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| 1 | how do you answer the "soo what are you looking for?" | Conversation | IamVUSE | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 02:40 AM |
| 0 | recommended spots in south beach? | Logistics | IamVUSE | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 12:08 PM |
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| 1 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?Got a girl these days and her insecurities are starting to come out for what I think is exactly this. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 6 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?I'm 31 and just got my first girlfriend (been together about 3 months now.) I've slept with close to 100 women and never had an issue getting laid. I had dry spells of course but some summers in my mid 20s I'd sleep with a new girl every week. I had a few girls I struck out with due to inexperience and stupidity and the others I just wasn't interested in doing more with. Now being with this girl is fun but it's very weird to have to turn off that "hunting" mentality that I'm used to. Being singl… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studioSo the mom is trying to set him OP up with the daughter? Or is he trying to bang the mom? | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)31m and have been on probably 200-300 dates from bumble/hinge/tinder in the last 10 years. i would agree with your overall findings. it's extremely tough with online. you need to get lucky and pull a chick either through friends / somewhere social / a hobby. its incredibly tough to get anything higher than 8s from online dating. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badAs they've gotten older they're usually not down for fuck on the first night I found. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 12:21 PM |
| 11 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badThe only difference I noticed as a guy in his early 30s now is how much easier it was to get laid on the first night in my early-mid 20s. My success rate was unreal at fucking on the first date. I lived the primetime of Tinder/Bumble which IMO was 2016ish, give or take a couple years. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themI've been going to mine and have done maybe 3-4 approaches in 3 years. Usually I've gone direct and tried to get their #, which worked once but nothing happened. The others said they had a bf, which is possibly a lie. I was thinking about going a little less direct and maybe asking for an IG, or ask them out on a second / third attempt. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 02:15 PM |
| – | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashI thought that was just for gay guys? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Had (drunk) sex for the second time of my life with a milf and feeling a bit down about itWatching too much porn will kill your boner, I find. I try to only jerk off a couple times a week. I find my erections are much stronger then. If you whack off every day and get wasted... it'll be tough to perform. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Practicing Fundamentals (at the Gym)I enjoyed your post. Fuck the haters. As a guy going a bit harder in the gym plus minimizing booze, I feel you. The shitty thing about my gym is that there's not many women. I think about going to the other locations but I just can't.. the sauna is unreal. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 02:35 AM |
| – | What’s up with UK tinder?Out of 400 matches you've only met 2? That seems extremely low. For me it feels like I can meet 1 in 10 if I really try. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 12:01 PM |
| 114 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Haha, I laughed at #3. I'm in my early 30s and the amount of time I took a girl home from the bar (that I met there that night) is in the single digits. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 10:37 PM |
| 71 | If a girl is giving me a BJ, should I cum or is that giving her validationthis has to be a joke, right? | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | And I being targeted for a “provider”?i'm with you. what is the point of this post? in another comment he says women buy him little gifts.. sometimes I wonder how many of the posts on this sub are total bs? | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 12:16 PM |
| 6 | I have a stunning inability to get the women I want on dating apps - no idea if its race or height but something is up in TorontoCan confirm. Toronto is a tough scene. I'm 31 now and it's not difficult for me on the apps but quality is very tough to find, ESPECIALLY on the app. Some of my friends use Hinge and say its better but when I was on hinge I didn't see much difference. For me Tinder really fell off a lot and is full of bots. 2014-17 was the heyday of Tinder for me and man, I miss those days. The more attractive ones you'll get a "Hey" and never get a response back. I've learned to not take it personal. They proba… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Where to look for high income women?I'm in IT and I feel you. Half my company is Indians. Wish I worked somewhere like marketing, PR or a law firm / hospital. I'm in Toronto and I'm having trouble finding quality to be honest. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 11:51 AM |
| 48 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?this is the most psycho post i've read on here. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 10:24 PM |
