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IamJacksFailedRep/r/askMRP22/09/23 09:41 AM
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How does that work? I thought surrogate is same egg and sperm different uterus. Don't tell me guys are being literally cucked via donor sperm
/r/askMRP07/05/24 09:35 AM
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I would say then start going to fucking interesting places man. But I realised you'd just make it into a covert contract again. If you turned it off would you just sit in the basement alone? Build an exciting life where you meet exciting people men and women, by yourself. Where things could happen even with a fucking tracker on you.
/r/askMRP15/12/23 07:11 PM
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Doesn't look like you have you gone through the sidebar.. right? You say mix of alpha and beta but clearly she doesn't seem to be missing you (alpha = dopamine) at all. You say sex is available but she is not. Doesn't add up, unless you're getting some lame duty sex. You say (especially when I have the feelz) what the fuck does this mean? If it means what I assume, then you have a bunch of covert contracts going on. ​ As the other guy said what do you want? Apart from that go through the sidebar…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 12:11 PM
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Go through MRP side bar and after each chapter you read take notes. Then watch equivalent chapter on Rian Stones youtube of sidebar playlist. Got to fix your mental models if you have money and fitness already down should be easy to get plates.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 03:25 PM
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> I am currently aprox 20% - 21% BF weighing in at 185lbs. >Step 1 (now until 25 January): Cut to 175lbs / 10% BF. Math?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/23 12:46 PM
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np, post your results on OYS
/r/askMRP09/11/23 06:17 PM
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There are no cheat codes or 'right activities to do together'. You know deep down what you want if you take the time to look inwards. You know what activities you both enjoy. If you are doing an activity then talk about the activity. Otherwise if at home, why are you afraid of leading the conversation to whatever you want to talk about? Flirt, have fun, smile and tell her "stop talking about work" then slap her ass, do what you like even if it's talking about the weather or your next trip you bo…
/r/askMRP09/11/23 04:38 PM
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What do you want it to look like? ​ Like most faggots here, I've spun plates and had some girls be obsessive and/or hypersexual, with a never ending desire to suck and fuck until its exhausting. Craving your attention, bringing gifts, saying I can do anything I want to her, her being creative with her actions. As her 'desire' rises so does her neediness and expectations of attention, bright candles burn fast. In a live in LTR can you sustain that? I don't know, I am sure her fantasy obsessive id…
/r/askMRP09/11/23 12:44 PM
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>One of the issues is our evening conversations. She can't talk much with your dick in her mouth. Or more sustainably, lead her to do an activity you like or that makes her STFU. Figure out what your ideal evenings look like, she is not going to lead you there, you are.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 11:12 AM
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For me and the way I want my life to run - comfort is not useless - I want a functional woman not one in tears and panic for an hour every other meetup. If you are personally a low comfort / low emotion guy like me, then the pedal has use. Every girl will have some baseline need for comfort and emotional commitment and attention. Without that baseline being met you'll get drama, tears and comfort tests like crazy. Maybe living with her would have reduced that, maybe it would have increased her e…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 01:40 PM
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>What does this mean? I think you're basing your argument on your experiences with plates. Conflating 0 beta actions and upping alpha to crazy levels inside live-in relationships isn't fair as they couldn't go missing for weeks or months, in a soft next manner it's just not possible or practical. Many MRP dudes have to lead kids or have family and friends tied to their live in partner. You're right in principle that almost all new MRP dudes are boring, soft and predictable and have no rough edge…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 10:58 AM
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You had a bunch of plates. I did similar over the last 3 years and got things from "I love you" / "What do you think about getting married?" / "You know if I was to have a kid even if we weren't together I'd like it to be with you" - all 3 from different girls all knew I wasn't committed to them alone. They will all break eventually, the longest I had was 2 years, the day she told me she was in love with me and felt she could never have me, she gave me a bunch of gifts and said she can't see me …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/23 09:29 AM
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For 1. Certainly, the goal is to stay within the law as best as possible, I would consult with a legal expert in my jurisdiction before the marriage (common law or otherwise) began. Indeed 4. I am not American, and AFAIK most countries require both people to be living there at some lengthy point (for example 6 months minimum cohabitating with proof) to initiate a divorce in that countries jurisdiction. Yep 5. but common law is a thing in most countries and reality is I will most likely want chil…
