TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

I_Love_Phyllo_ Archive

View 0 posts and 82 comments by I_Love_Phyllo_ on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
–

...Three Lilith threads in one day? For real?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:34 PM
-6

Beyond all of the things in the porn industry, the fact that you can never guarantee the porn you are watching is actually of a consenting participant, yada, yada- lol wtf? This takes the infantilization of women to a whole new level. Are they slaves??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:16 AM
0

Dude there is a clear difference. Not really. Both porn and litsmut are 100% fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:15 AM
-2

Yes, that's because porn shows us the raw reality of what women do in sex, it's used to get off. Whereas the literary smut builds up an unhealthy expectation of how men and women behave in relationships. It's more than sex in those novels. It's the chase. Which turns women on, but in 2024 the chase in reality is repulsive to women if the man isn't a 6'ft lady killer. Porn just makes dicks hard, but literary smut sets women's expectations regarding effort put in by the man. Only in a romance nove…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:13 AM
1

Well, most women don’t care about men watching porn or at least in this forum. However I don’t see them as being different in the damage they cause to relationships. Seeking outside sources for sexual release/gratification gives people unrealistic/unhealthy standards and in my faith is infidelity. It's good there are normal women in this sub because comments like yours are a breath of fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:09 AM
3

Dude Sharp Engineering is a hardcore sub troll just like Lillith, just ignore them. They just want to make you angry (they hate you and men in general). Don't feed the femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:07 AM
-4

Maybe we just don't care? A woman willingly doing degrading shit and then years later regretting it isn't abuse, but it's framed as such. Most men are very wary when women try to claim shit like this because very rarely does it turn out to actually be true. If you chose to be gangbanged by 6 men violently and then you feel bad about it 5 years later and try to post diatribes about how you were coerced or abused we aren't going to buy it, nobody would. Or should.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:59 AM
1

I also suspect that the number of men whose sexual performance is affected by their porn use is higher than any quantity of women being similarly affected by erotica. Here's the thing though.. you only feel that way because you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:56 AM
-1

I absolutely assure you that the average woman is not using social media to look at, or be messaged by, hyper attractive men. That just isn't reality. Fucking wow. This subreddit is filled with delusional women. I'm actually kinda flabbergasted here... I guess a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:54 AM
1

Porn stars are not average. The most famous ones all have work done and are well above average. This is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:52 AM
-1

Which is very much unlike the visuals of porn which very few average women are able to recreate for a man (especially not at the frequency or variety that porn can deliver). I feel sorry for your husband or boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:49 AM
4

And then she'll get to complain to her girls that porn ruined you and get sympathy points. He didn't demand I eat his ass and he didn't want to punch me in the stomach while I'm tied up.. is he gay or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:45 AM
0

Men buy erotica much less often than women. Because that erotica only caters to women. Because none of us want to read about how you want to be dominated by our fucking boss and his gang of covert drug dealers. Most of us don't like cuck shit, and literary smut world is filled with hateful garbage like that. Porn caters to men, it makes sense why we would follow what caters to our sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:41 AM
0

That is to say, men don't consider spicy book as equal to porn. a lot of them can't really fathom getting turned on by words. Speak for yourself. This sounds like how a 14 year old girl would describe men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:38 AM
7

My exes would watch stuff that was very objectifying like big ass, big boobs, teen, anal, etc. Gosh, the horror! That must have been extremely difficult for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:37 AM
3

Only from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:29 PM
-2

We don't care about "backlash". We literally don't know you people lmao lol chica half of this thread are women crying and bitching they can't be open that they find short men repulsive. It's a good thing you get backlash, shitty women need to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:29 PM
-2

Keep that shit in mind when you wonder why men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:27 PM
0

Absolutely not, it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:25 PM
5

This thread feels like twoxchromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:25 PM
0

Someone has a fetish for their father lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:24 PM
–

This is just cope. It's a way to make sure you never feel bad for turning down a good man because he doesn't make your vagina tingle. I feel bad for your fake husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:22 PM
–

When I admit to my shallow preferences, men berate me and call me shallow. Damn that's really tough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:21 PM
6