| 7 | Dating 7’s and 8’s vs 9’s and 10’stotally. its a number of factors. sometimes they just happen to choose you. my goal is to elevate myself as much as i can in my career and life. hopefully that will attract the right quality of women. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Dating 7’s and 8’s vs 9’s and 10’stotally. i think it's a lot of factors. i'm approaching 32 now. making some decent money. just trying to become my best self and branch out and hopefully meet someone compatible for the long term. hopefully women will realize that and start to seek me out. lol. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 16 | Dating 7’s and 8’s vs 9’s and 10’ssame as OP.. never gotten with the real head turner, gorgeous types. i did miss some opportunities with some 9s/10s when i was younger due to inexperience and i had a weed / alcohol problem, i was a party guy, lost in the sauce, always typecast as a player. been told i'm one of the best looking guys around and i happen to be 6'3. the natural looks / charm that i have made it a lot easier with most of them. i wouldn't consider myself to have really good "game." some guys just have the personality… | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Humbledthat's insane. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 12:10 PM |
| 4 | "Handsome man's game"They say the lifetime average is about 10 partners and that it's actually dropping. The guys with over 100 are outliers and quite rare. Most guys just don't have the mentality to pursue women like that. In the sauna at my gym one guy said he's been on a 4 year dry spell. Another friend over a year. And these are all normal guys. Guys who should be getting laid. It's crazy. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches but women ghost on dating appsMost likely just the dating app themselves. 50% of them you won't not go past 1-2 messages no matter what you do. You can ask the most creative and thought provoking questions but it won't matter much at times. Overall I try not to take the apps too seriously. I have fun on it and whenever I feel like I really need to get laid, I usually can within a couple of weeks. A lot of these girls can have notifications turned off, be busy, or just be talking to someone they like more than you and you fal… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 11:14 PM |
| 6 | "Handsome man's game"you live and you learn OP. don't beat yourself up too hard about it. just like you, i'm 6'3 and one of the better looking guys around. i am 31 now but i blew it with with a few PURE hotties because of my super needy style. i just didn't know how to play it cool and stay patient. this was in my early-mid 20s and i chalk it up as life experience. i just didn't know any better at the time. was smoking weed daily and had no real direction. i'm glad it didn't work out with any of them to be honest be… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | "Handsome man's game"which is quite messed up. i am 31 now but i blew it with about 5 PURE hotties because of my super needy style. i just didn't know how to play it cool and stay patient. this was in my early-mid 20s and i chalk it up as life experience. i just didn't know any better at the time. you live and you learn OP. don't beat yourself up too hard about it. just like you, i'm a smooth talking, 6'3, and one of the better looking guys around. i think at a certain point it can even scare some women off to be ho… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | I finally stopped pedestalizing models after learning the truth.similar to bottle service girls i'd say. worked at a club part time and they were incredibly self absorbed, not that it was surprising. but you could see how empty and hollow most of them were. they're used to being worshipped 24/7. | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 07:13 PM |
| 11 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?You guys are not alone.. I'm in the same boat. I know that if I really want to get laid I can find something new in a week. | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?I'm in the 80s now.. would have traded it all for the one that got away. It's fucked me up in the sense that I'm ok with being alone (30 and never had a gf) and I know if I really try I can get laid within a week. I think I may be a commitment phobe. | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 02:19 AM |
| 7 | I’ve (27M) got 5 dates booked this week, but I suck balls at escalation. Any tips or advice?the vast majority, like 99% eh | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | got a job at a club on the weekendshaha, good one. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex on first date?i always try to but as i get older they're usually not as down for the first date hookup. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 132 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”i think this is a humble brag disguised as a post | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 10 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...Tinders peak was like 15-16' for me. Now I'm more on hinge and bumble. I agree with OP, hinge is definitely more for relationships but you can get hookups from both here and there. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessI'm 29 and I have to say.. Tinder - completely dead. The heyday of tinder was like 2015 for me. Bumble and Hinge it's a steady stream of matches but half don't respond or don't go past 1-2 exchanges. It's just the way it is. If you can get some girls off the app its a bonus. Quality women are hard to find, especially on the apps. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:22 PM |
| – | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?the bars you need to have accommodation close by usually - then it can be quite easy. i've done it a handful of times over the years but it's pretty rare honesty. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 01:55 PM |
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