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Just ask her number. If she doesnt respond just move on.
/r/seduction05/03/19 11:12 PM
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dude watch angrypicnic or thatwasepic on youtube. See how college day game goes down.
/r/seduction05/03/19 11:11 PM
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Just let her come over.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:18 PM
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Is it a specific girl you are talking about, or oneitis in general?
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:47 PM
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Jizz the jazz
/r/seduction04/11/18 01:30 AM
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6 pillars of self esteem has been shitting on me lately in the best way. Life changing mentality is being cultivated from this book.
/r/seduction03/11/18 06:23 AM
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Just keep doing it. Oneitis is a big hurdle to get over not just in dating but in life. A big thing in.my life seduction is teaching me is that I'm in control and everything is fine.
/r/seduction03/11/18 06:11 AM
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You over thought it. I did the same shit a few weeks back. It's funny you get upset about radio silence, when a lot of this community preaches it. She texted for logistics and you over thought it and I'm assuming had less fun than you would have.
/r/seduction03/11/18 06:09 AM
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Keep developing this mindset. Eventually you just won't care. Also realize asking her out and getting rejected isn't the end of the world. Continue talking to her normally and maybe just stay friends. A big thing I had to learn is that a lot of girls for whatever their reasons won't be attracted to me. Just have to carry on.
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:43 AM
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Don't reply
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:32 PM
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For real.
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:01 AM
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Stop having oneitis. Keep her as a friend and use her as a wingman to pick up other girls. Girls like dudes who are friends with girls. Also, don't talk to girls too much when you arent in front of her. Just keep practicing. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:51 AM
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Honestly the less you text her the better. You don't want to stale relationships out by texting her too much. The last thing you want is to text s ton and have nothing to talk about when you see her. Also you are showing neediness when you over text. This chick wants to hang out on Halloween and you are still freaking out. You're doing good.
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:48 AM
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But the kicker is my coworker is a white chick.
/r/seduction24/10/18 12:05 AM
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Lol just cuz she says she isn't attracted to white guys doesnt mean she has anything against them. Same with blenders. Just cuz I don't wanna fuck it doesnt mean I don't like having one in my house.
/r/seduction24/10/18 12:03 AM
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I did. It works
/r/seduction23/10/18 01:59 AM
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I don't want to stick my dick in a blender. That doesn't make me anti-appliance.
/r/seduction22/10/18 10:53 PM
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Anyways, what women say and what they actually do... Two worlds apart. -Lol that's what I'm getting at. I mean that's why seduction requires men to hold the frame and lead. Women have too many subconscious defense mechanisms to know what they actually want. For dudes its simple "I want to bang her"
/r/seduction22/10/18 04:16 PM
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Nah. But its come up in the past and I'm sure it would come up in the future. Another common one I get is "I don't date military guys"...which that I understand, I chose to be in a goofy lifestyle. but as far as my skin i was born white lol.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:46 AM
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In my mind I would go angrypicnic style and say "I don't like white guys either" Or one depending on the mood "youre not losing the chocolate I'm just adding vanilla" heard it on an epic rap battle of history lol
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:40 AM
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Nah, that's not the point. I'm just interested in good replies.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:39 AM
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11-Post your field report on r/seduction
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:15 AM
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This. Go in telling her how you feel. Rejection only sucks for a few days. Being afraid is a lifelong pain.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:13 AM
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Gnome with the truth bombs. You frustrate me on my posts but I learn a lot lol.
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:07 AM
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Tom Torero is all about this. His podcasts are awesome
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:19 AM
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I understand what you are saying, but for me its a time thing. I dont want to associste with people who I'm going to make plans with and who make a habit of flaking. Everyone has things that come up and I can stay empathetic, but when its a pattern I feel its not okay. It makes me feel I'm a friend of convenience, not someone who she genuinely wants to spend time with. Fuck that. I have really good friends who aren't that way. I dont plan on burning a bridge because we have fun partyint but I de…
/r/seduction20/10/18 12:13 AM
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Last time I went it was a good time. But I understand your point. Definitely something to always keep in mind.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:26 PM
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I contemplated what you said, and maybe that I tried and I didn't appropriately calibrate the situation. I think leaving was a good move, but I think I should have communicated more.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:15 PM
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I think the big takeaway I that I set a date that way cuz a part of me knew it was dumb lol.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:44 PM
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Great advice!
