IUPUA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What do you do? PUA: <flippant answer> HB: lol, no, really? PUA: Are you familiar with <complicated financial thing>? HB: No. PUA: Then it's going to take some explaining. What's your background in <finance/economics>? HB: <qualifies educational background>	/r/seduction	05/04/12 06:05 PM
1	Do you believe in free will? Choices you make today affect what kind of life you have tomorrow. That's the bottom line. The existence of free will is a purely philosophical discussion because there's no evidence either way. Tyler's philosophy is that most people don't consciously consider their thoughts and actions, and they can be influenced by other people. Take your breathing for instance. Before I mentioned it, you were unconsciously breathing, but now you are able to consciously make a choice of continuing to breathe o…	/r/seduction	04/04/12 12:54 PM
5	To all the newbies who want to share there back-stories and tell us what there gonna change with there life (TED talk) [3:16] TL;DW: Telling someone your goals makes them less likely to happen. Any time you have a goal, there's some work that needs to be done to achieve it. Ideally, you would not be satisfied until you do the work, but when you tell someone your goal and they acknowledge it, the mind is tricked into feeling satisfied that it's already done, so you're less motivated to do the hard work necessary.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 12:27 PM
3	King of the AFCs Game is equally applicable to long-term relationships. Just ask this guy.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 11:25 AM
2	My life altering declaration. Please read You have found the glitch in the Matrix. Welcome to our world. Your plan is achievable. It requires practice so that you rewire your brain to effortlessly handle social situations while sending the signals and responses that are attractive to women. Practice, locate problem areas, diagnose, fix, rinse, repeat.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 10:20 AM
1	Looking into each others eyes, burst out with "What?" When you hit on girls no response is a good response. This is what I call passive acceptance, and it's a major factor in escalation. Most of the time girls will not react to escalation beyond laughing or smiling, so no reaction is a good reaction. from one of Sinn's blog posts	/r/seduction	04/04/12 03:33 AM
6	D2: Everything seemed PERFECT- couldn't even k-close; what happen? Everything was perfect for her. You gave her everything she wanted, she slotted you as "boyfriend" material, and she wants more romance. It's like when a DTF girl finds out the guy is rich and thinks "He has to wine and dine me now." Instead of money, you listed what she values with you. She's supposed to be chasing you. See push/pull, qualification, compliance testing. Build sexual tension. Kino works best in small doses, leaving her constantly wanting more.	/r/seduction	03/04/12 05:36 AM
3	How do I get my co-worker to see me as a possible boyfriend or in a more sexual way? You don't. Seduction can only help you become more attractive to women in general, and cannot cause one specific girl to reciprocate your feelings. This is known in the community as having "one-itis", and when you have it, game will be pointless. [...] There is no saving you, as long as you have the mindset that there is only one girl for you in the whole world. ^ first question in the FAQ	/r/seduction	02/04/12 07:00 AM
5	What does it mean to be "sexually aggressive"? Just be yourself for the women you don't want a relationship with, but you need to be sexually aggressive with women you intend to be sexual with. It sounds like they're giving you advice to avoid the friendzone to get a girl.	/r/seduction	02/04/12 02:35 AM
4	My game is on fire! (with less attractive girls...) Qualifying can add +2 to their HB for me. There are certain personality traits and interests I find attractive.	/r/seduction	01/04/12 12:00 AM
7	Nerdy major being a huge cockblock [FR] Advice needed If you're giving off the vibe that you're ashamed of or not interested in your major, that's what's causing disinterest, not the major itself. If they have negative perceptions, break them. They'll believe what's right in front of them, regardless of preconceived notions.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 11:31 PM
1	My game is on fire! (with less attractive girls...) See Glossary of Terms H-Z.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 11:25 PM
3	Noob To Bar Scene : How an Introvert's First Night At The Bar Went There's plenty of introverts on seddit this FR will help! And this may not happen in every case, but one thing to keep in mind is that when you start going out, girls may be very friendly to you, but once you improve a little bit, they're not so friendly, and when you get good, they become friendly again. Either way, your work ethic sets you apart from all other guys, and you can only improve with directed practice.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 12:34 PM
3	[FR] Getting Hit On on the Subway (a success & failure at the same time) TL;DR: Guy successfully gets number with the elderly opener from Day Bang, then screws it up by following up with interview-style questions and acting overly needy.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 08:28 AM
5	How to Make out For many women, holding/pulling them by the hair is a big turn-on.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 04:02 AM
3	High-School Sedditor, Question About Making Out In Backseat? Imagine you did this every night. Eventually, the awkwardness would disappear because you're used to doing that with women all the time, and she's gotta get home somehow. That's the PUA mindset: feeling women up and dry-humping is enjoyable, you do it all the time, and this evening is no different. Give off that vibe to kill the awkward feeling in the air.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 03:34 AM
3	Sex game? DiCarlo Escalation Ladder	/r/seduction	29/03/12 10:19 PM
3	How simple it is. It's really that simple, and it's easy if everything comes naturally to you, but some of us who aren't naturals had a rough path to success. Quoting intjpua: There's no point trying to hide the difficulty or the indecision that we all faced (or still face) when beginning down this road. This shit's hard when you're first starting out. Approach anxiety is a bitch. When you start learning and practicing pickup, you will suffer more than you did before you started...it is temporary, but you must go…	/r/seduction	29/03/12 04:43 AM
5	Why isn't PUA "game" popular outside the US? What does it say about the US dating culture? James Marshall comments on this in The 3 Pillars of Seductive Success. One thing I've noticed is that anywhere that was colonized by the British empire tends to have issues with picking up girls. Have you noticed that there's very little in the way of seduction coaching going on in France, and Spain, and Portugal, and Brazil? There's a reason why we're not setting up business over there ...	/r/seduction	29/03/12 04:20 AM
5	Never happened to me before...need advice Awesome, keep it up. Space out your dates to give her time to work things out, but keep trying to escalate to k-close when you meet. Backing down is a huge IOD.	/r/seduction	29/03/12 03:11 AM
10	Help with Kino Implementation During Daygame Kino because you're a touchy-feely person, not because it's something you should be doing. Kino is natural when you get into the touchy-feely mindset. Practice that mindset in the club environment, then bring it to your day game.	/r/seduction	29/03/12 12:48 AM