/r/askMRP22/09/23 04:22 PM
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That's interesting to note you used all those legally and as a result will have a cheap exit. I was missing your key point of the disclosure period, thank you. Having checked briefly it seems to be 6 months in my jurisdiction so I assume (and would get a lawyer to confirm pre marriage / common law) that if I sorted my assets 6 months prior to the exit it would be fine. I wouldn't be flashing my overseas cash, assets, or numbers to the partner in the first place. My post also missed the things yo…
/r/askMRP22/09/23 04:09 PM
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you have no frame
/r/askMRP31/08/23 08:37 AM
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godspeed
/r/askMRP28/08/23 06:59 PM
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go through rians youtube sidebar series, read the books too dont be lazy cunt or you won't get any value
/r/askMRP27/08/23 01:51 PM
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How much time do you have for friends? A job and an education and 3x a week in the gym (good luck getting me to go out and socialise after a hard deadlift day) ​ >I have 1 or 2 dudes which I talk to once in a while. They are nice, it's good to talk with them. If you want these 2 dudes to become better friends - then - when was the last time YOU took the lead and organised an interaction with them? Acquaintances = people you do 1 thing with, college/work/single hobby 'friends' = people you do 2 t…
/r/askMRP17/08/23 10:07 AM
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wtf go through the marriedredpill sidebar man with each chapter of NMMNG / WISNIFG you read, take notes, then watch Rian Stones youtube videos of each chapter and revise your notes. Keep going
/r/askMRP17/08/23 08:56 AM
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godspeed bro definitely saved me a bunch of time at minimum but I think a lot of positive feedback loops as I used to do that shit in the morning
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 08:12 PM
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Shit test - you're drying her pussy up with lame madonna/whore complex issues. See the book PFP on that. Girls being girls, pushing your buttons, ball is in your court so get it together.
/r/askMRP13/08/23 08:33 AM
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>I feel like I'm making progress despite using porn a few times. It's like every time I fail at that I see it in a new and more disgusting light - it's a cope, and I'm an addict, and that's not the kind of man I'd respect, much less expect respect for from others. I also noticed I only use porn and 'fuck up' in other ways when I have any alcohol Try reading The Easy Peasy method to give up porn, worked for me in June, still wank occasionally but way less and its actually enjoyable instead of tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 06:04 PM
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Do what UEMcGill says Then hit the sidebar once kids are sorted. Hit the gym / exercise in some way or walk when you feel anxious or whatever the fuck.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 01:44 PM
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>Currently reading NMMNIG and Sex Primer. First time? Then you've a long way to go. As you read the sidebar, take notes (don't tell your woman you're reading this shit as some books suggest) go through each chapter , once chapter is done watch Rian Stone's youtube series on the book 's chapter and continue through the sidebar that way.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 10:51 AM
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Think about it harder. ​ She decides to not give you value. Whether its sexual rejection, generally being miserly or whatever else you don't enjoy. Then, you are withdrawing your value that you are (probably unconditionally right now) giving to her, attention, affection. Instead of being in orbit of her frame, do your own shit and enjoy life doing what you want. You have it backwards, as you are thinking that withdrawing your attention is a magic bullet that will get you laid when she misses you…
/r/askMRP11/07/23 08:59 AM
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She likely didn't cheat, but won't be surprised if she will once the NRE (new relationship energy/excitement) wears off -if you continue being this insecure and boring.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 02:53 PM
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Continue this thread You don't live with her, just soft next. 'Careful' 'don't talk about her doing anything bad' come on man, you're walking on eggshells for her emotions. Fuck that, she's a new girlfriend and has no anxiety of losing you. You say you don't mind if it ends, and you also say you don't want to fuck anyone else -> then soft next and she will decide if she wants to change or not.
/r/askMRP08/07/23 03:48 PM
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sidebar? and while reading it go through Rian Stone's youtube playlist version of it. Assuming you don't live with her? So what do you actually do when you get rejected? Doesn't sound like you remove your attention, soft next or anything similar. IE She does not have any indication that she is behaving bad or losing you
/r/askMRP07/07/23 06:39 PM
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Good news she. She even she bc she - wow. Are you interesting? It doesn't sound like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 09:43 AM
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