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Inner Game IamWisdom/r/seduction04/07/24 01:02 PM
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LogisticsIamWisdom/r/seduction10/12/20 07:42 PM
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6

She doesn't want to give you the wrong idea. You should know better than to ask that
/r/seduction22/07/26 10:50 PM
3

Same
/r/seduction19/07/26 10:00 AM
1

I found that my positive attitude beat my buddies who had previously been more attractive. Multiple examples of it.
/r/seduction28/06/26 06:30 AM
-11

I agree. Women are the worst
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:40 AM
4

Women are all like this. Their emotions will switch and they'll dislike you for one little thing thats inconvenient for them and they'll take off. Thats how they are. You shouldn't even be suprised if you've been doing game long enough.
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:39 AM
3

With 2 kids you couldn't snap ur fingers and have a good quality man, I'm sorry thats nkt how thay works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:31 AM
9

Lmao hilarious response. Was thinking the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:59 AM
1

Yea this is not true at all. If you're not attractive then yes. If you're attractive we will definitely stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:16 PM
0

Is it mostly looks for women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:06 AM
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1000% this is true. They run away super easily and without hesitation early on, and will leave you later on if things aren't going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:31 AM
5

Sure but just be accepted in a social situation and you'll be good
/r/seduction29/11/25 11:53 PM
1

So what do you suggest i do? Back in the day I was a total fuckboy and said and did whatever I wanted and women loved it but I also cheated on them and treated them badly but had more success. Should I go back to my old ways? 🤣🤣 its just so stupid how things are this way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:58 PM
2

No, I don't think thats it at all. I think women have these weird expectations where we have to be their personal comedian or entertainer on the dates and thats frankly not why I am dating. Ill end up sleeping with them a few times and then theyll get bored. Am I expected to be their entertainer for them to want to stay with me? I think its bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:55 PM
1

Yea look at my profile picture. I get tons of attention amd matches on dating apps. And plenty of women tell me verbally thag im super handsome. I would be concerned if I wasnt getting any matches but im getting plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:53 PM
1

In my late 30s, all my ex gfs were obsessed with the sex. You develop good sexual chemistry over time when you fall in love. I don't think thats why. If women are just looking for good sex right off the bat than I should just give up now. I think its what I told you. Their expectations for how you behave and charm them are very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:17 AM
8

Women are def different than men. Im super handsome and im having trouble getting women to commit. They get bored super easily. And their expectations for how the men they date should behave and charm them are based on movies and are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:13 AM
1

I agree. At the basketball courts last night in boston I had to call Boston PD because a kid threatened to shoot me during a game and another kid asked where his knife was after the game ended. It was truly scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:20 PM
4

It depends on the girl, but for the most part, women notice the brand just like men do and make assumptions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:48 PM
4

Yea desperate men believe that. If you can find some dude to do that all the power to ya. I wouldn't bank on it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:03 AM
2

Rely on some dude that you just barely met?? How is that his responsibility? Thats insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:44 AM
3

You can easily do that, just dont expect him to start taking care of you immediately. Not how dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:55 PM
4

Lol
/r/seduction26/06/25 05:16 AM
5

Cut your beard they hate them
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:32 AM
17

They say that when they think you'd be a good long term guy. But when they realize you've got flaws that make you undateable, they'll fuck you because they no longer need you to think theyre a "good girl". Lol
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:15 PM
2

Don't bro what? Lmao
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:33 PM
4

Nobody cares
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:41 AM
0

Yea cool, but i still go on dates and give a stellar performance and they more often than not dont want a second date. Even my friend who is basically a male supermodel has girls ghosting him and flaking on him now. Its getting worse and worse and I just dont know how. Im super good looking too. Can't imagine average to ugly dudes. I feel for them.
/r/seduction23/05/25 04:02 AM
1

I've noticed a very strong correlation with the level of physical attraction a girl has to her ability to stay interested and loyal to a man long term. It sucks but it's the reality of the situation. Social media and dating apps is the cause of this i believe.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:32 PM
0

Not really. You have to be massively funny and the coolest guy on earth or it is just not gonna happen. Im an 8 or 9 and I still struggle getting girls to stay interested. Women are just impossible. The hotter they are the more options they have and the more secure they are with just not caring about men no matter how hot the guy is.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:13 PM
3

Bro, if you've dated and hooked up enough you would know that girls absolutely cannot form a legit connection for a long term partner if you fuck on the first date. Do not hook up with girls you would want to be with on the first or second date even. If you act needy after sex they get the ick immediately, and if you text them the next day or a couple days after, they think you'll be needy foe their pussy and they hate it. They also lose respect for themselves and you and associate hanging out w…
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:02 PM
1

Lmaooo
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:44 AM
1

Also, use soap right after. It binds to the membrane of the virus and neaturalizes it immediately.
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:43 AM
1

I fucked a girl with herpes last week who told me beforehand. You can only really get it if they have a flair up. 70% of people don't even know they have it though. You have like a 5% chance over the course of a year of having sex with someone with herpes if they don't have a flair up.
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:42 AM
2

