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Women want to be led by the biggest baddest alpha. This is true to am extent. It's true the same way it's true that man might have sex with a goat when no women are near. It happens, but it's a controllable urge. Especially if there's a mental connection. I think for quite a few women it's true to a letter, but in LTR hypergamy loses its stride. I think it's still present, but to a much lesser degree. Her menstrual cycle isn't a factor... a little blood never hurt anyone. She might get a little …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 12:10 PM
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My advice? Don't hold your breath and have as much fun as you can with TRP. Giving up parts of TRP shouldn't feel like a sacrifice. It should feel like you're trading them in for something better. If you feel like you're going to be missing something because of a LTR don't do it. Good luck, mate
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:03 AM
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Read the side bar. Have a good one! P.S. read the side bar
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:00 AM
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Same. If I used TRP 100% in my relationship I wouldn't be married and I don't want that. TRP perfectly aligns with my own personal mantra of self improvement. I love having this site here it just frustrates me because I think the majority of people here are young Bachelors who won't even want to settle down for 10-20 years.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:45 AM
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Tbh neither of us dread whatsoever. We both know TRP. We use it in just about everything but our relationship. Having a impenetrable frame is nice, but I also couldn't give a shit who knows I cry during chick flicks. I'm very secure with who I am and the same goes for my wife. We're attracted as well as repulsed at how stubborn and hard headed we both are. Our TRP qualities extend to everything except eachother and it's those TRP qualities that we both find so attractive. My biggest obstacles wi…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:42 AM
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My old usual type was going to bars/clubs/the beach. My 20's was all about figuring out the girls interests, lying my ass off about who I am, and banging that night. I don't think I could even come close to that now with Facebook. Essentially my old type was any flusey who wandered into my bed. Half of those became FWB and a handful of those became week-month long relationships. Those relationships were basically her doing one thing wrong, me dreading and netting another girl, saying fuck it and…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:28 AM
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I agree with you, AWA-not-TS. There are many different types. I too often hear guys on this sub casually mention that they have no interest in LTR because AWATS. Me and my wife are both taking TRP. We get along perfectly. We're openly honest with eachother and don't try to pull "dread game" or other TRP dating antics. That shit will ruin a true LTR (If you need to use those tactics then why are you even dating them it's to much work/won't end well). It all depends on how you pick. I've had girlf…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:22 PM
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I'd say more a case of "Why your LTR should not be with the first hot girl that says yes." Shit like this is almost entirely from guys with a scarcity mindset who think if they don't wife somebody up they'll never get laid/have a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:20 PM
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Yeah, some of the terms in there were kind of off, but it's a good take away message. If you're gonna LTR expect something like this if you choose the first girl you see.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:19 PM
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That's acctually my thoughts exactly on clubs. Wife and I haven't been to one since we've been together. If we wanna dance and get drunk we'll invite some friends over and throw a party in the back yard.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:18 PM
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Right? "Oh you blew the last guy you smoked with?" "Yeah, but like I'm not a slut." "Cool, wanna go smoke weed? No not you, just me and her."
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:16 PM
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Lol. Last time I went clubbing I wore tear away sweats, a mesh shirt, and a speedo that definitely got shown off that night. That being said clubbing is not for me anymore and that was probably 8 years ago. Don't feel too forced to dress like what everyone else is trying for. Sometimes if you just peacock the shit out of it you'll have some unexpected response.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:14 PM
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She sounds trashy... sorry, I'm judgey.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:12 PM
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Call her a unicorn, but my wife takes TRP too and we do great. Part of our relationship is that we value eachother instead of treating eachother like we do for everyone else. It's easy to take TRP and be single forever due to AWATS. Some guys want that and I respect it. If you truly want a relationship in TRP you gotta be able to have two people be #1. Not necessarily put her before, but don't manipulate her into feeling guilty about having her friends over so you can get something in return. A …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:10 PM
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He won't read it. I agree with where (I think) he's coming from tho: If you have to treat them like a teenager in the first place, don't bother. They're not worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:03 PM
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AWATS :/ I hate that because my wife of 7 years is also taking TRP. We work great. Always feels like an insult when I hear it, but oh well.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:02 PM
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I think what he's saying is: If you choose a girl who will cheat and let her cheat, it's on you. It's not very TRP to wife a girl who you can't trust...
