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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Limiting Belief: Stealing another guy's girl | I_DONT_REPLY | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 04:04 AM | |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?" | I_DONT_REPLY | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 02:20 PM | |
| 1 | Redflags to screen for in a FWB or LTR? | I_DONT_REPLY | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:39 AM | |
| 1 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this. | I_DONT_REPLY | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:41 AM |
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| 1 | This movie will get you LAIDAre you referencing the conversation from his father? Just be a little more specific / helpful -- you don thave to wreck the film | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 05:39 AM |
| 2 | This movie will get you LAIDElaborate? All I rmb from that movie is a gay kid gets turned on by an older confident and reckless American guy | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | This movie will get you LAIDElaborate | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?I disagree. Why stop her? That's denial Let her express freely and truthfully and be no judgemental. Accept | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever dated/LTR’d a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? The Only Wife Material Women.One of the girls I'm seeing is like this too. She runs on a fear of not being loved, and one way she has behaved in the past is by sleeping with a lot of guys "looking for love", she now thinks she's "found love" in me and treats me like a king. The main redflag is her ncount. She has a HUGE sex drive and is EAGER to please so I can overlook these things. I plan to keep her around in the long term as a casual and exclusive relationship, once I've gotten her free of STDs and on contraception | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Prone bone + reaching under to rub clit. Is there a better finisher move?How do you thrust with the prone bone? It seems you're really deep inside her but the range of motion is pretty small, correct? Also, are her legs inside yours or vice versa I like this position and it feels good for both of us... But I wanna | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there any book from a womanizer who slept with hundreds of women and how he did it?If you want to live the dream find a woman that everyone constantly uses and treat her better than that. So basically use a slut? continue being so busy they hardly have time to do anything shady. That's me. I work pretty intense hours (only have time to hangout once a week, and sex once a month LOL). I'm a workaholic. There's plenty of opportunity for her to cheat on me should she need | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there any book from a womanizer who slept with hundreds of women and how he did it?You aren't finding your LTR there or you are doing it wrong. What do you mean by this? My interpretation: You mean fuck 100 girls, keep the best 10 on rotation, then screen them over long-term casual relationships (FWBs), and ultimately end up with 1-3 that you keep in long-term serious relationships (GF). | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this.I stopped counting since 2 years ago as well. I just don't want to say "I stopped counting" as it sounds like I'm a whore. I'm trying to build comfort with the girl post-coital and don't want to make her feel like she's a slut for slepeing with a "player". | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:13 AM |
| 3 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this."None today" Those are good ones. That's what I was looking for | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:11 AM |
| 2 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this.You have to stop giving a fuck. This is a you problem. The line works. I'm asking if there's a better one. You seem to have made your decision so there's no changing your view. Thanks for your input. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:10 AM |
| -2 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this.I usually say this but want to mix things up a little. I tend to get negative responses (rolls eyes, frustration) when I deliver this line. So I'm looking for something more humorous and uplifting. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 08:17 AM |
| 2 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this.Haha I like this... Or with a plate you've already fucked "Please, I've never touched a girl before" | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Redflags to screen for in a FWB or LTR?but that doesn't mean you should just recalibrate the definition of "slut" to the time period. Hmm, not sure I agree. Times are changing and we should adapt. I'm by no means saying to lower your standards, but I am saying to take a step back to make sure we are setting ourselves for success and not failure -- to make sure we are setting realistic standards and screen aggressively for the girls we keep in rotation. The seductive virgin is a myth. You might as well be hunting unicorns. It's rare t… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Redflags to screen for in a FWB or LTR?If you can refer to her sexual history in "phases," she's not LTR material. I don't understand this. Most people are in experimental phases in age 20-25 with drugs, sex, etc. Myself included. I think a bit of leeway is in order. I'd say 1 sexual partner every year, since sexually-active, with the majority (≥75%) coming from LTRs seems to be a conservative number in this day and age. That's a max. of 10 guys for a 26-year-old. I've met 20 year old girls who have had 10 partners and had sex in the… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Redflags to screen for in a FWB or LTR?There is many good threads on the main subreddit with the most important dealbreakers, red flags and green flags. Read them. Thanks, could you link me to them? I've only found two and I'm not sure if they apply to my circumstnace. I have this girl on my hand that I think is LTR material (will obviously screen for the next few months). She treats me like a king and is eager to please. She's older (26F while I'm 23) and her n-count is ≥10-15 with 3-4 long-term relationships. She's made out with a … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Redflags