| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | What kind of girl turns you on, seddit? | IP3R2KO | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 09:41 PM | |
| 6 | [FR] Out with friends at a party/bar, guys gets a bad attitude. How do you handle this situation? | IP3R2KO | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 06:06 AM | |
| 2 | [FR] #-close on only cute gal at a party with some competition | IP3R2KO | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 06:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [FR] Holy shit, my first (cold!) approachBe careful of friend-zoning after this.. you've given her a license to flirt as much as she wants. Good work though. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Do not try and weasel your way into her life.WHISKEY! | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 12:35 AM |
| 6 | [FR] The naked manI think the main problem with the show is that it reinforces Ted's actions instead of Barney's. You're supposed to think, "Oh silly Barney, girls really want what Ted gives them." Which is not true at all. Some of Barney's techniques are fantastic (particularly the ones you mention), but I'm left thinking that Ted is what girls really want. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 12:49 AM |
| 79 | Scientific proof showing cold showers REDUCES testosterone.At least it's peer reviewed. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?You get a white camp t-shirt and a pack of highlighters. Tell girls to draw something "for the kids." Works best if there is a blacklight, otherwise just use sharpies. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceThis is really scarily close to my work number. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Request: Alpha's guide to relationshipsFirst of all, I have to say I'm really pleased you posted this. There are lots of issues I've had with this problem as well, especially when I was first starting pickup. The thing is that I've constantly had it in the back of my mind. The ONS is nice sometimes, but it's never really satisfied me on an emotional level, and as such my goal of PU is look for potential mates. These techniques we learn are tools, and it's up to us how we use them. I think the key to making the transition from badass-… | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Thanks GuysWell, we sort of deal with different issues. But yeah | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 08:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Well I tried approaching...I like to not open up with something as boring as the class you were just in. She probably gets that all the time, and can't tell whether you're interested. Next time (different gal, same class) just say "hi." Get to know her with things like "what's your major?" and "How's your semester going, <name>?" Every single guy who hits on her is going to go for the the classroom talk approach, and now you're going to stand out. And hey, if she's not interested you'll know immediately. Make your intenti… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 01:01 AM |
| 3 | What to do after coming on to strong?I think you've got the right idea. Spot on. Forget game, just don't ever apologize for your sexuality. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 11:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time in the field, major AA but some beginner's luck on my first attemptThis. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What to do after coming on to strong?Fix this shit fast. Some gals don't like seddit. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What to do after coming on to strong?That could work. Although, it sounds a little forced,.especially if you two were never sexual before that. Don't chase - she'll want her friend back. In the meantime, date other girls. If she wasn't jealous before, she will be then. This seems like a mean tactic but it's not. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Can't understand a text, move on or ask her to explain?This is actually a great opportunity. You don't need words. Just text "??" | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to be AFOGShy girl trying to be sexy? Damn, I'd date the socks off of you. In all seriousness though, if you want to meet people, and I mean if you really want to meet people you're doing it right. Lots of people (guys and gals) sit alone in their rooms and then complain about wanting to meet people, but they don't really. Just having the desire and realizing that it's a good thing puts you head and shoulders above anyone who doesn't. You've gotta know that. Next, it's all about confidence. This will be d… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Do muscles matter?Rippetoe | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 12:42 AM |
| 2 | First dates and shit testsWell if you're out on a date with her, then the question probably isn't a shit test. Go ahead and tell her what you do. Shit tests will be more obvious then. Something like "I'll bet you're trying to sleep with me on the first date, aren't you? I'm not that easy" | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 08:00 PM |
| 3 | I am such a beta, that I'm beginning to hate my life. (If it's too long, just read the bold print for the story.)You're in the right place, bro. It gets better. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 07:41 AM |
| 3 | How much attention to give her?I love women, and I used to hate the bullshit games they play. Now that I'm a little better at said games, I don't mind them as much. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Facial ExpressionsI'd like to see some feedback on this. I feel like in the mirror I can make awesome faces but then in all my pictures I end up just looking scared or angry (usually when I was quite happy). What general face do people try to maintain while chatting up a girl at a bar, for example? | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 12:41 AM |
| 7 | How much attention to give her?Make it clear from the beginning she's yours through kino and generally being more familiar with her than the others. Then start to be a little social. She'll probably try to flirt with the other guys a little bit, and the most important thing is to never get bent out of shape. If she moves away for any reason, next her like you don't give a fuck right in front of her, and go chat up some other girls at the bar. If you can, bring them over and introduce them to your friends. She'll probably get … | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The greatest thing about abundance mentality.I agree, the point is that I bought a certain type of food to cook for a gal because I was too obsessed with making that work. As if I had no other options. Abundance mentality takes care of that. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:57 PM |