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:01 PM
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Don't lead your comment on "read the side bar"... this guy clearly has. I agree with you, but don't assume because you disagree with someone that they haven't read it. TRP is not black and white. On persons version of living TRP can be very different than anothers, but still have the core principles.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 09:53 PM
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They both cheated acctually. Ronaldo cheated first if we're gonna be that trivial about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 09:51 PM
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Whoops my bad!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 09:30 PM
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How about you read the fucking sidebar. You're trying to argue AWATS without even refrencing hypergamy. AWATS is really only applicable if you're talking about their natural alpha seeking instincts. AWA not TS is almost every regard besides this. That is why who you choose to associate yourself will vary your experience so greatly. Hence back to my first comment: Get out and try more women, preferably ones that aren't like what you usually go for since you have such a problem with your usuals.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:23 PM
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What are you doing it for? Your doing it for you. Not for anybody else. A misconception on TRP is that you're improving yourself to boost MVS or RVS. No, we're improving ourselves to be the best versions of ourselves. The women are just a plus. If you're really worried about a relationship don't sweat it. Check the side bar for some advice on abundance mentality. I think it's something that could really bring you peace of mind. Also if you do find a girl don't feel like you have to commit and lo…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:42 PM
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Hold up. That dialogue was in response to saying "dump her and don't tell her why." OP is pretty clearly just starting to take the red pill and very beta. That advice would be awful for him.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:26 PM
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Sorry, but you have a scarcity mentality. Please don't resort to name calling.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:08 AM
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Ask yourself why you care what other people think. If you like a sweatshirt then wear it. There's no magic number of days you should wear a specific hoodie.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 03:44 AM
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You always could be honest with your husband and tell him to shut it down. Or you could be honest with your BIL and tell him his fiancée is a skank. You don't have to put up a facade for your family (hopefully) so just put your feelings on the table. You're in the morale high ground no matter how this story plays out if you just be honest with your family.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 03:42 AM
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I'm for sure not an expert on this, but I've been married 7 years and had a ton of relationships before it. For me personally I quit being beta when I joined my highschool wrestling team my senior year. I learned to like working out and got a shit ton of confidence out of it. After that the Military just further pushed those two things upwards. You don't by any means need to do either of those things, but it doesn't hurt to put yourself towards something you see as "manly" or something you'd des…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:26 AM
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That was well put. I get what you mean by the attention, but I use a lot of positive reinforcement with my wife. Of course there are times when I'll just flat out ignore her, but I make it clear: I don't want to talk to you until you have thought about this issue and she woll do the same to me. From personal experience if you want a healthy relationship you need to be very strait forward with your partner. There's still times where you need to swallow TRP, but if you find someone who has a simil…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:01 AM
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Thanks man! I appreciate it. Read the side bar already, but I appreciate the reminder! For future reference... if you don't want your message to come across as misogynistic then you should probably word it so it's not. Your follow up comment was spot on, but your original was just... :/
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:05 AM
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Okay. Sorry for the hugely loaded question, but I got into a pretty heated argument irl with a friend who said something similar. His reasoning was "I treat women like they're nothing, so if we were dating I'd expect her to do what I say or face the consequences. Of course I'd kick her ass if she got out of line" I'd like to hear the reasoning since it'll surprise me haha
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:00 AM
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100% agree with what you just said. You should have posted that to begin with instead of what you did.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:27 AM
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Quick question. If a woman ever got out of line: would you hit her?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:26 AM
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OP is acting like a beta with this post so why would he not talk like a beta. Abundance/Scarcity are both terrible mentalities and hopefully he is somewhere in the middle (closer to abundance), tho I think he's more so in scarcity.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:23 AM
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Well you see, this unicorn is 50% of women. Find someone who doesn't play games. It's usually that easy
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:15 AM
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You literally advocated cheating to OP so his S/O would notice him. That's the most asinine advice you could give in that situation. Fuck the sidebar and fuck anyone who uses TRP to be an incel.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:45 PM
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Sorry let me rephrase "seems like you have shitty taste in women".