to screen for in a FWB or LTR?Why no bisexuality? (even if its during the experimental phase in college) Also, this is talking from a 20-25 year old demographic. So most of these things (tats, drugs, divorces) are rare | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:31 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"I already meditate and consider myself a disciplined person. That's partly why I don't "feel pleasure" like most people and am detached from situations. Most people chase girls to feel pleasure (not unlike eating junk food), I chase girls to acquire experience and increase my roster. It's more strategic than "for fun". I'm approaching this more like an athlete training in a sport than a druggie chasing his next hit. I agree with my lack of experience. Which also goes to how I don't really have (… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"It will change when that happens but you can optimize the process ...What do you look for in a girl? Optimize the "process". How would I go about that if we were to break it into stages/steps? What I look for: Fuckbuddy: Looks (equal to or above me), Personality (high-energy, fun, makes me feel aroused). Someone I go to when I'm horny. Think: Sex toy or Pet FWB: Above plus Emotional connection (Cares about my wellbeing, treats me like a king: buys gifts, hang out, talk about life). Someone I can… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"Hey man, I was retracing my steps and I realize it's only been two weeks since this conversation but I've had massive breakthroughs with my scarcity mindset. here's a short progress report Been on multiple dates, girls seem to like me, and I always have a girl to hangout with every weekend. This was what I wanted. I no longer feel scarce in my attraction toward females, but I do feel scarce in the females that I genuinely have an emotional and spiritual connection with (more on that later). Hope… | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.I'm not saying I'm attractive (I work with what I've got and that's the best any of us can do) Most of the people that tell me I'm attractive are older people of both sexes (e.g. Teachers, aunts and uncles, family friends) usually in a bantering context, and of course the girls that I'm hooking up with (in which case there's confirmation bias). I rarely get girls tell me I'm attractive straight up, or girls that make a move on me (unless I've made a move on them first) I wonder if I'm actually a… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"Thanks for your time mate, truly appreciated. It's important for me to understand your thought process (reading section by section): We're on the same page in terms of the fundamentals, but differ in the specific details. Actionable steps for me to take: (1) Scarcity mindset: even though I approach every woman, I have a firm belief that it is still rare to find someone you click with on multiple dimensions. It's hard to "fake attraction" toward a girl you're on a date with just to get into her p… | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"Hey man, first of all thanks for taking the time out. I agree with your overall message and my key takeaway is: She's currently only FWB material. To advance into a serious relationship would require more time (2-3 months of sex and hanging out, screening her ability to augment/enhance my own personal development: physically, emotionally, and logically) Scarcity issue is something I need to work on. Will be branching out on more girls in the meantime. But here's where I could use a bit of guidan… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"but you share a lot of the blame here Wait. There's nobody to blame. We've never put a label on anything and we both have no expectations. She's asked me if this was a ONS or something more, and I told her "let's just enjoy the moment". She agreed and we did enjoy the night. It's a positive experience. She's also more experienced than me (she's older, and has more sexual partners). There's a lot I can learn from her. The time to create the FWB vibe was during the approach, not after pillow talk.… | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"How much time in a given week are you spending with the chick? We hit it off 2-3 times (in social setting with mutual friends). We went on ONE date (she asked me) and hooked up ONCE on her last night in my country. She left since then and she's been texting me this past month, though the frequency of the texts has fizzled out naturally. Maybe like 2-3 texts a day, basically zero hours IRL (since she's not in my country). Are you seeing other chicks? Wasn't before. Recently started tinder-game. H… | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"This is all excellent advice but it's predicated on me knowing what I want. Which I don't. I am unable to make this decision at this juncture due to (1) lack of time spent with her, (2) lack of experience, (3) lack of clear boundaries between FWB and GF/BF: (1) Time. I've hooked up with this girl ONCE and hung out with her TWO times. She invests a lot in me, and I think we have a strong connection but (a) I don't trust my post-coital emotions and (b) I don't know her long enough to make an accur… | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"I enjoy cuddling and pillowtalk. I enjoy spending time after sex for breakfast. I enjoy the PDA when seen in public. I don't mind texting a girl intermittently afterward (maybe 2-3 texts a day). Am I giving off a FWB/boyfriend vibe? That being said, just out of my aloof personality I always invest less than her. Basically, I'm treating her like I would any other friend including the cheeky/playful banter. I avoid deep talks over text but will have them for pillowtalk. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | FWB asks "How do you feel about us?"Thanks for the insight. I think your advice is sound, but there are factors not applicable to my specific situation that I hope you can help clear out: (1) Time. I've hooked up with this girl ONCE and hung out with her TWO times. She invests a lot in me, and I think we have a strong connection but (a) I don't trust my post-coital emotions and (b) I don't know her long enough to make an accurate assessment of whether she is FWB or Relationship material. Question: How long should I wait (I don't w… | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 12:01 AM |
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