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| 1 | I lived my life alone so far. Now I want to make friends. How to ESCALATE interaction to a friendship? I don't know how to act like a friend.Fun: experience is the best teacher. Get out at least 4 nights a week. How exactly? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/16 10:13 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend and I just broke up with because I said that lewd comments don't equal sexual harassmentwhy they work like that? simple logic is too hard? i observed this from my mom and relatives as well | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 11:01 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend and I just broke up with because I said that lewd comments don't equal sexual harassmenthigh five | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How to do this? "poke fun at her in a friendly way (not negging, don't bring her down - bring her up (without putting her on a pedestral))."Ok if you know how to do it then why not give an example? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How to do this? "poke fun at her in a friendly way (not negging, don't bring her down - bring her up (without putting her on a pedestral))."The main reason I'm asking this question is to have an idea how to poke fun at them without upsetting them. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in hookups, more of LTR type of guy, but where do you meet these types of women?If I access to women who are accostumed to the old school rules, should I consider myself lucky? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | I lived my life alone so far. Now I want to make friends. How to ESCALATE interaction to a friendship? I don't know how to act like a friend.I'm 25. Thanks I will use these. Do what you wanna do and just do it. The more stuff you just say or do the better. Can you elaborate? I just need to be myself? I'm not sure who I am. I mean I don't have a regular patterns of behaviour. I just think of doing or saying things on the spot. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/16 10:57 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Could have lost virginity, chose not to. Think I made the right choice, what are your thoughts?hahaha wtf | /r/askTRP | 04/10/16 08:32 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?Ok now I see. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?And theres nothing they can do. They can work hard and get what they actually deserve from life, like we do. Right? What am I missing? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?Oh you mean in relevance to the other gender. If you don't count partner/sex/relationships in, I still don't see why women are in a bad place. You get wiser, more confident, you build your career and hobbies, your social circle, everything builds on your character. Women who age can do that too, can't they? The only thing they can't get when they age is a better partner. If women accept what we had to accept (man are not entitled to nothing) and if they work like man we work, they can get whatev… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What drinks that are not addictive?Point taken. I will read this again. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Made the mistake of staying friends with a girl.Chicks understand social interaction instinctively Can you elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What drinks that are not addictive?Do you know any non-alcoholic beverages I can order? My purpose is to drink something while others are drinking stuff so I would fit in. I personally don't really care what anyone think of what I drink or not. But my goal is to improve myself AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE in terms of social skills, friends, dates etc. Hence, the quesion. I live in a suburban city. Uni campus is a ghost town after 5pm. I think people go to bars to shoot the shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 08:26 AM |
| 1 | What drinks that are not addictive?Purpose is to drink something while others are drinking stuff so I would fit in. I personally don't really care what anyone think of what I drink or not. But my goal is to improve myself AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE in terms of social skills, friends, dates etc. Hence, the quesion. I live in a suburban city. Uni campus is a ghost town after 5pm. I think people go to bars to shoot the shit. mocktail Is this beta? Would I be ridiculed? As I said, I don't give a fuck but I want to maximize my improvement. t… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 08:25 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?Lifes not fair and thats good thing. If life was fair it means everyone would be given their bread and water and thats fucking it. But life is unfair, so you can work harder and get more. You can make life work in your favour. I fucking love this. This is a view I can make mine. And eventually they are just some 40 year old no one really wants, probably living an empty life in a loveless marriage. That is the default case for men. I'm like that from the age of 18 to until I die. Isn't it? If wom… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?same caliber of man Can you elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:38 PM |
| 2 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?Should I ask how you start beliving that you are entitled and how you stopped to think about every process that went through your mind? OR should I just do those things? Are these one of those things that you just do it? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over my oneitis for dead girlfriend.Can I ask you something via PM? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How can I avoid 'beta backsliding' in long term relationships?OP, I understand why you avoided my question but I'm curious, did you reach any sort of conclusion or semi conclusion or findings? I sometimes can’t help but crave affection from women that I’m in a serious relationship with. I truly don’t understand how many of you are able to do without. I'm probably a more emotional version of you. That is why I am asking. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How can I avoid 'beta backsliding' in long term relationships?This was very valuable. Thank you. You summarised the bigger picture in a way that I can understand. practice emotional detachment perceive the relationship as only one aspect of your life (I realize this is for my own good when things go south) Do these need to be authentic and real within me? Or is it enough if I fake it? I'm not sure if it is possible to fake it. By faking I mean these: I will be like an alpha even though I really like her and I feel invested in her. I will have a set of fake… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 08:02 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?something we all know here Actually this is the first time I'm really starting to understand the idea. And I kindof don't want to believe/accept it. I got 3 questions. Is this really how it is? Does life really suck that much? So I need to accept and internalize the whole thing I wrote here, if I want to be a man? If better is at reach distance, why would I stay at "good enough"? I think the same but in practice i am lazy. I'm getting my hormones tested, maybe its relevant. then you could be tip… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you do besides sex? In the grand scheme of things, sex seems mostly pointless, meaningless, not fulfilling.Ok but you can't have sex 16 hours a day. It is a basic need like eating or shitting. I should have worded my quesiton better | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?but doesn't it hurt in reality? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?when i'm down, i just deal with it by distracting myself and eventually forgetting the problem. how does a friend matter in this case? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?how | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?This is a bit of an eye opener for me. How did you make those friends? I want to model you. If I have no friends now, how can I make them? I moved to a new place as my username says. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?I cannot be satisfied living life as it is now, to be honest I don't think I'll ever be satisfied. Why not be content with what you have? Regardless of how I feel, what I eat or what I wear, I've been usually content. Honestly I don't know what to say to you, our ways of seeing things are so far away from each other that I simply can't understand you at all. I was spoon fed. And then I was in the right place at the right time and made some money. So I never associated "not hustling" with "not ha… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over my oneitis for dead girlfriend.The key is to structure your inner world so that no woman is ever a significant fraction. In short fill your life with fullfilment outside of women. A decent balance is 40% career 20% fitness health nutrition 10% hobbies 15% friends 15 % women. Then only 15 % of your life can suck if you don't find a replacement. Where can I read more about this? Mid 20 virgin here. This is what I want the most in my life: I want to know that I actually am able to have a girlfriend or a plate. I want to actually… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:48 AM |
| 1 | "Man are not entitled to anything" How can I accept this?Thanks for the motivating answer. I am already doing most of the things you adviced, while not being so motivated. I think my problem is my brain. I don't like how the world seem to work. I want to reject how it works. I want to be free from the limitations that are imposed on me. I'm giving fuck you to the world with my whole self by not being part of it. It is childish but I am stubborn for some reason. How can I fix my brain? After what I've been learning from going out in the last few days a… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?I'm talking about friendship though? Are you too?? If yes, then it is based on a lie. ? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?http://quotes-ezine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/A-friend-is-gift-you-give-yourself..png | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?I noticed lol but don't remember your account. I also edited my post. Do your friends know your fapping habits? Do you know how much you make? If you were to make x2-x3 of them, would you tell them? If you have a weird life, how do you be truly yourself around people? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you like your friends? Why have friends?How much do you share with them? Your life, your future, your kids' future, your career, your social life and many things are being shaped by your those 2 friends. What do you feel about that? That scares me. Can you live life without having real friends? In my whole life, I never looked as I was. I was never the person I looked like. I don't have a typical average-like life. How I make/made money is an extreme case. How much I fapped in my past is an extreme case. How many friends I have is an … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 07:35 AM |
| 3 | 26 girl without social media = huge red flag?lower level human concerns wtf is that mean | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 06:17 AM |
| 0 | How can I avoid 'beta backsliding' in long term relationships?How can I love a girl like a mofo and still display alpha behaviour? How can I make her show me feminine affection as much as possible while I continue to be her rock? In theory it seems possible. In practice I have no clue. Can you enlighten those who are like me? What are the issues regarding the problem OP mentions? Why would what I'm writing in this comment be possible or not? By love I mean, major emotional attachment. Aside from sex, lots of regular cuddling, staring to her eyes, savoring … | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How can I avoid 'beta backsliding' in long term relationships?It is funny. I was thinking about a similar thing just now before seeing your post. How do you display your crave or falling for a girl? How do you display your affection seeking? I'm genuinely curious. I think it is normal to crave for feminine affection. If you are her rock, then she is your little trusting vulnerable cute adorable pet or someting like that. Everyone wants to get attention from their pets. Enjoy their affection but don't be afraid to lose it and don't value it too much. Also I… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/16 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I feel great! How do I stop valuing myself based on how others treat me?That you did achieve things and you know your value and what you're able to do, that most people haven't done what you've done. Ok I'll focus on remembering this everyday. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to wake up to a pool of you know what. Any solutions?get hard spontaneously in other situations what do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 03:45 PM |
| 4 | I don't want to wake up to a pool of you know what. Any solutions?how did you | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I feel great! How do I stop valuing myself based on how others treat me?This gives you solid ground for your self love and confidence. Just curious. Is this what you learn by reading or by experiencing it in your life? Create confidence and self worth and value based on concrete achievement and skills you have I should give myself more credit for my achievements in past. But what's the conclusion coming from my past achievements? "I am capable of doing this and that?" It doesn't make feel more confident. Any ideas? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 03:41 PM |
