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Marriage/ChildrenI_have_secrets/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:08 AM
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How you coping?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:37 PM
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At first I'm 😂Omg. Then I'm like 😭 I miss real life.
/r/seduction26/03/20 09:16 AM
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✸ BEST ANSWER ✸
/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:36 AM
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I was waiting for the twist. Nope. She is dead serious about this.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:09 AM
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Jesus Christ Reddit.
/r/MGTOW14/07/19 05:11 PM
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Omfg. I cannot believe it, yet it does not surprise me. Absolute disgrace. Because of these weak bitch boys the rest of us have to work 10x harder because they give women an unbreakable ego.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 01:11 AM
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We should do surgery on him. A fucking lobotomy.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:57 AM
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To be fair, the food on their instagram looks pretty decent...shame they were too ignorant to understand basic business practices.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 09:57 AM
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How the fuck is this place quarantined?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/18 03:38 PM
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You have disposable income and stories of real life experiences. You should give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 12:24 PM
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This is an incredible post. Very well put and very true. Experienced this a few times.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:03 AM
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Incredible. Absolutely legendary story. A lot of financial advise on Reddit is focused on US and I wish there were posts of this calibre referencing UK options.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:34 PM
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Funny to think that if a man downloads and watches the video she made, he will get into more trouble than she did.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:11 PM
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I could help out.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:07 PM
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Incredible post. I cannot think of another post that reached this standard in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:20 PM
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Okay, now this is starting to give me the Project Mayhem kind of vibes.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:37 PM
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Refreshing comment that is a complete summary to TRP. Nothing else matters other than your own happiness. Live well friend.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:57 AM
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I would have to disagree with you. If you are married or you have children, being protective of them is not Blue Pill. Looking after your woman is like protecting your assets, if she falls ill I believe it would be weak to just use the spinning plates mentality. Would I leave my metaphorical wife if she was the victim of an unfortunate incident? No. Would I seek sexual release from another source? Probably. Situations like this are too hard to give an answer to, each scenario is different and it…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 11:32 AM
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[–]scyther1 3 points 15 days ago I really recommend talking to a therapist. I know this is hard on you. He was beaten have to death to protect you. At least talk to a therapist. [–]throwaway747381[S] -3 points 15 days ago He hasn't specifically told me to leave but he's told me that I "need to do what's best for me." Holy fucking shit! That is disgraceful! No way should a therapist be providing any answers, the therapist should be asking open questions to help the patient come to their own concl…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 11:27 AM
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Loved this film for that reason. The agenda is a real thing, there are so many people in relationships and the woman owns the man, he is the idea of what she wanted and has removed him from being the person he was. It is so sad, but it is how it is and people need to realise this before they make life long commitments.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 08:38 AM
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Great post. I am actually in the processes of making this transition now. If you don't know your value, then you must create your value. It is never too late to learn some valuable skills that will make you a competitive candidate. And honestly? Fuck company loyalty. It's all about that paper.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:52 PM
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Whether you're being sold to by the big corporations mentioned in this post, or by someone spouting their views on /r/theredpill - you are still the consumer.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:45 PM
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That's why everyone constantly tells you to respect them because your natural inclination is not to. Solid conclusion. Women know how much hard work they are and the emotional rollercoaster rides they go through, which is why the idea of "respect" is pushed so heavily. Like that absolute bullshit fucking quote a lot of them post - "If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". To be proud of being a cunt and still expect all the treatment given is the most ridiculous thin…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:26 PM
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I guess from now on we are going to have to privately message other users like Jehova Witnesses or Mormons, "Excuse me, can you spare a moment to discuss the book of The Red Pill to save you from eternal Betafication?" ...that Unidan poster is pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 08:13 AM
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I am so glad this is not just me.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 10:52 AM
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Feel the same about Reddit. I am feeling the urge to pull the plug completely.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:12 PM
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Solid post. Some very funny comments in places too. It is so interesting how the film does depict Redpill truths through Vance whilst trying to shut him down and make him the villain. I never back down when someone confronts me about my life choices or about the women I have "hurt". It is important to maintain composure at all times and never let them feel they are right about what they say. Such a strange world.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:57 AM
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I think a lot of the "Omg you're actually so Beta, you care, just forget her" posts are quick to point the finger. But I would like to point something out, I believe TRP is something that is constantly worked on. You must eat clean, you must work out and you must hold frame at all times...Yes, but we all know that sometimes that consistency can sway. A cheat day here, a Netflix night there, whatever. As long as you do not let it take hold of who you are then it doesn't make you lazy, beta or wha…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 10:35 PM
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Ex tells bestie, bestie is the wife of a friend. That friend held it back as he knew Ex wanted me to find out. Ex wanted me to know she's back out there for some weird girl power closure. The fact that it's with someone we both were friends with makes it more personal or something? Who knows. I don't give a fuck. My collective "friends" all didn't say anything and treated me all the same. So, I felt like they were trying to play with me because of the "feels". It's all dumb, all pointless. The t…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:50 PM
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If you like poetry, write it for yourself. Be open with who you are. Do not do it for the benefit of others. You will find that when you write something personal to you that only you will see, you can release some that heavy mindset. Then fuck it. Drop a sick beat, get on the mic and spit that shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:54 AM
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That's my point exactly. Either way, it is none of my concern. I have better things to focus on.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:01 AM
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He sounds upset that his beta friend and ex hooked up. Yet he is upset that the friend is acting like a beta? I think you may have slightly misunderstood. The betrayal is not the friend and ex getting together, I honestly do not care. The "betrayal" is about my friends admitting to intentionally withholding information from me. (I admit the story does not go into the certain details which does create some ambiguity, who knows who and why it's weird etc). I just felt that it was worth sharing, I …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:00 AM
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where is this from? i like it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 11:03 PM
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If it becomes private, then no one else can discover it the way you did.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:22 AM
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His name was Robert Paulson.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 12:48 AM
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That stuff will be everywhere and you will notice it more and more now that you are clued up, and in all honesty it is infuriating, and you will be tempted to spread your new found knowledge and share the message of TRP, but it will not work on those who are not ready to be "unplugged" and it definitely won't work on the hoard of post wall alpha widows that are around. Just use TRP for your own self benefit and you will do alright. Ignore all the bullshit. You did make me laugh though, with your…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 12:44 AM
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Because he said he's willing to pay for drinks... ...a feminist would never dare even joke about that.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:54 PM
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...i would like to join said religion.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 10:56 AM
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Thank you. It is such a breath of fresh air reading this and now knowing I am not the only one that feels this way. MGTOW should be be as much about the corporate world as anything else.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 11:41 AM
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If I have to be honest, some of the posts and followers are strange but the philosophy is solid. The main message is about improving yourself, your state of mind, approach in life, being a dominant man in all walks of life and learning how to deal with people who try and put you down or hold you back. The part about women for me is secondary, however some posts do hold some interesting points. Not the shaming, as I do not like the whole pack mentality/cult like feel, but the examination of weste…
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:41 AM
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You would be surprised dude. TRP is more about self improvement than it is about shaming women, you should at least read some of the basic information in the sidebar before you stand by your prejudices. Be open minded :)
/r/seduction30/04/15 01:35 PM
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Remember who you are and don't crack under pressure. Be strong and believe in yourself and always be an alpha. The frame is a combination of elements that truly make you RP aware. Things like your confidence, posture, tone, focus and beliefs - these are all the things that make a man who he is. Frame is your projection of the man you are and a shield used for you to choose who you let in. Never take your guard down and believe in who you are. If you snap, act aggressively or defend yourself in a…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:12 AM
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Many millionaires give no fucks. This is why.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:01 PM
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Fear. Not acting. Jealousy. Shaming others. It's a sad sequence of events.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:33 PM
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She's sucking the dick of her own emotional state. Absolute genius. Sums up exactly what the whole purpose of AWALT truly means.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:46 PM
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An inch makes all the difference.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:48 PM
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would not have said this. After she declined, just hang up. See, personally I wouldn't have done that either. Because hanging up gives automatic closure. Instead, I would say something like: "Hmm...that's interesting". With this, there is no doubt in hell that she will respond by saying something like: "Why is that interesting?" This is then followed by a reversal, and you say... "Meet up with me tonight and I will tell you why". Bam, you're back in and a few tequilas later you're at her place s…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:45 PM
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It is such a bizarre state of affairs. The romanticised version of love would be to want one another on a purely foundational level, for example, the delusion of "I want you no matter what, I don't care about the details in life I just want to be happy with my SO and what ever else happens is an additional bonus in life". To think that you are constantly targeted to provide one thing after another as a continual test of affirmation is very disconcerting. If anything, TRP has taught me to be comp…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 11:45 AM
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You know what, great comment. I agree. The post is more about maintaining that frame, holding confidence and being strong in your manner of conversations. There is a massive difference in being alpha and picking up women. Be the best person you are and you have already done more than the 99%.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:22 PM
