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Lol, your total ignorance and refusal to learn will only leave you wide open as a glaring target for others to coercively control you without you even knowing they're doing it. But go right ahead and carry on with your chosen ways.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 05:25 PM
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Yes. If he didnt want to get married and only did so after years of nagging the he allowed himself to fall victim to coercive control. The whole reason it's called coercive control is because it's a non violent form of control. It's covert. It makes the other person belive they made the choice freely when in fact they were worn down via manipulative tactics.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 11:24 AM
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Reverse the roles. Say a wife wanted her husband to get into swinging, but the idea is revolting to him. But he finally "agree's" after months or years of her pressuring him. So he's now "agreed" to and does participate in swinging while acting as enthusiastic as he can for the sake of pleasing his wife, saving his marriage, or just to shut her up from all the nagging on about it... Whatever his reasons are at the time he agreed, he has fallen victim to whats called "coercive control". Coersive …
/r/MensRights16/06/26 02:39 PM
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Don't answer your phone when its them calling. You don't actually have to deal them.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:33 PM
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He will only care about his red hair and freckles if you care about his red hair and freckles, so don't be a jerk to your son. Build his confidence and treat him the same way you would treat him if he didn't have red hair and freckles. Also, most red headed men have huge dicks, so your wife did him a favour there, most probably.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 01:46 PM
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The lezbians aren't annoyed about it. They're simply going about theor horny days without raping, sexually assulting, or verbally sexualising / insulting any of the women they find attractive / sexually arousing. Human can like what they like without making their boner anyone else's problem. People can enjoy what they see without making anyone else uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:11 PM
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🙄🙄🙄
/r/MensRights26/08/22 08:08 AM
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What do you think my definition of rape is? All rape is inhumane.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 01:35 AM
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95% of men on women rape go unreported. Out of the 5% that are reported only 1% of male rapists get served the justice they deserve. What are the statistics on women on men rapes? Probably the same. I believe there are more male rapists than female rapists, as well as more male pedophiles - however you're correct about female rapists getting let off more easily when caught... The same is true for female pedophiles. Society is fucked.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 01:34 AM
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Why don't women ask men for consent videos... Because women (typically) don't ever intend on shoving things inside a man unless he asks her to.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:42 AM
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Who cares what they think or believe. Red Pill men are good to fuck, but they're really not marriage material. (Most people aren't marriage material because marriage is a shit deal for everyone.) Anyway, this is your life, not theirs, so just do whatever makes you happy before you die. That's your only responsibility before you have kids - your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:16 AM
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The skills lesbians have.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 07:09 AM
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I can not be intimate with someone unless I am inlove with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:34 AM
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So, most men need another person to get off because they need the emotional connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:20 AM
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Lol, men would rather treat a woman like an inanimate object than use a toy because they're "sane". Ok buddy, have fun with that. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:14 AM
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Jesus, I (me personally) just don't get the thrill in treating another human being like an inanimate object used to masterbate with - especially when I can fuck myself into rolling orgasms by using actual toys with minimal effort. The orgasms are always better so for me sex with someone else needs to have an appeal, and being inlove with them is the only appeal that makes it worth it. There is nothing wrong with this. Some women like emotionless sex, porn, and fucking other people just because. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:50 AM
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Because I can fuck myself better than anyone else can (thanks to the magic of toys) and using another human being just to masterbate doesn't feel good emotionally to me because I'm demisexual, so emotionless sex makes me feel sick. If I'm going to let someone touch me, and put the effort into learning how to fuck them just the way they like it, then it's only because I'm in love with them. What's the point in sex if you're not inlove 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:50 AM
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Pedos got into GOVT hah. 16. 12!!!
