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Bloop here- fuck that. Lying isn't ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:22 AM
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I think the opposite- she's scared she'd marry someone who would abandon his identity to adopt hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:05 PM
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This obviously excludes her husband. I don't see that as obvious. I LOVE planning romantic things and providing. Putting mistletoe over every internal door in the house for Christmas and kissing him every time he goes from room to room. Planning elaborate meals of his favorites. Preordering a video game he's excited about so that he'll have it on the day of release. Putting rose petals on the ceiling fan and leading him to the bedroom, turning it on and letting them cascade down, with a few that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:59 PM
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Anything diverging from that narrow line even so slightly you can already feel the stigma creeping in. I think that's where openmindedness comes in. I had an ex who told me about a sexual experience with his cousin. He also wanted to be pegged. Another had a prior STD (cured), while another had slept with men in his past and cheated on a wife. Your entire past makes you you- I want to date a whole person, not just the highlights. punished for actually being vulnerable Maybe I'm the weird one her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:49 PM
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She's in no way obligated to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:17 PM
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It's cruel to date someone you're not wholly into. It's condescending to see someone as your safety school. If you're not going for Harvard, it should be because it's got the right programs for your field of interest and you felt at home when you visited. Dating someone who you're looking down on is a recipe for misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:11 PM
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I've never had a backup. I don't really know people that do either. The concept seems so strange to me, and cruel to both the hapless guy waiting in the wings and to the boyfriend who's in a probationary relationship. edit: It sounds a lot like the "abundance mentality" crap that TRP uses to avoid emotional investment. Having a bunch of plates in the wings so that you don't feel as hurt if this one fails. To me, it's defeatist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:07 PM
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If a guy lets women approach then he ends up with less attractive women than he could find if he did the approaching. That goes both ways- the chooser wins the best prize, the one who waits has to put up with what comes their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:45 PM
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Approaching is how you get the guys you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:45 PM
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it would be terrible to be cheated on at all, but far worse and repulsive if her man was bent over the bed taking it in the ass. Nah. I dated a guy who wanted to try it with a guy, but didn't want to sacrifice our relationship. I gave him a free pass, and it was way the hell better than if he'd gone and cheated with a girl. A guy wasn't a threat to our relationship, he was essentially a living dildo. He didn't want to date a guy, just get some dick, so it wasn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:21 PM
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I think that both are really important. I love understanding why previous breakups happened, so that I can avoid the same pitfalls. And yes, when I talk about the one where I was a terrible person, I'm up front with that. And that tends to get the other person also up front with when they screwed up. Everyone screws up sometimes, and if you make it clear that admitting that doesn't lead to judgment, the relationship just gets closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:08 PM
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Always been honest. Not dying alone. I think a lot fewer people care than are represented on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:03 PM
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I care a lot more about the ability to have total honesty without judgment in my relationships than pretty much any other quality that would make a guy "perfect".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:59 PM
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Who is going around and being honest about their sexual history to people? Me. I think it's hot, and bonds me to my partner to know the sexy, gritty details about their past and to share mine. It's always yielded happy answers for me, with great discussions and openness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:56 PM
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Every relationship I've been in, we've had the conversation about sexual past, which tends to go alongside romantic past. It's never been a "what's your number" and stopped at that- I want to know everything, and share everything. Sexual past is interesting! It's never sabotaged a relationship, and I've known and shared how many, what we did, what we learned, what we liked and disliked. Your ex's special trick. The cutest romantic gesture she ever did for you. The hottest porn you've seen. Open …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:51 PM
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Hi! Here's my history (me-partner): 18-17 20-24 21-21 22-25 26-27 Anecdotes are fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:31 PM
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I think it's just a characteristic of people. I've never been financially supported in a relationship, but I recently took a large paycut to go to a more fulfilling job. My spending didn't quite follow, and I had a bit of a shock. You get used to a certain way of spending and stop thinking about it, because whatever you wanted to buy, the money would just be there. Having to change those expectations is tough. For your friend, it'll probably be a bit surprising to realize that she can't just buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:25 AM
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There's a lot of overgeneralization about what "women" like. I'm sure the framework works well for picking up girls for sex within the mainstream party/tinder/club culture. But when it comes to pulling outliers, or aiming for real bonds or relationships, I see it falling flat. AWALT is a useful heuristic if you're playing a numbers game and hoping for a bite, but it's not going to necessarily get your oneitis. I tend to laugh at the sorts of things I'm "supposed" to find attractive. Looks matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:00 AM
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