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INFeriorJudge/r/askMRP28/02/23 10:13 PM
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Whatever works for you, go for it.
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:01 PM
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A comment about her sweater or shirt while touching her arm is simple and seemingly innocuous but typically gets a blush a hair tuck and a smile.
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:56 PM
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Ok yeah. Definitely agree with just go for it.
/r/seduction19/10/24 07:20 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:13 PM
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I love this and hope you both find your best selves together. Your story sounds like it’s a happy ending in the making… and that is great inspiration for all of us.🩵
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 06:42 PM
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I’m so glad he’s in a better place now, and sounds like in a good direction. Just by how you talk about it, I can tell you are a very supportive, loving, understanding partner. That’s so good to see. He’s lucky…Not all of us have that. Many men feel they have to face their challenges alone—and many wives/ partners feel the same way! In fact, there are good support groups for partners, but many believe that they don’t need to “fix anything… It’s not MY problem. It’s HIS problem.” This is unfortun…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 05:38 PM
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In SA/ SAA meetings, many men reveal openly the pain and regret they carry—some for many many years—for the consequences of their actions. It’s sad… but guilt can be a tremendous burden. Being able to forgive and accept yourself as human and recognizing you are on a path of recovery and healing is such a liberating experience that we all deserve to have as humans in this world. We sometimes can’t do it on our own and need help to get there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 05:15 PM
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Yes—it is the shame cycle that is so brutal. I don’t feel good. Probably don’t feel like I can talk to anyone about it… So I do something (bad) to make myself feel better for a bit. But… After the momentary high, I realize what I have done. So now… My original problem/ pain is still there and now I feel shameful on top of it, making it even less likely to talk about… Return to step 1. ⤴️ The way to break the cycle is to address the underlying problem—which you can’t get to at first… and may not …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 05:06 PM
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Understood. I am not trying to hide anything—just trying to be respectful of this thread… as well as respectful of one persons personal question that might require a little privacy. If you’re asking me to provide insight in a more global way, I would be open to doing that. Maybe let me know a little more about how I can frame that to be most helpful. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 03:19 PM
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Yeah absolutely—I don’t know if hijacking this thread is cool 😂… But glad to learn a little more of your story and happy to talk and help if I can.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 02:42 PM
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Hey—I can’t speak for him exactly of course… but for most men, porn use and compulsive masturbation isn’t really about sex drives or physical needs. Yes, that’s certainly a factor to consider… But it’s almost always related to unmet/ unsatisfied emotional needs. As men, unfortunately our society sets us up with limited resources for this. We’re expected to be certain things in a very one-sided way and anything else is openly scorned. Masturbation itself isn’t an issue—for many of us it’s as simp…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 11:57 AM
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Hey, I appreciate your story, and I don’t mean to be a wet blanket or Negative Nelly here… But there’s not a guy on this earth who would admit to porn use or masturbation on a 2nd date. In fact, being confronted with that on a 2nd date may even communicate to him that open honest conversation about sexual health and desires may not be possible. Maybe he’s being honest—maybe he’s a stoic and a good guy and all that. I’m not trying to cast doubt on him. As someone who has been a user, and now reco…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 11:44 AM
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Like a few others have mentioned, I use it to my advantage. I speak sparingly, with confidence and assertiveness—smiling, eye contact, body language, appropriate physical contact… I learn from what I do that has a positive outcome, and I try not to linger on mistakes. I find that the more I work at it the easier it gets. Others approach and initiate with me much more often now. Being physically fit has dramatically helped me in this regard as well.
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:01 AM
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I agree here—culturally/ socially it’s a real problem for a lot of us, on both conscious and our subconscious levels. Robert Glover’s book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” addresses this phenomenon, and provides both root cause and tangible exercises to recover from this issue.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:15 PM
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I appreciate you. Thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 12:08 AM
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I’ve read your 4 myth-refutations a few times and have to say they all sound like straw men to me. In all of your examples, you reference societies and situations that I would guess are for the most part entirely different from your own. Ideological differences between partners can be frustrating, but the only way to overcome them is to talk through them…something I don’t see a reference to. The fact is that all of your values-based arguments, while seemingly very valid, probably have very littl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:24 PM
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Rather than a girl engaging with me in a knowledgeable manner on a topic I am passionate about, I would much rather she shows interest but allows me to be an expert on that subject. Asks questions, discusses the topic, but doesn’t fully push back or challenge me in that area. If I think I’m knowledgeable in something, I would prefer not to be shown up by a potential date/mate. Some other dude might call me out or demonstrate better mastery in that area but a girl doing that would make me see her…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 11:43 AM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillBooks08/03/23 01:17 PM
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If you read my comment, you’ll see I began with a clarifying statement of where I am in the process. If you see where I posted it, you’ll note it’s in the specific place where questions are to be asked. If you read NMMNG, you know he specifically contradicts the sidebar, not once, but many times. I came here looking for mentorship and clarity which I appreciate and need, neither of which your comment provides.
/r/askMRP02/03/23 11:50 PM
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Thanks that’s why I was confused!
/r/askMRP28/02/23 10:30 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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