IWasMeButNowHesGone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	A Hack For Sex on The First Date Yeah spot on. A lot of guys pay not because they're "being a gentleman", they pay because they're afraid of what the woman may think of them if they don't. Let that BS go, nothing kills you're attractiveness quicker than fear. For example there was this girl I briefly dated, and on the first date we split the bill. This was a very pretty girl that knew it (she was quite egotistical for a girl that I later learned was in reality insecure) so I knew me not paying for her on the first date would be…	/r/seduction	28/01/14 05:32 PM
1	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" Honestly I wouldn't know how to title it without the context of the conversation. It's already on the front page twice now anyway, I'm no fan of clutter. Thank you for the heads up.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 11:21 PM
3	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" Good list! Actually this compliments my post above nicely, this being the 'how' and mine being the 'why'.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 10:08 PM
14	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" No, "nice" boys approach it wrong because they compete, because they are desperate to "win". They want, some need, this validation because they live in fear and insecurity. "What if another hot girl never talks to me again, what if this is my only shot at not being alone?!?!?" They aren't actually nice, they're manipulative and needy. When they're rejected, they spiral into self-pity and blame the "jerks" and the woman who like them. The most attractive men don't compete at all. They be themselv…	/r/seduction	03/12/12 09:50 PM
186	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" What kind of species loosely values qualities like arrogance and flamboyancy as attractive, and qualities such as compassion and attentiveness as unattractive? No that's B.S. There's a reason we've (humans) evolved to find certain traits attractive and others repulsive, there's logic to it but it must be seen from the correct point of view. Compassion and attentiveness are not unattractive, neediness and manipulation are. And that's exactly what "nice guys" are doing when they think they are bei…	/r/seduction	03/12/12 09:35 PM
4	"All you ever want to do is have sex!" Stab in the dark, but I bet the "looked upon as a whore" thing is probably more feared from other women and/or authority figures than it is bitter guys. A woman wouldn't (at least I hope) want to bother with, or even be attracted to, a bitter guy like that since he's obviously at the very least sexually insecure. Of course I'm speaking from the point of view of one of the freer societies. Some nations are completely repressed by bitter guys like that.	/r/seduction	04/10/12 12:23 AM
1	Sarcasm and foreign girls. Thanks, I wasn't sure how that would come across so I'm quite pleased it resonated. The whole thing was admittedly a bit of self reflection as well.	/r/seduction	30/09/12 04:26 AM
2	Sarcasm and foreign girls. “I’m so glad I got to come home with you, I was starting to wonder what your house looked like.” "Well here it is" smile and guide her on a lighthearted tour of your place. Have fun with it. At the end ask "Well what do you think?" Continue that conversation or switch topics while leading to the next activity/spot. You know, normal fun inviting interactions. If you think you're in her head and know what she wants, fine go ahead and believe that but stop trying get her to validate it for you. Tha…	/r/seduction	29/09/12 04:20 PM
4	What I've learned after years of being in a female-dominated profession and schooling Your post reminded me of this: Some of you eat lunch at certain place everyday and you're not talking to people, start breaking that social circle. Some of you like to go to happy hour; get to meet everybody. Once you meet everybody you create the party. If you create the party women are going to come running all the time. But you have to learn how to create that party and the only way to create that party is to become the confident guy and the only way to become the confident guy is to start ta…	/r/seduction	13/01/12 05:39 PM
5	HB9 left her number under my windshield wiper at gas pump. Wat do? Everybody else already answered your question so I'll just add this, she is not an HB9.	/r/seduction	04/06/11 07:22 PM
1	[FR] yes, sounds like bragging. fuck the haters. f closes thursday and friday. Huh, I've always naturally done 2, and have been trying to change it more towards 1 since that is what I see advised most in seddit. Didn't realize 2 was already good, though thinking about it now not knowing was kind of dumb of me, 2 always did work out fine for me.	/r/seduction	21/05/11 04:24 PM
3	First [FR], did everything wrong, worked anyways Right. Look at this way: Him: waves her to come over Her: looks confused Him: without hesitation, walks over "I saw you looking at me" Her: "You were looking at me" Him: "You're cute. Let's dance" Dance, spin, make-out	/r/seduction	28/03/11 04:16 PM
4	Man up! No excuses! (found in /r/AskReddit/) Bruce Lee was the fucking man	/r/seduction	26/03/11 06:17 PM
1	A realization I had today. I'm not saying never chat, I just want to provide my perspective that if you play it right, you never need to chat. Love it, and agreed. Would upvote that sentence twice if I could!	/r/seduction	25/03/11 08:36 PM