Just the height thing alone has caused so much distress amongst men and women constantly get harassed for being honest and liking a 6ft man. Because it's not equal. If a man likes a fat ass or large breasts, he will still gladly have sex and be in a relationship with a woman who doesn't have those features. He doesn't exclusively value those things, in many cases they are just a bonus or an extra pleasure. On the other hand.. many women see men under 5'10 as irrelevant in every way, they don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:15 PM
1

Another Lilith post where he/she bitches without making a point. 700 comments This subreddit is whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:22 AM
1

personally, i just decided to not take women seriously, fool around with whoever, whenever, lie cheat and steal as i feel (insofar as dating is concerned anyway). I feel you but at the same time that way you're just feeding into the feminist narrative that we collectively suck. I'm not gonna tell you to stop, but you should try seeing it how I do. No need to cheat or steal from women. Ignoring them is far more potent and meaningful. No need to hurt them or even bother them. Just treat them as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:17 AM
5

No women is gonna look at this and develop sympathy for you. If you're writing posts on here to make women develop sympathy for you may I suggest your goals need to be reassessed? This isn't a local dating subreddit. This is a venting/shit talking bot farm thinly veiled as debate subreddit. I'd go even further and say I don't personally want any sympathy from the women here specifically. This place sucks. It's borderline 2X chromosomes just with simps too. No need to go to the Taj Mahal and writ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:14 AM
47

It's fun being on the bottom of the totem pole isn't it? Women don't really understand this position, so they don't have any empathy for it. May something happen to you that makes your life even better, good luck brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:02 AM
–

This isn't misandry, it's the reality of dating dynamics for men who lack empathy and don't like people. Oh I get it you're just Lillith 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:49 AM
–

Millions of women report the same experience. Men pretend to be heroic and competent and claim to be all the things she wants until the day those men secure the commitment, and then truly reveal their nature, which is more sloth than hero. Hun, you sound like a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:48 AM
–

Your words alone are sufficient to land any introspective, introverted, cuddly woman. Obviously they aren't, if he says they aren't. You saying stuff like that to him is false, saccharine kindness. Why are you trying to be his friend? He even disagrees with you, and you're still trying to convince him he's wrong (but a great guy??). Look how many women you have on Team Mike. Like wtf? Do you live down the street from him? Know him personally? You sound like a self help guru who works call center…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:45 AM
1

but this sub has dudes tripping about people they don't know, don't run with, don't live around, and think somehow the fact that, like most people, they have relationships somehow means something to their dating life. Just dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:22 AM
3

Like I said, I feel sorry for you that whatever life experiences you’ve had that brought you to believe this to be the case. God, the way some simps try this faux sympathy angle when trying to subtly insult your life experiences because you said something about women that offended them. Like they just know more than you and want you to "learn". Sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:04 AM
2

Criminals are actually just fine. What a weird lil troll you are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:54 AM
–

Without social skills, being toxic is just being creepy You honestly sound pretty socially awkward yourself, you're a girl crying on a relationship subreddit on the internet. Get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:53 AM
0

Socially skilled scared of a bug So a simp/pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:50 AM
4

Women don't like socially awkward guys Damn that sucks, another thing that's easier for women than it is for men. Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:49 AM
3

It's good you realized you didn't deserve what you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:52 AM
–

Nah she's a troll just like Lillith. They are here to make you feel bad, not to engage in discussion or be your pal. They want you to be uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:50 AM
1

It was she who didn't value his company. Then why are they friends and why would he even have a crush on her? Because she’s pretty and he horny? This response doesn't make a lick of sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:47 AM
2

People who value their friendships don't leave it just because you wanted something more. Plenty of women propagate one sided relationships with men on the daily. Men don't leave friendships because of "feelings", we tend to leave friendships with women when we notice they don't reciprocate any of the actual parts of the friendship. A LOT of women just want a shoulder to cry on and someone to vent to without actually doing that in return (being a friend). Why would a man be friends with a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:45 AM
6

Be an adult and stop constantly fantasizing and simping. "Be an adult" and stop posting daily about how much you hate men on reddit, chica, it's getting really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:42 AM
5

Because he never gave a single fuck about their friendship. He wanted sex or a fantasy. That's only in your own head though. You can't tell other men what they want or feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:41 AM
1

