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I'm really not lol but lets just say milfs are incredibly willing to spoil young studs, though I did once date a rich girl my age and it almost felt like she was trying to buy my affection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:51 PM
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Bro lol like this is obvious bait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:35 PM
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Fr I'm not 10/10 lol but I am decently attractive and women approach me every so often. The only dinner dates I've ever been on have been paid for by the woman Edit: also I don't really drink when i go out (alcohol ages you and makes you fat) but women will buy me drinks every now and again and I don't exactly say no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:28 PM
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No I'm saying it depends on the jobs they do. But the way you put it, clearly framed the situation in a way that skews to one side. Look at all the adjectives you used. Working vs chilling. Demanding vs cushy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:54 PM
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I mean, I guess a conversation but even the way you framed the issue simply values knowledge work less than physical work. Like, you're talking about a cushy air conditioned office when most people who do such work don't even experience that lol. Like you don't see strenuous mental work on the same level as strenuous physical work so any conversation would be framed in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:21 PM
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Mental work is tough too lmao it takes the same stores of energy your muscles do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:40 PM
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Lmao most dudes are fat and unkempt, that's just empirical fact. If you're doing more than the bare minimum and still not getting any success, you need to work on your game my dude. I lost my virginity before I even started working out because I had spent the past few years forcing myself through social situations until I was smooth and witty enough to get a girl interested even while looking like a starving child. I was a pretty late bloomer so i wasnt even as tall as i am now when it happened.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:37 PM
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Lol the Toji fit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:45 PM
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You can be shredded without juice and still be bigger than 99% of dudes you see on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:43 PM
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I mean they're probably not exactly the same but grey dress pants and white vest isn't exactly high fashion lol dafuq
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:39 PM
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Seems to me like you'd just be left with the same head pain with added mouth pain lol. But hey, if it's worked before, have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:27 PM
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LOL I went out in this exact fit a couple weeks ago. Vests are the saving grace of lean natties
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:26 PM
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Lmfao I mean he's a special case, he's oddly bottom-heavy for a bodybuilder, but like that's just to a trained eye. Like, I'm nowhere near Tennyson's size but I dress to emphasise my physique, not hide it. I'm also super lean and being shredded gives the impression of you being buffer than you actually are, so even though I'm not huge, everyone can clock that I put the hours in at the gym. I even get compliments on my physique from strangers, women making excuses to touch my chest, my arms, etc,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:23 PM
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If you're in pain, why would you want more pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:17 PM
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I don't think its ruined tbh like you can have an amazing body and be fit enough for a marathon naturally. Steroids are for those who don't want to put in the work or are trying to become professional bodybuilders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:51 AM
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I wouldn't say it's high status, rather it's a vehicle for these women to access high status men. Most actual high status women aren't getting into relationships with athletes lol but you right they probably know the deal going in
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:47 AM
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Lol you think so? Seems odd to be advertising that your site is full of gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:41 AM
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He spent his childhood as an ottoman sex slave and then failed to stop said ottomans from vassalising his country again lmao but you would find that based, wouldn't you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:37 AM
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Keep seething lmao. If you're curious, I actually did link with a girl at lunch. She's not really my first choice but shes cute and I was proving a point. I'll let your imagination fill in the rest while you reread Meditations with tears in your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:34 AM
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LOL let it go bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:12 AM
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What do you mean "prefer" idc either way I'm just saying it's not the first time in history women weren't just an oppressed underclass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:09 AM
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I'd argue most people here haven't lol so many takes that would be dispelled by a five minute convo with someone they're attracted to. But tbh this place selects for the people with the most radical opinions, because most people don't care enough about the shit we talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:07 AM
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Fr bro's talking like the only options are matriarchy or sharia law lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:03 AM
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Lmfao I mean, its "know your audience" in action I guess. Shame its probably gonna connect you to some Arab oil sheikh who wants to shit on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:15 AM
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We're all slightly unhinged tbh. Anyone who spends valuable time arguing with strangers online about gender dynamics can't be fully sane, but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:13 AM