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:48 PM
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A 22yo adult having sex with a 17yo kid. You're guilty.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 02:16 PM
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Exactly, but they send them in anyway. Russia is doing the same to their male citizens. Russian kids are finding Ukrainian guns and shooting themselves in the legs so they're sent home without having to kill anyone.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 11:09 PM
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Fuck this makes me sick. Why should these guys be forced to kill anyone.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 02:15 AM
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You'll have to put something in there about how women's violence is only reactive to men's abuse. This is the narrative because typically when a woman is driven to violence by not getting what she thinks she wants she destroys his stuff, but when a man is driven to violence by not getting what he thinks he wants he murders her - therefore he is the bad guy, not her. Got anything in there about gender diverse violence? Because facts are people of both sexes / all genders can be psychopaths who en…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 10:14 PM
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It's revolting. The people do not choose war, their leaders do. I hope your friend is safe. 😔
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:43 PM
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All human capital is disposal in this machine.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:37 AM
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Wow, that's awful of them to do that. Men's mental health is so out the gate y'all are killing yourselves and your partner's in higher and higher numbers. Men need support groups.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:03 PM
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Because we're not afraid to play with our own G-Spot. If men had a sexual revolution and learned how to fuck themselves happy they'd not enter into or remain in shitty relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:05 PM
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They should all be allowed to.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 12:54 PM
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Actually yeah I see your points I can agree on the term feminist, and that feminists are probably more for "women's rights" than they are for "equal rights" or "men's rights". I guess I'm more of a "human rights enthusiast" then. I sign petitions I think are fair and teach my kids to see themselves and others as human beings before anything else.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 08:50 AM
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I'm not in the US so haven't had any experience with American Feminists or the cultural norms there. I'm sorry your experience of feminism has been a wholly negative one and that the women you surround yourself with are not meeting your expectations of what a feminist should be. Who decided the laws about only men joining the SS, and what was their reasoning? Do men's rights activists such as yourself protest on behalf of women who want to join the SS? Do you protest on behalf of men who don't w…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 07:56 AM
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You need to subscribe to all the different news outlets to see things from different perspectives. Otherwise you're in a pit of confirmation bias. The algorithm gives you what you seek. I was sent a link today about how wrong it to praise this famous Ukrainian woman soldier because she's a member of a racist neo-nazi group. Feminists don't want to claim her because she's racist. Let me find the link.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 02:16 AM
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Fixed
/r/MensRights28/02/22 02:11 AM
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Done
/r/MensRights28/02/22 02:10 AM
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I am 100% against men being drafted. It's fucking revolting that they can not legally leave with their families. Also, evey woman I know agrees with this sentiment. I don't know what kind of feminists you're talking about because I don't know any like this... But I do believe there are bad women who would happily throw their good men into the fire to save themselves, as there are bad men who would happily throw their good women in. Maybe if enough "equal rights / equal sacrifice" people get into…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 02:08 AM
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Oh I didn't mean being straight is the reason. Having a warped mind it the reason.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 01:57 AM
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Male genital mutilation is just as disgusting as female genital mutilation. It's child abuse. Cosmetic surgery is for adults who want it.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 01:55 AM
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Hate crimes against homosexuals occur in EVERY country. People with warped minds murder gay, bi, trans, and queer (etc) persons every single day. It happens in every single country - because they've been brainwashed into hating their fellow human beings. You can thank the patriarchy and it's social "norms" for this gay hatred that leads to crimes.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:33 AM
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Russian men are forced into military training and now war - due to the ruling patriarchal system. Ukrainian men, civilians with no military training, are drafted and forced to fight in this war - due to the ruling patriarchal system. Ukrainian feminists are VOLUNTEERING to fight with their men.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:24 AM