It's so ironic reading some girl discuss controlling emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:40 AM
3

Is this sub basically "Lilith bitches at everyone all day, every day" or what? Every day there's another Lilith All Men are Trash post. It's actually really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:38 AM
–

Women don't like watching movies or reading stories that remind them of their own internal insecurities, and as women are the primary audience of Hollywood, you won't see villains like that any time soon. There's a reason why no one but a particularly shitty poster here knows the name Lillith - women being portrayed as evil or immoral has been verboten for a long time now. The only true evil is your average white male incel, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:31 AM
1

They just want to make the woman feel bad for not picking supreme gentlemen like them. And in some ways they have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:49 AM
8

No, victims are absolutely not accountable for the abuse that they suffered. If a man hits you, and you go back to him next week and continue fucking him, that's you avoiding accountability, and letting him continue to act how he wants. If I place myself in front of an explosive object, and whack at it, and it goes off and kills me, it's not my fault it exploded, but people are very much going to question why I was standing near an explosive and messing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:48 AM
3

Do you think most abusers call their partners worthless or knock their teeth out in the dating stage ? Unironically yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:45 AM
5

You'd have to specify the abuse to have someone validate your feelings on whether it's abuse or not. Many people feel that a woman yelling at her bf isn't abuse. But the minute a guy yells at his gf = abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:42 AM
3

Abuse happens because something in the mind of the abuser tells them that they are entitled to treat their partner abusively. It's a mistake IMO to project simple answers to complex situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:41 AM
7

Like maybe stop alienating women with their toxic bullshit. Lots of that toxic bullshit comes from being alienated by women first - just to give you an idea of why it's so prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:38 AM
3

If we are going to end domestic violence then we need to focus on the abusers more Part of the problem with that line of thinking is it will only ever be applied to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:35 AM
-3

Do you think most abusers call their victims a slut or backhand them on the first date? Most abusive guys tend to have a pretty specific look and attitude. Usually they are really tall, muscular, tats, etc. It's not hard to spot aggressive dudes. Problem is, many women are attracted to that. It's cool if you want that kind of guy, but don't get surprised when the big dude with a neck tattoo who you asked to choke you actually chokes the shit out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:33 AM
16

“Choosing better” doesn’t help when abusers are on their best behavior at the time of choosing You act like the "time of choosing" is a single event early on. You choose every day. You choose every time you meet up with someone. If you're choosing someone who hits you or whatever, at some point that's also on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:28 AM
23

The thing is, so many women tell people that their exes were abusive when the evidence is lacking that it starts to come off a little "boy who cried wolf". Another thing about discussions like this is the definition of what is abusive is such a broad thing and is defined much differently depending on who you are. I've heard women say their boyfriends were abusive because they didn't do what they were told. I have a hard time feeling empathy for women who will gladly fuck a tall "badboy" with tat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:24 AM
1

The only people who claim that my wife bosses me around are my brothers who have since cut ties with me due to not liking my wife. The only people who feel that my wife is controlling have shown to be stubborn and emotionally immature. NGL these aren't the strong points you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:11 AM
1

I honestly don't give a shit about Beiber. He's a multimillionaire with umlimited access to 99% of the world. Anything he wants to experience, he probably gets to. Trying to turn him into a victim that needs sympathy is kinda ridiculous IMO. The guy has had a free pass to an easy life since he was a little baby.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 02:05 PM
1

My husband wouldn't screw me over. Also my husband would not be interested in my friends anyway even if they were all capable of cheating. So cheating isn't bad but your husband would never? lol. Why would he never cheat if it's not wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:04 PM
1

Your moral is not as rightful and virtuous as you think. If you look attentively, you'll notice how virtue signaling people and moral defensors always have been at the beginning of the most inhumane things done in History. Holy shit, you just compared condemning cheating with the beginnings of what.. Fascism? What a shitty take, wow. It's like listening to a child. That's not a way to treat the people you're supposed to love. I'm not the one insensitive here, sorry. I agree, cheating is not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:59 PM
1