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I mean, obviously there are qualitative differences between the rights of any woman living preindustrialisation and now, but I'm talking on like a societal level, where spartan women as a socioeconomic class had oligarchic power despite the conceptions of gender roles at the time. I think modern women would also be shocked at how much power those women could wield especially in contrast to other Greek societies and even compared to today, there are powerful women, but no discrete social stratus …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:08 AM
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Okay fair enough, I'd be down for an interview
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:46 AM
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Well what do you consider a 10/10 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:44 AM
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Bro has to be autistic, no way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:37 AM
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I'd argue Spartan women were freer. Outside of military matters and foreign policy, Sparta was basically a matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:36 AM
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Fr I've personally never seen it with women, but I've been to Mozambique quite a few times and white women literally trawl the beaches looking for young hot BBC, there are dudes who do nothing but stand there and flex their abs until some fat old hag from the UK picks them out. Like it's a whole sex tourism industry, i dont doubt its probably bigger for women. All these people are terrible imo, literally textbook exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:32 AM
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Damn you didn't get any girls number or instagram? RIP bro. What do you think went wrong? Did you talk to many new people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:17 AM
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Lol how was the club, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:04 AM
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What does "similar ideology" mean, like from my perspective trp and the black pill are quite different but the avg person thinks they're the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:50 AM
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Why not date if you don't believe in it? Most people give up because they feel like they can't compete
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:41 AM
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Exactly. It is a toolbox. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:29 AM
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waah waah cope cope get some bitches lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:13 AM
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Idk if you know what emblematic means, but I'm not saying he caused the fall lmfao. Hilarious that only one of us is having trouble with women and you're calling me the incel 💀 okay bro. And I think you're confusing Aurelius' military campaigns with those of Trajanus. He mostly campaigned on the Danube frontier against Germanic Tribes. It was Trajanus who was known for spreading the empire to its greatest boundaries in the Far East, but I'll forgive you for this confusion for you are a confused …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:08 AM
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Lmfao Aurelius' "legacy" is emblematic of everything that led to the fall of the roman empire, the very first thing he did was debase the roman coin, increase the soldiers' pay, then go adventuring in Armenia and Mesopotamia to install puppet kings. While he wrote about "uNiVerSAl bROthErHoOd" the mechanisms of state rotted beneath him until, predictably, it fell apart the moment he keeled over. I'm not even going to get into Seneca, but I have plenty to say about him too. Stoicism is a larp by …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:50 PM
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Says the guy jerking himself to sleep with thoughts of men in togas lol. Stoicism certainly didn't help Aurelius raise a competent successor, didn't even stop him getting cucked by his queen lmao if that's the example you want to follow, be my guest. Just don't ask why a guy like me is good friends with your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:11 PM
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Stoicism is a cope by romaboos who imagine themselves as emperors when they would be the peasants having to "accept their fate"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:44 PM
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No shit charisma doesn't matter on tinder, go out and meet women irl. You don't have to walk around shirtless if you wear stuff that emphasises your physique
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:16 PM
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Yeah lol I love the attention. Obviously it's a lot better from those I also find attractive but like being desired is almost like a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:42 PM
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Bro folded immediately 💀 lmao it depends on your view of relationships I guess like you don't have to introduce everyone you date to your parents lol sometimes you two can just be vibing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:35 PM
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Idk I'd date one, might be fun. It wouldn't be super serious though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:58 PM
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Not just that, biological imperatives are powerful lol. Its the whole "Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive" theory. Anecdotally, during puberty a switch turns on and it takes a fuckton of work to start switching it off lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:51 PM
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because most people are too lazy to actually do work and improve themselves, they maybe try for a couple of weeks/months, don't see instant results and become blackpilled Big facts, I got in and out before tate and all the podcasters pissed in the soup, but I internalised the lessons and worked on myself. It took years but I've actually made it lol my romantic life is smth out of a movie like it sounds unrealistic even, my social skills are amazing lol i regularly go out alone and have an amazin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:25 PM
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Anyone moderately attractive knows cheating is way way more common than most people think lol i have crazy stories
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:01 PM
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Lol don't make me blush
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:41 PM
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Only if you promise to be gentle with me, I'm a sensitive soul 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:27 PM
