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57

Trash taking itself out tbh. Idk if it’s cause I’m in my 30s but I’m tired of being silent about this shit. I’ve been assaulted and preyed upon by porn sick men, my friends have, so many of us here have. I’m talking about it. Sure I’ve lost some followers or views on my posts but literally who cares. If you’re defending this stuff I don’t want you looking at my profile anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:09 AM
6

Adam Driver seems like a very genuine guy and loving husband of an age appropriate wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:13 AM
4

I’m a sprinter myself, but it’s just anxiety :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:35 PM
17

I’m immediately reminded of Gaston from Beauty and the Beast. Big hunk... of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:05 AM
75

I honestly can’t, because it would never happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:15 PM
34

One of the whole 15 arrests! He must be so proud 🙄glad you’re rid of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:06 AM
1

This is interesting 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:28 AM
6

Not all, but a majority. Their cause is so individualistic and narcissistic. I can’t .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:47 PM
4

Exactly. It also completely invalidates their sex work is work argument. A majority of people work because they have to in order to survive. Nothing empowering about doing something you have to or else you’d starve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:39 AM
5

Thank you! On both counts :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:16 AM
9

Ugh hate that :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:13 AM
29

They’ve been lied to about what empowerment actually means. You know who never has to talk about being empowered by anything? Men. Because they actually have power. I seriously doubt many of them truly feel any pride or gain any true power from being exploited. And yuck I’m sorry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:56 AM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:53 AM
30

Well unfortunately 89% of all sex workers in the world are forced or trafficked into it. This is according to the World Health organization statistics. And this small minority of “sex workers” who are all online and on only fans are ignoring the cries of a majority of women forced into sex work by trafficking or economic coercion. Sure there are a small amount of women who enjoy it, but to base the laws on that minority is absurd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:42 AM
16

Aw thank you! Thankfully this was about a decade ago! Happy and in love with a HVM and following my passion as an interior designer :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:25 PM
35

Great example: A black trans activist I used to work with posted a story recently about how you shouldn’t be calling yourself a BLM ally if you click the ebony tab on pornhub. Of course placating their main audience and trying not to make them feel bad about consuming ANY OTHER porn. I messaged saying “You realize anytime you watch any video on pornhub you’re still funding videos that a super racist and exploitative. Not to mention most the porn is exploitative and harmful to every group on ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:20 PM
73

Exactly. These same people were screaming how businesses are allowed to deny people without masks. Like damn right yes they are, and insta is allowed to deny your bare ass on the explore page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:09 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:54 PM
86

Couldn’t have said it better. Also like girl it’s not cute that your loser boyfriend supports your OF and takes pictures for you. He’s literally pimping you out and unless he is one of the few straight boys who put themselves on OF, he would never do that or want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:50 PM
18

I am too! There’s more than enough places to peddle smut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:03 PM
76

Like you know what else is work? Slave labor, sharecropping, prison labor. It doesn’t make it less exploitative and morally bankrupt. So sure it is work, what’s your point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:00 PM
34

Well currently Instagram is cracking down on nudity and advertising for Onlyfans etc and that’s what they’re upset about right now. I feel insta is pretty all age inclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:59 PM
4

It definitely seems to make them feel better about themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:21 PM
18

Exactly. The amount of posts I see of men telling women to forgive their guys for watching porn/OF etc is too damn high
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:56 PM
-7

Meh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:54 PM
2

Precisely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:42 PM
13

Oh absolutely. I have slowly started posting more anti porn stuff on my insta and I was worried because I’m in an artistic community full of Libfems and pick mes who usually defend sex work and porn in some way, but I’ve been happily surprised about how many people (women) do agree at the end of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:36 PM
7

It really is I was just off for a month because I generally feel unsafe on here these days but I came back for this page and Sims and got sucked back in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:26 PM
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Oh I knew I would be downvoted to hell. But hey I was a little drunk as I watched the election results and I had to. Got a few comments back about how I’m a bitter whore who probably made bad choices and am projecting. They’re beyond help but I’m gonna say what I have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:24 PM
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This kind of stuff still blows me away daily with my man. Like he legitimately thinks about me in everything he does and I never realized it could be like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:48 PM
39

Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:31 PM
11

Cause name dropping I guess and your resume. But yeah you’re right not only does it not do anything for her really, but it undercuts good pay for all dancers in the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:38 AM
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Or she did it for free. As a dancer in NY I know tons of girls down to waste 12 hours on set for free just to be in a video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:53 AM
16

Men are 60% more likely to leave due to illness etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:05 AM
77

Omg I totally get that. As much as I loved Donna when it first aired, I’m now beyond fed up with the imaginary “cool girl” trope. Demonizing feminine women while putting women with masculine traits on a pedestal is so tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:52 AM
4

I have trouble feeling sorry for anything that happens to a rape convict. Robin deserved better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:57 AM
3

Obviously, I was making a joke. I know I’m really fortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:10 PM
182

I really wish I’d listened to more advice like this when I was torturing myself for 4 years of my life with an abusive, uncaring addict. Ugh, glad I’m here now though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:41 AM
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When my guy and I moved in he started doing 95% of the cooking, and honestly most the cleaning. Also I’m the higher libido of the two of us so.... Fuck, am I a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:23 AM
5

Disney Plus. It’s more of a “Visual Album”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:22 AM
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Stunning. Every song is incredible. She features tons of African artists and choreography. I was moved to tears multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:07 AM
22

Watching her new movie I kept thinking this. Like this woman is one of the most talented artists of all time and you just... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:00 AM
1

Yikes! I’m so sorry about that situation :( I’m very glad I have my father too. I’m not gonna lie it was hard for awhile because my dad is also a bit of a narcissist and as I became and individual and slowly more and more different than him it was hard for him. But as I’m almost thirty he’s finally given in to the fact that he has to love me for who I am and vice verse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:10 PM
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Me too! She’s a badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:50 PM
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Thank you so much for the info girl! And yeah all my Dad and I can do is hope that my sisters hold on to the truth in someway and at some point see my mom for who she is. They’re still pretty young (18 and 24) so we still have faith they’ll get there. I also went to live with my Dad when I was 16 and I think that made my mother freak out and do anything she could to keep the other two and this is what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:50 PM
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Unfortunately both my sisters, whether they really believe it deep down or not have been lost to the narcissist. They saw what happens when you speak out and chose to stay in her good graces. I don’t really have a relationship with any of them anymore. My mother continues to try to break in but I know for my own good I can’t let her. Thank you for what you wrote. It’s a constant struggle to feel like I’m not doing something wrong because losing a majority of your family sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:01 AM
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Thank you for this. I think all the time about how what my mother did delegitimizes actual victims. She delegitimized my own rape. She told my sisters I made up my rape to cover for my father raping me. It helps no one and hurts everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:17 AM
10

No insurance and an artist so just dealing :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:33 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5bce1592e4b0a8f17eef3af7/amp Tbf I couldn’t find Whitney Cummings, I thought I remembered a Joe Rogan podcast she was on but sorry for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:50 PM
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The amount of women replying starting with “I love giving blowjobs, especially rough sloppy ones, but...” is way too high
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:09 PM
94

Right, Sarah Silverman and Whitney Cummings are two I explicitly remember. Just like “it wasn’t a big deal”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:40 PM
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Totally on board with all this but as someone who has unfortunately experienced a narcissist mother who forced my two youngest sisters to say my father abused them and now broke our entire family in pieces I feel like I can’t even speak about my experience because it takes away from the women’s movement. My mother offered to buy me a car if I said he molested me too and then when I refused to lie she completely shredded my character in court. I made a few webcam videos when I was 18 and an idiot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:37 PM
79

“Hear me out, it gets me so fucking hot when someone treats me like a person. Ugh, I’m so quirky!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:03 AM
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Same, rather have a genuine sweetheart my height (5’9”) than a tall, smug, narcissist any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:32 AM
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Nah girl, we stan men with the other traits of any height who own it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:31 AM
3

Jesus, wonder what awesome response he thought he would evoke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:22 PM
12

True, employers be creeping hard these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:32 PM
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Because like retweets and male attention are life, duh. As a reformed pickme I cringe at the content I used to put online or the “photographers” I use to work with when “modeling”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:59 PM
2

So much work!!! And in a southern state. Love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:05 PM
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I’m not counting the flight. I’m saying with after 400$ on the hotel we spent that much eating, drinking and buying tickets for landmarks and museums. Also ubers as we went to Versailles for the day one day. So about 700$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:17 AM
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We did a lot! But were only there for 4 nights, with hotel at about 100$ a night I’d say 1100$ Or rather he spent ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:53 PM
1

