting married is for a woman's security. Even in death. There was a post on r/law from some lady trying to figure out how she can still be benefited when the man she divorced dies, even though he is remarried. It's absolutely a risk and resource drain for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:08 AM
1

This isn't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:06 AM
1

Commitment means benefit to the woman. Everything you said is for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:05 AM
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