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Lol maybe. I get approached by women every so often and I've noticed they usually do it when they're around their friends. If the stigma was worse I imagine I'd get more women approaching out of the blue on their own rather than in front of people they know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:37 AM
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Come on bro lmao be realistic. You think the only thing he has going for him is that he's tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:58 PM
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Lol do you think every dude over six foot just has women falling all over them? That it's impossible for a tall guy to be undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:47 PM
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Fr bro don't let these mfs pull you into the trenches with them. It's all about building the right habits to turn yourself into a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:27 PM
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Thx bby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:23 PM
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It is lol like most dudes are overweight. That's just a fact. Im purposefully trying to gain muscle and sculpt my body to look like a god but I don't expect that sort of dedication from everyone. Just staying within a healthy range though? I feel like that's a low bar to meet. I'm probably autistic so I had to learn proper social skills from the ground up but I fucking did it lol all the info is there in the sidebar for free. I got in and out before Andrew tate and all the podcast bros and strea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:19 PM
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I mean, it's not all about height lol there's a bit more to it and tall guys aren't exactly rare, I still have to compete
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:43 PM
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Yeah my haircut isn't boring, so it's not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:00 PM
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You can't tell lol people will lie. The biggest hoe will proclaim her chastity and the most shy virgin will boast about all the poon he's slayed. Imo the only way to be sure of someone's history these days is if you grow up with them. I've seen my friends lie to dudes about their body counts right in front of me. There's lowkey no point thinking about it because you will hear lies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:59 PM
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Is that the only thing you read in that comment lol? But actually I had four different hairstyles last year, my hair is pretty versatile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:53 PM
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Lool fair enough, but like other stuff does matter for long-term relationships. I fit your profile but im broke af. Not looking for a gf rn but if I was I wouldn't have any money to put into the relationship. I dated a waitress for a bit late last year and like it was fun but we were both broke, so it never developed into anything super serious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:49 PM
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Lol the analogy is so impersonal when we're talking about relationships but I get where you're coming from. Imo this is how it would ideally be for most guys, with one or a few favourites depending on your preference and the odd hankering for something new every so often, kinda like a Platonic Ideal of the Satisfied Man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:32 PM
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This is not true, I'm tall and shredded but I'm broke as fuuuuck lol like I have no car and my parents have to help me w/bills because I have a useless degree. Even so, I still slay. Idk how many of these women would want to marry me though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:25 PM
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Its not even that deep lol but imo you can't be complaining if you haven't made a genuine, concerted effort to become more attractive. It worked for me, I managed to cross over, but that's why I can't take these mfs seriously. I can't tell you how many people saw my metamorphosis and asked me to help train them, make them a workout plan, show them how to talk to women, etc and then they just give up after a couple of weeks. Fact is, a lot of dudes just aren't disciplined enough to change their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:22 PM
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This site is full of denial and cope, most of these mfs will not be honest with you. I've been working out for five years, RP-aware for maybe eight and I can tell you most dudes are doing smth wrong. Obviously in the past, not optimising your market value wasn't as big a deal, but the world we live in today means either you step up and adapt or wither away alone. Believe me, I went from skinny, bitchless and annoying to charismatic, shredded and crushing it. I've seen both sides. It's possible t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:14 PM
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It's not that deep tbh, people put too much pressure on themselves in these situations. Have you never like gone out to lunch with a girl or helped her with shopping or smth? The only formal dinner dates I've been on have been paid for by the woman lol like the last date I was on I was chilling with this chick as she ran around the city doing errands, it was actually pretty fun. We're both stoners though and smoking with your date is like the ultimate icebreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:04 PM
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True, but I guess I came up in a different era lol like OG RP you'd approach sets upon sets until you're smooth both sober and geeked. When I go out I usually don't drink (or if I do it's two/three shots of vodka) I just pack a j or two 'cause I'm not gonna risk my abs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:58 PM
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Lmao they're cooking you but I kinda see the vision. This is the perspective of someone with plenty of options, which ngl most men do not have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:53 PM
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I disagree, it makes those of us who are slightly above average seem way better relatively. The brutal truth is that most men don't put in much effort to raise their market value, so those few who do seem leagues ahead. I'm not that buff, like I don't have one of those Instagram influencer bodies, but I am visibly muscular and lean, and just that has put me head and shoulders above most other dudes. Don't forget the average man is overweight, gets the same boring haircut every month, goes out to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:47 PM
