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Honey... there is an issue *It's OK Honey......... Tell him. Trust him. You're a team. I promise - if he's yours and you're his you can tell him crazy stuff. You can say - this got weird.... can't do this... I know I said this but... REALLY? Talk to him. You will know. Trust yourself. And RPW doesn't mean we don't speak up and say "OH - dude - no. no bueno - this is bullshit"
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 02:44 AM
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If your gut says "RED ALERT" you tell your boyfriend. There is something you see that he might not. We are built differently. That's fine. Share you concerns. He may be in the lead but you're homefront... you see dangers he might not. Just bring it up. If he chooses his Bro's bad decisions over you? he saves you some time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 05:34 AM
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That's too funny. You'll find Jack's Lizard. He needs a lizard as a memory. Something your husband can look at and say "Oh, jack - he's right there man. Get im!" :) It;ll take some time. When you find it you'll find it. Commissioned statue of Jack holding a rubber lizard in his mouth like a "good boy" guarding the front door. The lizard thing can be fun. Don't push it. It'll happen
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 03:04 AM
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Jack was his battle buddy coming home. He doesn't know what to do with out him and that speaks so highly of Jack. Your husband just lost his best friend. I know it's hard to hear but you're his wife. Jack was the one who listened to him when he was scared, frustrated, etc. He could "have a beer with Jack" and just be him. That's irreplaceable. Was Jack a squirrel chaser? Squrrel feeder in the back yard "Jack's Seed N Feed" Did he bark at the mailman? Picture of Jack inside the mailbox saying "I'…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/24 01:31 AM
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Yes you go out together but....
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:44 AM
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You're not in a relationship. Sorry. You need to move on. You think he's a hvm but he doesn't see you as high value. You're not his. ​ Edit to add - a lot of this makes me cringe. you made some specific call outs like over 6 foot and you're a poc and you talk about putting out and he just doesn't seem interested now. You are - you need to just lose his # and move on
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:34 AM
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OH... OH... Sweetie. There are women in their early 20s rocking something in the 50s Lets say she's 35. and she was woo'd by her HS sweeite at 16. She's got 21 YEARS of play time and she's at 15? She was mild. How old are you and what's your body count? (If you are in your 30s and were in a committed relationship I need to now how long so we can do the math correctly.) Let's compare apples to banas here
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 10:43 AM
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why are you dancing around asking strangers on the internet what to do? Write back You know I love you. I already told you that. I want to be with you. What do you want? STOP STALLING
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 07:08 AM
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Have you caught feelings for her? One of you needs to fess up and tell the other where you stand. If you want to be with her tell her and see what she says. If you don't and want to be FWB then tell her that. You're asking on this sub so I'm thinking you caught feelings so... spill it dude
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 06:56 AM
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But can you gap a plug?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 05:35 AM
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Some guys really haven't been taught. I would see how he reacts after this. Bring it up. Just ask. SO - the flat tire was akward. Are you a DIY'er? Or did I just grow up different? I have had to teach men more than once how to jump a car. Some were really sure they knew but hadn't done it since they were taught at 15. Sometimes there are knowledge gaps they don't know they have until they find the gap. My SO has pulled over to change someone's tire. I have too. I don't know if this is an ick as …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 07:28 AM
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You dont. Please stop stalking him. He is over you. Done. He doesn't want to see you hear from you or know you exist. You're groveling. You've admitted to some behaviour that if done by a man could be grounds for a restraining order. You showed up at his house to go get him on Valentines Day when he didn't respond to you? He'S NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND. YOU ARE NOT HIS TRUE LOVE. IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN. LEAVE HIM ALONE Please You need to leave him alone.
