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Iamallthereis/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 08:58 AM
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10$ you won’t just approach and be yourself.
/r/seduction05/12/24 09:37 AM
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Pm me
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:13 AM
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Are you talking to me? Explain again because I was saying I used to think there were no absolutes because of the ever changing nature of reality until I met someone with bpd now I know that bpd is an absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:30 AM
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Below my average. Treated it like a reward for a chore and was very structured about it no romance or spontaneity whatsoever had to be at this time or not at all she never initiated. And my thinking used to be that there were no absolutes I really used to think that but then I was with someone with bpd for 5 years and now my view of the world has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:55 AM
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Yeah I used to think that way until I dated a girl with bpd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:56 PM
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This makes me think of something I thought of recently for online dating the guys girls like are rejects in their local area but not “their” local area rejects. It’s just speculation but it might be majority rule. Also I was that guy that the occasional woman would drive 6+ hours to meet and sleep with and none of them have been what I would consider relationship material so don’t beat yourselves up not missing much my life sucks too. Edit: I will add that online dating has massively fucked up r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:14 AM
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This is ratchet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:39 AM
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I say oh I get that from all the older women and they don’t have a problem with it.
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:46 AM
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Also don’t get clingy and some of them can be actually really cool
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:45 AM
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They all have that shit test but get in bed just fine if you’re smooth lol
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:44 AM
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Literally nothing you can do if a woman chooses to be afraid of you. Tf? Fear does not discriminate. Everything done to avoid seeming scary can still be wrapped around to being the reason someone is. Like oh he’s trying to make me feel safe and secure so I drop my guard down and then he can get me. It literally does not matter what a guy does or doesn’t do in the context of a woman choosing to be afraid of a man. The only thing a man can really do is avoid this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:09 PM
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I prefer to look at it as a man can take back consent for a relationship the same way a woman will when she doesn’t want it anymore. Like maybe I have to have sex with you to figure out who you are or some dumb excuse like I’m trying to find myself or I’m in my healing journey by having sex and promising a relationship knowing full well I won’t want one. 🤷‍♂️ this is all hypothetical we all know I’m not having sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:02 AM
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This fan fiction sucks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:53 AM
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Finding a partner literally comes down to luck and chance and putting yourself out there is the only chance you’ll get lucky. No strategy, no clothes, no looks, no charm, no nothing, is going to guarantee a result, but we are conditioned and tricked into thinking it will. Get offline and start trying new things and be authentic in your vulnerability trying new things don’t close yourself off acting like you know open yourself up admitting when you don’t. Me personally? I’m celibate by choice hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:51 AM
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Amen 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:09 PM
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The dudes that look elsewhere get bashed for it by the same women that didn’t want them. Its that catch 22 eat my cake and have it too damned if you do damned if you don’t bs that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:07 PM
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Oh sorry I just lurk 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:13 AM
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I had a boomer cry and hug me saying “you’re doing it! Kids these days don’t wanna work but you’re doing it you’ll make it!” When he found out I work 7 days a week 16 hours a day at 18$ and 25$ an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:57 PM
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I also have been diagnosed to be on the autism spectrum so that’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:19 AM
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I like home design and decorating but ya know I just don’t apply a gender role to it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:43 PM
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Wait three more years for the advice 🤌
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:10 PM
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I thought we collectively voted not to do that anymore lol 😂 dating is the key if a girl wants to wait until it’s official to have sex keep it pushing simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:52 AM
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In what situation would a woman in a committed relationship or marriage ask her baby daddy allegedly for a paternity test? Do you know how stupid that sounds? Holy shit. The guys ask it because they could get cucked and bent over to care for a disloyal partner an illegitimate child but a woman would never ask that of the man in that situation because it fucking speaks for itself think about it. The rest of your post is probably fine even if it craftily invalidates OP’s point by pointing the meta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:46 AM
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A man will fulfill an emotional, spiritual and intellectual void where more often than not a woman won’t. Not to say it never happens but the connection and ability to relate is just so much higher between dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:21 PM
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Women are not their looks a pretty girl can be a terrible and “ugly” person and vice versa. Personality comes first logically for me looks for me are an emotional response like what do I feel looking at this person looks are a bonus but most guys wouldnt go for a girl they deem below them appearance wise even if they have a great personality because they hold out for a girl that looks okay with a good/decent personality or a great one. This is to say personality or looks don’t inherently outweig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:17 PM
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In what country is a wife a maid my current relationship would fall apart this way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:16 AM
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Well I have no family so I am the family It’s lonely sometimes but I accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:15 AM
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Username checks out 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:46 AM
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To the end of your reply where you think it has to be that way in hetero relationships no it does not that’s called “conditioning” external stimuli from family, friends, society I.e. that has actually molded majority of your beliefs and disposition towards certain things. But TLDR; it does NOT have to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:35 AM
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This is where the 90% of people saying they’re sigma or alpha actually fall lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:48 AM
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Did you ever think of approaching him?? Making your interest in him more clear than just chatting at work? Do you only talk to him in a formal setting? Do you expect everything you are interested in and want in life to come to you? Do you not see something you want and work towards getting it? What makes this situation any different. I’m not a fan of gender roles for EVERYTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:42 AM
