I_LikePinaColadas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Q4Women: How unnattractive is a quiet guy? As long as he has good vibes and I can tell that he actually likes me, it’s all good. I’m a quiet girl though so any silences need to feel natural and comfortable. Also, he needs to at least be very touchy feely, because I am. That’s part of how I express my love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/18 07:53 PM
2	Q4All: Do You Consider Yourself Fun to Be Around? I can be fun depending on the people I’m around. Some stuff I enjoy and have done in previous Relationships: Going to the movies, museums, watching plays, going to concerts, board games (old school ones), poker nights, hiking, long walks in the park at night or on the beach, road trips, trying new restaurants, traveling, friendly competitions (ping pong, go karts, game of PIG, race etc) even if I’m bad at whatever we’re competing at. Lots of skee ball. That is my favorite and if someone gave me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/18 08:25 PM
2	Q4W; What are the common problems you've run into with men in LTRs? I think your guess might be spot on. Their parents didn’t make them clean up after themselves. My dad was like this too. My grandma is very traditional and she always cleaned up after everyone. He just sort of expected that the woman take care of all the cleaning. I’m sure there are men who clean up after themselves but I’ve never met one. I don’t mind cleaning though. I just want the dirty stuff to go where it belongs and for them to help me when I’m sick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 08:48 PM
7	Q4W; What are the common problems you've run into with men in LTRs? The biggest one for me is that they get lazy and too comfortable in the relationship. At first they are romantic and seem to try and then later on it’s like they put zero effort in. Just because we’ve been together a while doesn’t mean I don’t want a little romance once in a while. It doesn’t even need to be some huge gesture. I’m so incredibly easy to please. Just shooting me a text saying you're thinking about me will melt my heart. Inconsiderate. They leave their socks and dirty dishes all ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 06:12 PM
2	Do you find beards and tats more attractive on guys than the fresh faced boy band look? That hasn't seemed as big in the last few years I’m 33. I like guys who are sort of in between. I want a guy to take care of himself but not be like a metro boy band member. I love sexy man stubble or clean shaven but a beard looks good on the right guy. I’m not really into tattoos. When I was younger I thought they were hot but not so much anymore. Tasteful ones are okay. Not into face tattoos at all. I had no idea that was even a thing. To give you an idea of the types of guys I find hot: Chris Pratt (now and even when he was chubby), Tom H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 07:35 PM
6	What lies have men told you to try to get into your pants? “I love you”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/18 02:59 AM
3	Q4Women: How do you feel when a man who you are not in a relationship with defends you? I don’t think I’ve ever been in a situation like this. I don’t like arguing. I guess if it happened, I would be moved that someone wanted to have my back. Even if it was a stranger. In the past my male friends always defended me in other types of situations and I always appreciated it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/18 02:53 AM
2	People who had big changes in their appearance, have you realized any changes in the way people treat you? I was chubby for the majority of my adolescence. I never wore makeup, never did my hair, and my mom picked my clothes. I was basically invisible to the majority of the opposite sex. When I turned 18, I lost all the weight very quickly. I started dressing better and caring a little more about my appearance. Suddenly I had all this attention and all these guys were asking me out. Every single one of my male friends asked me out at one point as well. People treated me better. I even got free stuff …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/18 06:19 AM
2	Becoming attracted to a man over time I’ve gone from zero attraction to having a huge crush on a guy a few times. It once happened when I was 18 and then at age 26. When I was 18, there was this short little guy who would come into the restaurant where I worked and flirt with me. I wasn’t physically attracted to him in any way. However, he always made me laugh and I started looking forward to him stopping by. We started hanging out and he was the coolest person I have ever met in my entire life. He was so much fun to be around and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/18 12:30 AM
3	Q4All: Would you rather a lifetime of casual sex without any relationships or to be only with one person for the rest of your life? It sounds like you tried to make option number two sound very unappealing until the last sentence. Is my entire life before the age of 26 going to be dull or do you just mean in the romantic relationship area? Since I’m perfectly capable of being alone and making my own fun in life I don’t think it would be too difficult to wait. I have a lot of interests that take up my time. I’ve never been the type to have casual flings with random people so I’m going to go with number two. A love that lasts …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/18 06:59 PM
2	Attractive but Boring, or Fun but Unremarkable? F/none/32 Fun but unremarkable for myself and the other person. I’ve already dated plenty of Attractive but boring men in my lifetime. Never works out. I would much rather have fun with someone interesting who knows how to live life to the fullest. I’ve also known men who I wasn’t initially attracted to but later became attractive in my eyes after getting to know them better. I think I can come off as boring at times. It really depends on who I’m speaking to. Some people can really get me talkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/18 08:23 AM