| 3 | I feel great! How do I stop valuing myself based on how others treat me?Comparing yourself to others can be helpful, but make sure you also compare yourself to where you were a year ago. This way you can accurately judge your own progress and be proud of your accomplishments. Remembering this 3 times a day with a clear mind should be my next step. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm in a startup. Cofounder is a lazy beta. Eject?why the fuck are you here? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How does this even happen?OP, can you give an update if you try u/basebool 's suggestion? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What are the best gems you've learned since you've been on TRP?internal value let's you buy external value more frequently. elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 06:22 AM |
| 0 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.Well you can try yourself | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Should you fap or not?ok point taken | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone in here realize that they have the best sex with "dirty" girls that aren't conventionally attractive?black girls ass seem aesthetically worse than others. like balloons. how is it in real life, in bed, or when you are playing with the ass? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone in here realize that they have the best sex with "dirty" girls that aren't conventionally attractive?best pussy how? only tighter? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 07:10 AM |
| 2 | My current level is: "Practice. Practice. Practice." Should I befriend women who are not gonna have sex with me?I don't care. My goal is to practice right now. So as long as I'm increasing the intimacy or friendliness and I'm leveling up, I should keep doing what I'm doing? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone in here realize that they have the best sex with "dirty" girls that aren't conventionally attractive?Asians because nothing like banging out a 5' 95lb tight little Korean Seriously? Why? They usually don't have ass let alone boobs. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.Well I don't let myself cum all in once. I let myself cum 20% of what I have every time I want to cum. Since I have more inventory to be relased I can last longer. Up to 2 hours. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 05:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.Can women sense I am thirsty if I look perfectly comfortable with talking to them? I don't know if I'm actually perfectly comfortable but I think I'm pretty close. Just curious | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 04:42 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.So I am actually doing it right. I only need to talk to more women. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.I tried not fapping in past. I didn't fap for one year. You are correct, libido drops. But. I used to cum when I was sleeping. And that sucks. I don't want to deal with laundry and the surprise of finding myself with a pool of cum on my clothes and bed when I wake up. Happened twice a week. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop seeing women as sexual things? I want to stop being so thirsty.I fap because I have to. I tried not fapping in past. I didn't fap for one year. I used to cum when I was sleeping. And that sucks. I don't want to deal with laundry and the surprise of finding myself with a pool of cum on my clothes and bed when I wake up. Happens twice a week if I don't fap. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I break out of "learned helplessness"?What product are you using? Is it on amazon? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Is this a good conversation?I'm not mentioning that but I always have that in mind even if I don't want to. Thanks for the input! I will use it in the morning | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/53rveb/is_this_a_good_conversation/d7vs3ar | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?i never talked to girls. no girl ever showed me any romantic interest. i don't know why. it could be because i am ugly or something. or it could be because i don't let it (distant, serious, politic). i never actually tried to make friends in a long time. making guy friends isn't really interesting to me. but making girl friends is interesting to me because i like being around them. as soon as i observe that i am able to hang out with girls, i will start approaching girls in a direct way and esca… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?My objective is to not get sex before I get blue balls | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?normal sex > blue balls > my case | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Is this a good conversation?In second thought, I should rephrase hot to decent and I am not sure about the occasion for appraoch. Maybe I should try direct approach? "approaching to random chicks or stopping them hi, i am ___. i was gonna see if we could be friends or something? i don't really know anybody here, i just moved here. if she says no, move on. if she says yes, here i'll take down your number. if she asks something, conversation. if i only get weird look, this is actually my first week of using english in daily … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?nope | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good conversation?I think getting blue balls is not a bad thing for me at this point. Once I get the blue balls, I can move on to the next | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 07:13 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to meet new people? -- New in town. No friends. Not smooth. No sports.I kinda did that but didn't really work. Tinder doesn't show anyone for me, maybe because change of countries. So I used OKC and Badoo. Do you know of a profile I can model/copy? May I see yours if you don't mind being non-anon? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to meet new people? -- New in town. No friends. Not smooth. No sports.I use Tinder to find friends when I moved How?? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to meet new people? -- New in town. No friends. Not smooth. No sports.you leading? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:03 AM |
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