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You’re saying women can set an unwavering standard but can’t know what they want to eat or make their minds up that they want to be with someone for good like majority of men do and are happy to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:17 AM
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In this economy people that work don’t have time for friends and people with friends don’t have time to work. WhAt dO yUo WAnt??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:56 PM
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Biologically men are driven to procreate for the species and pass on DNA and women are biologically driven to pick the best they can get at any cost and aid in the effort of propagating our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:40 AM
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Drop the poor me self defeating attitude it feels like the right thing to do when you’re having trouble but literally feeling sorry for yourself or looking for comfort or consoling from others 1. Won’t happen the way you want 2. This attitude will have the opposite effect of what you want in relation to pursuing women. You will figure out how to bag women but don’t get beat up cause you don’t bag all of them or are struggling right now just keep moving forward.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:44 PM
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Also 3 dates max if you don’t score by the third date drop them. Save your time and resources. Think of it like this while you’re on your fourth date she’s going home with someone on the first.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:34 PM
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Hey don’t knock my coffee dates they’re something I’m fine paying for a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:37 PM
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Oh fuck yeah dude the amount of girls I’ve had manipulate me into a rebound position is insane and I’ve had a few free mealers as well I can’t say I’ve had any girls that wanna cheat because the amount that I’ve found out were trying to do that with me is also insane you can literally take a first name and location on Facebook and find anyone and see their relationship status it is mad fucked how many girls lied to me about being in a relationship and as soon as I found out I blocked them it’s b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:44 AM
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Take the L and walk away haha Jk Honestly depends on the situation and more variables than I would care to explain between factors like is the girl even interested in either of y’all How you and the dude with good game compare Who stays calm and cool and manages not to make a fool or embarrass themselves or come off as desperate once a variable like a better looking or smoother dude comes up usually will get the opportunity to chat the girl up more after the other person gets the idea and leaves…
/r/seduction22/11/20 10:23 AM
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You’re mad cause The truth hurts
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:43 AM
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Sabotaging “good looking men” in comparison to yourself does not = women wanting you instead; you couldn’t seduce anyone cause seduction comes after character building and tbh it’s not something anyone is going to teach you besides yourself we can provide information but until you take constructive feedback appropriately step back and reevaluate yourself any info or tips might as well be the dirt beneath your feet because you wont see the value in the words someone offers you where you’re at men…
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:40 AM
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If you have to emphasize that you have a “good personality” you don’t. You’re trying too hard And aren’t being realistic Quit chasing women and let them chase Some will some won’t Nobody gets what they actually want in reality We all just settle for what we think is the best we can get Focus on yourself You’re literally chasing women online and trying to impress upon them that you have value; but, you’re chasing them not the other way around. Read between the lines and see what your words and ac…
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:52 AM
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Get a gf first.
/r/seduction10/11/20 08:08 AM
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If you ever start stressing yourself out trying to nail it down with a girl because you feel like her interest level isn’t high enough that she’s not initiating all the sexual advances on her own just go on and take a lil step for me and keep it pushing thanks
/r/seduction24/10/20 08:40 PM
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never put all your eggs in one basket always keep your options and let any chick you plan to pursue sexually know you have options that the door is open she free to go never tell a girl you want a relationship or to settle down EVER let her tell you that’s what she wants with you then you know you’ve got that attachment. But always keep your options and if you find yourself spending too much time on one chick keep it pushing and juggle a few more when you’re not busy focusing on your actual well…
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:12 PM
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Yep 👍 build her attachment to you but don’t attach to her you’ll be doomed from the start of any encounter if you do it’s harsh at first but take away the rose tint of an emotional connection or ideas of “the one” or “true love” you’ll only find that through spirit within yourself and any relationship with a woman is simply a business transaction she has conditions and will not love you unconditionally the way you could love her a woman will never love you the way you could love her
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:07 PM
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I’d wager a hard 3 she was the only willing chick I could find to let my homie and I Eiffel Tower her we were young and wanted something to bond over and that was it at the time also I firmly believe anyone can improve their appearance so in general everything 6 and below is a sliding scale of a persons mental well being, how they perceive themselves and their physical appearance shows attractive mental qualities in my opinion or the latter being 6’s and lower I personally associate a general me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:51 PM
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I don’t sexually consider 6’s or below and I treat all above that like they’re 7’s, feel free to inquire why if you’re curious; I hope you get what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:35 AM
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Ah save the talking for the next date but a good rule of thumb is to keep it pushing so you don’t flounder trying to find another date schedule more dates with other people simultaneously to raise your value by increasing your (potential) unavailability you want her to feel like she has to chase you and lock it down before you’re gone to another girl bro you don’t want the girl to be comfortable around you or feel like she could get you anytime she wants she’ll use you up and move on at that rat…
/r/seduction24/10/20 09:15 AM
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Pro tip. Don’t use phones to talk if you’re looking for a relationship or to hook up don’t waste your time on girls that you can’t meet in person or aren’t willing to meet you use the phones to set dates and don’t ask questions make statements tell her you’d like to grab coffee or sum balance your investment with her interest if her interest is low keep it pushin bro don’t look desperate begging for her time you want her to beg for yours also there are literally billions of women so don’t be afr…
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:06 AM
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Validation chasing they want compliments and not much else
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:29 AM
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I never had a father to teach me this shit either so allow me to help a fellow bastard out. First allow the interaction to be organic Which means don’t fake anything or insert small talk for the sake of filling silence with something Let the silence provoke intrigue Allow the girl to ask most of the questions about you or talk about herself do not compliment her just for breathing she can earn the compliments by investing her interest in you and keeps her chasing you for your validation that for…
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:53 PM
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She will 11/10 ruin your life if you’re not about that life but idk tell her you’ll spit in her mouth or something
/r/seduction16/06/20 05:09 AM
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