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I was on and off birth control from 18 to 28. Didn't change who I was attracted to, I dated some men long enough for them to see me go on, go off, and the back on (yay job changes and losing insurance...). I stopped birth control because I got my tubes taken out. I never wanted kids, and birth control did have some side effects that I found frustrating - my libido was lowered by one particular pill, but not my attraction for the man who is now my husband. Plus I hate taking pills every day, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:17 PM
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I don't mind that every once in a while, sure, but not every damn night!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:53 PM
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And that all sounds very boring and isolated to do every single time. Much more fun to actually meet people and have conversations, which I like to do, and it has nothing to do with getting hit on/flirting. But I actually like people (in general) and while I enjoy my own company, I also enjoy the company of other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:56 PM
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I go to bars because I travel for work and want a place where I can get a drink, food, and maybe watch a game on a big TV. NOT getting hit on is the bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:43 PM
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I thought women gossiped more than men until I joined the carpenters union, which is mostly men. Nearly all my coworkers are male, and they range in age from fresh out of high school to just about to retire...and fuck do they talk some shit. The cattiest person I've met in my entire life was a fifty something year old dude, it's incredible. And he got super pissed off when I called him out on it and told him he was worse than a teenage girl. And I've been a teenage girl, I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:29 PM
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Not particularly, but I'm never having kids, nor does our house need someone to stay home and constantly clean it. I also don't make quite enough to cover all our bills and save, so it's not even financially possible even if I was OK with it. I value someone who works because both of my parents work, and I would never allow myself to be a stay at home wife. So I'm only holding my husband to the same standards I'm holding myself to. In a hypothetical world where I am having kids, my husband as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:03 AM
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So, as someone who has no idea if I'm "average" or no, some of my info: I didn't have sex until I was 18, with the guy I had been dating all year. That guy and I were together for a total of 7 years, but within that 7 years we did the whole "break up/get back together thing" a few times, something I never tolerated again in any other relationship. During those not together times, we both had sex with/dated other people. I'm 38 now, but my husband and I have been exclusive since I was 28 or so (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:00 AM
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A strong friend circle, even a small one, is invaluable and definitely gets forgotten about here. My husband has a core group of friends, as do I. Our friends group overlap considerably, but we each still have our own friends we sometimes hang out with exclusively. Now, I think my husband is semi unique in that he is still close with some people he's known since kindergarten. That's crazy to me! The oldest friends I have only go back to college except for one, so I don't have anyone I can share …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:59 PM
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As someone who never wanted kids, it was absolutely vital that anyone I dated long term or planned on marrying was on the same page. The only person I ever dated who was clear about his desire to have kids was my high school bf, and he definitely had the "I can change your mind" attitude. To the point that I'm glad I never had sex with him, because he was probably the type to poke holes in the condom to trap me. Every other guy, though, agreed to the no kids thing. Now, a few exes went on to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:23 PM
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I think it's a stupid concept that takes the normal path of "people date and break up" and try to twist it into something else. Most of us have been broken up with. Most of us have done the breaking up. A lot of us have "the one who got away" and generally move on from that sadness (I'm sure there are emotionally volatile people who don't). It's part of life and learning, and giving a specific type of break up a name like "Alpha widow" is just fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:31 PM
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Life long feminist here, I don't hate men. I've never hated men. I have a wonderful relationship with my dad and my brothers, and most of my friends in my life have been guys. I'm happily married to a man. There are shitty types of men I don't like, but I don't hold the entire gender responsible for their shittiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:59 AM
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Yo, when my husband and I were just dating, the first "nice" event we went to together (a company Christmas party) he asked what I was wearing so he could match colors! And he's done it ever since, for weddings and such, he always makes sure to wear the same colored shirt or tie or some such as my dress or outfit. We even have matching Santa-on-a-surfboard Hawaiian shirts for Christmas. I absolutely adore that about him, and it was so unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:48 AM
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Yep! Me and my husband thank each other all the time. Anything from an extravagant dinner to just grabbing a beer from the fridge, a simple "Thanks babe" is always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:34 AM
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This is a seriously underrated point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:31 AM
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My husband and I have similar outlooks on life, and that helps a LOT. We're both fairly easy going, positive people, we have similar childhoods and families, and we both value having fun while being responsible adults. I don't know if the similar families thing is key for a lot of relationships, but he's the only man I've dated that wasn't an only child with divorced parents. Seriously, I have no idea why, but EVERY relationship and long term FWB I had was with a guy who had no siblings and hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:29 AM
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If casual sex is hurting the woman, the people involved are doing it wrong. I'd suggest a different position, a different person, or a gyno check up for her. Most of the casual sex I've had was quite fun and felt great. 100% recommend, though picking your partner is a key factor in how much or little pleasure you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:23 PM
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Everyone is different, but goddamn am I glad I didn't get married when I was in my early 20's. My ex fiancé was a good man in many aspects, but we were NOT compatible, and I'd either be unhappily married or already divorce if we went through with the wedding. I was much better off waiting, learning, dating, and getting married in my 30's. Better decision making skills, better financial position, and the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:57 AM
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I think it's up to each individual as to whether or not they care about their partner's sexual past, "should" or "shouldn't" aren't really the appropriate words here. If someone wants to marry a virgin, that's their prerogative, they get to make that choice for themselves. If they're not comfortable with someone with more sexual experience than them, that's fine - as long as they don't harass or shit on said person for their history. Personally I've always preferred a dude with experience, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:43 AM