| 3 | The greatest thing about abundance mentality.Nope. She was allergic to gluten. As for organic food...nah. Shit's expensive. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:52 PM |
| 11 | The greatest thing about abundance mentality.Damn, this hit me real hard. Especially the organic produce. I once met a girl I really liked, and I went out the next day and bought a shit-ton of gluten-free food so I could cook for her and impress her. Looking back, trying to impress a girl isn't necessarily a bad thing, but what I did was a ludicrous sign of one-itis. Turns out she's kind of a bitch anyway and we never actually went on that date. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 10:40 PM |
| 5 | If you start asking yourself "why", ask instead "why not?"Otherwise you'll be forever alone. #SOLO | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 06:14 AM |
| 3 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.I like my women like I like my filesystems: FAT and 16. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What kind of girl turns you on, seddit?Right? Keep her, dude. I never talk about this stuff with girls because too often I come off as a manipulative asshole. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Get your priorities straight. Have fun primarily. Pick up secondary.If a gal starts dumping her serious problems on me that quickly, I eject even quicker. I'm not your emotional tampon. Good on you for leaving. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What's something irrational that you do?I like the way you think. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What's something irrational that you do?Not a bad idea. Would it work with physics books? | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 06:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #-close on only cute gal at a party with some competitionYou're right. I used to think they were a big deal, but now that I get a lot of numbers it's really common for them to never text me back. Gotta cut this shit out. I need to get back to the textbook escalating kino - I feel like that's where I start to get uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 06:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #-close on only cute gal at a party with some competitionYeah, that's sort of the way I feel about it now. It's crazy though! When I first started doing this getting a number was huge. Now I got 3 #-closes tonight that aren't even worth mentioning, I don't even think I'll call them. Now that I get a lot, it's also surprising how many never get back to me. haha | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 06:02 AM |
| 4 | What is your favorite (either successful or not) day approach? What made it memorable/special?"Wie geht's, susse?" | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to meet girls as a nerd?As a fellow nerd, this is great advice. Couldn't have said it better myself, and I tried. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 12:11 AM |
| 6 | [FR] worst fucking date everGreat reply, man. I appreciated that, it actually explained a lot about my recent failures (which were nothing like this story). | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 07:44 AM |
| 2 | How to Deal With Jerks While Talking to WomenYessir. I recommend taking up muay thai or Brazilian jiu jitsu as well. I recently posted in here about a situation wherein I think I handled things very well, but most of this advice applies directly. I was mostly able to stay calm because I was confident and knew I could take care of myself. If you don't feel physically threatened, you won't seem physically threatened. That said, if you're 220lbs and have some training background, I'd gladly walk away from that one. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What to do when competing for a HBThis. I posted an interesting competitive situation here a while back - the crucial part was to not let her think you're competing. Otherwise you run the risk of her getting cocky and leading you both on. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Having a lack of anything to say.See, look at that. You already seem like a pretty interesting guy. Go out and be interesting. If you just get excited about stuff, people will get excited with you! And that stuff isn't exciting you anymore, then find other things to get excited about! Go do some yoga, or start lifting weights! Hell, teach yourself to cook, that would be fun. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 12:37 AM |
| 16 | What are some simple, fun games you like to play with girls?How does it work? | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality and the dream girl.I think this should be at the top. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Request: How to host a successful party when you've never hosted one before.Well done, sir. I'm using this later this semester. Never thrown a party before, but this should help. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I have a front seat to watch how one man's neediness is going to possibly end his one and only relationshipThis really hits home for me. Even after being on seddit for about three months (that's actually not that long is it? oh well), I find myself repressing the urge to be needy. Every ex-girlfriend I still talk to refers to me as "total boyfriend material," and this sort of bothers me. I'll backtrack: I've had a very similar thing happen to me. I got out of a long term relationship at the end of high school (about 3 years long) and dated this girl I'd been friends with for the last few months of hi… | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 04:55 AM |
| 2 | What unexpected things have you said/done that have turned out absolutely amazing?Thank you! I learned something today. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 04:44 AM |