Before Covid my bf and I went for 290$ a piece
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:02 AM
59

Cause she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:17 PM
11

Idk, my man is definitely willing to go down. Obvi like not on day one but we joke “Only the best pirates sail the red seas”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:23 PM
38

Right? Also like picnic...assuming he’s eating lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:10 AM
1

Yes girl! You deserve so much better! I dated someone who would break up with me before Christmas and then come back after my birthday so he never bought me gifts. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:15 PM
28

Hell make it lead! Or battery acid! It’s really the thought that counts you know? He took 3 seconds during a trip to the grocery store for coors light and KY to put two whole quarters in a machine for a tin ring FOR ME?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:59 AM
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Omg mine broke at work one day and he had a new one shipped there that day. We’d only been dating for 4 months. I’ve never swooned harder. A few weeks ago a box came for me and it was an IPad in the matching color, his reason was “Just Cause.” Him and this page has helped me realized how I should be treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:08 AM
3

Awww yeah I remember that ep. he’s the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:43 PM
7

I also love Keith and Chris on chicken watch or whatever their little food videos they used to do. Absolutely non toxic males and I love that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:47 PM
5

What an absolute monster. You are so right how these people are able to hone in on a target. So glad you’re working towards healing yourself girl. I wish I could afford more therapy rn because although I have a great partner I know I am still reeling from abuse from partners and a sexual assault that happened a few months before I met him. It’s taken this page to show me what happened to me was assault and not my fault. That alone is so helpful but also a lot. And thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:29 PM
10

Absolutely agree. I didn’t learn that sharing trauma can attract abuse and found myself in a string of narcissistic abuse relationships. I’m super fortunate to have found someone who is extremely understanding and good natured now and gets just as sick as I do hearing about these wrongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:17 PM
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Holy shit, I’ve seen multiple posts lately about men bringing up their partners trauma during sex and getting off on it. So deplorable. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m glad you’re here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:10 PM
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Her multiple (now deleted) replies “Our age difference isn’t what I’m here to talk about” Goddamnit so many girls need so much guidance. Why do they have no one in their lives to say something, anything to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:09 PM
85

I really can’t with r/relationships or r/relationship_advice anymore. The amount of extremely overt abuse that has to be explained to these poor women is astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:37 PM
8

Exactly. Like travel to Europe multiple times or blow out on one day and dress. Seems like an easy choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:14 PM
6

Love that, keep improving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:31 PM
12

Omg girl, so glad you’ve come this far. Yeah my longest relationship was with a man who I completely supported. So I get it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:31 PM
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Exactly, it’s a drop in the bucket. Also I don’t want a big wedding at all because my family are mostly garbage people. Literally want a courthouse marriage and a party at a later date so I feel like a ring isn’t asking anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:28 PM
18

Yeah exactly that. I mean I don’t make a ton but I could easily save a thousand or two for something like that in a few months so I expect the person I’m with to be able to too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:10 PM
85

I know this is my standards and doesn’t apply to everyone but if the man I’m with can’t save 1000$ for a ring I’m supposed to wear my whole life... he’s not the one. I showed my current boyfriend rings between 2000 and 5000, ready with cheaper options because my previous experience with men told me that would be way too much. He chuckled at how cheap they were, not having any reference for what rings cost. I was like.... 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:55 PM
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Yeah nah, just because a guy dumps someone doesn’t mean he deserves to end up crippled for life. That’s some really twisted logic. This is the type of talk that gets us compared to redpillers / the in cels so I’m not here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:09 PM
8

Oh noooo I won’t have clean socks!!! How shall I manage?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:51 PM
6

Definitely, mine too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:23 PM
12

But what about Dinner Party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:13 PM
73

Who’s to say his dick even works :/ At what cost woman, at what cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:12 AM
94

Some “Misery” level shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:10 AM
56

She was way too all over him all the time. Like yes I know he’s in a chair but shit give him some space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:09 AM
10

Omg yes that movie is so fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:09 AM
4

Or any man she dated before did too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:20 AM
7