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I've been asked if a guy could kiss me a few times, and I will say I liked it. It was an unexpected question every time, and there was something sweet about it. Not to mention, having the chance to verbalize "Thank you, but no" as opposed to having someone go in for an unwanted kiss (which I've also experienced) was good. But I said "Yes" more often than no. A lot sex I've had started with conversations about having it. I mean, they were pretty informal/low stakes, "So you wanna....?" I don't ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:00 PM
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No, not in the typical dating sense. I think the closest to that kind of situation was when I was in college, met a friend of my roommate's and we hit it off. Because he didn't go to my college, it was as close to a normal dating situation as I ever got, we'd meet up for dinner or the movies, etc, and talk over the phone. Sometimes I'd take the train to see him. I put an end to whatever we had going on because the one night I didn't call him when I got back to my dorm, he lost his shit. I was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:37 PM
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I was never a dater. If I liked a guy and he asked me out, it usually went right to "we're bf and gf". In high school this only included oral sex with one bf (I gave him a blowjob once, didn't love it, didn't do it with him again, and he didn't push the issue). In college, I went with one of two options: we were either dating each other exclusively (which included sex 100% of the time) or I had a FWB, which included sex by default. I found the whole "We're getting to know each other and sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:58 PM
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Oh, yeah, there's a reason that the super chiseled looks we see for super heroes and buff male characters are ridiculous, maintaining that gets unhealthy. I remember when a picture of Jason Mamoa was going around and those shitty celebrity magazines were ragging on him about "letting himself go". Like, bitch, that dude is still more muscular and fit than most of us will ever hope to be, he's just not starving himself and maintaining a crazy rigid routine because he's not actively filming Aquaman…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:38 PM
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Brad Pitt in Fight Club was considered "lean"? I personally would have considered that jacked, he had a lot of muscle going on. I would have considered Edward Norton's character lean between the two of them. But that's purely my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:28 PM
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Disagree. It's because I recognize how much work goes into being a gym bro that I know we aren't compatible. I respect anyone who puts in the work to achieve the body they want, but respect and compatibility are two different things. For me, a man who is physically active and works out at home is fine. None of the men I've ever dated spent time in a gym they didn't have to, and most of them didn't have a real workout regimen even at home. I also prefer someone with similar motivations to me. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:25 PM
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I wouldn't turn to this place for advice on how to have a conversation with somebody, let alone how to make a relationship work. It's very bitter in here, and it feels more like RedPill 2.0 than a place where multiple view points actually converse and debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:13 PM
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No, I don't. I think humans in general have a tough time both knowing and articulating what they want, and healthy relationships require both honesty and an open mind. You need to be able to speak about yourself openly, but you have to be able to receive your partner openly, too. Both of those can be difficult. When I hit my mid 20's, I took a step back to look at myself because while I hadn't been in bad relationships, I didn't like how they kept ending. Like, they started out happy and fun, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:10 PM
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I don't paint mine. I keep them neatly filed and trim, though. If I was someone who did paint my nails, I'd pick some holographic colors, like a shiny green and purple mix. And I mean emerald green and deep purple, not pastels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:42 AM
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This is why I never wavered in my decision to not have kids. I knew from childhood I didn't want to be a mother, and no matter how many people told me I'd change my mind - and boy were there a LOT - I never agreed. I mean, it would have made sense for me to have kids; I was raised Catholic, my parents are wonderful people who have been married for nearly 4 decades, I love being around family, and I generally like kids. I don't have any trauma or pain related to childhood, I just...knew motherhoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:39 AM
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Shockingly, most men I know don't turn shitty just because the girl they tried chatting up didn't get with them. Maybe it's an integrity thing. And since I'm happily married, I don't have to worry anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:41 AM
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It's not designed to "subvert" men, it's a non-confrontational way for women to get away from strange men they aren't feeling or actually feel uncomfortable with. I know a lot of guys are like "Why can't you women just be honest and direct?" but after enough times of a guy getting rude, angry, offensive, or even violent, we've collectively sought safer ways to extricate ourselves. Don't blame women, blame the men that are nasty, that scare the shit out of women, or even kill them when the "No" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:31 AM
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The old adage "Actions speak louder than words" is true. A man telling me how he'd treat me takes a backseat to how he conducts himself. If he treats me well, he doesn't need to TELL me what he's going to do, he's already doing it. Plus, a shitty dude isn't going to explain he's going to treat me badly, now is he? He's gonna tell me the things he expects I want to hear anyway, so it's best to watch how he acts instead. People reveal themselves in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:03 PM
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I chose my career for myself, because it's good money and it makes me happy. That makes me more attractive to some men, who don't want a homemaker for a wife, but that's mostly irrelevant, I still would have chosen the job I have. Actually, my career probably turns many men off because I'm a union carpenter; between almost all my coworkers being men and my rougher around the edges personality, it's not necessarily what a lot of men want in a female partner. That didn't matter in the end, though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:30 PM
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I think it depends on the individuals. I have a friend with three masters degrees and her intellectual and career drive is absolutely one of the reasons her husband is with her. He values those things, and they're raising three kids who will be just as intelligent and educated as they are (and it's already quite apparent their oldest is...frighteningly smart, lol). And she wouldn't be with a man who didn't have the same drive. If a man doesn't value my education or career, that's OK, but he's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:20 PM
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I never went for someone "better" per se, usually just different. Most of my exes had their good points, we just weren't compatible for one reason or another. But I do think my husband is the best out of all of them, which is one of the reasons I married him, lol. I never found the phrase "A good man is hard to find" to be true, probably because I don't think incompatibility is an inherently bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:04 PM