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Fr lol, most married men stop putting in as much effort to take care of themselves once they settle down. They are not who we're in competition with lmao I'm clashing with the other tall, ripped, young dudes in the club, not Homer with the belly fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:39 PM
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Do you not go on dates sober lol? That's crazy lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:32 PM
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Lmfao wasn't it like 90% dudes? Funniest shit ever. People with real options don't have to pay to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:31 PM
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Blaming feminism is a cope imo, I've been with both "feminists" and feminists, and I'm very much a toxic male. It really isn't that deep tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:02 PM
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As a dude, modern dating only sucks if you haven't put the work in. Imo most guys have the potential to break into the mystical top 20% but the fact that it's a years-long process drives them to give up. Unless you're like physically deformed or relentlessly mentally ill, you can find someone. Personally, I started self-improvement (learning social skills) back in 2015, before Tate and all the podcast bros pissed in the pool, and started working out in 2019. Only in 2022 did I feel like I was fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:58 PM
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Tbh it makes relationships harder because you can directly see how easy and common it is for people to cheat. Ever since I glowed up, I have basically zero trust in romantic commitment. From what I've seen and experienced, I honestly think a majority of people are cheaters, but most simply haven't had both the opportunity and felt the comfort necessary to take the risk. I flirt with basically everyone when I'm activated, and I'd say maybe a third of women in relationships will shut you down when…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:05 PM
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It's been cooked ever since Andrew Tate and the podcast bros found out about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:10 PM
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You're being disingenuous imo, you can't look at a biological drive on one side and ignore it on the other. Just like men will have the impulse to spread their genes as far and wide as possible, women have the impulse to secure genes from the most genetically fit and settle down with the most socially secure. This is hypergamy 101, where women are aspirational w/ regards to sex but practical for marriage. Nothing you're saying is outside the bounds of our biological imperatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:27 PM
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Lol I imagine plenty of us dabble recreationally, but it's not something that I'll offer up unprompted. Teetotallers love the validation, especially on a site full of lames like this one, as if being sober means women must fall over themselves to suck your dick lmao. Me, I don't drink but I'm a huge stoner. I'm also ripped as shit and a professional debater. Sober people don't associate one with the other because of stereotypes. When you see people saying they're sober like they want a gold star…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:18 PM
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Mfs want to live in denial because getting in shape takes time and discipline, while they want the magic pickup line that drops panties now (and a LOT of people are in denial about how out of shape they are, so they don't want to believe it's a limiting factor). Becoming visibly muscular was the best decision I ever made for my love life
/r/seduction04/06/24 09:55 AM
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Look up "anywheres vs somewheres" I've encountered her viewpoint before and I think this is what she means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:48 AM
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The woman that will leave you when you are in a vulnerable state will likely show many disqualifying red flags well before dumping you because you cried when a family member or friend died. This is trap lol I've fallen for this too many times. The reality is most times there won't be red flags. Once you get close enough to someone to consider being really vulnerable with them, its already too late. Things will be going well, then one day shit will just change and you won't know why. Personally, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:13 PM
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Lol its not that simple, sometimes you really do just want to dance. I get it if you're old and want to stay inside and knit or whatever but like depending on the club, the music actually can be amazing and you really can meet interesting people if you're not deathly afraid of talking to strangers like everyone on reddit seems to be. I moved to a new city last year and went out clubbing alone, both to test the vibe of the new place and meet friends to go out with in future. It was a great experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:29 PM
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I can only give anecdotal evidence, but personally I worked on my social skills before i started taking the gym seriously. Gaining better charisma took me from virgin to getting the odd girl every so often, but once I got jacked it was an entirely different world. Literally, women started approaching me for my number, I get random compliments from strangers a few times a month, I'm in a position where I'm choosing among several options whom I like best as opposed to back in the day where I'd put…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:46 AM
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You guys are telling on yourselves tbh his night wasn't even that crazy, he kissed one girl and got one girl's contacts. I wonder if anyone in this sub actually goes out and games or its all just larpers who think any middling success is so wild and unbelievable that a FR like this has to be fake. Anyone who takes this self-improvement and game stuff seriously has had crazier experiences.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:44 AM
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Ngl you're telling on yourself. I've personally successfully used this opener before multiple times
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:37 AM
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So I'm from a culture where women's breasts aren't as heavily sexualised and ngl its so weird seeing these takes. Like, why wouldn't you feed your crying baby lol I don't get how its taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:26 AM