Yea, you can tell him and if he likes you then he won't care and just will have fun with you.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:25 AM
0

No. On dating apps they do. But I still have to be the one to plan. In public at night they sometimes do, but otherwise, they're either too cowardly or too spoiled to the point where you are expected to be the one to face a possible rejection so that they can avoid bruising thwir own egos. Plus, they're just lazy and physical attraction doesn't usually get them wet like a man's physical attraction to a woman can just immediately get is going. You have to get inside their mind to get them sexuall…
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:53 PM
1

I'm mirin myself. Not trying to show off for people on the internet.
/r/seduction17/04/25 03:26 PM
2

So goofy
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:43 PM
1

A youtuber talks about this how pretty women pull away a lot more and hot and cold and you have to jist play the game better. Be detached and don't text for days and let her think you're moved on amd don't need her
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:38 PM
1

Bro you didn't even meet her in person lamooo plus, a girl wants a man that doesn't gaf about her looks and treats her like a normal human being. First rule of game, ignore their looks. Hard at first, easy after a while of practice.
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:31 AM
10

The noise was him making super weird moaning sounds that turned her the hell off.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:44 PM
-2

You have no game and don't even know how to kiss and make love. I never understood when men suck at kissing because I was literally born to kiss a woman properly. Why do you even enjoy women if you don't know how to make love? To a girl, its like you're going through the motors of you suck at kissing, rather than enjoying the feel and taste and smell of their mouth and breath.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:43 PM
2

Gotchu bro. You need to study game like there's a gin to your head. Read books watch videos.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:34 PM
2

No there are no boundaries. They love men that don't give a shit what comes out of their mouth. You should start practicing just saying whatever you want to women.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:26 PM
1

Nah they're not. Whenever I go on dates I just pretend they're some ugly bitch or one of my friends and they love me. Its because you think they're so special that they hate you.
/r/seduction27/03/25 09:17 PM
1

YOU NEES TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE WITH YOUR FUCKING FRIENDS WHEN YOU ARE WITH GIRLS DUDE. This jist tells me that this is all fixable. You're treating women like they're different than men when they're not at all different.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:44 PM
1

Exactly. Moderately attractive women are almost more cursed because they have to deal with more consistent bullshit from creeps and gross men
/r/seduction27/03/25 04:05 AM
1

I got news for ya. The girls who are moderately attractive or slightly above, 6's and 7's, get approached the most because men feel like they have more of a chance with those girls.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:59 AM
2

Your game is horrible. You need to stop trying to be nice and start just being kind of a careless asshole but in an endearing way. Are you ever funny with guys and do you ever make ppl laugh? Treat women the same way and don't try to get them to like you. Challenge the shitboutbof them and make them qualify themselves to you. Flip the script. Have you read books and watched videos in game? I bet you haven't.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:43 AM
3

I have a great connection with probably 1 out of 6 or 1 out of 8 women. Its not really that rare.
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:07 PM
1

You're showing weakness bro. She would be texted you if you held frame.
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:46 AM
2

Was there even interest at all? Your pinky's touched, there's no script. Just you calling a girl buddy lol not gonna turn her on doing that. Its your frane that you have to switch but if you already fucked it up she will never see you different again. Women get an image of you in their brain and it's hard to erase.
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:42 AM
2

Flip what script??
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:36 AM
3

You lost frame with her. She's not buying it to your frame due to a lot of things you mentioned. And the sure buddy text? Not the play
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:24 AM
1

Cringe
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:21 AM
1

i have no problem getting dates.. I get hundreds of matches. When I go on the date most of their attitudes suck and they scrutinize every little movement you make and every single thing you say. They don't want boyfriends, they want perfect works of art in every way. It's really crushed my spirits.
/r/seduction19/02/25 11:04 PM
3

We actually don't love bitches. We love beautiful women though.
/r/seduction05/02/25 02:45 PM
8

What the fuck lol
/r/seduction01/02/25 06:25 AM
5

Lol, did I mention tall?
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:35 AM
3

This is really dumb dude. She's not a good girl to date. Just fuck her and that's literally it. Use your head not your... other head
/r/seduction27/01/25 01:48 AM
1

Because you have a masters degree in psychology. Might as well be a Public school teacher bro. Cmon man everyone knows that career path is shit.
/r/seduction27/01/25 12:57 AM
0

Basically. But i still make more money than you, so college was very effective. Def made me smarter so I sell way better and don't have to listen to mentally ill people all day. Lol
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:27 PM
1

Bro i do sales now and make a shit ton of money. Who the fuck cares? Attacking someone's degree that is in the same field as you jist to prove a point is so pathetic bro. Get a life.
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:06 PM
2

Yesbbut shave your head and hit the gym and it'll be fine
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:02 PM
6

I have a bachelor's in psychology, but they don't teach you seduction in school. They do, however. Teach animal behavior and mate choices across species. That gave me a lot of insight into female behavior. I've also slept with 80+ women and hooked up and made out with hundreds. Ive also gone on hundreds of dates and studied this shit. This is truly the best advice out there, "bro".
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:21 PM
14