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You'll be happy to know that the adult women of Ukraine are volunteering to help their men fight in this suicide mission against the second most powerful trained and heavily armed forces on the planet with rifles they don't know how to use.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 05:08 AM
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You'll be happy to know that the adult women of Ukraine are volunteering to help their men fight in this suicide mission against the second most powerful trained and heavily armed forces on the planet with rifles they don't know how to use.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 04:58 AM
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I think you're a good person and want what's best for everyone involved, including both sets of grandparents. Bless your soul! If you're happy to move countries for your baby and make the choices that will keep the peace between families then good. Avoiding court is wise. Lawyers trigger their clients emotions on purpose to drag out the case so they can make more money. Your wife has agreed to help you gain residency. Perfect 👌
/r/MensRights22/02/22 03:14 PM
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Im not saying adapt to her bs, I'm saying adapt to the world's bs and make logical choices. Same thing happened to another guy I know. This guy moved countries to be closer to his kids because it was a faster way of gaining contact back with them (during their critical developmental years) than taking his kidnapping wife / ex through the international court systems. He took the path of least destruction and now sees his toddlers every chance he gets. - He even got to see them through the lockdow…
/r/MensRights22/02/22 01:58 AM
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What position has Turkey taken on this whole Russia invading Ukraine thing. Maybe your kid is safer in Russia? Maybe you should join them there.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 12:49 AM
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Some women are sociopaths, they don't see their lover as an individual person, they see them as an object to be used, to maintain their own personal image for the sake of external validation. Some men are sociopaths, too. People who are hollow on the inside bully and pick holes in others thinking this is how they will escape their void. These are not the kinds of people you should be feeling suicidal over - do you actually want to date someone so shallow, or would you rather share your life with…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 12:21 PM
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As if children don't have the right to privacy. Sick.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 10:58 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights08/01/21 06:49 AM
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This is a thing that happenes. Some women hate males, especially intelligent ones. My gifted son was mistreated and abused by 2 separate female teachers who, instead of meeting his advanced intellectual needs at 6 and 8yo, wanted labeled him as a "problem student". One bitch would punish him by refusing to let him eat lunch or got to the toilet then take videos of him fidgeting in class, telling me how naughty he was. Hungry kids who need to pee are going to fidget and be moody. Another cunt sla…
/r/MensRights08/01/21 06:24 AM
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Well, how will the polulation reduce if people actually like the idea of breeding and building a family together? Feed the masses to death? Just give everyone free contraception and let them all feast and fuck each other to death without children. It's good for the planet
/r/MensRights30/12/20 04:52 AM
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Cool. I'm following this to see if their are any rehabilitated abusers with new found perspectives and changed behaviours. (I'm interested because my abusive mother wears a mask to avoid detection and prosecution. People think she's rehabilitated after therapy ect, but she isn't. She just seeks revenge in covert ways so she can't get caught now.)
/r/MensRights13/12/20 05:28 AM
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Oh, didn't mean to lecture, I just meant to get to the point. Cool you're in therapy. Therapists basically say the same thing but in a fluffed up way: Learn what his "triggers" are and then don't trigger him - because he can/will not control himself once he is triggered into a rage. Learning the root cause of his triggers won't stop him being triggered, you'll just know why he is.
/r/MensRights13/12/20 05:18 AM
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I was raised by abusers, and married to an abuser my entire teen and adult life. They do not change. If you want a peaceful relationship with somone like this then you're going to have to shut your mouth and do as you're told, when you're told, how you're told, without questioning it. Smile and agree. When he's mad the only answer is "sorry I made you feel this way I won't do it again" He will not change his behaviour, so, if you're going to then stay your options are: Act the way he is training…
/r/MensRights13/12/20 04:44 AM
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What about men who lie about other men. My husband spent months trying to convince me he walked in on his friend (who we were practicing polyarmoury with) raping me in the ass while I was comatose on the bed. It was my husband who raped me like that. I know it was my husband because the first thing my husband did before saying anything to me / trying to frame his friend for this rape was wash the bed sheets. My husband NEVER washed the bed sheets so why wash them if he walked in on his friend ra…
/r/MensRights01/10/20 09:26 PM
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Breaking property because of your feelings is fragile regardless of gender. There are healthy, non-destructive, ways to express the darkest of your emotions. Becoming abusive is not OK for anyone.
/r/MensRights12/09/20 12:43 PM
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The best news. Good!
