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4

Fuck that. I called dibs on Staci's mom
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 04:01 AM
1

This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 12:10 AM
1

That would be a question for your lawyer tbh. Most likely they mean everything relating to the divorce itself, and if the final divorce judgement is appealed
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 12:47 AM
1

That's ok dude, it happens. You may come out ahead yet, only time will tell and your lawyer is there to help you through it even if it goes to trial. Now if the judge has to put in a judgment themselves due to you and ex not being able to come to an agreement, and you or your ex doesn't like it, it's possible that you or her will choose to appeal that. If that happens that's when you would need a new agreement with the lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 03:41 PM
11

Sounds like he dodged a bullet with you anyways. Go cry about it in the divorce sub
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 05:52 AM
2

Also be careful with this, because if she stays and is "responsible" for the mortgage, if it's in only one person's name or even both, nothing can stop her from just not paying it. Especially if there isn't a court order telling her to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 02:10 PM
1

Probably, but imo I would save the hills you die on for things that you actually care about. It's just a couch, if you get it and don't want it, sell it, give it away, or throw it out. Save the arguments over useless items for things you both want, and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 08:32 AM
8

Have some self respect bro
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 12:23 AM
2

She left 4 months ago man, chances are good that she's been seeing someone for at least 5-6 months. Sorry, we've all been there. They don't just leave for no reason.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 08:42 AM
8

At least she gave you a heads up. My ex moved her AP into the house within 3 days of me moving out lol
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 09:48 PM
2

I just deleted all social media instead. Reddit isn't really "social", and this way I don't have to see updates on people I don't care about, or have other people that know me spying on me
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:29 AM
2

Lmao what a guy. I wish I would have thought of that haha
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 01:14 AM
6

Ugh lol no
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 12:47 AM
3

Nah she wanted this this, she can GTFO. When it comes time to split everything in court, buy her out of the house and she can figure it out. She wants to be a big girl and divorce you, then she can find a place on her own like a big girl.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 10:33 AM
2

Yeah mine is definitely overkill for my room size lol Oh well, it was fun to set up, and no point in having fancy speakers stashed in a closer somewhere just because they're extras
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 02:59 AM
1

It's nice, because I can use the full system when I'm watching a show or something, then switch to just using the Leviathan's "surround system" or headphones when I'm gaming
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 02:40 AM
2

I use a Razer Leviathan V2 as a center bar with the sub woofer on the floor for bass. Then I have a bunch of Sony wireless speakers at up around the room and up in the corners
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 02:37 AM
3

Hell yeah. I never got into the whole giant TV thing, but my computer monitor is 40in, with a full 7.1 surround system. Basically use it as a TV though so I get it haha
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 02:24 AM
4

That's a fair answer I guess lol
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 02:10 AM
5

The real question is why/how does she know what you spend your money on? It's none of her business
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 12:28 AM
4

That's fair. Idk maybe I'm just jaded from my still relatively recent and horrible experience. After having my kids used as a tool to manipulate and control me, and as a weapon so she could get what she wanted, I promised myself that nobody would ever have that level of control over me again. I want to start another family with a new woman years down the road, we'll get a dog lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:14 AM
8

I had minor pain for about 2 weeks after, and random pain that came on out of nowhere for about 2 months after. Been perfectly fine since then, and can 100% say I would deal with that 10x over again than have even a chance of having another kid with some random woman
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 07:36 AM
3

Lol damn, I feel called out. This is exactly what my ex wife (was a single mom when I met her) did to me. Oh well, live and learn I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 12:42 AM
1

The problem is usually a vindictive ex that doesn't care about the problems she causes. Yeah a year down the road she'll suffer, but not before she hurts you right along with her
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 12:00 PM
9

She probably fucked some other dude and is worried she might be pregnant. Don't fall for her shit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 12:27 AM
7

Go to a bar and find a random hookup that isn't her, and see if you still feel the same way the next day
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:29 AM
7

Or get a vasectomy, and tell the women that want kids that it sounds like a great idea 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 05:23 PM
8

Crazy how it always happens that way 🤣 I'm so glad my ex is still in the honeymoon phase with her AP, but I dread how shitty she'll make my life when it inevitably blows up in her face
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:56 PM
1

If you make as much as you do, just agree and then dip out to another country in a year and a half. No reason you can't go live like a billionaire on some island and start over. Your kid can come with you lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 10:38 PM
1

Right lmao I wish this is how my divorce ended up. Grabbed there are so many stories from guys who have it much worse than me, but this sounds like a dream.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 02:58 PM
3

Lol mine found one that doesn't even have a job. They're all insane
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 04:17 AM
8