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Fucking hell, I'm glad I don't have the "privilege" of managing my husband's social or family life. We plan things together, we do our own activities, we have common friends, we have friends we see on our own...I'm not his mommy, I wouldn't be with him if I needed to be. And anyone cutting off their partner from friends is bad, doesn't matter what gender is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:42 PM
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I'd trust my husband if he went and got a vasectomy. Of course, I'm sterilized, so the reality is I don't have to worry about pregnancy at all anyway, and I have no reason to worry about STD's with him. In a hypothetical situation, how much I'd trust the guy depends on who the guy is. A ONS could swear on his mother's grave he was snipped, but I'd still make him wear a condom. But I've had a FWB who got snipped and I trusted him with no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:43 AM
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If I were single, dating someone with kids would be off the table for me because I don't want children. I don't want to be responsible for them, care for them, help raise them, adjust my life to them, none of that. The only exception would be if this hypothetical man's kids were grown, independent adults who lived on their own, then I could roll with that. However, IF I was someone who wanted/had kids, I'd be open to dating a single father. It could definitely make things more difficult, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:12 AM
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Well, we're here. Not our fault if you see the hard hat and Carhartt and automatically assume you're looking at a dude. Though, to be fair, a lot of my trade sisters aren't particularly feminine presenting anyway, so it can be easy to make that mistake. But don't assume your lack of experience of seeing women in construction means we don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:04 PM
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I think the existence of women like me, someone who enjoyed a certain amount of casual sex and ONS and was very clear I wasn't looking for anything more, does NOT negate the existence of women who are lied to, feel lied to, are manipulated, or badgered into sex. Those of us who purposefully enjoyed non-committal sex will of course tell you about it when asked (I assume there's a lack of shyness in people who are sexually open) and the women/people who felt used or lied to won't be telling those …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:54 PM
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Marriage is worth it for me because I love my husband. When we first started dating, I was making more than him. Now we're in the same field and earn just about the same amount. Some years I make more, some years he makes more. I don't expect my husband to provide for me, I expect us to contribute equally to our home. If one of us is laid off, the other picks up the slack. We're in this shit together, for better or worse, not "until someone else richer/better comes along". Love is a real thing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:17 PM
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Bruh, we just don't want strange men telling us they'd like to cum on our tits as we walk by them, there's nothing special about that. A woman shouldn't have to jump through hoops to not be sexually objectified or harassed by dudes we don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:56 PM
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A man being a widower would not be a deal breaker for me. He would have had to have dealt with the bull of his trauma/grief before we got serious, but I'm not the person who would be upset when he expresses sadness about a dead partner her loved. The bigger difficulty is if he had kids. Hypothetically, I could deal with him having grown children, but if his kids are still, well, kids, I'm out. I don't want children or a life that revolves around them, and I feel like widowers have a higher chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:18 AM
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My preferences in a partner (assuming that's what you're asking) aren't too crazy I think. Non-negotiable: hard working, respectful (of me and the people he interacts with), no drugs, NO chewing tobacco/dip, sexually attractive to me, fun in bed, goofy sense of humor, leans liberal politically, doesn't want kids, independent, clean (as in hygiene and his home space), doesn't believe we HAVE to do EVERYTHING together 100% of the time, likes pets, somewhat fit/healthy, and not particularly tall. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:40 AM
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I think if they're not married and her name isn't on the mortgage, she shouldn't contribute to the mortgage (because she doesn't reap the equal financial benefits of said home) but SHOULD contribute to other services, since she directly benefits from them, and that's up to them to work out. Stuff like the phone bill, cable bill, groceries, water bill, etc should all be on the table. None of that stuff is an investment the way a home is, but she is presumably using them. Every situation is differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:29 PM
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I make my own money, I'm not settling for less than I want for a rich guy, what's the fucking point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:15 PM
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What a bizarre question. Maybe people need to be reminded that Reddit isn't the same as real life, firstly. But of course I value the men in my life. My husband is wonderful, I can't imagine a life without him. We're a tight knit team and I think I'm lucky to have him. I have a fantastic relationship with my dad, and my brothers. I'm there for them whenever I can be, and I love my extended family very much as well. I have many male friends and their happiness and success is important to me. Heck…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:20 PM
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Different women have different takes on make up you know. I really dislike makeup. It takes time, it feels weird, it's easily ruined, and anything that's decent quality is expensive. I had a job where wearing it was the cultural norm and it suuuuucked. Nowadays I do not wear it except on special occasions, like weddings and fancy dates out. I have thrown out a lot of make up because I don't use it fast enough before it goes bad. Some women love makeup. They are expressive and creative with it. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:21 AM
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If he refuses to go down on me and there's nothing within my power to change that would make him willing, then that's probably the end of the relationship. I wouldn't have to get to the "he's done it for other women in the past" part, because we'd already be broken up. Would I want to know why it's different for me? Probably. But the why doesn't change the outcome. Everyone has their hang ups, their limits, and their choices. If one partner refuses to give oral and their partner needs that in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:26 AM
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One time, back when my husband and I were just dating, we were taking a ride on his motorcycle down a back country road. All of a sudden we saw a puppy/small dog running along the side of the road. I didn't even get a chance to tap his shoulder, he was immediately stopping and turning around in case it needed help. That time, the dog ran off into the woods. But it was just the first of many times we've both stopped a vehicle to help a dog we saw on the side of the road. His immediate response of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:18 AM
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This post just made me realize something every single guy I've dated has had in common: they all liked animals and were pet owners. Half of them had cats. I don't think I'd even consider dating someone who actively dislikes animals, that's just a non-starter. And I sure as shit wouldn't give up a pet for someone I started dating, the pet came first. A person who doesn't understand/value the commitment I'd make to taking care of a critter has no place in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:12 AM
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The biggest age gap I ever had was with a guy 9 years older than me, when I was in my mid 20's. He wasn't a creeper or weirdo, and he typically dated much closer to his age, we just had that...spark. He's married to a woman his age now. Besides him, I've always dated VERY close to my age. My husband is only a few months older than me, and most of my exes only had one to three years on me. One or two were just a little younger than me (a few months, a year at most). Dating way older was never my …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:01 AM
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I am an overtly sexual person, so sexual attraction for me is a really good starting point. But it's not just the looks, it's the chemistry. I've been around dudes who I found to be VERY nice to look at, but I could feel the lack of that spark, that connection. Conversely, when I met my last ex, I didn't immediately find him attractive in terms of looks (as in, he wasn't ugly at all, just not someone I would have turned my head for passing in the street). But very quickly I felt that magnetic pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:49 AM
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I'm here because I'm not "pilled" in any color, and I find the topics fascinating. My interest in how people interact with each other didn't disappear just because I got married. Plus, the divide between people's smart thoughts and people's stupid thoughts is absolutely staggering. One comment puts things into a perspective I hadn't considered before, and then the next makes me wonder if that person has ever interacted with another human being. It really is something. And I landed in this sub af…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:26 AM
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That sounds pretty awesome, though. I'd go to that just for the conversation and beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:01 PM
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In broad daylight while I'm not obviously busy with something (like reading or having my headphones in)? I would not be creeped out/annoyed, no, especially if it's say, a park I'm at a lot and I've seen him there before. Or like in the specific situation I was talking about, a dog park. I am also more social than most. I personally enjoy talking to strangers, whether I have a romantic interest or not. Not all women are into it, to be fair, and I'm sure it's not particularly easy to decipher who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:19 PM
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To be fair, it's not a bad spot. It's social, it's open, people are usually there during the day, and seeing what kind of dog owner someone is can tell you a bit about them. It's a nice place where people can easily chat with no pressure, and if you're feeling a connection, ask if they want coffee or something. If they say yes, great. If they say no, well, you tried. As long as you can be chill being told no, it's not like you both can't keep using the same dog park and still be friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:03 PM
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I mean...every guy I dated or fucked I either met through school/college or friends. One I met at work, but we didn't do our thing until I left the job because I strongly believe you don't shit where you eat. I'm happily married (met my husband through my best friend), but in a hypothetical world where I was currently single, I don't think I'd use dating apps. They all seem pretty horrible, to be honest. Between my friend group and their wider social circles, going to concerts, and being active …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:58 PM
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I've never been on that particular sub, but I don't think Reddit in general is a good representation of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:14 AM
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I'm not going to judge a different choice of a first date. Maybe he used to start with the fancy places because he thought that's what he "had" to do. Maybe his financial situation changed. Maybe he never enjoyed the fancy restaurants at all, and is trying to be more true to himself. A picnic in a park would work for me, personally. I am a casual person, I am much more comfortable in a relaxed atmosphere like a park, I like being outside, I like someone that isn't stuffy or stuck up. A lunch in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:46 PM
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I see nothing shameful or desperate about a woman proposing to her male partner. But the "reality" that a man is the one that proposes to the woman is SO baked into our society, I feel like the majority of people feel the swap is weird. Like, unless both people in the relationship are of the opinion that a woman should be able to propose, it will either land on the guy to make the move, or the woman risks confusing/alienating/upsetting her male partner by asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:16 AM
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I find that concept fucking baffling. I mean, I understand the idea that a man who has platonic female friends or is in a relationship with a woman has "proof" that he's a safe, reliable, good person (generally speaking). But being actively turned off because he's not pursuing other women doesn't feel like something a real human being experiences. Hell, my husband and I started off as a FWB situation. Over the months, we'd check in "This is just for fun still?" "Yeah, still for fun, that's all."…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:32 AM
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I guess I'm biased because I've spent almost four decades being a chick, but no, I don't think I'd prefer to be a man. I'm comfortable in my own skin, I really enjoy sex as a woman, and even if many of my hobbies/interests are often male dominated, that didn't change how I perceived myself. Also, if I am turned on at an...inappropriate time, no one knows but me. I have a lot of sympathy for dudes having boners at unwanted moments, that had to be rough when y'all were teens. Plus, I really like d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:50 AM
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Maybe it's easy because we're not having kids, but my marriage is damn near 50/50 on everything. I'm a woman married to a man. My husband and I are in the same field. I chose to become a foreman, so my dollar amount an hour can be more than his, but I get no OT with my company. He does get OT sometimes. So we have been making just about the same amount of money for years. We divvy up our finances pretty equally. I cover the phone bill, he covers the cable bill, we pay for groceries 50/50, we put…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:35 AM
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Cheating? That's fucking funny. Stupid, but funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:36 AM
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Head of the relationship? Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha hahahaha..... inhales Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.... You're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:32 AM
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The idea of being permitted or not to own sex toys is absolutely foreign to me. I've bought them while I was single, I've bought them while in relationships, I've bought them after getting married. My husband doesn't own any sex toys for himself that I know of, nor has he expressed any interest in buying them. If he WAS interested, I'd hope it would be something we could go pick out together, because I'd find that kind of hot. We've randomly used some of my vibrators together but for the most pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:29 AM
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Yep, I'm on one for the entertainment and also because I know a few shitty dudes who may or may not pop up on there and if they do, I'd like to warn my fellow ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:12 AM
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If I was single, places that I would feel comfortable getting approached/chatted up would be: Concerts/shows. I'm a big music person, I'm very social, so bumping into someone who shares at least some of my music tastes can be nice. I had a very attractive guy act as a blocker to protect me from a mosh pit (unnecessary, but sweet!) and if I didn't have a bf at the time, I probably would have asked for his number. Concerts and shows are places I feel safe, and everyone is talking to everyone else,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:58 PM
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Well, any time a random person messages me with "Hey, can you help me/Can I ask you a question/Can I get your opinion" as an opening line, 95% of the time it's going to be a weirdly sexual request or wanting to send a dick pic (though, hey, I appreciate the dudes who ask first and don't send when I say no, so....progress?). So I usually ignore them these days. The better opening line for say, Reddit (which is where I get the most random messages) is something like "I saw your comment in [x post]…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:39 PM
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I say he should be honest about it and find a woman who has no issues with his virginity. He should not be trying to make a woman who doesn't like that situation change her mind. If you're talking about a situation where a man and a woman have had a few dates, they feel attracted to each other, and they end up in a bedroom and all she asks is if he has a condom, well, neither of you are asking about sexual history. It's not like virginity is a disease, where not disclosing it is wrong 100% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:03 AM
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I don't think anyone should be mocked for being a virgin, at all. I don't think virginity tell you anything about a person except that they haven't had sex. I was weirdly made fun of for being a virgin in highschool which...baffled me as a 16 year old. It annoyed me that someone I barely even knew thought there was something "wrong with" me, so having to deal with it over and over, or getting rejected for being a virgin, has to absolutely suck balls. But the truth is, women both collectively and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:51 PM
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Well, if he knew before they got in bed that she didn't want to have sex with a virgin, he shouldn't have gotten in bed with her in the first place. Like, when these two people have the kind of conversation where she says she prefers experienced men, that is when he needs to either tell her that they need to reevaluate where they're at relationship wise OR slow things down so he can comfortably have that conversation later. I understand it's not an easy conversation to have, there is a lot of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:03 PM
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I don't know if I have any good advice. There are women out there who don't care about virginity or would even enjoy being someone's first. You have to find those women. Beyond that, be honest, be chill, and remember that porn does not actually teach you what sex looks/feels/moves like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:48 PM
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I am not someone who would laugh at or ridicule a man for being a virgin. That's not my style, I think I made that pretty clear. I don't think lying to get into someone's pants is appropriate in any situation. I think upfront honesty is best, and I also don't think someone who would mock a virgin man for his virginity is worth his time, because that person is just shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:43 PM
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My husband sure as hell isn't my boss. Our marriage is a partnership and we contribute equally across the board. We also balance tasks, so if there's something that I do the most of (like cooking), there's an equally important thing that he does more (our ever expanding fruit and veggies garden is his domain). We make decisions together, we purchase together, we live our lives as the equal human beings we are. I have never had time for a guy who thought he could be my leader. I didn't even put u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:33 PM
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I personally have never had sex with a virgin, and I never wanted to. I'm not a huge fan of teaching in general, so having to show a dude the ins and outs of the female body in general on top of what I specifically like is just not my idea of a good time. Maybe it's possible that there was a guy I would have been willing to be their first with, if there was a strong enough chemistry and desire, but I have always preferred a dude with experience. I don't think there is anything wrong with not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:53 PM
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I've had pity sex once. It was with someone that I was sort of friends with, found attractive and thought I enjoyed his company, but once it was just the two of us on a date, it was so so SO awkward. Absolutely nothing in common, no chemistry, nothing. But we ended up at his house because that's where I met him, and...yeah. He has his sort of sob story about his ex and a dry spell and yada yada yada. And so I did it, kind of figuring even if it wasn't great, there might still be some fun. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:46 PM
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I mean...pets are not people. I can leave pets home alone for hours. I can even keep them in one room or a large enough cage if truly necessary for periods of time. They don't require almost two decades worth of education. I don't have to get pregnant to have a pet, and it's a lot easier/ to adopt an animal than it is a human. There's just less overall cost and responsibility associated with pets. Not zero but very much less. I mean, the differences between pets and children are so vast, it feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:35 PM
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So my picks from your list (with modifiers) would be: Good looking guy I find sexually attractive Definitely want someone who is good in bed I appreciate a hardworking and creative man who is good with his hands Doesn't want kids Top tier humor I just realized I went for almost all the odd numbers, that definitely wasn't on purpose, lol. The good thing is I've married a man who not only had the qualities I knew I was looking for (the humor, the sex, the personality, the fun, etc) but also things…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:07 PM
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I've always preferred shorter dudes (I'm 5'2 so EVERYONE is taller than me) and dating someone tall was uncomfortable. I'm taller than my husband in certain pairs of heels, and he's taller than some dudes I've been with in the past. I gave one tall dude a shot once (he was just over 6' I think, I never asked) and it sucked. I like being with a man I can make eye contact with without bending my neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:41 PM
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I broke off an engagement because of the lack of sex, in both quality and quantity. The first half of the relationship was sexually fulfilling, then it significantly dropped. Even though the rest of the relationship was good, sporadic sex that left me feeling more frustrated than fulfilled was an absolute killer. I couldn't do it. Sex is extremely important to me. An active, satisfying sex life is as important as any other requirement I have for a relationship. Lack of sexual chemistry is an ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:39 PM
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I've never seen any benefit to spending time with a red pill dude under any circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:18 AM
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As a woman who does not and will never have kids, the majority of the people who gave me push back or criticized me for it were dudes. Dudes older than me, younger than me, guys who knew me for a long time, and men who were complete strangers. I'm not saying I didn't hear it from women, too, but it's mostly been men telling me how I choose to live my life is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:44 AM
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I never wanted kids, I've been vocal about it since I was a child myself. I have been told everything from I'd change my mind to I would never know what real love is to sometimes birth control fails and these things just happen by a plethora of people. Family, friends, classmates, bosses, coworkers, and strangers - they all either didn't believe me or just assumed if/when my birth control method didn't work, I'd just go to term with a hypothetical pregnancy. I had an Uber driver ask me over and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:34 AM
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Joining the carpenters union and dating the man that is now my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:08 PM
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I wasn't conscious of it at first, but every guy I dated long term was very much the opposite of the previous long term relationship. My high school bf was a charming, fast talking liar who was very smooth, very relaxed, and wasn't concerned about anything. There were a few years between him and my next bf, but the next guy was a more awkward, high strung dude who had no concern about being cool, was socially/politically aware, got me into a music scene, and didn't have a particularly high libid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:57 AM
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Meh, I only wore makeup with any regularity for two years because of my job, and my fashion sense can be considered basic at best. Hasn't stopped me from having a good life, liking how I look, or attracting partners. I appreciate when I see women with flawless makeup, because she's put in some time, but make up is pretty fucking low on my ranking of importance. Hell, I've had to throw away most of the make up I've owned because it's not healthy to use after a year or two, and I didn't use it eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:23 PM
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OK, I'm sort of curious now. My FB is not anonymous (private, yes, but if you know my name, you can find me). I use it to connect to people who are my friends in real life, and I follow some bands, some social groups (i.e. kayaking, motorcycles, my local bourbon group), some comics related pages, and a handful of "celebrities" (mostly comedians). I post pictures of stuff my husband and I do, stuff I do with friends, and special events. I don't say anything on my page that I wouldn't say out loud…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:12 PM
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I'll agree that it CAN be that, certainly (we've all known the people who perpetually live their lives for how it will look online) but I still don't think that's what it automatically means about everyone. Then again, if you think that the average person in general makes poor decisions, then that outlook on social media makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:35 PM
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Eh, considering that my general friend group is made up of a lot of married couples and people in relationships who also maintain their social media presence, I'm going to disagree. I don't think the mere use of any of these apps indicates anything about a person, it's far more important to see how they're used. Social media is like any technology, it can be used for good or bad, it can be used creatively and smartly, or destructively and poorly. And I think it's far too prevalent to make a gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:08 PM
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I dunno, maybe it's because my first years of dating were before social media was prevalent, but what social media a dude does or doesn't have isn't particularly relevant. I mean, yes, there was a period of time where it was considered weird if someone had NO online presence, but then social media got fucking ridiculous. Suddenly it was really understandable to avoid it all together. Then again, my own IG is fairly neglected, so it's really not high on my list of priorities anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:48 PM
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Masturbating with a pillow...? I'm assuming that's something guys do. And like I said, if my hand isn't doing the job, then modern technology is the answer! And your reasoning is silly. It's like saying yes, travelling is normal, but only on foot or by horse, not in a plane or a car. Yes, eating is normal, but only what you've caught or grown yourself, never what you buy from a store. Yes, wanting to be safe and warm is normal, but only in a cave with a fire, not a well built home with central h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:59 PM
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Well, then most of the entire human population are perverts. They've found dildos that are thousands of years old. For as long as we've found pleasure from sex, we've been looking for other ways to achieve that pleasure. Honestly, I think it's kind of sad you have that myopic and extremely critical view of normal human sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:49 PM
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Eh, not necessarily. My own hands have never achieved what a little silicone vibrator can. And the very, very, VERY few times I managed it without a toy took way too much work with way less payoff. It's easier and more fun to grab a bullet, enjoy the vibes, and be done in a few minutes, no need to worry about satisfaction. I agree with the person before you, wanting a woman with very few (if any) sexual partners who enjoys sex but also never used a toy is kind of ridiculous. It's the same lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:40 PM
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A Fleshlight wouldn't even begin to register as something I'd question, but a sex doll would give me a huge pause. Now I think it's mostly because while I know guys who have Fleshlights (and are in sexually active/fulfilling marriages/relationships), I don't know a single dude in real life who has a sex doll. At least none have talked about it, which is pretty understandable. So the only guys I know about who have them, like them, or strongly believe that sex robots are the future are terminally…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:34 PM
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Scenario B sounds more my style, if he can accept not having kids. B sounds fun, he has his own life and things he enjoys, and probably lets relationships grow organically. He also sounds like a partner who can balance things we do together vs. having our own time/interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:17 PM
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For me, it has to do with how I feel AROUND him as much as it does attractiveness. As in, do I feel safe with his guy? Is he a generally respectful person who has a sexual interest in me, but I feel that if I say no, it will be accepted without pushback? There's a line between flirty and pushy - flirty means there's a back and forth, I'm reciprocating the interest. Pushy means all the interest is one sided and he's trying to barrel through to an end goal whatever it takes. For what it's worth, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:12 AM
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Not a single dude I ever dated seriously took any kind of class or read any kind of PUA crap. Some of them WERE a bit awkward and nerdy while we were together. But I mean, I'm an oddball chick, I literally met my college boyfriend by singing the lyrics of an 80's cartoon to him and a group of his friends when they were trying to remember the words. I've never been interested in the super slick, overly polished popular dudes, I preferred more down to Earth, relaxed guys who were content to live t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:51 AM
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While I'm happily married, if I was in the online dating world, these are what I would avoid. What I consider deal breakers (things that I don't necessarily consider bad, just not my personal life style) Having or wanting children Casual drug use, including pot Someone who hates crowds/concerts/social situations Someone who disapproves of their partner drinking alcohol Has a career in law enforcement or is a career military guy No sense of humor, or just being too self serious Strongly religious…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:34 AM
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I disagree. Food is often about the presentation, the art, the love that goes into making it, bonding with family, sharing culture, celebrating one's faith...the purposes that food and eating serve beyond "not dying" are vast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:00 AM
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The...three times I've needed Plan B, I bought it myself. The first time I needed it in college, my bf had to drive me bc I didn't have a car on campus, but that was the end of his responsibility. I dunno, I never felt the need to make my guy buy it. My body, my responsibility, that's my personal take. And thankfully I was never so broke that I couldn't afford it, maybe if money was crazy tight I would have asked him to buy it and I would've paid him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:52 AM
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If this is how you personally feel? Cause maybe you're asexual, people who are ace have little to no interest in sex. And that's completely valid. But man...for me, sex is the best. It's fun, it's pleasurable, it's a hell of a workout, and it's often a key way to connect with my partner. If I'm having a bad day, sex makes it better. If I'm feeling sad, sex cheers me up. If I'm having a great day, sex is the best way to end it. Hell, nothing else to do? Sex! And trying to say something like "take…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:46 AM
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My husband and I owe each other the same things. Love, respect, loyalty, honesty, trust, financial support, affection, etc. If one of us is down, the other picks up the slack. We have each other's backs in all things, because now we're a unit functioning together. I'm a firm believer in making his positives public and handling the rare disagreement privately. Everything else - household chores, home projects, bills, driving, etc - is basically split evenly between us. Something I had to learn wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:58 AM
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Both my grandmothers absolutely adored their respective husbands (and vice versa), at least as far as I could tell. My mom's dad died when I was little, so I didn't get to see them interact, but from stories, home videos, and pictures, it seems they really loved each other. Plus my mom's mom was going to be a nun before she met my grandfather, so you know he was doing something special to change her mind on that! And she was only in her late 50's when he died, she could have met someone else, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:31 AM
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I'm a woman who was raised by what I would consider loving, wonderful parents. My father wasn't unimportant or secondary to my mother, at all. First, my dad wanted to be a dad. Getting married and having kids was important to him. So even if me and my siblings didn't necessarily show up when he and my mom were quite prepared, he was all in 100%. Second, my dad was an involved dad. When he got home from work, he played with us. We built stuff with him, we went camping as a family, he showed up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:33 AM
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I'm a firm believer that people of the opposite gender can be friends. I'm a woman who has had many a guy friend, in fact probably more friends who were dudes than gals. At the same time, I've found the best relationships with men who had strong friendships with women. My husband has close male and female friends. It's never even crossed my mind to question when he hangs out with the women he knows. And the same goes for him - he knows I have guy friends who I catch up with from time to time. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:14 AM
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I've sort of experienced both. Sometimes I needed time to get over whatever I was feeling (I've gone months to years in-between relationships when I was a bit younger), but sometimes I was just ready to move on and have some fun. I never ended a relationship to start one with a specific man, though. The relationship ended because it needed to end, so it was all internal factors, not external people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:01 AM
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Context matters say more than attractiveness. The guy following me down a city street at night trying to get my number and not taking "I'm literally meeting my bf at the bar" was decent looking - but he basically stalked me at night and didn't walk away until he got visual proof I was meeting another man. The guys who worked at the gas station and tried flirting with my friend and I by refusing to give me my card back while trying to get dates from us we're, again, good looking and age appropria…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:41 AM
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Genuine question, where exactly do you want women to display this lust? Are we supposed to follow around the cute guy at the grocery store? Cat call the college guys out running? Tell a coworker our day would be so much better if he'd wear his shirt open? Tell a neighbor we like watching him through his window at night? Or do you mean strictly within the confines of flirting with a particular guy because a woman is interested in him specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:27 AM
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I could lose all ten of my fingers in some crazy accident and still be able to count on one hand how many times I've taken relationship advice from social media - that is to say, zero. TikTok is for teenagers, the immature, and the insecure. They're the ones making these dumb ass lists. Now, all relationships have boundaries and things people can/can't accept from their partner. Sticking from the female perspective, here's a hypothetical boundary: please don't play pranks on me. I don't like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:12 AM
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No, my partner playing video games doesn't bother me, but I also am a casual gamer, so I'd be a hypocrite if it did. I'd say at least half the guys I've dated were gamers, and that includes my husband Video games are like anything else: as long as there's a healthy balance. Like, today. My honey and I went to work, got our taxes done, had dinner, cleaned up the house, then played some Wonderlands on xBox (we each have our own) before turning in for the night. It was a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:17 AM
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This is just the weirdest fucking post. How many of us are hanging out with millionaires? I probably wouldn't know the difference between a guy with a million dollars and another with 10 million because I don't spend time with that bracket of people. The men and women I do spend time with all know the value of a dollar, because we all bust our asses to earn it. Pretty, ugly, young, old, doesn't matter - we know what things cost. It sounds like you hang out with rich people. Trust fund babies of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:10 AM
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Sounds like my personal nightmare. I've always been upfront about not wanting kids, so stay at home mom is out. If he wants kids at all, the relationship is DOA anyway. I also firmly believe in being responsible for my own financial security, so relying entirely on one person is also out. And being a homemaker is not what I want, either. I have a career that I love, I won't be giving that up. I'm married, so obviously our finances are combined and intertwined and we depend on each other. But he …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:23 PM
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Shit, I'm a 37 year old woman who's 5'2 and I always liked dudes who were on the short side. Never had anything to do with trends, it's just my preference. I like looking my guy in the eyes without having to get on my tip toes or strain my neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:09 PM
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I've never been in a relationship where we would have even discussed prenups. Husband and I never even thought about one, because the only financial "problem" of student loan debt that I brought to the table can never be transferred to him. He will never be legally responsible for covering my loans, even if I turned into my evil twin and tried for it. We both had/have relatively little to protect or gain from one another if we divorced for some ungodly reason. I'm sure prenups are appropriate fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:02 PM
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Honestly, none of the reasons you listed are why I'm child-free. I was 7 years old and knew I didn't want to be a mother. It honestly filled me with a sense of dread, and I was so relieved when I grew up a little and found out I had a choice in the matter. I don't hate kids, I had a lovely childhood, there's nothing negative that happened to me to make me not want kids. I just see motherhood as being trapped. I'm glad other women (and men) find joy in parenthood, but it's not for me. I got my tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:27 AM
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Go for full removal. This way nothing can possibly reconnect or untie. Plus, removing your fallopian tubes also eliminates your chances for ovarian cancer, because it starts in the tubes. Signed, a woman who got a bilateral salpingectomy at age 29 and counts it as one of the three best decisions of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:19 AM
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Uh, biologically speaking, if someone is getting their tubes tied, that person is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:17 AM
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They can be. I like sex for the sake of having sex and orgasms, and while I need to at least like the person I'm fucking, love is not a requirement for it. However, in a relationship, sex and love are fairly intertwined. I need physical affection, and even if that's not sex, it's hugging, kissing, curling up with each other, back rubs, etc. I want to share all that with the person I love. I've had sex twice only because it was...expected? I was sort of guilted into it. And these were guys where …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:11 AM
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I learned a long time ago certain types of dudes preferred girls/women to act a certain way - deferential, meek, acquiescing, etc. I was not that type of girl, so I was not interested in that type of guy. I never wasted time faking my personality because all I'd be doing is attracting a guy I wouldn't want to be around. To be less critical sounding, in general, people want different things from their partners. Men are not a hive mind, so there's no point as a woman in acting like what you're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:41 AM
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I am no longer on birth control because I got both my tubes taken out when I was 29. I never wanted children, so being permanently sterilized had been my goal ever since I learned it was a thing. However, I got started on birth control when I was 18 and first started having sex. I did a low hormonal pill, and the only effect it had was to lighten my period (yay!) but at the cost of stretching my previous 4-day period to all 7 days (boooo!). Over that next decade, I went on and off the pill for d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:40 AM
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I never entered a relationship with marriage as my goal. I entered them because the guy was fun, cute, had great chemistry with me, or I just felt some...spark. Some relationships became marriage material (I was engaged and broke it off with one guy before meeting the man who is now my husband) but most ended before that would have even been a thought. My hubby and I were naturally on the same page as our relationship progressed, but if he said that marriage wasn't his goal/interest, I probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:10 AM
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I've got a buddy who I can't see why he's single. He's hot, fit, musically talented, has a good job, owns his own home, and has a fun life with a variety of hobbies. And according to some of the chicks he's been with, he's apparently no slouch in the bedroom either. Seems like a major catch to me. The only thing I can figure out that's keeping him from a long term relationship is the type of chick he attracts and is attracted to. Most of the women he's been with aren't looking for something stea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:52 AM
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To start off, I think it's pretty obvious no two women will have the same answer. I'd hope no one would expect the same answers. For me, I'd use "ick" to describe a feeling that varies from wariness to outright revulsion. It's often sort of a "I don't want to be around this person" (man for this discussion, but I have absolutely had the ick from other women) feeling, but sometimes it's just disgust. Things that cause it: -Chewing tobacco -Voicing a desire to/enjoyment of causing harm to people (…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:39 AM
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In this rigid system, I'd personally go with competency and action. My parents are both "Figure out the problem and solve it" kind of people, and my dad especially was handy around the house. He also taught me to be handy (hence my career as a union carpenter) so I have a strong appreciation for someone who is self-reliant. It's how I was raised and I prefer my partner to have that attitude as well. I mean, to a point, I don't expect one person to know everything. Thing is, wisdom and knowledge …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:30 AM
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My most common range goes from skinny to athletic. I want a man who is fit and active, because 1. I am fit and active and 2. He's most likely healthy and will live a long life. That being said, my husband is probably closer to bear mode and I love it. Strong, sexy, and always doing outdoorsy things. I appreciate the visuals of jacked men, but I have dated and fucked many a dude who was barely any bigger/taller than me. They were hot, fun, and all around good guys. Body builders and the like are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:09 AM
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Ah, for what it's worth, my name isn't a reflection of my political views. It's a joke reference to an AI written Batman script and something it has the Joker say. But to still answer your question, I wouldn't work with either of them, depending on how passionate they were politically. I don't believe any version of anarchy is a viable political movement, because I think society will inevitably rebuild some form of government. I'm on the political spectrum of the government allowing for a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:39 PM
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I'd stay single. I'm an atheist union carpenter who has called herself a feminist since childhood and fully supports my LBGTQ+ friends. I couldn't date a man who thinks my job shouldn't exist, that I shouldn't have my job because I'm a woman, that the homeless and underprivileged don't deserve help, or that gay/trans rights need to be rolled back. All the things both guys are against are deal breakers for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:00 AM
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I've never had a strict type, but the majority of men I've been attracted to/had sex with/in a relationship with were: Somewhere between lean and well built. I'm not into gym junkies, meat heads, or guys who were so jacked they couldn't fold their arms. I DO prefer my guy to be somewhat athletic, but that's cause I like being active. I am a sucker for well defined arms and chest. Dunno if that's cliché or not, but I am. Just about or under 6'. Never liked dating tall dudes, ever. I'm 5'2, it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:32 AM
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