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Idk I won't deny there's an element of societal pressure when discussing people's looks, but it's pretty well-established that women don't really know what turns them on themselves, there have been a few studies done on it. Below is an excerpt from an article about one of these studies. One of the most intriguing research nuggets to emerge: While male sexuality is fairly predictable — they tend to be aroused by naked women and naked women hooking up with other naked women — female sexuality is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:59 AM
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The "dad-bod" craze in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:44 AM
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It's true, I just turned 25 but whenever I visit my sister on campus, I get a new girl's number/instagram. I'm a broke nobody, but I'm pretty ripped and can charm the pants off a nun. It's game at its easiest setting
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:47 PM
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Lol you're not wrong. Imo its the inverse of the "manic pixie dream girl" fantasy, where the woman imagines a guy "taming" her and falling for her despite whatever baggage she has. "Baggage" usually includes forgiving her when she cheats lmao
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:01 AM
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Yeah no shit lol. Look at popular media. Most people's idea of a "strong woman" is a woman acting like a man. Most people's idea of a "weak man" is a man acting like a woman. We're a sexually dimorphic species and that dimorphism not only encourages certain behaviours and mindsets in the two sexes but pushes us to naturally expect certain behaviours from the opposite sex. Rightly or wrongly, masculinity is associated with strength/dominance and femininity with weakness/submissiveness. A "strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:22 AM
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sounds like you’re more bisexual than me I am, which is why if anyone was to have an objective opinion on this, it would be me. Just googled your Steve Harvey claim and it’s fake news. Like everything else you said, just ridiculous and fake Lmao its fake news because he denied it? 💀 Okay bro, I have a bridge to sell your gullible ass lol If men man up and get some money they won’t have problems dating Finally, we come to the crux of it. What was the point of all that bullshit about emotional int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:44 AM
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having money, treating women well and being emotionally intelligent makes them attractive Yeah as a provider, not a partner (slight but critical difference). This is why simps have to have all this stuff where other guys will be broke assholes and still have women falling over themselves to be with them. We don’t want to be with men just for looks or like I say we would be a lesbian. Women’s bodies are designed to be sexy and attractive Bro you are bisexual lmao I have female friends and lived i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:31 AM
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Because only women can be physically attractive? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:11 AM
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Actionable info. Techniques, stratagems, perspectives, like everything I can actively apply to my own life. Basically the sidebar. Or the sidebar back when I was a member, idk what it's like now. Ignore any ideology or emotional venting. Ignore anyone trying to sell you anything. Ignore everyone who says it doesn't work. It does, but again, you can't just be endlessly reading, you have to actually get out into the trenches. Most guys won't though, or at least they won't stick with it when it get…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:18 PM
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That's a skill issue tbh. My romantic life has completely turned around. I am legitimately the prize now, I have options. I got into it before it went mainstream though and those Fresh and fit morons and Andew Tae suddenly became the face of it. The trick is to actually apply the stuff you read about lol, take what works and discard everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:25 PM
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Have you considered that it might be the same set of men approaching multiple women? Just having the balls to approach already puts you in a minority of dudes. Imo its just that the worst case scenarios get plastered all over the news and that reinforces an already held belief in their minds from when some guy called them a bitch after getting rejected. Actual violence is rare because obviously getting violent after getting rejected is crazy behaviour but lots of women keep the possibility in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:17 PM
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Simps gonna simp. It's economics. If you can't get a woman by sheer attraction, throw resources at her. Not to mention the popular conception of masculinity as being a provider/protector/all the other stuff, so many men feel like if they're not out grinding while their partner is "homemaking", they're a failure of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:05 PM
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Nah lol but I'm kinda muscular and I do wear tight, body-hugging stuff, like to the point you can see my abs through the tshirt, and vests. I'm pretty lean so when I'm showing off my arms and shoulders, you can see veins and striations and shit, its a striking effect, women are fascinated by them lol
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:08 PM
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I'm deathly afraid of that stuff lmao but I have adequate discipline imo, I make sure I'm always wrapped and for the rare times I'm not, I make sure to pull out. I've never nutted in a girl raw even once, despite how tempting it always is. I actually donate blood pretty regularly (I'm O-) so the doctor at the blood bank always talks to me about this stuff. Luckily the worst condom-dodging stds like syphilis, genital warts and herpes are visible so always fuck with the lights on and if you see so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:09 PM
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I can tell you from experience that's not true. I'm kind of a scumbag tbh, but I've never lied to a woman about my intentions. Every girl I get involved with knows they will not find a serious relationship with me. I don't even know how many "confessions" I've gotten. Even if I ignore all the "I love you"s during sex (way too many), right now I have five girls blocked who think they're in love with me and several more I'm pretty sure are on the verge of saying it themselves. Idk how many girls I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:34 PM
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Lol i mean, it's sex, like sometimes it'll be good, sometimes it'll be meh, sometimes I won't even cum and sometimes I'll be left in a twitchy pleasure coma. Depends on the woman. It's not like I actively go for women in relationships, i'll shoot my shot at a bad bitch and it'll turn out she's dating someone, but she isn't discouraging me in any way, we're still heavily flirting, she's giving me the look, etc. I wouldn't say I feel guilt, my rationale is that the onus is on her to defend her rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:02 PM