This is actually really the best advice and it's the nature of women.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:12 PM
3

Yea the 7s move up in attractiveness just by being cooler and more fun
/r/seduction25/01/25 08:16 PM
2

Yea true. My ex was a 7, was an 8 or more when she dressed all up but she was so into me and it was just so easy and fun. I think you're probably right about that. They don't have to be a beauty queen, it was much easier when they were a 7. And a 7 is actually considered really pretty anyways so why are we torturing ourselves.
/r/seduction25/01/25 06:07 PM
7

Yes i experienced this a lot. They dream of a man that doesn't exist. The less attractive they are, the more they jist go with whatever I say and do. The more attractive they are, the more they expect you to act like a literal movie star to fulfill their unrealistic fantasies. I've been trying to not give a fuck anymore and it seems to be working.
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:35 AM
1

Tldr? So many words
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:23 PM
2

All of them. Every dating apps has worked for me for hookups
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:20 AM
-2

Damn i can get 1 date every single day on dating apps, but in my 20s I didn't realize how handsome I was so I feel for all the men who never get matches or dates. I'd just kill myself if I realized I wasn't desirable.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:55 PM
2

Stop giving a fuck, that's how they fuck you. They'll be asking "how do I get a guy to fuck me" when they realize you don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:50 PM
-1

This is actually so hilarious and awesome bro
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:12 AM
1

No, i care about looking like a chump in front of other men or women in public. I don't care if she thinks less of me for my reaction to her disrespecting me. The OP here wanted to know how to react and how to manipulate the girl into liking him more. How should he react to her flirting in front of him? React exactly how you feel. If you feel disrespected, go ahead and tell her to fuck off without caring how she reacts.
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:41 PM
2

Yea it's a disrespect thing. If they treat you like a chump, treat them like they're low class. There's nothing women hate more than feeling like a low class scum bag.
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:26 PM
1

Yes it's really not good for seduction because they can tell when you're depressed. Women stiff it out. I got a sleep study done and fortunately I have sleep apnea which has helped get rid of my depression. But if you have depression you need to find a way to get it fixed because it has a huge impact on dating.
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:05 AM
83

I don't care what women think. If they're going to flirt in front of me and we are on a date or dating or together, I'm going to make a big deal about it. You shouldn't care what they think anymore. Do they fit your mold for the kind of girl you want? If they don't, get rid of em.
/r/seduction29/12/24 03:57 AM
8

Once maybe twice.if she's pretty enough. Def not more than that
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:58 AM
1

I bang every single girl who has an attractive face unless they're literally a whale. They're the best in bed often amd will do many things to set themselves apart and please you and frankly, those are the best bedroom experiences. Their pussies are soft and super wet, skinny girls have a bony and often weak pussy that you can not pound super hard. But yea, I get it bro. Just bang every girl you can as long as their face is cute you'll have fun.
/r/seduction13/12/24 12:11 AM
2

how old are you? Girls aren't really thinking about fucking you like men are unless you've already built up to that point. She's probably confused.
/r/seduction30/11/24 02:09 AM
2

not at all. I get called sweet a lot then they let me fck em
/r/seduction30/11/24 01:38 AM
1

Why do we need to pander to their wants and needs. Tell them to fuck off and they'll come running back
/r/seduction23/11/24 11:25 PM
2

Physical attraction isn't there, mine always hit
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:42 PM
33

Not caring about the outcome and accepting myself for the way I am.
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:00 AM
-1

No. Wrong. Dumb comment.
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:11 PM
8

I've been doing game for 15 years, thanks for the advice I appreciate it. You should know with your experience that you really shouldn't compliment a girl until you've chatted on a date or until the timing is right. Especially beautiful women. They've heard it their whole lives, makes you sound desperate, makes you look like you just want them for their beauty instead of their mind. Etc.
/r/seduction19/11/24 02:08 PM
140

Pro tip. Her panties went dry when you said you're way too pretty blah blah. Bro, that's novice level shit.
/r/seduction19/11/24 06:06 AM
1

Get really nice clothing and do your hair and makeup really well and lose weight and then be a slut they'll love you
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:14 AM
0

Haha no, op
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:10 AM
1

This is a legit question. How often are you horny? Maybe you're just not that horny
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:54 PM
3

It's from nervousness. You're relaxed at home. Your BP is up put in public.
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:53 PM
11

Yes constantly, but I still am pissed at my ex gf for blind siding me a year ago. Sex won't replace connection and love.
/r/seduction15/08/24 10:51 PM
1

depends on how hot you want the girl to be
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:13 PM
3

When you really like a girl the sex is a super nova and you could live in their pussy for eternity and want to swallow their dripping cum forever. It becomes erotic as fuck constantly. just find someone you like and you'll enjoy it.
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:06 PM
18

Yea because you weren't interested in her. Welcome to the battlefield of love
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:43 PM
7

Absolutely. Give way fewer fucks and gets you laid way easier. Saying it tho is basically telling them that you don't want to pump their pussy up by seducing then first.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:54 AM
3