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What an absolutely incredible and insightful post. Great read and agree. This is about you and you alone, everything else will be an additional perk to what you have already achieved. :)
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:19 PM
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I think you are talking more about LTR situations. This thread is mainly. About the short term and success in plate spinning, different strategies for different intentions. I like your input though, be interesting and the best person you can be and the rest will follow.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:48 PM
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For the sake of going into too much detail, I will explain as simply as possible... If you have a bank account and you are close to the red and you know payday is a long way off, you take it easy. If a friend asks to borrow some money, you say 'not right now' and you learn to budget and ride the storm until it all blows over. However, if you are not like this and you are careless because you know that you will be fine no matter what and other people will suffer on your behalf, you will think "fu…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:39 PM
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As diverse as we all are, human nature will take over all biases, genders and racial backgrounds. Inherently, we are selfish beings and when given the most amount of power that we can conceive, we will take advantage of it in any way, shape or form. The only thing that will come of this is a power hungry, self righteous "deserving" group who feel they belong at the top. It is pretty scary to think that even though the power is in favour of the female now, there is still a longing for complete co…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:10 PM
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This is always the way with the Gym. The best time to go is when you don't even want to be there.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:07 PM
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Sadly, this is true. The strong realisation hit me when I ended my relationship with my ex. She never loved me, she used me as a utility as and when she needed it. I was too laid back, too naive to see how easy it is to slip into being Beta. It hit me when the relationship ended. Despite being together for years, she has not contact me since. As morbid as it sounds, it feels like I have lost someone as it was so sudden and final. How can you not have even the most basic level of consideration to…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:15 PM
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I love reading your comments, because you say what I think. The feeling is so empowering when you know what is up. I see it all around me and wonder how best to make the most of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:07 PM
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That is an absolutely solid idea (despite it never happening). The idea of having competing companies with opposing genders would be the new battle of the sexes. I just don't understand how they can justify an aim because of gender. The idea in theory makes sense, 'things should be equal' but the logic behind it is ridiculous. Even when they have pay parity, they still claim they don't in order to get more. But as always it's easier to whine, complain and demand than it is to work for what you w…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 11:52 AM
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Silly rabbit. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 10:32 AM
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What the fuck is that?! Sounds like some 'Limitless' type drug! Pretty impressive if true, however lowering sperm count is simply not good enough.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:31 PM
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Haha, would never happen for as long as we have politicians and the government. That would destroy all that is known in this world. Like you're enthusiasm though!
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:37 PM
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Theoretically of course. The term "the pill" I am using loosely to summarise a whole range of various female contraceptives.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:21 PM
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Fascinating post. I agree with most of what you have written. The bit about older men looking down on you, over bearing parents and female bosses, I have experienced it all. I am 27. I have embraced change and will do all I can to succeed. I have so much to work towards and the time to do it. Enough of all the bullshit that you are constantly subjected to on a daily basis from people to scared to stand up for themselves so they try and bring you to their shit level. This life is the only one we …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:41 AM
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Brilliantly said. This is not about unleashing hate on the masses, this is about our own inner happiness.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:19 PM
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Nice post. I loved the bit at the end about old people. I love the older generation. I will be so sad when their time has come. I love the simple joy they have in sharing their stories. Hard work, love and respect. Be the best man you can be.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:01 PM
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No problem. It's great if it feels natural as that's the way it should always be. Do yourself a favour though, don't give too much straight away to keep her interested. Always make her (nicely) work for what you give her, for example don't just cook her a meal because you said so, instead tell her in a lighthearted way that she has to earn the real "special" treatment from you by proving she's worth it coz you only wana give real effort if she's worth it. (it's banter though it just keeps things…
/r/seduction19/12/14 01:47 AM
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Next time do everything the same, don't be over the top. When you are out, establish more contact and touching, placing hand on the small of her back etc. These little signs (if done right) helps to bridge that connection between the two of you. This time however, you find the moment to kiss her during the date and not at the end (too much anticipation and its predictable) try and find a moment to pause her (respectfully) while she's talking and give her strong (not weird) and confident eye cont…
/r/seduction18/12/14 05:18 PM
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Don't put too much pressure on yourself. This is great, you already have the date! I personally don't like restaurants on a first date, its too 'structured', also you get interupted by the waiter/ress every now and then which can ruin the conversational flow. I like something a little more relaxed, like a bar, a place with desserts and milkshakes (you know the 1950s diner type), a place where you can get a quick snack. This will eliminate the whole 'Shall I pay?' thing, because its not an over e…
/r/seduction28/03/14 04:20 PM
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