IWBTTM Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	So... She's not interested anymore? Was I too aggressive?	IWBTTM	/r/seduction	27/07/15 05:17 AM
1	Trying again after initial rejection. Stupid idea?	IWBTTM	/r/seduction	27/06/15 01:35 AM
0	Should you discard seriously gaming girls with low initial interest?	IWBTTM	/r/seduction	27/06/15 04:20 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Im confused, i get girls but don't know how i do it? I think you're just a lucky fucker and handsome as fuck, like really handsome. But you're also really really awkward and fuck it up on epic proportions when you try to game. So naturally, when you don't try to game and stay natural - no awkwardness - your looks (and natural personality, but if a girls wants to fuck you after 30 mins and initiates it you must be a model) do the job. What I don't get is why you even looked for seduction tips and techniques considering it's working without you even…	/r/seduction	06/08/15 12:41 AM
1	Can't even approach while I'm drunk at a club. Am I hopelessly lost? I hate clubs, I can't do shit at clubs. Well it's not true, I like to go to clubs with groups of friends, but clearly not to get girls. Bars, it depends a lot on the bar itself, but I very much prefer them. I guess it's because I'm much more proficient at conversation than moving on the dance floor. I had a lot of success going to a nerdy-themed bar (I'm a nerd) with a very close friend (unspoken wingman) some time ago. Probably because the bar was frequented by the type of girls I like (nerdy) …	/r/seduction	30/07/15 10:16 AM
2	Need some help challenging some limiting beliefs That's a very specific topic. About having a terrible sense of direction, I don't think that's a huge deal at all. If you manage to show up on time at the locations you suggest for a date, I don't see an issue. In fact, I always joke about having a terrible sense of direction. Many first dates I've been on went like this: meet up for a coffee or whatever somewhere, then I suggest to bounce and walk around a bit. I just can't walk and have a conversation without getting lost. Even when I have ano…	/r/seduction	30/07/15 09:19 AM
2	How important are common interests? A little bit, it's good to have one common interest to get things started. But people change, and interests change a lot. And it's also very good to keep separate interests, well in my case anyway, I like to have a lot of alone time. But you seem to tie common interests with conversation. As I said, it's good to have at least one common interest to have an easy ice breaker and something to talk about. Do you only talk of Dota 2 and anime to everyone you know? Do you never comment on food, someth…	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:49 AM
1	I'm stuck in coward mode,please help Well IMO "no fap" is just about sexual performance, if I stay single too long and masturbate a lot to porn without wearing condoms etc. I will encounter two issues when I get a new girl: 1) I will find it hard to keep an erection when fiddling with a condom. Best work around is if the girls puts it on me while keeping me hard, not happening if she's shy in bed unfortunately. 2) It will be very hard to finish, aka deathgrip. I don't know any "tricks" to help you break your wall, but let me tell y…	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:35 AM
2	(FR) Im so beta, i could irradiate electrons I don't see anything wrong here. You even pushed a bit to see if the potential boyfriend was just a quick defensive response. She confirmed that indeed, she has an actual boyfriend. You did good, she just wasn't single. Not all women are single. Or it was indeed an excuse to say no, but let me tell you that's the most common and polite "no" you can hear, that's good. Try that with parisian girls, they will literally laugh at your face and mock you / lash out. You've managed to approach a girl on…	/r/seduction	30/07/15 08:24 AM
1	Skinny Fat Success with Girls Na mate you're fine. I'm skinny fat too and this has never been a problem. I do sports and run a bit and the girls know it, maybe at worse they can think I can only get in a better shape? But anyway, never had a girl say anything about my body, hair (I have a LOT of body hair), dick, when about to have sex. And if the girls tells you she prefers lights off, there's good chances she's self conscious about her own body... even more so than the average woman. If you look good while clothed, and you…	/r/seduction	28/07/15 02:33 AM
1	So... She's not interested anymore? Was I too aggressive? Thanks for all the replies. Well she just replied apologizing for the delay. Either her level of interest is lower than I thought, or she's playing games. If she is, it's working damn it. Anyway I'll let my head cool down and reply tomorrow.	/r/seduction	27/07/15 10:49 AM
2	So... She's not interested anymore? Was I too aggressive? Duly noted, I have to say it was more kissing her neck wildly. Leaving a mark on a neck needs a lot of work lol, makes me feel like a leech or vampire. But thanks for the replies.	/r/seduction	27/07/15 10:45 AM
1	I'm good at talking to girls but it makes me exhausted.. So I'll find myself not doing it as much since its less taxing. Anything I can do? I kind of feel the same, just take a break from talking to girls if it's impacting fundamental parts of your life (friends, work...). I burn out extremely fast from dating strangers (first, second and third date; past the third date we begin to know each other better and things are less hectic). And when I get rejected at the third date or later, I still need a break even though we're obviously not a couple yet, just because I'm drained of all energy. Of course I also need a break when I break u…	/r/seduction	27/07/15 06:10 AM
1	So... She's not interested anymore? Was I too aggressive? I have to admit I was getting carried away haha. I kissed her on the neck way before we got to the fingering, and I'm not sure but I think she was the one to pull away and turn her head from the kissing when I was fingering her - probably to keep an eye out in case someone approached. Instead of just looking the other way not doing anything, I figured 'd give hickie while I was at it. But anyway, I've heard and read stuff about girls feeling like sluts when you are too sexual with them, do you t…	/r/seduction	27/07/15 05:36 AM
1	Should you discard seriously gaming girls with low initial interest? So do you think that if you manage to suddenly become number one with a chick that accepted to go on dates with you, even though you were most likely far from being her first choice... this will always lead to relationships doomed to fail? She'll walk away at some point even if you keep your game up? I guess if you manage to become exclusive with such a chick, it's because the other options did not work out. So you'd think she might be in the mindset of "settling" for you. But there's always som…	/r/seduction	27/06/15 04:37 AM