Only comes when you start getting a lot of pussy
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:08 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction06/08/24 12:37 AM
15

You won't be seeing her again after bad sex. Hate to break it to you. That's how they are and that's how men are. We need a 10/10 experience or it was a waste of time.
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:43 PM
1

It's either already too late, or if her tone is playful, a quick retort with humor and intelligence. Other than that just say ok no problem! Have a fun night, and walk away no harm no foul. This will save face and keep your next approach light and positive.
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:47 PM
5

What dude... is the sky blue? Is water wet? Why am I seeing so many just straight up common sense questions on this sub or reddit alone. It's so cringe.
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:49 PM
1

It means they feel comfortable with you at least, and they want to tell you their worries. I usually just laugh when they say that and roll my eyes and make them feel dumb for even asking.
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:26 PM
1

just be fucking hot and sexy when she's warmed up to your charm a little bit and slip sexual shit in if it's appropriate or stare at her lips and make strong eye contact with a genuine smile on ur face. u'll get the hang of it.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:45 AM
0

Girls are very afraid of hooking up at that age until they really get to know you through social circle. Go to the gym and work on your seduction. Not being needy is an ingredient, but there's a lot more to it than that.
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:22 AM
1

I mean a lot will be 5s and 6s but yea if I wanted to
/r/seduction20/07/24 11:31 PM
1

I never get scammers or bots on the apps, but i hear this a lot from guys. It's like the guys that get very few matches get scammers and bots because those are the few matches they are actually getting.
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:45 AM
0

it's very looks oriented so make sure your photos are spectacular and you should have a lot of luck on there.
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:44 AM
0

that's not true at all. I get tons of dates from these apps, could easily get 7 dates a week if i wanted to. If they flake, good thing you found out early that that's who they are in real life and that's how they live their lives.
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:44 AM
5

you can't fix this about women. Those are the worst women anyways and they would absolutely suck to be in a relationship with. Go for the ones that show high interest from start to finish. Ignore the meh chicks that are confused about what they even want themselves.
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:40 AM
1

Don't do it!!!! Once you do it she will get bored and turn and run. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/seduction10/07/24 12:15 PM
1

Ok so basically you think it's all good?
/r/seduction06/07/24 05:28 PM
1

Not getting laid by hotties regularly apparently
/r/seduction05/07/24 02:38 AM
1

Def not lucking out buddy stop projecting. It's not luck. It's pain
/r/seduction05/07/24 02:35 AM
0

Yes but I sleep w lots of women and girls depend in bed
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:58 AM
1

Damn you mav bro? You like more mad than I am lol. Lot more to this story than meets the eyes. Yea she was super wet and wouldn't shut uo about it. If you were a vet u wouldn't be a cock about it.
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:57 AM
1

Yea that's really sweet of you because I care a lot about the women I'm dating, but she seems like she couldn't care less. I appreciate you noticing that I have a lot of love towards her. She's probably used to getting bombarded with love so she might not understand what I was giving her. Somebody who does this to another shouldn't get the reward for it.
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:13 PM
1

Of course I've slept with her or I wouldn't be asking for advanced veteran dating advice
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:01 PM
1

3 dates and phone calls and texts. Much more than surface level
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:46 PM
1

Well yea I haven't blown her up at all. One text Rey and that's it. Was more interested in if the text sounded really low interest. It went from a 15/10 to like a 5. Shits crazy.
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:11 PM
1

I already fucked her and she's hot. Needed some veterans take on the situation
/r/seduction04/07/24 06:49 PM
1

We are wayyy past that small talk date shit. That's what worries me.
/r/seduction04/07/24 06:30 PM
1

Yea rookie mistake. As long as I'm not cooked. Haven't heard from her since. Only reason why I did it was because she was doing it every time. Rookie move
/r/seduction04/07/24 03:07 PM
0

Yea I am actually I'm 6 foot and handsome as he'll and I have game too. It's pretty nice actually. He needs to forget about that girl she's not that interested and she doesn't deserve his attention. If she was. She would have responded quickly.
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:07 PM
2

Because not much more needs to be said
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:33 PM
60

Typical girl. Just move on
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:58 PM
14

COPE
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:56 AM
8

Excuse me? Ever since I started looks maxing I've been crushing it. But I guess I'm more like an 8.5/10 but before looks maxing I was probably a 6. Your face really gets chizzled when you eat healthy and gym regularly.
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:40 AM
1

Probably because you're not trying too hard
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:14 PM
2

This is the exact same experience I have. It's not discussed very much at all, but if you're jacked af women will flock to you much more easily.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:50 PM
5

You have to trick 4 or 5 girls that you're only sleeping with them and may be interested in a long term relationship with them. It's that simple.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:47 PM
-9

No it's not time, women right now specifically are literally impossible to please, and we are expected to please them on a fucking date. Like bitch, it's not my obligation to impress you and please you on a date. FUCK EM
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:08 PM
2

Generally most people date within thwir own race so your options are going to be limited but I'm sure you could find a white girl somewhere that would date you.
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:00 PM
2