/r/MensRights10/09/20 08:20 AM
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Why would any sane person want to raise a human being with someone who preferred to kill the baby before it's even born? That's no good for anyone.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 12:14 AM
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Yeah, well, I guess people don't isolate, rape, and abuse their partners then come out as bisexual over a decade later so they can use their partner as bait to get their straight friends in the sack for thresomes, (encouraging the partner to fall in love so they would agree to it). then assault their sexualy their friend during a thresome then try to frame their friend for raping their partner then spend months faking hidden life long mental illnesses so they could say they accidentally killed t…
/r/MensRights29/07/20 02:10 AM
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Thank you. I am a mother, so of course I advocate for my sons and fight for their individual rights as human beings just as I do for my daughter.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 07:44 PM
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Thank you. The victim and I have only spoken of it a few times. The first time was a few days after it happened. He brought it up with me. I assured him it would never happen again, that I was horrified, and that I had fought with the now ex about it as he knew better. After this the victim made it clear that he would be supporting the ex. It was not easy letting go of the anger. After my ex sexualy assulted him in his failed attempt to sexualy humiliate him my ex then spent months trying to con…
/r/MensRights28/07/20 07:40 PM
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My (soon to be ex) husband sexualy assulted one of his male friends during a MFM threesome, that he (the ex) had invited him (the friend) to participate in, by forcing oral on him - after clear boundaries has already been set around no male on male sexual contact being made because his friend was straight - in an effort to sexualy humiliate said friend into submission like he (the ex) was use to doing to me. When I went to police about what the ex had been doing to me this friend made a false st…
/r/MensRights28/07/20 01:35 PM
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Meow. I participated. I answered people's questions because it's rude to ignore people. Perhaps it would have been more appropriate to make a separate thread to appease the curious minds here. I didn't think of this at the time, I just replied to comments as they came in. My intention was not to hijack or attention seek, I'm not really sure why you have come to this conclusion other than I got some attention that you feel I should not have got?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 01:08 PM
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Oh, what's been "out of line?" I thought this was a sub for women to connect with other, like minded, women who take pride in living by a set of ethical values. That's what brought me here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 12:55 PM
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Yeah I hear you, it's on the fringes of the, kink, fetish, and BDSM worlds. Definitely not for everyone - but it is worth everyone having at least a little knowledge about when screening for sexual compatability. I really feel for OP. It's an awful experience to discover your sexual partners type of deviancey is revolting to you. Better to have the knowledge and screen early on than find out later after after spending months or even years of your life with them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 12:42 PM
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I know. Its not normal that's for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 09:23 AM
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The only time I got annoyed with my (soon to be ex) husband for materbating was when he would leave his ejaculate all over the bathroom for me to clean up. The disrespect. He even did this at work then told his boss "someone" had left their "mucus" on the wall. There were staff meetings and official letters written to all staff about this anonymous ejaculater leaving their spunk on the bathroom wall at because of his complaint - when it was him the whole time. Psychopath.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 09:19 AM
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Define high value woman.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 08:47 AM
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There is a horrific side the sex artist industry. I stumbled apon "Abuse Porn" once. I should not have clicked that. Made me cry. Damaged human beings getting off on taking advantage of and inflicting harm on other damadged souls who looked as if they hated the experience / situation they're in. I don't like it. I hate cruelty. I don't like wondering if maybe they didn't consent to this. I'm curious, does it upset you if your husband materbates? Did he ask you to save yourself for him or was thi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 04:06 PM
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If I could explain to people how to do it I would. The best way to describe it is that when I'm well hydrated and super aroused (ovulating) it feels like there are multiple G spots inside my whole body. Like I can literally shift positions while sitting on the couch and have an orgasm from agitating these spots sometimes. I don't know if that's normal but I don't care if it's not. Feels good man. When I'm really in the mood to treat myself I can press areas on my abdomen and under my rib cage, (…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 09:12 AM
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Same :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 04:10 AM
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Exactly. It unethical, definitely a red flag 🚩
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 12:50 AM
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I touch myself whenever I want to because it's my vagina, and I like it. Pleasure is good for me. Lol. I spent some weeks home alone looking at most of the porn subreddits. I learned I don't really like porn because I'm demisexual. If the people involved are not utterly inlove then I'm not that interested. Watching people fake it is boring to me. Solo sex artists are hot 🔥 Toy play where one person, or people, are focused on one other person's pleasure is hot. But if they're faking it for the mo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 12:13 AM
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Yeah, I agree. I think this is because in spite of outward appearances or the padgentry we (in this case men) put on to suit social expectations our true (human) nature is revealed behind closed doors, particularly in the bedroom. This is seen as his"true self". He is not playing pretend in the bedroom, and nor should he because how awful for men who can not express who they truly are in an intimate setting as they're still expected to put on the show for their intimate partner/s in fear of repu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:53 PM
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I do not want to give exact details about another person's childhood over the Internet, because I don't think that would be ethical. All I can say is that his childhood was a living nightmare. He did not deserve it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:07 PM