Ding ding ding!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:19 AM
273

Reason for dumping her is he was a young handsome tall guy who could get as as many girls as he wanted. Then his options became severely limited and she was the one woman probably other than his mother willing to stick around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:04 AM
38

Aww his little fee fees were hurt cause a girl was smarter than him. 🙄ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:54 PM
79

God men are depraved. Very similar situation happened in the one I described. Literally blew him with tears streaming down my face. Fucking monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:56 PM
26

You’re right. And I definitely think of those men as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:55 PM
303

Once I was getting a tattoo from an artist I’d seen multiple times and we got into a long talk about an experience I had where I told the guy no multiple times but still ended up giving him a blowjob basically so he would leave my fucking house. My tattoo artist paused and said “Yeah I always thought a girl saying no meant try harder” and how my story was making him seriously rethink some of his experiences. We finished my tattoo in silence while he kind of shook his head at himself multiple tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:06 PM
2

Right and I just feel like the amount of self righteousness everyone in the thread had proved how self important they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:24 AM
11

Thank you! I’d have to thank this page for some of my strength. Once you realize men ain’t shit it’s just hilarious to watch them scramble to try to hurt your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:57 PM
12

So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:22 PM
92

One of them just direct messaged me to tell me “I’m dumb” Man he really got me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:59 PM
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Exactly. You should see the replies. Literal children “hey that’s mean” or what if I called women bad drivers. Like mother fucker I’ve heard that so many times it doesn’t even make me flinch, but this one off joke on a page that’s literally about making fun of people really got you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:35 PM
98

Right? Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:18 PM
112

When my man and i were first courting he made a playlist for me and one of the songs was “I come first” a hip hop song about how the woman should always come first. 2 years in, I always come first and often multiple times before he does. He was not bullshitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:17 PM
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Always women because only women have been propagandized to believe the mundane act of cleaning your house is fulfilling and worth vlogging about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:01 AM
19

Yes and then everyone laughed and they flashed to Leo as he smugly shrugged and laughed. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:09 PM
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Right, sorry I’m just an animal nerd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:43 PM
2

Also there’s a lot of animals where the sex doesn’t feel good at all, I.E. cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:31 PM
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But think about how many female animals are very discriminating about who they choose to mate with. Think of birds and the elaborate nests and dances males often have to build or do to attract a mate. And how the females often inspect a few first like nahhhhh, next. Just something to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:28 PM
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But they do in the fact that many female animals are very choosy about their mate. Think about birds and the elaborate nests the males often build or the dances they do. Every Planet Earth episode the female walks past the first few males like, ew you ain’t shit. If they did it because it felt good they wouldn’t be so discriminatory. Edit, also the concept of mating seasons. If animals only had sex because it felt good they’d be fucking all the time. Not one month of the year to preserve the spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:26 PM
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I mean it’s not really casual sex when an overwhelming majority of animals only have sex for procreation. But I see what you’re getting at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:09 AM
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I think it’s because the US kind of loved watching people get away with not paying their taxes. Even if it’s a multinational abusive cult based on science fiction and exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:48 AM
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Thank you for saying it like that. I had someone who assaulted me message me something similar and I just felt even more violated. Yes there was an apology, but the fact that he owned up to knowing what he was doing was wrong and proceeded to do it anyway made me so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:06 AM
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100% the older I get the comfier I want to be and less restricted by the patriarchy. While I enjoy makeup I hate how ugly I was made to feel without it before. If a gross ass man gets to get up, slap some water on his face and walk out the door and be accepted, well damnit I want to too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:44 AM
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He makes 185,000 a year and treats me like a queen and is more of a man than anyone I’ve ever met. Nah, I’ll keep him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:36 PM
5

What if to you and his family he’s Danny but to coworkers and people he’s meeting for the first time he’s Daniel/Dan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:43 AM
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I just wanted to comment.... remember “to catch a predator” don’t you think they would’ve loved a female pedo for ratings? But they didn’t get one, because women don’t pull this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:13 PM
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I also love how they never talk about the exponentially higher amount of men who abuse boys. If they really cared about boys being abused this is what they should talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:07 PM
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He just told me he’d wait for a video of a woman being beat so I could complain about women getting hurt. I was like yeah, I’ll wait for that video. Stilllll waiting!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:35 PM
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Right? Did she not read to herself what she wrote?! It’s all right there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:59 AM
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