Unfortunately with day game the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Stuck to random approaches in grocery stores and places of leisure and night game or o line dating. Daygame blows in my experience
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:56 PM
12

Coming from a "you could be a male model" from different girls, I get rejected aot by girls that I'm better looking than or by girls in general.
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:34 PM
3

Cheat on her and tell her about it and don't fight to save it
/r/seduction22/04/24 08:02 PM
6

They're not
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:51 AM
1

What does this have to do with anything. You're in love with a fake girl.ubtil you meet her she's basically not real.
/r/seduction21/04/24 09:34 PM
1

This is so sad and pathetic. You are literally hanging on to someone that you don't even know is real instead of asking her on a fucking date. Ask her out dude lmao
/r/seduction21/04/24 09:33 PM
5

Yea so we have to be perfect meanwhile women I go on dates with, if you let them talk the most, always tell on themselves. It's so dumb they expect so much but really aren't even that great.
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:30 PM
1

Hahaha always. Honestly don't even know what they're looking for at this pont.
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:29 PM
5

I fucking hate dating bro it's so annoying how we are expected to be completely perfect and do everything. Like no thank you
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:28 PM
2

doesn't matter what you look like to women, matters how mature you are and what comes out of your mouth
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:34 AM
1

Don't talk about that shit with girls, ask them questions about them and keep them talking
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:21 PM
1

A group of 10 girls
/r/seduction09/04/24 09:38 PM
1

Good luck approaching a 10 set with less than 5 years experience bro. I'd stick with 1 to 4 girls max
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:01 PM
2

It shows power and confidence especially if there's loud music. You gotta do thousands of reps with girls to make all the mistakes in the book.
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:54 AM
1

Talk very loud.
/r/seduction09/04/24 03:51 AM
1

Yea, you have to get them interested by talking to them for at least 20 minutes but that's hard in a club
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:59 PM
2

The next day bro most likely she doesnt care and won't respond dude. No matter what strat you use.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:06 PM
3

it's way too early to make someone your girlfriend. You have to show consistency and only then will they want to ask you to be in a relationship. Never tell a women how you feel early on until in a relationship, and never ask them, always wait til they ask.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:51 PM
6

That's the whole point, the moment you act like that is the moment they run far Way from you boss.
/r/seduction27/03/24 07:09 PM
56

Are you really in that much of a state of scarcity that you need to try to take someone’s girl? This is so stupid bro LOL
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:45 PM
4

That's just a childish statement and insecure statement for a 36 year old and there's really not much recovery after that. Why did you say that?
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:37 PM
1

This post is so wrong, and I can tell he's having issues with women at the moment. Sexual escalation should happen when you feel a connection, and if you feel it. She does too. Then go in for a touch, hand hold, etc.
/r/seduction26/03/24 02:46 PM
2

Don't talk about yourself. Talk about THEM. It takes the attention off you and making a dumb mistake and it also builds a lot fo mystery in you.
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:18 AM
1

Huge.
/r/seduction25/03/24 11:04 AM
1

I've been dating nothing but exciting women but I do live in a city.
/r/seduction24/03/24 11:33 PM
1

Tons bro, tons.
/r/seduction24/03/24 10:09 PM
2

I go back to reading content and watching videos on how to seduce. I also hit the gym and get jacked. Then I try again. Doesn't happen ever anymore though.
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:23 PM
1

Dumbass
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:04 AM
14

Jacked with a small bit of belly fat has gotten me the most women. Buy its the confidence I have in myself that truly seals the deal.
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:55 PM
0

Dude I don't get this sub. This is all about seduction, and most posts on here are asking the most basic seduction 101 question. The real question is how many excuses are you going to make to not ask this girl out. You already know the answer. Freaking do it already. Smh
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:35 AM
1

I live in Boston so there's a lot more options.
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:08 AM
1

Sent them
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:07 AM
1

What's your email I'll send you some. To me, once they're at a certain point, they're just dimes.
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:52 PM
0

I am currently dating one. And my last ex was also one with a very good job too. I happens regularly.
/r/seduction19/03/24 06:40 PM
2

Not at all my friend. Currently seeing a few gorgeous women who are very fun and interesting to be around. There's a lot of em out there.
/r/seduction19/03/24 06:33 PM
17

Hahaha dude.. fuck the frame at that point. Her interest is super high. Just go up and ask to hang out. If you suck at talking to women you're fucked though.
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:11 PM
9

The most beautiful girls on the planet but also aren't full of themselves or narcissistic.
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:06 PM
3

No dude. Dump her and don't be dumb enough to waste your precious time being in a bs relationship. Also, her sending her friend to do a text is completely outrageous. That's enough to dump her alone.
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:19 PM
1

means you're not interested in them or getting to know them. You won't be bored if you're truly fascinated by the gorgeous woman in front of you. It means you don't like them or it means that you don't really care to get to know them.
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:59 AM
0

You should see my girlfriend, you'd shit yourself.
/r/seduction16/03/24 09:11 PM
0

NEVER admit you're nervous. For women, men aren't allowed to be emotional very often or overshare their insecurities. Women expect a man to listen to all their issues and insecurities. Coming from years of experience with dating and pick up, never share your feelings. Be a mystery and make sure the woman does 90% of the talking by deflecting her questions with questions about her. Wait for her to make a mistake, then puck on her a bit about it. It's that simple.
/r/seduction16/03/24 03:58 PM
2

Yes. I have the same level of success but when you date a girl who blows you the fuck away you're gonna be feeling a different kind of pain because those other chick's won't matter at all and you'll be love struck lol try not to let that happen though but I know how you feel.
/r/seduction16/03/24 03:16 AM
5

Bro, every single woman I've ever met is a complete freak. They just have to hide it in Arab countries. She lives in the US right? Completely different story.
/r/seduction16/03/24 12:04 AM
1

Nobody found me boring haha. It was the opposite. I was a huge risk taker and was very energetic when I was a kid. I dominated people in recess and sports and people didn't like that at all. Was too young to know better.
/r/seduction15/03/24 10:39 PM
1

When you take her for a drink before you fuck, ask her about herself, don't talk about yourself very much
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:24 PM
2

I am projecting. because i was literally you. You ask for advice, and then you're super resistant to it. I had to LEARN to not care. You can do the same thing.
/r/seduction12/03/24 08:31 PM
5

That's the whole point. You care. I'm telling you I used to be you. I was frozen with fear but I started to not give a shit about the outcome and now it comes easy.
/r/seduction12/03/24 08:11 PM
6

Your only option is really to not give a fuck what they think of you while you're talking to them. Women can SMELL fear and if you stop caring at all what the outcome is, you'll start running game on them.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:42 PM
1

People used to hate me. Like almost everyone. Super handsome, terrible with people. Lots of work and effort to understand people has led me to some ultra high Highs in my life. Keep going. Start talking to people but don't be needy.
/r/seduction12/03/24 02:34 AM
36

Why would tinder disqualify you from your job? What do you do? Just make your profile very presentable and he honest about short term and getting out of a relationship. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction09/03/24 03:01 PM
2

Because women are super picky and during the day they're not put to get a date, at night they come out because they're horny and can let loose.
/r/seduction05/03/24 10:26 PM
17

It's desperate to do that. Don't don't do it. Unless she's throwing herself at you and she's not crazy don't even bother. You shouldn't need to do that to get dates.
/r/seduction05/03/24 02:51 AM
3

do NOT tell her that until she has fallen for you. and even after she has, don't turn into a wimp that just shows all his cards. I did this last time and she got grossed out by who I was becasuse I was acting weak. keep yourself somewhat a mystery even in the relationship for the entire time even if you get married. Always hold your frame, don't drop frame ever. It sucks but it's how they work.
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:37 AM
1

100% can vouch for this
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:36 AM
2

Yes exactly. The jewelry move and stuff. Don’t compliment them on their beauty unless they are really built up and are doing the same thing to you. Wait for a while until you’ve built a lot of rapport and then you can start escalating and stuff. Strong eye contact is important to lead you into that sexual state between you two.
/r/seduction28/02/24 09:09 PM
20

Reach your hand accross the table and look at their nails and compliment them. If she lets you hold on for a bit, keep doing it, but pull away right before you think she is starting to pull back. This is AFTER you have already gotten her bought into your frame and built attraction.
/r/seduction28/02/24 04:41 PM
11

Wtf are you doing get outta there bro
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:36 PM
2

You have ptsd most likely. Do emdr therapy. It's super effective. I went through some rough shit growing up too and I finally found this more recently and it worked extremely quickly
/r/seduction03/02/24 10:12 PM
1

Likewise. Go to the gym, do your hair, make more money and put gorgeous pictures up. I get tons of attention from lots of women and iy is worth the squeeze, but heartbreak is horrifying.
/r/seduction01/02/24 09:33 PM
4

Seduction 101. Dinner dates are trash for many reasons.
/r/seduction30/01/24 12:55 AM
62

That's why whenever I go through a breakup, I go get jacked. People notice, especially women, and it builds your confidence right back up. The real goal is to always remain fit even in a long term relationship.
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:56 PM
1

Yea but smile more and get professional photographs taken.
/r/seduction13/01/24 03:42 PM
2

absolutely not. mystery is what creates attraction
/r/seduction09/01/24 05:04 PM
1

This is patently false. You need to seduce your wife even and girlfriend still or they'll leave you.
/r/seduction02/08/23 03:20 PM
1

My curiosity isn't as strong and my desire to cheat isn't as high but its still there sometimes. It showed me that women ate just people and they aren't this crazy romanticized robot we used to dream about. There are shifty ones and there are good ones but they're all capable of some level of bad behavior.
/r/seduction11/06/23 05:48 PM
1

You'll never get laid with that attitude. Not surprised you are stuck.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:21 PM
0

It only takes a couple years to look markedly more in shape than before and it is a huge advantage with women.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:24 PM
1

So you are mid 20s? Still plenty of time to get jacked!!
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:59 PM
11