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 08:58 PM
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I think you're in the wrong sub And I'm concerned at your approach and demeanor. You're giving me the ick.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 06:29 AM
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I am going to ask you something - do you have Charlie Sheen Bowling shirts? More than one? Can you let it die? Please? The bowling shirt loafer khaki pant thing is NOT "going out" attire. Please. If you want t wear it BBQing that's find but that's not "let's go to A RAVE" gear SEE OP - buy him a belt. word from there but give up the dream of changing him. he will resist - cause it still fits.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 07:33 AM
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This is not the hill to die on. It's something you have to accept. You're in love with a dork. Lean into it. I did - I have thrown or so many mechanics shirts.... so many lucky brand jeans... and there is still a seequined clubbing shirt in the closet 25 years later. Unfortunately there is no fixing this. buy him a belt that matches his look, pat him on the head, and laugh. This is one of those things you can't fiz.... many have tried. we all give up. lean from our experience. it's just gonna be…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 05:08 AM
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And I jumped back into this post and I'm going to say you're not fixing this. Just tell him he's gone and move on. At this point you're just publically mocking him and there isn't any coming back from this. If this shit is comedy you leave. Over. No if ands or butts. You pack up your stuff and go. Find what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 10:13 AM
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I'm NOT OP. And op hasn't shared anything that can say one way or another Good for you for being a 40m. That was a statement why?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 04:29 AM
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Tell OP. Don't just say run. If you're going to chime in as a guy you need to give more than a 1 word answer. I haven't checked back but since OP hasn't asked any of these questions (Q1) I don't know why he's gay is the answer
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 04:27 AM
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Junior blows his nose. OH - that's an amazing turn of phrase. Ha Ha This is why men have to be part of this sub. You're honest and... HA HA.. Oh I"m going to use that eventually.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 03:05 AM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 02:10 AM
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Is he a virgin? Is he waiting for marriage? Even if he's not? Have you asked him why you haven't taken things further? That's going to be a more reliable way to find out. Creeping his X account isn't going to give you any answers - just more questions.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 01:47 AM
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You sound like you're still trying to train him. Is he your husband or a stray dog? Because this is what I read - I've been training him for years because no one raised him right. >I know he shows me love in the ways he knows how And apparently, he's slow to learn. It's OK cause he's cute and he tries but he's a dumb puppy He brought me flowers but bought the wrong ones He'll clean but not to my standards He's just not good enough I reward him with sex when i feel like he's just too stupid to le…
/r/RedPillWives07/02/24 12:15 AM
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So you're jealous. Revenge isn't going to do anything. I don't care what proof you have - it's too late now. You're going to look like you've spent every waking moment since obsessing over him. That's not revenge - that's desperation. Your best revenge - go live a happy life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 10:09 PM
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You're using Reddit for dating? And I don't understand why you can't watch tv or play a game. So you talked every day and then he said he felt weird and backed off. I think that tells you all you need to know. He's not into you. RPW isn't a "you can't play a game" till I give you persmission thing.
/r/RedPillWives03/02/24 10:19 PM
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I'm going to give you a word of advice. Then you do this you need to warn people. You may suddenly become REALLY b*tchy. I was the same way - horrible cramps - vomiting in high school. I was 24 when I got off them and I was a nightmare for about a week. I honestly got so mad I threw a coffee cup AT my husband probably because he was breathing. It was NUTS. I called my GYN who said - yeah - we probably need to ween you off instead of just crashing you but - might as well ride it out. Talk to your…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 07:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index/ Click here to start
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 09:16 AM
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This is pretty general. What's your background? what are you asking for? Are you a guy and want an over view? Did you learn about this sub in a women's studies group? How did you get here and what are you trying to understand? It's a little hard to draw lines about a group of people there are some generalities. are you looking for the spectrum of answers or the stereotype answer?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:59 AM
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Why? You left him once. leave him again. You aren't going to be able to fix this. You trained him since the age of 20. You created this. If you want things to change you need to just go do what ever it is you want to do. He'll live.
/r/RedPillWives26/01/24 10:21 PM
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Yeah - honey - let's screw other people. That'll fix it.
/r/RedPillWives26/01/24 10:04 PM
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You are a 30 year old woman in a relationship with a 26-year-old M for over six years. The relationship began as an open one due to financial struggles and your frustration with M's late rent payments. Despite facing challenges and making life decisions together, YOU have grown tired of M's perceived inability to provide and make responsible decisions. In 2022, YOU left M, got engaged to someone else, but YOU returned when the new relationship didn't meet YOUR expectations. M has since tried to …
/r/RedPillWives26/01/24 09:47 PM
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You're 100% right He is never going to meet your expectations. I think you're doing this wrong. You might think you're Red-Pilled or that this is what you want - but this is NOT gonna work for you. Honey - I think you're confused. But what ever you think you want he's not it. move on..... fade away...........