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:43 PM
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God bless you. You managed to completely type out the great qualities of TRP. There is WAY to much women bashing on this sub. It's not the women that's the problem (it still is fairly often). It's the men who don't value themselves enough to go out and get the right girl that cause the problem.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:19 PM
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You should cheat on her. Hell, stab her. Let her know you're in control. Kill her and use her skin to make bed sheets and fuck other chicks on top of her. That's the best way to handle this, right? This is what you sound like...
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:15 PM
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Haha to each their own!
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:13 PM
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For sure. This could be absolutely nothing. If anything he just needs to tell her how it made him feel. With her knowing that boundary it should be smooth sailing. If there's acctually a problem then something like this will happen again. Can't start a witch-hunt over spilt milk.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:12 PM
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Everyone on this sub starts as a beta. As a wimpy dude who doesn't know his self worth. My advice? TRP is for the most part a solid support group for becoming more of a "man". However don't take relationship advice on here. You'll be single forever. Take some lifestyle advice for sure, but don't use this sub for advice on women. You can change to be Alpha. It's not hard. Just do. not. take. relationship. advice.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:08 PM
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This is good advice. If OP can recognize his own flaws his relationship with not only his S/O, but with everyone will greatly improve.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:01 PM
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How's the single life going, my dude.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:59 PM
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"I'm breaking up with you." "What? Why!" "You cheated on me!" "No I didn't!" "Fuck off, I know you did." "No I didn't. Okay whatever. If you're seioursly this insecure about me not contacting you for 8 hours then I don't think I want to be in this relationship anyways." "Whatever bitch, I'm a king." "Alright Napoleon. Have a great life on your island." That's some highschool shit man. Breaking up with someone because you're insecure. Breaking up with someone to "teach them a lesson"... Fuck man,…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:59 PM
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Highschool kids "ghost". Adults have a talk about respect and boundaries.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:55 PM
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He most definitely doesn't need "more plates". He needs to either realize his own self worth and have a talk about boundaries or to break up with her because he has trust issues with her. It's beyond shitty to do what you're suggesting. I'm sorry if you've had this done to you, but leading someone on is not okay whether it be your girlfriend or someone you're trying to cheat with. Please don't advocate others to do what hurt you.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:54 PM
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My advice is to take the red pill as an enema. As in shove it up your ass and accept that any obsession is hurtful and that TRP is only helpful if you use extreme moderation. If your dating someone and feel you "need more options" then breakup. If you truly feel "I can do better" or "she's not the one" then just fucking do something about it. It's beyond shitty to do that to a person. I'm sorry if you've had this done to you, but leading someone on is not okay. Please don't advocate others to do…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:51 PM
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Are you in middle school?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:45 PM
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Wait so you're saying you've been actively flirting/trying to get with other women (but stopping yourself) your entire relationship? (Dread game) If that's true then the only reason she hasn't dumped you is because you took her virginity and she believes that it makes you two have a special bond. If you're acctually going full TRP I would expect you to be single, so I'm guessing you are not. If you're going full TRP then dump her and chase a unicorn. She's to good to be stuck with a fully commit…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:43 PM
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Holy fuck that's not good advice. I get the whole TRP attitude of "fuck everyone whose not me, especially women", but god damn man. Talk shit through. If talking doesn't work then yeah go ahead and break up. Why do you have the attitude that you would ghost her/openly try to cheat on her in retaliation? How would you feel if you had been the woman in this situation and your boyfriend had your mentality.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:40 PM
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Glad to see you're in the middle of the spectrum. I keep seeing advice like "SHE FUCKED EVERYONE, BREAK UP AND STAY SINGLE US MEN ARE KINGS!"
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:37 PM
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It's also not hard to acctually be overreacting.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:33 PM
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Sounds like you just haven't found the right girl. I had about 10 girlfriends in 1 year when I was playing games. Ended up being single about 2 years when I decided to be a strait shooter. 3 girls in the past 12 years with the most recent being a 7 year relationship with my wife.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:32 PM
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Hard truth time: It's not that you don't trust her. It's that you don't see value in yourself. ... I've been there before. When I was 18 perceived my girlfriend as way hotter than I was. I put her on a pedestal and thought, "why is she with me?" I sat down with her one night and had the dumbest talk ever. It's the talk you're gonna have with her when you confront her about this suspicion. We broke up that night and it took about 3 months for me to realize why I was so insecure. You gotta make yo…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:29 PM
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