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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 461 | How to Overcome the "Nice Guy Syndrome" | IPET24 | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 03:20 PM |
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| 1 | Stop Being Boring: The "F#ck It" Philosophy (x-post from r/HowToNotGiveAFuck)Awesome post!! One thing I'd like to respectfully disagree on: sometimes talking about the boring topics like the weather is GOOD..as long as you show enthusiasm. It's an easy opener to create rapport then switch to a better convo topic. Also "charisma coach" Marcus Oakey had something to say about exposing yourself to your fears.. highly recommend. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qtAAdVOKZ7Y | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Is feeling bad after awkward flirt normal thing?I suggest listening to this podcast - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lol7yxdQuFk Marcus Oakey is amazing, and it goes deeper beyond flirting, but how you deal in social situations. Awkwardness is only bad when you consider it bad, but when you view it as a moment you took initiative and exposed yourself to discomfort thus getting stronger - then it becomes a good thing, and you don't view it as a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically.Here's a good mindset I read on seddit earlier: pretend she's a guy, if everything you're saying/doing/interacting with her is something you'd be comfortable doing with your guy friend, then you're only being FRIENDLY. If you do/say something with her that would make you feel uncomfortable with a guy friend, then that is good, because it has that tension needed to escalate things. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Desperationhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lol7yxdQuFk&index=1&list=PLScZHYDkgQZBxsr1s4ku0OQCktC4Iv3rW Watch this podcast by Marcus Oakey, charisma coach. Talks about how to depend on yourself for happiness and entertainment. This would be a good base on how to be secure with talking with anyone, not just women. | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 07:15 AM |
| 2 | What Makes People Boring?Wow! A key point I learned somewhere else....tell STORIES! Small talk dies, but getting them or yourself to tell good stories is always interesting! | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 03:05 AM |
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