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I think it's got something to do with social expectations and comfort. Men are expected to be powerful, strong, comfort providing entities. It was OK for males to seek comfort from their mother a boy, but as males get older this comfort seeking behaviour is shamed. They're expected to "Man up", so developing males stop seeking comfort even though they still need it. Grown men aren't allowed to show they need comfort. They have to pretend that seeking out comforting feminine energy is for sexual …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 10:02 PM
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Yep, sexual shame is the worst. Don't poke people there.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:31 PM
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The investigation is under review, I don't think it would be wise to detail here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:29 PM
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I have no legal right to keep a father from his children, nor would I. My kids saving grace is that they've been well educated on what abuse looks like and taught to regect any person inflicting abuse regardless of their relationship with them. They know they have every right to protect themselves, even from their own parents. They have held me to account on occasion (yelling of stupid things like the dishes not being done correctly, I do not hit them) and they are holding their father accountab…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:27 PM
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Yes, of course. I've put my poor decision making down to my programming, and being in love. Rather than looking at the abhorrent actions and walking away, I looked at why he was doing something and then feel sorry for him. I wanted to help him because he suffered enough. Also, if I'm unforgiving of his flaws then how could he forgive me of mine. But yeah nah, there were tons of red flags and things got worse over time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:02 PM
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I guess his group is of the non-typical variety then.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 08:48 PM
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He was an orphan when I met him. (Honestly his family and childhood was more fucked up than anything I've said here. His parents, his siblings, suspicious deaths.) Anyway, I was 15 when I met him. He was was barefoot and in ripped clothing, was without any good family or community support, and had already started drinking himself to death. He looked anorexic. I was warned by locals to stay away from his entire family when I moved into his town, but when I met him all I witnessed was a grieving k…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 08:46 PM
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Maybe, hence the warnings re: poking him in his sexual shame feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:56 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate your empathy. My life choices have not been stella!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:12 PM
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I agree, could be harmless. Might not be though. But regardless of the danger levels if op isn't comfortable with the mommy thing then she should feel free to walk. She's not obliged to explore this path with her B if she doesn't want to.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:01 PM
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The consequences of my own idiot life choices. I made a huge mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:55 AM
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No offence taken. I have been told it is typical of men who have mommy issues to have sinister desires toward women. Hence my concerns and warnings to op.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:54 AM
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A typical man with mommy issues. 🚩 🚩🚩 I would like to apologise for this comment. Its out of line and not even correct.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:44 AM
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I am. It was actually my children who demanded I kick him out. So I did. Good women do not pick men over their children. We were granted no contact parenting and protections orders. He was given 6 months to comply with the courts and have the orders lifted but he did not. During this time he segmented one of his side hoes and her child into his new family dynamic instead. (She has blond hair like our daughter and likes his daddy daughter fetish.) Our children are free to seek him out for supervi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:41 AM
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Yep. There would have been a nice life insurance pay out for him. A lot nicer, he thought, than paying child support. I have voice recordings and txt messaged of him admitting to raping my comatose corpse. Voice recordings of him telling me he will get away with murder by telling everyone he lost his mind, and is willing to spend a few years in prison. Voice recordings of him telling his mental health teams he raped me. Intimate recordings he took without my knowledge or consent. This is why the…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:14 AM
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That's because I did not describe any of the criminal acts he inflicted, above. I should have been more clear in my edit: Separate from the light BDSM I agreed to participate in, there were also acts I did not consent to - amounting to rape and domestic violence abuses. He also spent some months exicuting his plans to murder me. He thought he could fake a mental illness and get off on a few years temporary insanity or manslaughter by saying he accidentally killed me in a psychotic rage like the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:01 AM
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If it was the non-incestuous variety of kink I would not have held issue. If you're talking about OPs situation then only her boyfriend knows the answer to that. - But as someone pointed out again below, he's accidentally blurted it out while ejaculating then denied it in shame afterwards, so I'd say his is incestuous.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 08:29 AM
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Have you educated yourself in the world of BDSM or explored the shadows of human psychology and sexuality? Thanks to my (soon to be ex) husbands darker sexual desires, I have. It's not all TV commercial wholesome lovemaking and family building out there. It's DARK. Men with "mommy issues" are not as rare as you think. I'd say they're as common, if not more common, as women with "daddy issues" in this modern world of dismantled and/or abusive family units. The issues are there weather or not the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 07:35 AM
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Nah. Donald trump is runt who's posing as an alpha. Other runts let him get away with it because he has money and they want what they think he has. Alphas let him get away with it because Trump is no threat to them... Trump does not have access to what alphas have access to, and nor will he ever get access. The kind of women who would breed that man are mentally ill. Edit. Spelling.
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