I don't consider Reddit social media to be honest. There's nothing really "social" about it, it's just anonymous media lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 04:45 AM
1

Do yourself a huge favor, and avoid social media altogether. Imo Reddit didn't quite count, sure to it's mostly anonymous nature, but Facebook, Instagram, Snap, Twitter/X ... All that shits gotta go lol I've never been happier than I have been since I removed that toxic shit from my life completely
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 01:09 AM
3

Woooo
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 05:50 AM
5

Lol or just don't get married a second time? Why do men willingly put themselves through this bullshit again?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 06:12 AM
1

Be safe and don't add income until after the process is finished anyways. If you've already agreed to be reasonable, then flying the bills during the process shouldn't be affected. Wait until it's finalized to worry about your income just in case
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 07:18 AM
1

100% And it could just be me missing context, or misunderstanding your original comment, but I just think that trying to use reverse psychology to make the wife want to come back is a bad idea, and I would hate to see some guy read that, and try that lol Have a good one dude 👍
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:22 AM
1

The problem is, in the beginning, most men are looking for ways to make their wife come crawling back. Probably 95%+ of the time that isn't, or shouldn't, happen. Taking charge of the situation would be working on yourself, and moving forward without her, and if she wants to come back, have that conversation, but once it's over, it's over.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:05 AM
1

Or just divorce, and don't be a toxic ass, ass. Men come here for advice on how to make their shitty lives/situations better, and all your advice would accomplish is making things worse
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:00 AM
2

Yeah, you're 100% right. My buddy is gay, and his ex-husband fleeced him for almost all of his retirement, and forced him out of the house with false DV allegations too during their divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 06:11 PM
6

This is how it should be, unfortunately it's not though. Time to buckle up and play the same game these women play if you want to come out with enough to make a life for yourself after.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 03:23 PM
5

Ah yeah. Manipulation and toxicity. The sure sign of a healthy relationship
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 06:14 AM
12

Or maybe not a wife, but still younger and hotter
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 07:39 PM
8

Lol the amount of men I see on here that just need to seriously consider getting a dog is outrageous
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 02:53 AM
1

Before my divorce finalized, I was made to take a "Co Parenting class", and the lady who was running it tried to convince everyone the state doesn't take any money, and that it all goes towards the kids lmao
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 03:22 PM
3

I used an angle grinder, and cut my ring into little pieces, and dropped it down the barrel of my shotgun, and took it skeet shooting with my buddy (a hobby of mine she always hated)
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 03:42 PM
20

No, it's just that 90% of them are hiding some sort of legitimate insanity, so once they start the divorce process, their hidden crazy comes out to play.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 04:36 AM
1

I've never heard of that before. Thanks! I'll see if I can find some info on it for my state 👍
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:22 AM
1

Basically what I'm saying, is that nobody in your country is going to do anything about her going to a non Hague country, even if that's already part of the divorce agreement. She will be allowed to go anywhere, and you would need to go to court to have her held in contempt if she does, but nothing will happen unless she comes back
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 01:14 AM
2

Nothing would stop them to begin with tbh. The clause that would prevent travel to a non Hague country is just a sentence on a piece of paper, and it isn't like airports will ask you for your divorce settlement to allow travel. But if she's already tried this in the past, then I would fight having anything allowed.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 11:24 PM
1

They're all the same dude. Once they get to the point of filing restraining orders to control the situation, all sense of logic and reason has probably been gone for a while. Several of us have been there, it's why this community exists.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 02:55 AM
1

If that's all you can do, do it. But I would still recommend leaving with an actual person, that can vouch that they have them in their possession if questioned by the police. When this happened to me, I had to leave them with my brother, and police came and searched the house I was living in, and questioned everyone in the house. I also had to turn in my CPL card to the court that issued the order, and they mailed it back once it was dismissed. Edit: don't use a safety deposit box, since you st…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 07:29 PM
1

So, the order is most likely going to be approved in a temporary sense, at least until you get a chance to fight it on the hearing date. If you own any firearms, find a trusted friend or relative that can store them in a place where you "don't have access", otherwise they'll be confiscated by the police, and getting them back will just be another headache to deal with.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 07:05 PM
3

Why would anyone agree to have their name taken off the deed before they receive the money?
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 10:47 PM
2

I love how you claim to have "absolutely proof", yet still felt the need to parade it around in a men's divorce group asking if it'll be enough. Most likely you're full of shit though in most of our experiences. If you have what you're claiming to have, then take it to court. Otherwise stop trolling and go away
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 10:52 PM
10