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This is not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:36 AM
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Lol fr my female friends will be telling me about a guy they met and straight up admit they lied to him about their count. There was one girl I met for whom I was the second dude she ever fucked. We lost touch for a semester because uni got rough, but then we started hooking up again late in the year and in the six months I hadn't seen her, her count went from 2 to 14. An average of two new guys a month, and we weren't at school for a few of those months so realistically it was like four new guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:33 AM
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They are terrified of long term relationships even if they want to be in them deep down Idk dude, some of the shit I've seen lol its not paranoia if you're right. One girl I was actively fucking ghosted me all of a sudden and I find out through instagram she got married like a week after we last smashed. I had no idea she was even engaged. They have a kid now and are happy as far as I can tell. Many nights where I could see the outline of a ring on their finger/a guy on their phone lockscreen. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:16 AM
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My sister goes to a different university than I did, and I mostly only ever go there to visit her or to buy weed lol so when I'm daygaming there I just say I'm meeting someone later (its usually true lol either my sister or my plug) or I'm there to use certain facilities like the gym or the pool that are open to non-students. If you have friends still enrolled or can find a friendly stranger, you should ask for the hook-up on the best smoking spots, there's always people there open to conversati…
/r/seduction31/03/24 07:30 AM
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Yeah I actually approach irl as well and I consider myself mildly attractive (like women will approach me every so often) but even I don't get the close every single time, even if I have fun flirting with the girl. Before I got jacked, my rejection rate was like 95% lmao Eventually, you learn that rejection doesn't matter you will literally never see these women again and if anything they'll be impressed by your balls because cold approaching is a dying art
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:53 AM
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And a lot of them have permanent trust issues from their success for various reasons Lol this is a biiig one. I highkey glowed up in college and now I'm way more successful in this aspect than most guys. However, now I don't trust women enough (romantically) to have a long-term committed relationship with one. I've seen (and done) too much. Like, it's actually disgusting out there. However much infidelity you think happens, I promise you its way way more. The most innocent looking girl you imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:42 AM
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Yeah I don't drink much, I prefer to smoke on a night out but I still go to clubs and bars w/ my friends. It's not like you can't have a lit time sober and there are a surprising amount of sober people at these functions, probably there as DD or because they also don't drink
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:06 AM
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Nah I never usually stop someone who's walking since chances are, even if they're interested, you won't have much time to spit your game if they have somewhere to be. A notable exception is college though, I visit my sister on her campus every so often and everyone is pretty open to chat whenever, I've been stopped several times by women complimenting me or just wanting my instagram or smth (i'm not that old though, I recently graduated myself so ymmv. tbh college girls date 30+ dudes all the ti…
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:04 AM
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Also very intimate. I learned how to tango in high school and its like emotional crack for women, a few dips with eye contact and they are jelly in your hands
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:52 AM
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As a complete scumbag, I can testify that being able to read non-verbal cues and calibrate your assholery to push just far enough to get a woman frustrated and emotionally aroused but not actually angry is a required skill for us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:54 PM
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Yeah nothing much he can do about it tbh he's one of the unlucky few. There's probably an equally neurodivergent woman out there but imo guys have a higher tolerance for weird behaviour from women they're interested in than vice-versa so even she probably doesn't have as much trouble with dating than OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:48 PM
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Lmfao you're really just making assumption after assumption hoping something hits. I genuinely don't care what you think bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:47 AM
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I'll bet if you told her you think she's a boring moron she would cut you off immediately I tell her she's an idiot all the time dw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah I personally don't use terms like low or high value, but what she's talking about is the difference between a girl you find attractive and a girl you'd want to marry. Large gap between those two categories. One of my fwbs doesn't believe in the moon landing lol and i unironically think she's kinda dumb, like below average intelligence with genuinely braindead opinions about some things, but that doesn't stop me from finding her physically attractive and tolerable enough to be around consist…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:05 PM
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Yeah tbh it could never survive in today's climate. Even though imo learning seduction is pretty benign since there are countless men that do all this exact stuff naturally, a community focused on learning the best strategies to pique a woman's interest and get her to sleep w/ you wouldn't last past the first viral twitter post. I can already see the feminist think pieces about the kind of man who autistically breaks attraction down into concrete steps and a plan of action. A plethora of Washing…
/r/seduction26/03/24 10:05 AM
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What struggles are these? Like is it approach anxiety, do you fumble during the talking stage, like what's the main issue getting between you and ass and why do you think it's the cuck mentality?
