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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness. | IamCayal | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:32 AM | |
| 5 | Monogamy vs. the rest | IamCayal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:17 AM | |
| 4 | Monogamy vs. the rest | IamCayal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:29 PM | |
| 1 | Acting/being non-needy can lead to worse outcomes? | IamCayal | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 03:42 PM | |
| 1 | Monogamy vs. the rest | IamCayal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:05 AM | |
| 1 | Monogamy vs. the rest. | IamCayal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:58 PM | |
| 1 | "The Book of Pook" and the "3% Men" both talk about letting the women speak for 70-80% of the time - wtf? | IamCayal | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 01:43 PM | |
| 0 | How to correctly handle unequal investment. | IamCayal | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:22 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Monogamy vs. the restZero-sum game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?If people are all so different, then you should be able to get the full human experience of a wide and diverse male friend group as well. What are you missing that those other girls might add? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?What exactly are you missing out on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?While having friends of both genders in a larger group setting can be enjoyable, there is little value in seeking one-on-one friendships with members of the opposite sex if you are in a committed and fulfilling relationship. Focusing on personal growth and development, as well as nurturing the bond with your partner, is more important in achieving long-term relationship goals and overall happiness. If you have an amazing girlfriend there shouldn't be a massive whole of female energy in your life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What does 'Hypergamy' mean to you?I just want to leave a comment and commend the quality of your comments/questions/posts! Do you have an academic background in a related field? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness.What about the athlete without IG? What about the top 5% of athletes without exceptional looks or without high social status etc.. But I got the point. Non-neediness via lived abundance. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness.Thanks. But what I am trying to get at is the following: even if you have high social status/are attractive/are an athlete. You still don't have a big pond of women (without working for it) who are always available (unless we are talking about the 1%-0.1%). | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness.Thanks! Abundance is internal. This is what I am struggling with. Can it really be internalized without living it? Women have this natural advantage that abundance just appears out of thin air for them. And as a dude if you don't actively invest energy you basically have no abundance. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:58 AM |
| 6 | The root of all unattractiveness is neediness; the root of all attractiveness is non-neediness.The root of attractiveness is not non-neediness. Speaking of character traits, this seems to be the only relevant determinant. If you made the decision to be exclusive and don't even think about talking to girls, your subconscious knows that she's the only one. You won't ever consider meeting new women with that mindset. That is what I am wondering about. Women are naturally non-needy because beautiful women achieve abundance in everyday life via existing. As a man, do you always have to invest … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | How do guys go about accepting the idea that there are a lot more girls out there?Great comment. Still, if you don't want to put much effort into dating/cold approaching it would be great to internalize this mindset even if you are only dating one girl at a time (my case right now). I am not really that interested to date other girls right now and rather spend my time with friends, hobbies, sport, and making money. But maybe this abundance mentality really can only be internalized when it corresponds to lived experience. Because I have to consciously fight flareups of needine… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 11:59 PM |
| 8 | How did you find out about TRP community?Tomassi has fundamentally misunderstood what vulnerability means and equates it with basically being a beta bitch who is not able to shoulder his burden. He argues that you can never share any intimate details with women and always wear a facade wtf. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 46 | If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion?The view in TRP is obviously heavily skewed but the world is full of long-lasting happy relationships and all returns in life whether in wealth, relationships, or knowledge, come from compound interest. When you invest in relationships through genuine care for someone else, that relationship will benefit you in more ways than one. The tools here allow you to set the correct boundary conditions for those relationships. Open relationship? Monogamous relationship? Don't be fooled into thinking that… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 09:25 PM |
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