So how's this work when she brings a dude home? Or alternatively, if she's gone all the time and never does any of the "housework", so you're stuck cleaning everything as if you lived alone. What happens if you want to bring a chick home? Sounds like a fucking disaster to me. Why even get divorced if you're going to be down the hall from each other for god knows how long?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 12:09 PM
3

Imo you should file anyways, because if you live for a long period of time while separated, she can file whenever she feels like it, and you can possibly get hit with potentially years worth of back child support. Also she's playing you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 01:48 PM
4

I understand. I'm in the same boat. Communication regarding pickup/drop off of the kids is practically all we have, unless something major happens during the week. If her message doesn't directly involve one of the kids, it gets ignored, and I refuse to acknowledge she even sent it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 04:49 AM
11

The real question is why you still care after being divorced as long as you have been... Let it go dude, live your life, and for fucks sake remove her from it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 04:44 AM
1

Divorcing to get someone's attention is trash behavior regardless of who's doing it. Maybe people should grow up and deal with their problems, and divorce if necessary - not divorce because they're incapable of having a conversation. I'm sure in this situation both parties were equally trash.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 04:34 AM
3

I did it to get his attention Typical trash behavior. Belong to the streets.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 04:04 AM
13

If she's using negative communication about you to the kids, then she's most likely violated the court orders. They usually have a clause in the parenting plan to stop that. I would tell her to knock it off, or you'll take her back to court for parental alienation/violation of parenting agreement. As for me, I don't even bother defending myself anymore. The ones that realized she was batshit stuck around, and ignore her now too. The ones that believed her probably weren't that good of friends an…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 02:57 PM
17

I take great pleasure in ignoring the living shit out of her in regards to everything except pick up/drop off communications regarding the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 02:34 PM
14

I have nightmares on occasion that we're still together. Yeah she's sexy to me still, but she's also insane, and a manipulative bitch. So when I wake up, I'm glad it was only a dream.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 04:13 AM
2

Yeah sorry to hear that piece of shit is able to interact with your kids period. Lawyer is right on track, document everything, and the first chance you get, rain down the hellfire.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 02:01 AM
10

Speaking as someone that's actually been railroaded by the judicial system, and is still a great guy, this CAN happen. But it sounds like this guy makes a habit of dealing with the judicial system, so probably not the case for him. Just sit back and laugh, until there's a reason to make your wife choose between him being around the kids and you taking full custody.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 01:54 AM
10

Dude you're not broken. Society is broken. You have a FWB, and that's all you need tbh. Until the law changes to be equal, or to stop favoring women ending relationships, then this is how it needs to stay imo
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 05:00 AM
1

If it is, I went nuclear lol
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 11:15 PM
14

Man's over here complaining about the life so many of us wish we could have gotten, and that so many have literally killed themselves trying to achieve... Grow the fuck up, and be a dad. If you didn't want kids, then you shouldn't have had them.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 11:01 PM
6

Well he didn't do anything to my ex, so the common denominator seems to be women. Stfu
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 12:53 PM
16

Would you marry again No
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 06:19 PM
2

Mine is pretty, and working on getting thin (or will be once she has her branch's baby lol). Fortunately I recognize how batshit crazy she is finally, so she's someone else's problem now 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:35 PM
3

You can buy a metal frame on Amazon for like $50
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 04:39 AM
13

If you lived in Michigan, got married in Michigan, and you file for divorce first, then it's handled by Michigan courts. Judge isn't going to look kindly on her fleeing to Florida, and trying to keep the kid away from you (if it's even yours to begin with)
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 08:40 AM
8

Yeah, or she's already pregnant and trying to pin him as the dad for child support
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 08:36 AM
14

Why do you have your ex connected to any electronic accounts still? She should never have had the option for her photos to show on any device in your house. Change your passwords, block her on any/all social media.. Move on, she's not yours anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 07:51 AM
-19

Idiot
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 07:48 AM
2

Lol just file immediately, so she can't and then have at it
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 08:45 PM
6

As much as this sucks to hear (even though you probably already know it's true), if she's saying she wants to fuck other people now, months into this, then she probably already has.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 10:58 AM
1

You could also just tell him what you want, and remind him that this is why you're paying him. If he won't, then there's no reason to keep paying him. Might send him the message too lol
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 09:35 PM
2

Gotcha. I would just file a motion to bring it before the judge then. If she's already signed, then use that as the basis to force things to move on
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:50 PM
2

Probably not much tbh. But if you piss off the judge, then they may take it out on you when it comes down to the final judgement
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:22 PM
5

Call your lawyer and tell them to reach out to her side, giving them until the end of the week to review and respond, otherwise you'll file a motion to go to trial.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:19 PM
2