Don't try to hang out with her constantly. If you aren't sure about how you feel about her she will feel that. Change your mindset to being unsure if she's good enough for you to stop being single for. Then she'll obsess over you.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:39 PM
4

Your post tells me you just graduated high school a couple years ago. You got plenty of time. Go get jacked in the gym and that is like a cheat code.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:35 PM
2

God dahum this is the most air tight logic in game I ever did see.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:41 PM
1

Whatever makes you feel better about your lay count of 3.
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:27 PM
1

I don't care at all about what you think. We have different opinions, I have a lay count around 60 so I am just speaking from experience.
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:52 AM
1

Oh okay, so Kevin Samuels was an incel? Lol
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:06 AM
0

Hahaha dude. Society brain washed everyone. Just do it bro, she wanted it. Also she probably lied about being a virgin.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:38 AM
-4

Bro, it's because she thinks she's a 10/10. She'll eventually realize she's not (or die alone). Ignore her. She thinks she's special.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:36 AM
-1

Bro there's no such thing as true love. Just go fuck and date and maybe you'll find somebody that you can't live without
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:16 PM
2

You're learning that you can never truly be "bros" with your female friends. Females will always come before you in their eyes. Also, this is a good thing. They warned her about you being very high value in the eyes of other women which is why she wanted a piece of you.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:05 AM
1

This is epic, you're the man.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:48 PM
11

Yea I don't even cold approach women here anymore unless out at a night club because they all train each other to be complete fucking assholes for no reason at all. It's super frustrating.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:32 AM
-1

No we were touching each other but no penetration. It was more than just one girl too. mostly kissing though for sure.
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:15 PM
-3

You could view it like that I guess. I was hooking up with girls in elementary, middle and high school, then college sucked for me in that department, then after college I became a beast. Idk if 22 new lays this year needs a sad excuse to feel better but if that makes YOU feel better, then you do you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:59 AM
27

This is the most amazing response. It makes me happy that you came back with this for this dude. Warms my heart. I went through the same thing, except it was my cousin and friends getting laid. Now it's me get high quality women. The world works in mysterious ways.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:37 AM
1

In true incel fashion. I could literally get 7 dates a week or more if I wanted to from online dating. You have to keep working on your text game apparently because I haven't been having that issue.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:58 AM
1

Late 20's you'll get better then 30's and possibly 40's (don't know yet) are the prime time for men. We bloom later!
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:01 AM
3

I did cold approach last summer for the whole summer, granted it was probably pretty bad cold approach. But I still only ever got 1 date from it and the girl ghosted me. So now I just do night game and dating apps and I have wayyy more success doing that.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:34 AM
3

100% yes. In fact, I recommend putting your boner up on her ass so she can grab it. If she does, ask her for a drink and move her closer to the exit. Sit down and drink it with her and then ask her to leave with you. That's John Anthony's formula for closing.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:27 AM
2

Don't ask or make it weird. Just drop hints here and there but not in a way that will turn her off. If she gets upset, time to drop her. Let her down easy if need be.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:14 PM
1

you have to start by losing weight and getting in great shape. That is top priority if you aren't already really cool and relaxing to hang out with. Next comes learning how to develop a personality that is fun and cool.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:46 PM
2

Yea this happened to me. Now I'm too bored and tired and sex doesn't do shit for me anymore unless they're like super hot.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:06 AM
11

yea, I got into some bullshit messaging argument because I'm "only" at 70 lays but I could be at 1000 like him. I asked for proof like a list with dates (which I have and I keep close track of) and he just continued insulting me. Like, are you trying to get me as a client by insulting me? that def won't work. hahaha
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:02 AM
3

It's a long road, but you'll get there faster by watching a lot of seduction content. I recommend James Marshall for introverts, John Anthony accelerated my lay count rapidly. The more experience you get the less of a deal you make out of it and it becomes a lot easier.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:02 PM
3

dude, watch all of them. I got to this point by watching content, and then going out and putting it into action. I've seen so much content when it comes to seduction over the years. Some people just watch it and never take action. The ones that do are the ones that get laid.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:52 AM
3

his free youtube stuff is awesome, he does have courses which a friend of mine bought and liked but I don't like spending money so I use his free youtube content. He's hilarious and he'll change you game so fast your head will spin. That's how I got 19 in a year. some guys are doing 50-100 a year but I personally don't have time or energy for that shit. But it is 100 percent possible and I know that because I've done it myself.
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:59 PM
2

No, i've slept with 19 girls this year alone and I have them all listed with descriptions and phone numbers to prove it too. unlike a lot of these seduction bs artists. John Anthony is who i recommend
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:41 PM
3

Welcome my friend. Cheers to many years of getting laid and having your mind blown over and over. and no, almost no man knows this shit until someone else tells them. The rest are unicorns, the lucky ones.
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:04 PM
1

i wouldn't see her again.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:29 AM
2

I shit you not the exact same thing happened to me after I started working out a year and a half ago. It's been an awesome and greatly worthwhile journey getting in great shape.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:12 AM
1