/r/seduction22/03/24 10:45 PM
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Bruh 💀
/r/seduction22/03/24 10:39 PM
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It's an anti anxiety med I think but you can just order it online, no shady dark web shenanigans needed
/r/seduction22/02/24 07:13 AM
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Just relax lol why are you so eager to let her know that you guys matched before? Sounds like you're already too invested in this girl tbh. Like the other guy said, just talk to her a bit more and be like "You seem familiar, have we met before?" or something like that. Let her make the connection herself as opposed to you shoving it in her face
/r/seduction21/02/24 10:29 AM
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I don't do it regularly but if I go out and don't want to drink for whatever reason, I take like 300-450mg of lyrica (pregabalin). Its like alcohol with none of the sloppiness, you get so much more social and can approach anyone with no fear. You don't slur your words or stumble around, its like a mild aphrodisiac 'cause it's very easy to get hard and you stay horny all night, and the effects last like 8 hours (yes, sex feels amazing, no whiskey dick). I did it about once a month in college and …
/r/seduction21/02/24 10:21 AM
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Friendzoning for men and women works differently. The "friend zone" is a state where your object of interest can't see you as anything more than a friend, while you're trying your damndest to get them to upgrade you. Imo men do this with emotional investment, while women do this with sexual access. Basically, a guy trapped in the friendzone is simping heavy, doing all the emotional labour of a boyfriend without any of the physical benefits in hopes that the woman will finally see him as the best…
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:40 AM
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Let's be real though, most guys who have to ask this question are not able to pull this off. Trying to bust out of the friendzone is a fool's errand that requires more effort than it's worth. Find other girls OP
/r/seduction19/02/24 09:28 PM
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Yeah its basically the same concept but I've only ever seen it work if you leave her life for a while (like no contact for at least four/five months), then come back without any of the simp shit that got you into the friendzone in the first place. You're gone long enough that she'll miss the attention you used to give her and long enough that you can make a second first impression. If you come back as a suave fuckboy that treats her like any other girl, not bad, just not special, it makes her wo…
/r/seduction19/02/24 09:24 PM
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Ngl that's a skill issue
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:30 AM
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Bruh I'm jacked but i'm a pussy lol no way could I be a bouncer
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:29 AM
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Thats the plan lol and I mean it's not like everything is great, like I'm broke af, don't have a car, started feeling some slight dysmorphia after getting jacked, parents still have to help me with bills and none of the places I can use my education at are hiring, etc I have a lot of problems lmao but unlike most guys at least I can say loneliness isn't one of them. I have a strong friend group and can get intimate companionship whenever I want. Both of these I attribute to the fact that I made …
/r/seduction16/02/24 11:12 AM
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Fr I was in this same situation at 19. Now (just turned 25) I'm charismatic, ripped af, confident, self-assured and increasing the notch count every other week. You just have to decide you're tired of living the way you do and be truly willing to change your fate. I'm not a natural at this, every bit of the new me was built from the ground up, using free resources on the internet. It took years and getting used to a lot of rejection/failure. But now I can walk into a club on my own and get a gir…
/r/seduction16/02/24 08:14 AM
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Do you mean like runway supermodels? 'Cause my gym is a popular influencer gym (luckily there's a whole separate area for these guys to take pics or vids) and I always see IG models or beauty pageant contestants who I assume also model on the side. All of them are bad af (except this one 6'3 girl who looks like she could rip me in half. Funnily enough she has an identical twin who is incredibly good-looking. Never seen a set of twins where one is buff and scary and the other is fit and aesthetic…
/r/seduction15/02/24 08:15 AM
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The cold, hard reality. There's no trick or secret place people meet all these available women. Certainly there are places single women tend to congregate but if you don't pass muster, even being the only guy there wouldn't help.