Don't do that, judge could have a bad day and hold you in contempt of the offer they made before. Do you have your own lawyer?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:11 PM
7

He means that if you haven't already, you should cancel absolutely everything else besides the car/mortgage. IE: credit cards, gym membership, cell phone - anything you weren't ordered directly to continue paying needs to be shut off, so she gets the message
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:06 PM
6

If you get a divorce and need to do a full financial disclosure, then it could be bad if the stash is found out, but if it's been built slowly over the course of a marriage, it's almost impossible to find. They're not going to need a receipt for every purchase made over the past 5-20 years (or however long you're married for). Throwing $50-100 a paycheck into a jar in the attic isn't going to raise many red flags if you don't have financial issues during your marriage, and tracing cash is very d…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 09:58 PM
9

How does one "stash cash illegally"? Just have cash, and keep it hidden tbh. Best case, you have an emergency fund for unexpected expenses. Worst case you have an emergency fund for an unexpected divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 09:48 PM
5

You dropped this. /s
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 11:40 PM
2

Damn I thought my divorce was full of needless drama... Sorry to hear you're going through this dude. I would definitely bring it up. Why not ruin the cops life too. File a complaint with the department, and then include it in court. His captain isn't going to appreciate his subordinate weaponizing police resources, or bringing personal drama into work. The judge isn't going to appreciate a protection order being enforced by an affair partner.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 06:49 PM
3

Just make sure that you include it in your court documentation as something that needs to be split. Are you going through the process without lawyers? If not, tell your lawyer and they'll take care of it. If no lawyers, when the judge asks about the things that need to be split, include that loan and the reason for it. They'll write it into the divorce judgment
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 12:10 AM
3

I thinking I might saw mine into little pieces, and drop it down the barrel of my shotgun next time I go skeet shooting lol It was a hobby she always hated, so it seems fitting.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 11:58 PM
3

If the Corps wanted you to have a wife, they would have issued you one. LMFAO this is incredible 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 11:42 PM
3

stop avoiding red flags. Uh no?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 11:34 PM
2

If you are unable to come to an agreement, you would need to file a motion with the court to have your side enforced (either parent can do this). Judge would 9/10 times refer to FOC, for meditation, and then the judge decides which side is in the best interest of the kids following the recommendation of FOC and their own opinion and will modify the order accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:59 AM
26

Pretty sure this boils down to them expecting you to turn more into a simp after the divorce to try and get her back. And then getting butthurt when it backfires and you're not actively pursuing her anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 12:30 AM
0

Honestly weed isn't that bad. Stop blowing it out of proportion. If you don't like it, then it is what it is, but people can have perfectly functional relationships and still use weed. That wasn't the problem - the problem is that she raised it's importance higher than you. Just cut your losses, time to move on. Throw the weed in the trash if you don't use it, or give it to a buddy that does.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 08:30 AM
2

Well you tried
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 02:39 AM
9

What the fuck is this? I would divorce you too if this is how you communicate irl..
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 12:45 AM
2

I know it seems bad now, and it'll probably get worse, but it does get better. Keep your head up, get your life together so you can fight for the best life for you and your kids. Happy Father's Day. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 02:00 PM
6

Circle around it with a line through it
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 04:38 AM
3

This is the way. Unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 01:58 AM
2

Write literally every single item down, and assign a value to it. Say that if one of you want to keep an item, they pay the other person half the value. Everything else is bagged, curbed, and taken away next garbage pickup. Bet she stops arguing about the stupid couch if it's being thrown away in 4 days
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 01:21 PM
6

I would just flat out ask her why then.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 02:41 AM
88

Maybe she's been knocked up by/had sex with someone else, is nervous, and wants to pin i the potential kid on you
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:27 AM
3

No. You think you know what each other makes. If she's suggesting avoiding disclosing it to the courts, then it seems to me like she has something to hide. Maybe a bank account with a large sum of money, or an investment of some sort. Most likely something that would cause her to be the one ordered to pay.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 06:11 AM
2

You say this like you had no choice in the matter.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 07:44 AM
1

Hint to your kids that maybe mommy should get a job so she can support herself
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 01:03 AM
4

Nope, no alimony, but that's what she may have been after.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 12:54 PM
5

Lol I got mine on our 10 year anniversary
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 08:41 AM
5

She's 17... Why is it a problem honestly? She'll be able to choose to move in with you full time in a few months or a year at most.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:27 PM
9

If you have something from her in writing that shows her saying she'll drop the PO if you agree to her custody suggestion, then take it to a judge. If she's willing to drop a PO if you agree to her demands, then you aren't a threat, and she's using it to control the situation. A judge would definitely recognize that, and probably side with you tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:23 PM
6