She doesn't own anything to anybody, she's not the one lying and cheating She's an accomplice. That's cool with you hey? Weird. She doesnt "own" anything to anybody Oh you're one of those types of people..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:58 PM
1

there are situations where I would also advise to stick with a binary choice, i.e. cut the cancer! Like what? Name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:54 PM
1

You can disagree in principle with your friend about the morality of their behavior without making an overt gesture about your own morality, i.e. cutting the friend out of your circle or otherwise ostracizing the "mistress" You could also cut them off completely and be a better person for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:53 PM
1

We European come from a very different place regarding social values. Yeah like regularly defending pedophiles going to the Olympics and making paternity tests illegal because it would expose high levels of cheating. Euros and their enlightened sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:52 PM
–

That’s because unlike men, we develop attraction over time. Oh this is such horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:12 PM
–

Not in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:09 PM
–

Because women are always told to suck it up Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 PM
1

If you tell a woman to lower her standards that means "get a meaner guy, get a guy who cheats" That's not at all what I mean when I say that. I mean a woman should look for a man that makes her laugh and make sher feel safe, REGARDLESS of his financial status, or physical attributes. If a woman is looking for a tall man and can't find any, she 100% needs to change her standards and reevaluate shorter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:05 PM
–

Right? Mid women are kindly told by their friends to drop the desire for a 6-6-6 I have never seen this sentiment irl so far in 33 years of being around women (telling women to drop the desire). It's always been reinforced and accepted in the circles I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:03 PM
–

"Marry" Most of them cheat and divorce too (talking about celebs here).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:57 PM
–

This is why so many women hate porn. It takes the place of casual sex for lots of men. I know I'd personally rather sit home and watch a good porn than go out with the girl I met on Bumble who says she wants to "pinch my cheeks and suck my dick". That sounds like fun but.. it's much better to just check out and stay home. I don't want STDs or to be laughed at or whatever. Much safer at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:56 PM
–

Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:54 PM
–

My boyfriend used to be a bouncer and the vast majority of the problematic guys were tall and skinny, probably a lifetime of positive reinforcement playing into their egos. There's no truth to short guys being more aggressive, egotistical etc from what I've gathered they're just easier to pick on. So many dudes I've had issues with in my life have been what I call the "twiggy alien" type. They are always tall. Always skinny but like "heroin shic" skinny. They usually weight under 150 lbs, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:54 PM
–

Don't you know? If a guy has a nice smile, a deep voice, and is taller than his bros, he's inherently a good man and women just know that. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:47 PM
–

but I've seen far more male virgins with nasty attitudes towards women. Usually because women treat male virgins like shit. It's kinda tough to have a positive attitude towards a group of people that look down on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:46 PM
–

A very good example of why women seek these men out is the ImAllexx situation, he perfectly encapsulates the 'nice guys' that think we can't see they're pretending to be gentlemen with malicious intent. If you think wanting to have sex with you is malicious intent then you have a weird, twisted view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:41 PM
–

I fully believe that men who are genuinely kind, caring and compassionate will have no issue dating pretty much regardless of what they look like. This is the exact delusion that men point to when discussing these scenarios - Women saying one thing and then chasing after another. Good, kind men are overlooked all. The. Time. The idea that women are exclusively looking for good men is delusional. This narrative serves women by removing the onus of choice on them, as they are "obviously looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:35 PM
–

Strawman argument. Men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:30 PM
–

Men who can't get anyone at all regularly tell women it's because of our unrealistic standards. What a strawman, wow lol. When they can't get anyone at all, it's not because of their own unrealistic standards, it's because of women's. Well.. since women have all the power in the dating scene.. it kinda makes sense when people say that. Additionally, if what is "realistic" won't be something we're happy with then we'll just stay single, because relationships are optional. ..Okay, but if men did t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:28 PM
1

MOST women are finding men who are their EQUAL. This is hilarious. Women like you are completely, utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:41 PM
1

imagine being the average guy, in his thirties, 5'8", $40k income... now on top of that, you don't go out of your way to meet and attract women. You're just never going to have any sort of romantic relationship. Says who? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:32 PM
7

Reminder everything that is aimed at you in the media will be corrupted and controlled by someone that does not like you.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:35 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter