IWriteFlawlessPapers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	A reminder - don't be the Nice Guy. Context and inflection. Dinner with his girlfriend and her best friend. We don't know where, but it sounds like it's a more formal setting than a Burger King. Based on OP's response, he felt the friend was screening his value/worth in front of his girlfriend. Now the friend's inflection in the situation is important - we don't know how she's asking these questions, but I can imagine based on his attitude toward her in his original comment, he doesn't like her as a person, and she's probably aski…	/r/seduction	17/06/13 03:08 PM
3	A reminder - don't be the Nice Guy. We weren't there, so we can't really judge how rude she was. Maybe in that context he felt cornered by her questions. I can imagine back-to-back 'screening' questions may come off as weird, probing or possibly rude in a dinner setting. That string of questions may be more appropriate if he bumped into someone he hadn't seen in a while (say on the street, in a bookstore, maybe a party), and each were in a rush for an update about the other's life.	/r/seduction	17/06/13 02:26 PM