I_Heart_Squids Archive

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5	Why do women make false accusations? People who have been raped before are more likely to be raped again. http://www.webpages.uidaho.edu/monsters/drake/Lecture%20Notes/rape_statistics.htm It's not exactly shocking. Predatory people look for weak targets. Many people who've been raped lose their sense of confidence, making them appear weaker to the world around them, thus making them an appealing target.	/r/MensRights	26/02/16 07:13 AM
-2	Maintaining personality while taking TRP You don't.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/14 07:10 AM
9	A clusterfuck of emotions and bad decisions is screwing me over. no girl wants to hear my emotional bullshit. But yet, you told her your "emotional bullshit" and she still wanted to be with you. In fact, she went out of her way to tell you she wanted to be with you: "She [sends] me essays through text, [comes] to my house in a taxi sobbing..." She doesn't respect me. Why would she? Yet she chooses to still stay with me because of her past infatuation. Or maybe she chooses to stay with you because she actually cares about you and is attracted to you? It sounds…	/r/askTRP	13/02/14 12:36 PM
2	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot More like college age people of a variety of incomes, severely impoverished (if not homeless) people, and drunk people of all backgrounds. And again, that's not definitive, those are just the groups that I noticed were the most common offenders. Example: I had one kid (I think he was around 22?) come up to me out of no where, and ask if he could buy me a drink because I was beautiful. I told him I was flattered, but that it wasn't a good idea because I was in a relationship. He continues to foll…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 07:31 PM
5	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot That would be a nice theory if the city I'd been living in wasn't a NW US city with a very small minority population. When I said inner city I meant I lived in the heart of a crowed metropolitan area, not that I lived in a minority ghetto. I'd say 99% of the people who have both harmlessly complimented me and who have fully harassed me were white. Out of those hundreds of interactions my interactions with black men I can count on my hands. In fact, one of the only times I've ever had someone com…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 06:49 PM
6	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot I can't believe you're sticking by that analogy. Getting in a vehicle is unbelievably different than saying thanks or smiling back. The point is that getting mad at someone for not reacting the way you want, when there may be a completely reasonable explanation for their reaction, is stupid. There are reasons why some women will ignore a stranger on the street, and there are reasons why a stranger cat calling (or even innocently complimenting) a woman might make her feel nervous or uncomfortable…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 08:09 AM
4	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot Think of it this way: Imagine you have three servings of chocolate a day. One of those servings usually has cockroach bits in it. Because of this, you've become weary of chocolate. Having fifty more servings of good chocolate a day to lower the percentage of the one with cockroach bits isn't going to make chocolate more pleasant for you...	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 04:19 AM
5	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot And, as I asked earlier, what if someone flips their shit because you won't get in their car? You might mean it completely innocently, but there are a lot of reasonable reasons why someone might turn down or ignore your offer. You're not doing something nice for her, you're doing it for yourself. The fact that you know that there is a high chance you might make her uncomfortable and don't care is evidence of that. The fact that she is only allowed to react in a very specified manner (i.e., she h…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 04:07 AM
7	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot Why is there a parallel being drawn between cat calling and complimenting? They aren't the same. You're right. There can be a big difference between "Hey Hot-Stuff!!" and "I really like your dress." It isn't my intent to mince words. The author is addressing a wide variety of compliments from "You're hot!" (bordering on a cat call) to "I like your dress" (a fairly innocent compliment). The parallel is that no matter where your "compliment" ranks on the scale from innocent to cat calling there is…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 03:47 AM
10	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot But does that make it ok for someone to be upset with you because you don't want to be offered a ride? Is it ok for them to be angry if you don't get in their car? Her point was that a lot of women feel uncomfortable with people cat-calling them. Some women feel complimented, but still a lot feel uncomfortable. There is a high enough percentage of women who dislike it that you know when you compliment a woman there is a good chance it will make her uncomfortable. Those women have a right to feel…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 02:41 AM
12	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot Not everyone is going to feel the same. I have had compliments used to initiate verbal abuse. I don't think that the majority of people mean anything malicious when they compliment me, but that doesn't mean it doesn't still cause me to tense up in anticipation. Again, people react differently. That's one of the author's points; you don't know how it's going to make a woman feel when you comment on her appearance.	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 02:15 AM
22	Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot It bothers me. I used to live in an inner city where I would get complimented a lot (I attribute this to the volume of people, not my own looks). Something like thirty-five percent of the people who would compliment me would then proceed to do something incredibly creepy. They'd flash me, or start following me around, or scream at me that I was a cunt if I didn't stop and talk with them. It happened with enough frequency that I could expect at least one person to spaz out at me a day. After awhi…	/r/MensRights	04/05/13 01:49 AM
4	This is trending on Facebook now. The pressure to conform to unrealistic body types isn't a gendered issue, people! And it isn't a property of nerd culture either! the comic itself shows that it's the other women rejecting and dissing her The only other woman shown doesn't say anything. She is being called a "slut" and a "whore", and is shown to be teary-eyed. The author then concludes that neither of them are "good enough" to be there.	/r/MensRights	02/05/13 01:19 AM
8	Norwegian girl sentenced to prison for false rape accusation Did anyone else see the huge ad for Norwegian erection pills in the middle of the article discussing rape accusation? O.o	/r/MensRights	22/04/13 06:54 PM
3	My Fiance just beat me with a spatula until the spatula broke because I burnt a Tunafish sandwich. How did she get your money? Also, why are you marrying this person? Get out now. You should tell someone. You need to call/text a friend or family member, and tell them she abuses you.	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 05:05 AM
2	My Fiance just beat me with a spatula until the spatula broke because I burnt a Tunafish sandwich. Also, how is she abusing you? Is it all physical, or is she emotionally and verbally abusive as well?	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 04:59 AM
2	My Fiance just beat me with a spatula until the spatula broke because I burnt a Tunafish sandwich. Out of concern, how are you financially trapped?	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 04:57 AM
1	Have you heard of this app? Women "review" men on everything including sex. This is terrible. I meant, that you can't give an actual size. No one can use the app to go to your fb profile and write something like, "His penis is 4.5 inches."	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 10:56 PM
1	Have you heard of this app? Women "review" men on everything including sex. This is terrible. I set up a fake fb account and pulled it up after reading this. I tried looking up a bunch of people I know, and none of their profiles had ever been rated, let alone viewed. Also, it looks like you can't leave comments. If you try to rate someone, you just have various star systems. It looked just like rating a seller on eBay, except you can't leave a comment. You have the option to choose from a group of pre-selected hashtags, but that was the closest it came to commenting. The pre-selected ha…	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 10:57 AM
9	Whenever Ive gotten incredibly drunk, I was held responsible for shit I did. Re-voicing the call for better friends. I've never left any of my friends alone/uncared for when they were shit faced, and the only people I know who do are real assholes. It's a matter of not wanting your friend to drive home drunk, or get arrested, or get in a fight, or fall asleep on their back. But yeah... your friends sound really shitty.	/r/MensRights	13/04/13 09:38 AM
4	Cosplay does not equal consent.... Yeah ladies... keep your hands to yourself. (male victim harassment story) I'm not sure how you've brought it up with her, but you have to be clear with her. Being clear with someone with Aspergers often means more than just saying, "no." She's likely tried to find a way to interpret people's actions and words, however due to her Aspergers she is unable to do this effectively/correctly. She may be misreading you, believing that your no's are you playing hard to get. You have to tell her that you do not like it when she touches you, ever, and that it makes you uncomfort…	/r/MensRights	13/04/13 09:17 AM