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hard or long soft?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:37 AM
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It was turned off. She would have to open it, enter my password and go into my browser to access my facebook. She was not allowed to use it.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:33 AM
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She doesnt want me to be her boyfriend though, I dont know what she wants at the moment but she fits the asw description of your girl. Even if we go out for dinner/dessert it wont end with me taking her to my place its will just be a platonic place. I think your girl was trying to make you her boyfriend mine is trying to make me from a fwb to an orbiter.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:31 AM
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Yeah that was not optimal. For future I have come up with a funny and cocky way to state that. But for now I agree with at-least 1 week soft next.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 06:19 AM
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She initiates every-time, but that initiation is just a platonic meet up or something. I say lets go back to mine and she has some excuses handy. Have no interest in meeting up with a attention whore if sex is not involved. Like last time she ask me to take her for dinner and I got annoyed and overtly said it to her, if you are not riding me after that then I am not interested. Either she makes it a date if not then sex is a must, if both no then im not interested.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 05:59 AM
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Done exactly what you said, worked at first now after going out or just in any situation I say lets go back to my place she simply replies "no". Don't want to let her pick the time because that gives her the control. This particular plate does not want to be exclusive. So I soft next and focus on other plates.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 05:55 AM
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If I invite her she wont come, not just because she doesn't drink but because she will make up some excuse why she cant. Wouldnt be hard to get her to fuck once I have her over but convincing her to come over is the hard part even though I am in walking distance of her, and keeps getting harder. Would this be a hard next or soft next?
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:34 AM
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I have, but do you want me to re read something specific?
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:55 AM
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Well, I failed at the covert part thats why I am in this situation now and she thinks we are an oltr. Do I ghost first and then overt? Or talk first then ghost.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 07:05 PM
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Unlikely, she probably found someone she thinks could turn to be her bf but hes just enjoying cheap pussy. This girl is insecure as fuck, the ones that keep asking for validation, she is not relationship type. With this type we can keep as a free pussy when she is seeking validation if the other dude does something to make her feel insecure.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:55 AM
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'So, to all brothers out there, I'm breaking up with her tonight, am I being rash?' Bro to be honest. You will be 10 times of a man if you follow through with what you just said. From what I read, you are in so much stress that your brain is in fog and it wont clear out unless you atleast temporarily remove her from your life completely like no contact for 2 weeks. In that time go out and fuck other girls. Let her go and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:19 PM
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hahahahah this cracked me up :) Most probably yes.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:08 PM
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Thanks! One last question. I might be able to isolate her and bring her to my place. What should be my options in the following circumstances: 1) She behaves, we have sex and she makes breakfast in the morning 2) She comes, makes an excuse not to have sex, leaves in the morning 3) She comes, has sex, but leaves right after (this has never happened before so it might mean something as well) 4) She comes, then makes an excuse and leaves soon without having sex
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:49 PM
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Its stopped for the last couple weeks. After meeting in public, I will say something like lets watch a movie or share a bottle of wine and the answer is no. When I text before the meeting like hey lets go to my place after? and she will be like I will think about it, which I take as a no. This has been consistent since the last 9 occasions that we met or talked.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:51 PM
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She does not want commitment. Either trying to turn me into an orbiter, or she might be getting dick elsewhere. ""Tell her no. When she asks "why not, is something wrong," you're just busy."" Should I be overt and say "No, if you want to see me then lets fuck". Or be covert and just say No.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:25 PM
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Thanks! Fixing my oneitis and incorporating a plate mindset should be my priority then.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 04:56 PM
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What is BB values? I messed up with this plate since the beginning. It will be difficult to put her back in her place. As for now we only bang when she wants to and never when I want to. And because its a oneitis it is hard for me to get with another girl because this one is always on my mind. This is why I am considering drop. Atleast if I were getting it when I want id consider keeping her as a plate.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 04:14 PM
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In other words, theres nothing that can be done in this situation than to just move on, improve my game, reread trp and try again with someone else?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 10:30 PM
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We have not discussed exclusivity. So I do not know if she is or not. Id say probably not but the fact that she knows my weakness now I feel puts her in a better position to use sex as a tool as she knows I have no where to go and just be her slave. How do I flip the tables around. I remember Rollo said something about this exact same situation if any of you bros remember.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:45 PM
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Thanks! I will apply dread as soft next freaks her out.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 11:27 PM
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I dont think she is at that stage of searching for a beta provider. She is still in her fun stage of looking for alpha and probably hypergamy.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:52 PM
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She has a god damn anxiety attack if I softnext her for more than a day and she gives me this puppy look that I did something unimaginably terrible to her. She has to video call me on skype everynight to check on me. (I should probably cut that skype shit out) Poon is too get to not have her as fwb. I like her but I feel she is not relationship type she just wants to have fun enjoy the validation and attention while her SMV is at its peak.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:52 PM
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Steve, agreed with building more plates and. Not do anything and let the cat come and pet herself. Some more info for the rest of the post. Sex is great and there is no drop in poon time over the last few months. I do use her as a piece of meat, she is not the relationship type, she is the I just want to fuck around and have fun type. She may or may not be interested in a relationship but I dont get the impression that she has any interest in relationship with me. Probably because I acted beta o…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:49 PM
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The second time was not that dirty, a bit more on the romantic side, used one of Ross Jeffries patterns usually used on girls you havent pooned yet to see her response. This is nothing compared to the explicit porno talk we used to have. Reminds of when a girl doesnt find you attractive and you approach her you are creep, but if she finds you attractive then its cute.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:44 PM
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Alright Chief, I will join a sports club and join some meet up groups for sports that I like. Approached a few girls yesterday and 2 of them asked me to take them for tennis. Question: Am I giving them the wrong impression when I just take them for sports? They might give me LMR if my intention is not clear and they just see me as a tennis buddy and not a potential mate.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:39 PM
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What would be the best way to socialize and meet more people? I have been under a rock for the last couple of years. Should I just go out and cold approach, should I join meet up groups? Should I make an online dating profile?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:43 AM
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