| 1 | University/college opening.I'm impressed he got that far with it. Not a huge fan of pickup lines, but well done. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?The thing is, there's this notion in society that we're not supposed to talk about picking up girls. We need to have some "excuse" to talk to girls, and of course we should never think about having sex with them. That should just happen spontaneously when we meet the right person, right? Sigh. If you want to get good at something, you practice it. When (and if) you ever meet the one you're gonna want to be comfortable talking to girls, right? Then fucking practice. If, however, you just want to … | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?I agree with you, I do the exact same thing - I leave them the fuck alone. But my reason is different than yours. While yours is definitely noble, I leave these girls alone because I have less of a chance of scoring with them anytime in the near future. Also, when they eventually break up with their boyfriend, they're going to want friends who didn't hit on them, and then there you are. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Inner game issues? Get your ass in here.I don't care who you are, you should be lifting weights if you aren't already. Your game will improve, and women will notice. They probably already notice you thinking about going to the gym. Link for the lazy: r/weightroom Now stop being lazy and go to the gym! | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars.We must kill it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:37 AM |
| -4 | Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars.You NEVER go full retard. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:36 AM |
| 1 | I blame Romantic Comedies...Thank you! And happy cakeday you fantastic motherfucker. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 12:50 PM |
| 6 | I blame Romantic Comedies...But...really? I think both characters are both unrealistic. You don't get girls by swooning over them and being annoyingly persistent (Ted) and you don't get girls by walking up to them, buying them drinks, and saying "Hey baby, why don't we go upstairs?" There's a middle ground somewhere. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 05:55 AM |
| 11 | I blame Romantic Comedies...And How I Met Your Mother. Holy crap. It's a funny show - but it gives terrible advice for getting women. Don't be fucking Ted Mosby. Nobody else is fucking Ted Mosby. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Rejected to K-Close: My thoughts on going for the kiss and an accompanying [FR]Thank you. This will change my game tonight | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Quick tip for quick n' dirty k-closingCool story bro, and nice work. That was some nice quick-thinking. I liked your last paragraph best, and it does seem like it's more of a situational thing - I mean I don't know if I'd just start talking about chapstick and lean in for the kiss, but if it comes up, hell yeah. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 06:34 PM |
| 14 | Call don't text (OKC F-close)Probably shouldn't have called again. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 06:23 PM |
| 3 | What activities or hobbies have you taken up to become a more interesting and attractive person?All that really matters I think is that you become good at something, and become high in a hierarchy that matters to you. That said, thai boxing is a lot of fun. I've taken that up as well as jiu jitsu and wrestling because I love martial arts - and it's a huge confidence boost. If you've spent the afternoon getting hit in the face by huge guys trained to do this, you have nothing to prove out in bars. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 05:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Out with friends at a party/bar, guys gets a bad attitude. How do you handle this situation?I learned most of it here, and it's gotten more and more natural over time. However, never really had a situation like this before and I was interested to see what other would have done. I probably could have been a bit more alpha in the beginning, but I think I mostly got lucky. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Womanese, womanese, womanese. Seddit: What are your favorite examples?"Things are just really busy right now." I don't want to see you again. This one I sort of enjoy hearing, even though it pisses me off. Mostly because even if she's being serious, she's too busy to have a good time with me? She's lame and I'm awesome, so she saved me a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 12:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Out with friends at a party/bar, guys gets a bad attitude. How do you handle this situation?Thanks. It was a tough call. Maybe something worth addressing to the community, since I've seen it happen many times. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 11:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Out with friends at a party/bar, guys gets a bad attitude. How do you handle this situation?I am humbled by your words. Thanks for your reply! Haha I was kind of wondering what would happen there, too. In fact I used to wrestle with one of the bouncers there, and currently box with the other, so I knew a few of his friends. I just didn't leave the girls to go talk to them because, well, I didn't want to. There's a fine line between being the Alpha who is chill because he doesn't need to make a scene, and being the Beta who is silent because he can't speak up. This was my first FR -- th… | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Out with friends at a party/bar, guys gets a bad attitude. How do you handle this situation?Thanks for your reply! Yes, I wasn't sure exactly how to play it - that isx whether to just let him have her or tell him to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Is this beta behavior at the workplace?This. Also, keep in mind that your goals out in the bars are different than your goals in the workplace. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 01:39 AM |
| 0 | What you say doesn't matter. Stop overthinking itThank you for posting this! And the cricket thing...that's real good. I'm going to use that. The other day to prove this very point to someone (he was asking me what he should say to a group of girls he didn't know), you know what I said? "Hey, wanna see something gross? Look at my arms, I have ringworm." I really do have ringworm, just a few small spots. It'll be gone in a few days. By the way, I also don't recommend saying anything gross like that, but the point stands. I did get a number out … | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Summertime University F-CloseJoin if you want, but it's going to cost you a lot of money. I won't comment on the grades, it could go either way. I'm not in a frat, but I still party all the time and have pretty awesome grades (CS and physics major). | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 09:45 PM |
