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| 2 | How do you actually approach girls?Well you just say hi and talk. If there is reciprocity then talk or move into next. It’s simple. No need to overthinking it. No pressure and once there’s a connection go with the flow. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:08 PM |
| 9 | Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means?I would call it warm approach lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 12:22 PM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillLooks do matter to a great level. Also does confidence. All the girls I pulled I didn’t even try. I it noted them and they wanted me. Show no interest. Initial contact is necessary. After that showing interest is their job not yours. If you are overly confident and cocky that makes them hot for you. I pulled hot women when I was cocky as fuck. I look very handsome as told by multiple women. But I see other model type guys I see myself as a solid 7 or 8 look wise and body wise. I have pulled girl… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:17 PM |
| 0 | 10/10 in gymWomen come around. My gf of 1 year wasn’t interested initially. I took another shot after 6 months and I’m glad I did. Women are more emotional and less logical. More going with the flow than intentional. Just let it go. You cannot script success in dating. Just be in the flow. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 07:41 PM |
| 3 | I attract a lot of women but it never goes anywhereThank you. | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 08:07 AM |
| 5 | What are the usual signs that you see when a woman wants you to talk with them?Each girl is different just like each man is different. There are general social cues you can read but don’t water your time. You are only trying to reduce rejection rate. If you can overcome fear of rejection and just take shot you get the nice ones. Nice girls take their time. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | My (22m) girlfriend (23f) girlfriend forgot to text me last night. Advice?Bro just talk to her but don’t sound desperate. Plainly ask and see what she has to say. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:57 PM |
| 2 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathIn general this is true. But you always need help from others. How you navigate that is important. Learning never ends. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongBe the best version of yourself that you can be. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I keep attracting what I don't want.So what do you want? | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How can I learn to talk to women?Yes and your point is? All types of preference will be there but majority want confidence and persistence and manliness | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 3 | How can I learn to talk to women?Women care about your presence and confidence more than the looks. That’s why you see so many mismatched couples. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 9 | How can I learn to talk to women?Just pure experience. It’s an acquired skill. You have to have the balls and heart to go out and talk. It’s takes practice. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Be yourself. The problem is that we don’t even know who we are under the layers of personalities and societal conditioning we think we need but we just need to be ourselves. Meditation is the most balanced way and it takes time and patience. Good luck. Visit my website HarnoorMinhas.com and follow my TikTok | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Games and drama are things these self proclaimed women do. You don’t want that drama. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Girls dance with me then ignore meIf you are genuine women can see that. You have to do what you have to do. Hustlers are gonna hustle. All you need is one genuine connection not tens. Find any places where you don’t find people intoxicated and drunk so that you can make a real connection. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Girls dance with me then ignore meIf you want real connections goto local meetups, yoga studios etc. bars are for alcoholics and those people have huge problems. You don’t want them anyways. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?Yeah that’s shitty he could have just said no. What are you feeling bad for? Be thankful you didn’t get stuck with that ball of negative energy. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | The Real Secret of Confidence (Advice from an Old Man)Be yourself. Only do what you would absolutely do. No need to go out of the way to do anything but you just love yourself in order to be loving to others. Similarly you are confident. You don’t become confident. You either are or not. You decide. Whatever scares you face it and you are confident. Scared of talking. Just talk. Scared of rejection. Get rejected. Do it until it’s 2nd nature like breathing and eating. Nothing beats real world experience. Just go out and do it there are no shortcuts … | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Insane disrespect / shit test: "maybe first you should learn how to make one girl have fun"Bro the ok sign was defeat. Not sure if you gathered that. But do not message another message now. She will message back. That shows you don’t give a fuck and are busy. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Feeling Rejuvenated After First Approach In Over A Year.Yes you don’t learn how to hunt by not hunting. You don’t always hit your first shot. Rejection in real world is success. Rejection in mind is failures. Dream success in brain and it will lead to success in reality. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 01:26 PM |
| 6 | What does it mean?Women have tens of chats going on with men at any point in time. There is also Snapchat and tinder on top. They have a buffet of choices and at times date multiple people. You could also do the same. You may have a better chance winning the lottery than figuring out why she is doing this. Don’t reply to her and be busy yourself. Replying shows weakness and she loses interest. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 01:20 PM |
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