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:21 PM
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Yeah I always flirt in the gym, its fun lol but tbh I don't pursue anything further with the gym bunnies because there's only the one nearby gym and I go there five or six days a week. I can't afford to make things awkward with people I see every day, just unnecessary stress
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:17 PM
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Fr this is crazy to read, if anything its easier to approach when I'm with my friends, because they hype you up, wingman you, etc. Sounds like he goes out with his acquaintances lol
/r/seduction11/02/24 09:59 AM
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Fr I call women bro too lol it doesn't matter
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:16 PM
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But in my opinion, dancing has a very feminine aura and rarely leads to sexual activity. Many women only feel the moment nice that someone can move well and nothing more. I can guarantee you this isn't true. I mean, idk about the feminine aura but dancing with a woman is like the most surefire way to get her wet. I've pulled girls literally without saying a word, just from us dancing together, even fingered one on the dancefloor and we didn't say a thing to each other
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:12 PM
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Often you don't even need to say anything tbh, like if there's plenty of space around and the girl chooses to dance near you it's pretty obvious whats up. I usually go for a hand on the waist though
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:05 PM
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Yeah lol even fwb situations with women your own age all eventually end, no shit an older chick isn't going to want to do this long-term.
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:47 PM
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Lmfao this man is a menace
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:41 PM
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All the things that these guys will teach you are very superficial and not something that would help you make a genuine connection with a woman Not necessarily, imo the only issue is that everything these supposed "gurus" will teach you is available free on the internet if you're willing to look. But its not like they're selling dreams lol "a genuine connection" doesn't just come out of nowhere, you have to work on being the type of guy your ideal woman would have a genuine connection with
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:03 AM
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Lmao they're cooking you but, as someone who had to build myself over years into a guy that actually gets women, I get your point tbh. Its the difference between being passively attractive i.e. nice to look at but not creating the tingles, and being actively attractive i.e. sparking her emotions, setting her imagination afire, making her panties flood. Problem with looksmaxxing (without learning game) is it sets these guys up to be passively attractive, where they can look like a greek god but t…
/r/seduction09/02/24 08:41 AM
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No he's talking about commitment, not fun. If you meet a rich girl out on the town, you have the same chance as anyone else to smash, but if you want marriage/a committed relationship that's when you have to be in or above her socioeconomic bracket
/r/seduction08/02/24 06:35 AM
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With some caveats tbh, like you'll probably not get married, but rich girls like to fuck just as much as normal girls. I've "dated" all across the socioeconomic spectrum and this idea of thinking of yourself as "too low-class" to find a rich girl is just hobbling yourself unnecessarily. Obviously, if you want to talk about marriage its a whole different conversation because then the family would get involved and probably wouldn't agree for her to marry a broke boi like you, as well as social pre…
/r/seduction08/02/24 06:31 AM
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I mean its not like I have a script lol its very context-dependent but I prefer to keep the topics personal, focused on either her or me. I usually only approach women who are alone or in groups of three or more so an easy convo topic is why she's there alone/how they all know each other, women tend to like talking about their relationships and its simple to thread it with other things. I also like to pose hypotheticals and get her imagining us together in random scenarios, I also usually ask it…
/r/seduction06/02/24 04:00 PM
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Imo not getting her number or her IG before girl 1 first left was the only fuckup, she probably took it as a soft rejection and women (especially attractive women) suck at handling rejection. (Of course, this is assuming her standoffishness had anything to do with you, for all you know she got a drink thrown in her face at the other club or she found out her bestie got back with her abusive ex or smth) The club isn't like meeting women elsewhere, every single person is there to have fun, meet ne…
/r/seduction06/02/24 06:00 AM
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Depends what he means by "get attention" tbh like when I'm dressed like a slut (i.e. showing off my physique), I get compliments, furtive glances, women approaching, etc whereas when I'm covered up I have to make the effort more often than not. Not to say I become a bridge troll but in normal daygame you have to stand out (beyond being just mildly attractive) for women to come to you instead of the reverse. But it's not like I become a bitch-repellent, like you can still run proper game when you…
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:35 AM
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Yup. Getting serious about the gym was one of the best decisions I ever made. I'm not even that big but I am lean and visibly muscular. People genuinely don't understand how much of a quality of life improvement it is, like you literally move through society easier. I always liken it to most people living life at lvl 1 or 2, while being fit and visibly jacked is life on lvl 5
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:04 PM
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