Get a vasectomy
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 07:55 AM
5

Yeah just go take a walk through your local mall. Check out some of the neanderthal men some of these dime pieces have hanging on their arm. Everyone is good looking enough for a hookup, just need to have the confidence to go for it. They might not come up to you, but you sure as fuck can go up to them and score.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 02:12 AM
11

First paragraph, yes. Second paragraph, fuck that... Once they leave, they need to stay gone, don't be someone's plan b.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 11:32 PM
5

That saying "can't turn a ho into a housewife"... Really wish my younger self had at least one brain cell active to remember that one.. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 08:39 PM
4

Lmao that's pretty much exactly what she said. Lasted about the rest of the week she said it in, then off to be a ho. I wasn't even surprised in the least haha
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 08:38 PM
22

Lol we had this discussion, and she told me she wasn't planning on dating at all. Two weeks later, kids meet her first boyfriend. And a month after that they met her second/current boyfriend. Women are insane
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 07:47 PM
2

The irony of this statement isn't lost on me lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 07:37 PM
9

Simply writing the word "finally" would be enough for me lol
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 03:22 AM
19

This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 04:40 AM
1

Cooking food that reheats/thaws easily is a good move. That was you can focus less on cooking for yourself, and make what you know and freeze the leftovers
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:07 AM
2

Considering you can buy a blowie for $50 (not great, but still an option lol), no amount of blowjob would be worth a deal like that lol
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 12:48 AM
3

What was the basis of needing supervised visitation in the first place? That isn't something they typically just order, unless there's a reason.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:11 AM
2

Nope, have a different account for that that never comes here 😉
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:40 PM
2

You're not wrong. I'm in my 3rd account after having previous posts screenshotted out of context and threatened to be used against me, even though nothing in the posts was "bad". Just sad that women feel the need to be this vindictive.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:29 PM
2

While this is good advice, and I 100% agree with you... People like you are why so many people are afraid to post their experiences here. Woman spying, looking for anything they can find to use against us men. It's disgusting.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 07:22 PM
11

Get snipped brother. Definitely worth the peace of mind imo
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:41 AM
3

Yeah, saw through that shit pretty fast.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 09:09 AM
14

Lol this happened to me too. Turns out it was just a pregnancy scare from her AP that she wanted to make sure she could blame on me if it didn't go the way she wanted
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 09:30 PM
3

You could do both. Get snipped so you don't have to deal with this in the future, and get a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 05:21 PM
7

Yeah. Imagine how much more it'll be once you have a second kid, and she divorces you anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 05:12 PM
2

Friend of the Court told me that what my children do when with their other parent is not something I have any control over. Unless it directly involves them not being safe, then their mom can't say shit about what they do at your house. Teaching gun safety with a bb gun is about as safe as you can get, so anyone in their right mind wouldn't have a problem with it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 04:42 AM
8

Lol I wish this had happened to me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 09:20 PM
5

Some counter thought processes for these that have helped me. I am good enough, just look at how much her life is spiraling out of control since this all started. I wasn't the problem here. I wasn't really loved during my marriage either, but I was still able to find joy and happiness. There's nothing that can stop me from doing the same thing now, whether it's by myself, or with someone new. It's partially my fault, but what isn't my fault, is that the other party wasn't willing to better thems…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 08:50 AM
1

Make sure you block her, otherwise there's a good chance she'll see yours, especially if you've seen hers. She frame it in some insane way most likely, that her having a profile is fine (it is), but that if you have one too it's not fine (it still is).
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 01:25 AM
7

Because it's fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 12:19 AM
21

Yeah, mine has done/is doing the same thing. Turns out a bunch of us men fell for a bunch of emotionally immature, grown ass children. Live and learn, I just hope her idiocy doesn't permanently fuck up our kids.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 11:55 PM
7

Lol just dump her already and be done with it. Mine did this really on in the process, and I said fuck it, and went along with it. Turns out it just made it hurt that much more once it was over for real. Save yourself the headache, and start processing it for real now - your future self will appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 04:33 AM
15

Because of she can trick you into a false sense of normalcy, then you won't notice the knife she's using to stab you in the back when you're not paying attention.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 04:43 PM
2

Still living at home, and mostly sharing a space with my stbxw. She's basically ignoring the kids during this time for her new bf, so I seriously hope she chooses to copy the things I do once I'm gone lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 12:37 AM
4

Not necessarily. They just need a couple guys that are done with bullshit to dump them. They might learn, they might not. It's up to us what we decide to to tolerate.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 08:38 PM
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