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 09:29 PM
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Oh - that's disappointing. I went ahead and made you a list of your demands anyway - read this and ask if you want to be in THAT relationship. This is your last 60 days ​ Expect him to be available for interaction whenever I desire, without question or hesitation. Dictate the amount of personal space he's allowed, ensuring it aligns with my preferences, disregarding his need for independence. Demand constant emotional stability from him, irrespective of external factors or personal challenges. M…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 08:44 PM
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-you're not gonna like what I think You've been seeing each other casually 2 months. He's not looking around. You are but he knows that and is fine with that. He's not putting a lot of effort into this. (you're putting effort into other guys - why should he? You're afraid he's wasting your time. Because he's not living up to your expectations 2 months in.) about a week ago, I (kindly) asked him what his end-goal is, (you just said man speak for - listen - I need an answer buddy cause time's a wa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 08:13 PM
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Whelp apparently he's not the right guy them. Cut bait
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 07:17 PM
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Or he doesn't want to be pushed into a sexual relationship. Is it possible he's waiting to have sex until marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 02:39 PM
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He's making jokes when you're upset and you're attacking him... Yeah you said "no woman does" OK.. you make that statement but came here because you wanted someone to say "all men do" He doesn't know what you want. He's a grow'd up but he is deep down who you are too - just someone who is winging it. He needs to know what's going on. I don't know what the chapstick thing is about but apparently at some point you said something about ragging and chapstick. You apparently have a chapstick thing. H…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 01:37 PM
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Where do you live and what country are you from?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 08:49 AM
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So you are - beautiful educated sweet nurturing financially stable talented How?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 06:50 AM
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And I wish you had the means to support yourself in the way you think you' should be supported but.... here we are TL:DR you ain't gonna P90X yourself into being a HVW... it's gonna take more than a mouth... unless.... and we are back at the matchmaking service. If this is what you want and you just want a bank account for an insta life it's going to be an initial $50K for classes on ALOT of things and then they'll test you out on a couple of dates and then if you're their clientele they'll find…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 05:25 AM
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SING IT SISTER! **It's all about the money money money.... NOT about the honey honey honey... gonna get that white jag... gonna have that wife swag.... I'm telling ya - there's a market for you but I'm not sure that's its RPM
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 04:34 AM
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OOH - can I play with you for a minute for OP's benefit? Let's see how this plays out. I'm married I'm not looking.. I'm going to use myself as an example from back when and I'm going to start with what I think is the first NOPE. I"m going to lay it out there - who I was when I met my guy. You rate who I was then - what's your gut reaction. let's say I'm a 7 on the looks scale. I'll clean up well - kinda girl next door thing. Let's build OP a checklist of what you'd want I'm new in town... I wor…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 03:40 AM
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a guy who wants a girl like me ........ but I’m not thinking from his perspective, I’m thinking from mine. I’m not a user at all, I just want my life to be a certain way and I’m going to do what I can to get that. I.... I don't know what to say to this but .... I wish you well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 03:17 AM
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Have you looked into a matchmaking service? They take orders. Down to the minimum net worth.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 03:15 AM
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Keep reading - this is a two part response... you approach is wrong... this isn't what they like so i can copy it and do it. You're asking the wrong questions. And you're coming across as.... someone who is not going to find what you're looking for. I think. I don't think you're a bad person but yu're coming across as a "SO - I'm gonna housewife myself but.... there's more" You have talked about yourself over and over. Not about him UM. sweetie. I haven't had a W-2 in almost a decade. I'm not ma…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:59 AM
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So you want a rich dude who practices what you practice or doesn't believe at all but respects your beliefs and supports your beliefs? There's a lot of "Here's what I want" and "here are the minimum standards" and you have yet to talk about anything but..... what you want. Can you try to describe who you are looking for? Because this is coming across as "I'll cook and clean but I'm going to need a backyard retreat. You're going to fund my whims - as long as you have a checkbook - I can spend mon…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:53 AM
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You want a guy who's rich - I get annoyre by these posts. What to you have to add as value? That someone can't pay for? Here me out - you want someone who is rich - why? If you want to be someone's cook or nanny and be well compensated you can do that. They're called housekeepers. What are you looking for and why did you start with a bank account as the first way to sort a man? HVM doesn't mean rich... at least it shouldn't IMO
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 02:42 AM
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what is your picture of how this turns out? Are you looking for marriage and traditional family? Are you raising the kiddo in your house and he's gong to have his? I don't know anyone can give you advice on where to go from here because I don't know where you're trying to go. This is what I got from your post. You are expecting - you had a car accident - a lay off - he gave you a loan - he wants sex... and there was something about therapy.... Are you making a go at a family with him?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 01:49 AM
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Everyone has their thing. Maybe this is OPs thing. maybe she uses this as a way to get over insecurities. There is nothing wrong with that. She doesn't know how to fo that yet. She's not shooting him down Sometimes you have to let the universe speak organically and not adhere to your own rules I mean - if you're going to quote her you'll know that, right? I doubt men want to do anything but give their SO what they want - if what they think she wants is NOT what she wants. It makes her uncomforta…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:19 PM
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Then do it. maybe it becomes your thing..... he travels he brings you a rock. you travel you bring him a rock. No "crap I need to find a BS t-shirt 20 years from now" the biggest secret you have is the one time he forgot and grabbed a rock from the yard on the way in the house..... Text your dude. ask for a rock. As the snarky side of my brain says - yeah -great advice. See what he does with THAT *he's going to be so confused* don't text - BRING ME A ROCK. that's going to make him worry where th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 11:45 AM
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You just tell him - I have no idea. Thats a.. oh don't do that. Are you trying to find me something to bring back? You're awesome. How about a rock? I know it's weird but bring why not? (this will work especially well if he's overseas which I am getting from the skincare product thing - asia? ask him for a rock so you have a piece of "country" instead) As to the self worth thing? I don't know. It just happens one day. It's.... it just becomes ok. it's like asking to grab a loaf of bread on the w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 11:24 AM
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Sometimes when I respond things I just say it... I don't know how to phrase this any other way. Please see some humor in this comment. I don't think telling him to act manlier is going to do anything. You trying to become more girly isn't going to help either. I know you have fun with him and he's great but - he's a lot of work. He's a LOT a LOT of work. I think - you have summed him up as - consistently seeks verbal reassurance of love, displays heightened sensitivity, overly affectionate, cute…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 09:13 AM
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Wait - are you the office GOLDFISH? I found your diary! Day 1: Observed the intriguing behavior of the married couple at the office. They seem to share a unique dynamic, and I, being an astute observer, wish to delve into the intricacies of their relationship. Day 2: The lunchtime ritual caught my attention. The wife diligently prepares lunch at home, brings it to the office, and sets it up on her husband's desk. They eat separately, but always dine together in the evening. Curious, isn't it? Th…
/r/RedPillWives05/01/24 10:43 PM
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OK. You said you be the best person you can be for him. Who is that? Who are you? describe who the best you is?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/23 11:27 PM
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I'm saying this so you read it again. Look up Dr Ramani on YouTube. You will learn so much. You will learn this is all OK. You can get past this. You won't take forever to heal because you're NOT BROKEN. Here... I picked a random video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCc60iY_RSA
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 08:36 AM
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Dr Ramini is amazing. I have had SO many times I've turned to her to try to explain something. I needed her 20 years ago. I need her now. I can't recommend her enough.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 08:32 AM
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Thank you :) It got wierder but that'll need to be shared after SILs court date on the 8th. Stay tuned and Happy Lurking :)
/r/RedPillWives29/12/23 07:04 PM
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So you mentioned a couple of things - body counts, careers, over 30, single mothers, tattoos. How many of these boxes do you check?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:28 AM
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OK. Here's the thing. You're putting yourself out there as "available" in a meat market where people say "oh - that's screwable" and slide into your DMs saying - you're cute. Wanna netflix and chill? Is that the guy you want? No? OK. GET OFF THE APPS. Find someone naturally. Like everyone over the age of 30 did. Stop tying to swipe order a husband like you're ordering take out. Go out and live your life - Tinder doesn't deliver husbands. Tinder delivers people who have no problems giving you her…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:59 AM
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You're on the apps looking for a commitment? Who are you finding on the aps? What do you think these guys are going on the apps? Are these the kind of guys you want to meet? It seems to not be working out. So where are the kinds of guys you want to meet? I'm trying to take roll call in my head of how couples I know met - coworkers, drag races, school, friends introduced, one couple were in the friend group and happened, one guy was her yard guy, etc. I know people who met on an app but it was a …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 03:58 PM
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You make it work. I've told my DH more than once to quit a job because we were fine for money and he was miserable. I've made more than my DH most years we've been together. I think a lot of y'all are confused about the things you have on your "must have" list. What is this obsession with "bank roll me"? T here is not a man on this planet who is going to meet you on an app who will walk into a place to meet you and say "Mon Cherie, come with me, we will board my private jet and you will never wo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:36 PM
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Not if you're defining everything off his paycheck. What do you think an alpha is an why do you want one? So far you want someone to throw cash at you an pay your bills. That would make you a hooker. There's an app for that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:29 PM
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I think you're looking at your own sphere and judging every man like that. If you're going to a university in a democrat leaning area - you're gonna find a lot of beta males. Paying for dates is not the point. Sure. An Alpha male is going to provide and protect. His family. If he met you on Tinder you are not family. If he thinks you're in to him because he's going to make a good provider you're going to be disappointed. They can smell it. You need to rely on yourself financially until you're re…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:56 AM
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You're welcome. Give us the update when he does propose. If he's been dropping hints he's doing a temperature check to see if you're gonna freak. You kinda did there for a sec. :D Ha Ha. Breathe. It's very possible it's not a shield. Maybe you don't need to look for bad things in him. Maybe he's not hiding anything. Need proof? Ever see him walk into a spider web? I don't care who you are - you are NOT hiding that. There is no way to "wear manly man mask" with a mouth full of spider web. Woosa. …
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 08:24 PM
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Everyone gets a "OH - that was a bad decision" moment. When he tells you you're who he wants BELIEVE HIM. Don't believe the "well, what if....." self talk. You're trying to figure out "where the danger" is. Breathe. It's weird, isn't it? We all do it. It's human nature to look at any situation and try to play "spot the danger" His divorce is not a red flag. His divorce is actually a green flag. It means he noped out of danger. He already spotted the danger he told you where the danger was ( any …
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 07:42 PM
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He didn't divorce her out of boredom or something. She cheated. he has some hard fast lines. He made a bad pick and when she showed she wasn't the one for him - he returned her to the store - with the a receipt. She's gone. Why is this about what you think he wished for? Um, I'd take this as a big hint that if you cheat you're gone. Nothing else to take from his divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 06:30 PM
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He sounds like he's pouting. Does he not like to travel? Are you always picking where to go? Are you always going to the beach and he doesn't want to go to another beach? I'm getting the "we go every weekend to the beach" kinda vibes. Maybe he doesn't like other men checking you out. Is he a camping guy? Hunting guy?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 12:27 AM
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I wish I could say that this counts as a plot twist. If you would have told me 2 days ago - SIL is going to roll MILs truck and Christmas will end up cancelled so don't make the Boulgogi? I would have said - that wouldn't be a surprise.
/r/RedPillWives24/12/23 11:50 PM
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I'm glad you enjoyed it. I'm currently pickling veggies - I'm making the BackUp spread. I'll update Tueday (if I'm not in handcuffs)
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 07:19 PM
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I will - if I'm not in handcuffs Tuesday
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 06:54 PM
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Insert Snark reply - because it's reddit and you need some grief Thrift stores here suck - but let me tell you about a treasure trove of things I can pick from. I have all this stuff I saved .. blah blah blah blah blah <- you're just bragging at this point. You're being mean! FIne We are jealous! Are you happy? Insert me and my actual reaction- OOOH. You shouldn't tell people this stuff. Cause um... we might have suggestions (back into sewing project idea) You have access to dead people clothes.…
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 08:53 AM
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YEAH for Bendaryl Bonding! *Virtual High Five* Enjoy the tip and RIP your spam folder. (We need to simmer down. The mods are going to say it's after bed time)
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 05:43 AM
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If you have a gmail address you can put [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) for those signup AGAIN to get access to THIS pattern even though you're already a subscriber to our site. All emails from that campaign will end up in your spam folder. (I should not reddit while on pain meds... I apologize. I'm sucking you into the "oh - here's another shiny thing" moment. I'm aiming for TIL moments. If I missed - pat me on the head and tell me to go to sleep)
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 05:16 AM
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Take the dress front only - put ties on each side the width of the front - play with the tank straps - and you have an apron. Make the dress and cut it up the front center. Put a button at belly button level on one side and a button hole on the other? Duster. Take the duster and add sleeves? Long Cardigan. Do you have someone who broke a hip and is in a half body cast? Make this dress but don't seam up the sides. Put some ties at the waist like a toddler art smock. Gma can wear clothes that don'…
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 04:56 AM
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You may have just cracked the code. I am loving this idea. "Oh, I made too much but thought you might want to toss some in the freezer for when you're sick of Turkey. I know how much all of you love Bolgogi."
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 03:42 AM
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I'm not going to copy and paste my comment but you might benefit from this idea too... look up Amazon Essentails Tank Swing Dress. This is absolutely "getting back into sewing" do able. My gushing commentary about this dress can be found *UP THERE* somewhere or - https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/18n9pkk/comment/kejtd97/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button I can give you a copy of a knock off pattern if you get stuck in the "for a …
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 02:38 AM
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Look up Amazon Essentals Womens Tank Swing Dress. I have them in a couple colors. In the summer? It's awesome. In the winter? Add leggings, a cardigan and a belt. OR add a poncho and leggings. Or a jean jacket. You can do anything with it. I went to a Christmas party for DHs work this past weekend. I wore a dark green one. Black leggings, Black cardigan that was the same length as the dress, black belt. (Make sure your blacks match) I threw on some jewelry and blended right in. This little thing…
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 02:31 AM
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Usually head count is abt 15. I know of 12 over 16 and 3 under 5. There might be a bonus over 16 I missed. We are only going to have to drive about 20 minutes. I have enough gear to transport everything safely. I'm not concerned about the difference in "small" vs "big" quantities. I'm essentially just increasing the quantity of ingredients and most things I could add (kimchee, spout salad, etc) can be made the day before. I have debated bringing a "tribute" crock pot for tradition sake with a ba…
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 02:04 AM
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starring quizzically HA HA. I've done that! Um... something something drippings and magic white powder makes gravy. Now - what was that magic powder.... :D MOM? Which white powder?! I had a brain fart! Great! You're 1 vote for DH's plan!
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 01:45 AM
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Awesome - Thank you! Which option would you chose? Back up Boulgogi for all? or Boulgogi for 5 adults? (I'm counting the 3 littles as an adult portion of meat. I know it's likely they'll be bigger fans of the rice and sauce than the meat.) Do I go big? Or do I play "I just did it for the sake of tradition" card? DH's exact words were "Whatever you choose to do, honey. But when you make the Boulgogi make sure you make us those crispy egg roll things, too." He's on board.
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 01:28 AM
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She's going to complain no matter what. I'm putting the cookies on a tray to avoid the "you should have at least taken them out of the bag if you couldn't be bothered to bake" converstaion. They're store bakery baked. I'm sure the chocolate chunk cookies will be too chocolaty or something. If I snap I'm going to hand her the customer comment card I picked up on my way out of the store so she can share her cookie critique with the baker directly.
/r/RedPillWives23/12/23 01:10 AM
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Op is a single mom. Apparently to date her she's gonna expect him to be paying for a babysitter?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 01:11 PM
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You're a single mom?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 12:58 AM
5

Yes. Never beg. Never follow rules someone else made up for you. Never let someone control your social interactions. RUN
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 09:05 PM
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What ever it is - if he is a December baby - make sure it's not Christmas related. I'm so sick of beef stew and pumpkin pie or a tree shaped cake with a candle on it and gifts wrapped in inside out christmas paper it's not funny. I stopped even telling people my Birthday so they would stop saying "Oh, Merry Christmas, happy Birthday in case I don't see you" during the month of Decemeber. NO. I don't want to go see Trans siberian Orchestra for my birthday. No, I don't want to go ice skating. No. …
/r/RedPillWives12/12/23 03:05 AM
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Watch him interact with others. That's the best way. Also see if he has to look at someone if they talk. If you say something and walk away does he kinda stop you to mak eyou face him and repeat yourself? I've actually worked with people who had an undiagnosed hearing loss who had no idea that they'd just adapted. I'm usually 100% not the "look for another reason" person but.. let's say i've seen this before and it wasn't what she thought it was ( I was the HR lady who was about to go after the …
/r/RedPillWives02/12/23 02:50 AM
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Does he wear hearing aids? I know several adults who could fit this description - one in particular has such fluent speech you would never know without hearing aids he was functionally Deaf. He reads lips first and looks to the eyes to see what's going to come next. Is it possible he's not flirting but is hearing impaired? (See if he does this with other people - especially women as we do tend to speak softer and in a higher register. Does he always look at people's lips? I read > He stares at m…
/r/RedPillWives02/12/23 12:49 AM
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