I don't think it takes them a few seconds, I think they give you several, if not many minutes to see if you'll fuck it up. Huge difference.
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:23 AM
0

I would only be concerned about this if the person was sketchy and had tattoos. Otherwise I would fuck her all night and never see her again. But a hell of a night though. A hell of a night.
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:04 AM
0

Dude.. nobody believes you. So the only thing you e done for 13 years is try and get laid constantly. It's just a bunch of bs
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:39 AM
-1

But.. you're lying. It's obvious.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:18 AM
0

I don't think sleeping with 70 beautiful girls is struggling with game. You're just butthurt.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:03 AM
-1

I actually have a real list with descriptions, dates, photos. You're an internet troll at best .
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:45 PM
1

Show me some proof and I'll change my opinion. But for now, I don't believe you at all. Either that or the girls you're fucking are nasty as fuck. I only sleep with 7s or above. The rest is just a waste of time.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:40 PM
1

also, wasn't looking for advice, more just letting people know that day game is BS.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:25 PM
2

To reply, I just started using bumble and hinge and going out and doing night game and I had my 16th lay of the year last Friday, and a quarter of the year we were still pretty much locked down. Night game is where it's at. I'm in Boston for reference. been doing game for years. lay count closing in on 70. 8/10 on looks. what's your lay count?
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:24 PM
3

To reply, I just started using bumble and hinge and going out and doing night game and I had my 16th lay of the year last Friday, and a quarter of the year we were still pretty much locked down. Night game is where it's at. I'm in Boston for reference.
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:41 PM
7

I did day game for months and months and it didn't amount to shit
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:35 PM
2

Sort of? I've met all my lays in the last 2 month from night game. John Anthony is a boss he will turn you into a straight up beast. YT his content. but he and I both agree that online dating works but takes reasonable dedication and such.
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:01 AM
10

What the fuck are you doing spending even an extra second thinking on this. This girl is obviously fucked up and has tons of baggage and sounds like she has narcisistic tendencies which is someone you want to run far away from very quickly.
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:24 PM
2

Been saying this on here for a while. You can change this. GO TO THE GYM!!! I'm at the gym right now in fact. I've been getting way more girls by doing this.
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:56 PM
1

Go to the gym and build muscle and you'll get girls throwing themselves at you. Trust me, I've done it. You'll be so spoiled for choice it won't even be funny.
/r/seduction26/06/21 08:48 PM
1

Really really needed to hear this today. Thank you.
/r/seduction17/06/21 07:09 PM
-1

most of them are lying when they say they have boyfriends. Girls mostly care about big muscles, followed by face then personality and money after that.
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:44 PM
1

you were talking too much via text and there's no more mystery. Rookie mistake.
/r/seduction04/06/21 03:33 PM
10

A lot of advice out there in the manosphere talks about how looks don't matter at all, but that's just not the case.
/r/seduction25/04/21 10:04 PM
33

That having a well built gym body helps you get a lot more pussy than not.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:26 PM
1

I agree but this will help him not be so focused on one girl
/r/seduction13/01/21 03:08 PM
4

Dude you're acting all beta male on her and it's majorly turning her off. Giving her your number and all that shit, girls hate that crap dude.. that's not playing it cool. You need to have an abundance mindset where you're going on tons of dates and shit man. cmon dude. Women hate men that are desperate and only think about one chick it's a major turn off for them.
/r/seduction13/01/21 04:24 AM
2

Yea, it's obvious this guy has never even bothered to learn day game. You don't get drunk and party during day game. You're almost always sober. And you same day close a LOT in day game too.
/r/seduction22/12/20 08:04 AM
4

This is so ridiculous. I'm completely sober and my cold approach game has never been better. What a stupid post.
/r/seduction22/12/20 07:34 AM
1

because you didn't make yourself stand out when you approached them.
/r/seduction15/12/20 11:11 PM
1

This is why one of my exs dated me. Because I did not give a single fuck.
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:31 PM
2

This is exactly what I was thinking. It's like making sure the gene pool for certain breeds are super clean. I hope that's not the case though. I feel like it would be on an individual basis too.
/r/seduction13/12/20 01:57 AM
6

I fucking love this. Just went on a date with a girl, she was like a 6.5-7 and because of this, I was super care free and outcome independent and she was instantly enamored by me. We went back to my house and I fucked the shit out of her and she just left. Yes, on the first date. Last night, I went on a date, and while I wasn't being needy, I was paying super close attention to her, and while I felt I was relaxed and just laughing and having fun, and she was laughing too, she left after the date…
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:42 PM
1

Wow this is incredible and very helpful. Thank you for sharing this!
/r/seduction11/12/20 07:55 PM
2

You can do that with a ps5 if you're a neck beard with no balls yea.
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:03 PM
1

bad text game. You made fun of her for talking to a stranger even though you are the one who talked to her. She's going to see through this as a little bit of a head game. I would just try and say "hey great talking to you earlier, want to plan a date for coffee on xyz date?" Keep it simple.
/r/seduction10/12/20 08:57 PM
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