| 5 | If texting/chatting with someone, say "bye!" not "bye" when you're done.Upvote for a word I'll be using a lot more from now on. | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 09:18 PM |
| 2 | I have a hard time openly hitting on girls, not out of fear for rejections, but out of fear of looking like an idiot.This is getting a lot of great responses, so I need to tell you that this was a really good question to ask. Great post. One thing that helps me, is thinking of what I have to lose. When you're out and there are girls you could talk to, what could you possibly lose? Even if you did get rejected by every single damn girl there (it's happened to me), what's the worst thing that could happen? You're not talking to some girls you weren't talking to in the first place. You're back where you started, … | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this thirst for validation?This. Baby steps, just be aware of when you're seeking validation, and take a second to process it. You can't let your mind control you. It's your tool, and you control it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-close; no longer a virgin.Traditionally you're correct. But I've never played it this way with a girl. In fact, it's never really a game when you play it with a girl either. They just wanna ask you stuff. Beautiful. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:14 PM |
| 1 | By request, indicators to assist in going for kiss-close.I think he obviously meant that you shouldn't actually restrain her. If she wanted to get out and pull away, make sure that she could. But this is important because a lot of girls think its cute (and subtly, very arousing) if you can hold them down in some gentle way. | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsNope. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Dance floor gameTrue, but if you-MMMSSSSMMMMMMSSSSSSSSMMMSSSSwubwubwub then you might also have a good point. Then agai-WOBWOBWOBBFFFFFFSKREEEEEEEwub. Wub. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Dance floor gameThis is some of the best advice I've seen here all day. Simple. No words. Great for beginners too, because there's not that much lost if she isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 03:33 AM |
| 8 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsI never got that. Why? What's the point? Is she supposed to come talk to you? I imagine if I'm shy, she's probably at least as shy as I am. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 03:16 AM |
| 19 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsHoly crap. I'd like to think that if a girl pulled that kinda shit and it was my group of guys, I'd know what was up and not buy her shit. But then again...I haven't seen her. haha What a bitch. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 03:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] AMOG literally blows up right in my faceWell, see, that's a great thing to think, but it sounds like you're getting the wrong idea. You have to know that, but you can under no circumstances say it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for seducing college girls?Well that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Does bodybuilding really get women flirting with you?Being a rapist could be part of the problem. Also, try r/gainit | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Any tips for seducing college girls?I'm not gonna downvote you, but seriously, you should know that a fraternity is a very expensive way to meet lots of people. You could do that anyway, without all the meetings and money problems. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:56 PM |
| 17 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsIt works so well in the movies, too. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] AMOG literally blows up right in my faceYou're right, of course. I would have wanted to say something like that too. But you don't, because no matter what happened, no matter how he's acting, if you say one thing that an asshole would say, you become an asshole. Especially if this girl already knew aforementioned AMOG. This sounds like it was an awkward situation. What I usually do when someone is outright rude and trying to suggest I buy him a beer or whatnot, is act like I thought it was all a joke. Sort of like, "Yeah whatever man,… | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:50 PM |
| 21 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsThat bit about buying girls drinks: before I came here, it seemed like such a good idea. If a dude buys me a beer, he's my friend at least for the night. But it's different with girls. Very different. They will get as many 8$ drinks out of you as they can. | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 11:42 PM |
| 6 | If you are alone how do you close a 2-set?Nice. Upvote, I'm trying this soon. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 04:18 AM |
| 5 | [FR] House Party.It seems like the girl you were making out with first was simply embarrassed to have gotten caught. I'll bet you did nothing wrong. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 11:14 PM |
| – | There ought to be a law against this.This was a really enlightening list. I appreciate it. How would the feminist movement have anything to do with it? I thought they were (at least saying they were) for equality of genders. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Feminist say 'a gender-based capital gap for new ventures” exists. Women CEOs face a 'green ceiling'. Will the whining stop?Yeah, I agree. It is a problem. I thought that's what the guy above me was saying too, and wondering why he was getting downvoted. Maybe I misunderstood something. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/12 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Feminist say 'a gender-based capital gap for new ventures” exists. Women CEOs face a 'green ceiling'. Will the whining stop?Yes, that's what an investor's job is, right? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 06:42 PM |
| – | Feminist say 'a gender-based capital gap for new ventures” exists. Women CEOs face a 'green ceiling'. Will the whining stop?Not sure why this is getting downvoted....who actually thinks that women's business ideas are more worthy of funding? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/12 04:20 PM |
| – | Student Newspaper: 'Beyond a reasonable doubt' standard for sexual assault is 'tantamount to victim-blaming'HOW DARE YOU BLAME THE VICTIM YOUR GIVING THE RAPPIST A FREE RIDE THIS IS A DISGRACE | /r/MensRights | 16/04/12 03:54 PM |
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