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:43 PM
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Yeah. I see that now. Think I should reach out and communicate that I lacked tact?
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:42 PM
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I think your last point is valid. I definitely did it with poor tact. I think I did like a "Date Mike" thing and went into it like it was a first date, not shoring up or communicating boundaries to a friend .
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:36 PM
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I mean its a who cares in the mindset that each date is a learning experience. The smart decision is to learn as much as I can, and apply it to new scenarios.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:33 PM
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See I get what you are saying on a normal date, but I think the nuance here is that we have a prior relationship. I'm taking this as more of a win due to the fact that a lot of tips about being assertive and standing up for myself applies to all friendships. I've been steamrolled in the past by friends picking on me or using me and stayed passive. I'm a good dude with a lot of heart willing to help anyone, and I'm way fun person to be around. If people aren't going to appreciate that, then fuck …
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:17 PM
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Lol, I mean within limits. Seduction in itself is playing with emotions. I guess I mean I won't do it maliciously.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:13 PM
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Yeah she initially invited me out to a concert but she was with this dude she is kind of dating, and at that time I was more interested in getting to know her and meeting her friends. We've also hung out at the same bar together before the cabin. The reason I didn't make a move on her at the cabin is cuz she brought the same dude. He's lame AF, and me and her were having tons of fun but he's an E-7 in the marines and I'm an E-6 in the Navy and I don't need drama. Literally her excuse for flaking…
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:10 PM
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Yeah I thought about that too. I wasnt having much fun at the venue, its a tiny loud bar with people I have no interest in interacting with. I just sat around for over half an hour bored and decided enough was enough. My logic now after looking at it, is if I fucked up and went about it the wrong way that's fine, but if she actually respects me she will reach out. 2 flakes and a late date is garbage IMHO.
/r/seduction19/10/18 01:52 PM
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Yeah its tough cuz I have a lot of fun with her, but everyone I know says I should stay away unless its to fuck her. But I'm at the point where sex isnt as fun if I don't have a connection, and I refuse to play with a woman's emotion and convince her I like or care about her when all I want is to sleep with her.
/r/seduction19/10/18 03:09 AM
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Thanks man I appreciate it! I was so close to going back or texting but I waited it out and realize if she really cares she will apologize, and if not then at least I know where our relationship stands.
/r/seduction19/10/18 03:08 AM
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I understand what you're saying but its not just being over 30 minutes late. Its over 30 minutes late today and 2 flakes in the last week. I'm just curious why you think its okay to show up late to a set date and time.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:59 AM
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Thats where I'm at right now as far as the flexibility. I didn't realize she was walking and she walks slow cuz a knee injury. I feel bad but still it hurts either someone you think is a friend flakes
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:38 AM
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Why do you say that? I did basically the same thing saturday and got laid.
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:22 PM
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My recommendation is to look up Tom Torero about shit tests, he has a great podcast and a few youtube videos. And look into 6 pillars of self esteem. It bridges the gap for a lot of motivation.
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:20 PM
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I was asking pushy as I felt comfortable being. I pushed it the first time after kissing a bit, she said no. I escalated kino to where I was touching her ass and her thigh and during the makeout in the parking lot I brought it up. I personally feel it comes off needy to keep asking.
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:09 PM
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I have no clue if its long term. I just met this girl. I personally don't feel it was aggressive to kiss her, since she was perfectly fine with it and seemed happy. I just let it be known I find her sexy early in and when she said no, I just kept going along with the date. She was obviously turned on towards the end but wanted to wait. I didn't push it.
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:06 PM
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Don't in either. Get her naked in RL.
/r/seduction18/10/18 07:08 AM
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