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DiscussionIamthepyjama/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:06 PM
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DebateIamthepyjama/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:21 PM
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if I don’t even understand your point. Well at least you can admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:36 PM
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I cant debate with someone who doesn't understand the basis of the debate. You keep attempting to critique how ive posted in order to try to deflect from the fact you clearly don't know what you're talking about. If you can disprove my point that concealed ovulation proves that purity is not a driving force for evolution, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:17 PM
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Why did you make the assumption I didn’t know the difference. Becauseyou clearly don't Ovaries being concealed has nothing to do woth ovulation being concealed. The fact you defaulted to attacking me personally No I didn't Theres no evidence men liking purity (they dont) is driven by evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:50 PM
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Oh dear. How embarrassing you dont know the difference between ovaries and ovulation. Or the difference between learned behaviour and evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:16 AM
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Yeah. Cause that never happens to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:51 AM
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Did you read the first article?! First of all, its a mess, second of all it says that women in traditional households have more sex (although I couldnt actually find the data supporting that) because they can't say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:59 AM
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Oh yeah. The high stakes office job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:59 AM
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Men do care that women earn money They whine constantly about gold diggers and 'losing half their stuff' Most men expect their partner to work and contribute to finances. All of those is part of who the women is. Every women can provide those as a baseline. Jesus christ No. Providing sex housework and childcare for men is not a baseline or part of who women are. Most women are not with men who are famous, have lots of money or 'high teir' looks. What a load of rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:38 AM
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Men don't live unconditionally. Why are you pretending they do? Men love women for what they can do. Earn money, provide sex, housework and childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:15 PM
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385 women? On ppd? Nah Youre lucky if you're clearing 15. 10 of whom are married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:17 PM
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What I mean is ill remember to tell all the men complaining #notallmen that o It doesn't need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:20 PM
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What I mean is ill remember to tell all the men complaining #notallmen that o It doesn't need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:19 PM
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I'll remember that the next time someone says men are rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:45 PM
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The vast majority of members are men. And there are nothing 140k active posters. You're lucky if there's 50. There are nowhere near enough women here to draw any conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:43 PM
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You think all women are on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:54 PM
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The prevailing understanding being that generalisations are bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:06 PM
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Do you have any proof that what the op says is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:23 PM
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Yes If a claim is unsubstantiated, it shouldn't be taken seriously. Otherwise we'd have to take all the red pill shit seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:59 PM
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Yes If you're going to generalise you need to prove that the behaviour exists in enough people for the generalisation to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:53 PM
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Even generalisations need proof
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:48 PM
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When women were considered properly of men, you mean? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:35 PM
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If you're claiming that all women or all men do something, you need to have proof
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:34 PM
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If evolution cared about purity, ovulation wouldn't be concealed in human females
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:29 AM
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You haven't taken anything away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:26 AM
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How handy for you that you'll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:22 AM
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Eeeeewwww Imagine caring about your daughters sex life. Thats weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:18 AM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:45 AM
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Op is making claims he has no basis for. Why aren't you asking him to provide sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:31 AM
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the hard jobs only men could do. Throughout most history women got to stay at home while men saw their brothers, and fellow friends get hurt in war from many things. This is nonsense Even today men have to be in selective services while women do not Lots of countries don't have selective service. Some countries have national service for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:44 AM
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Proof all women do all these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:42 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:21 PM
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Sure I think its weird to have an age gap relationship 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:19 PM
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That everyone judges something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:13 PM
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A few comments up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:11 PM
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Being judgemental is the same as judging
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:10 PM
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It was their word
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:04 PM
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The bit where you said judging them was weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:03 PM
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You cant claim to care about being kind and not wanting to upset people and them call feminism evil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:03 PM
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So you don't judge anything adults do in their personal lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:48 PM
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Where you said being judgemental was weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:25 PM
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You dont judge anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:23 PM
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Why have you linked to a subreddit? The only hypocrisy I can see is yours. Complains about small dick shaming. Calls all feminists evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:21 PM
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but they are a force of evil that must be taken seriously. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:10 PM
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Or some men's obsession with other people's
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:08 PM
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You need proof of feminist hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:06 PM
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You assume? So you don't have an example of those feminists doing both?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:01 PM
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Every single one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:51 PM
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Those particular feminists do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:49 PM
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Trump isn't the only problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:39 PM
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Men define single differently to women Currently single does not mean never had a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:38 PM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:15 PM
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Can't say I've noticed It seems to bother you though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:34 PM
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That is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:19 AM
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They might not 'care' but they will have an opinion and for the majority the opinion will be it's weird and 'icky'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:10 AM
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I doubt people would say it to your face. They're probably all laughing at you behind your back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:04 AM
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You dont explain anything 8 % is not common People do notice and care. Because its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:50 AM
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Of course its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:42 AM
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People are not jealous of age gap relationships. They mostly just think it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:38 AM
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Calling out poor behaviour is not misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:28 PM
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Men v bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:04 PM
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Most men don't want a submissive woman Most modern men definitely don't want to pay for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:03 PM
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FSOG was widely slated by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:15 PM
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Yes But very different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:02 PM
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Absolutely. Still different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:52 PM
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Still an obvious difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:48 PM
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Nope. Women just have an extra step. Which is the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:44 PM
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You cant see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:38 PM
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There really is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:37 PM
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I didnt say you did!! Your op. The op belonging to you. It's proof of your misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:10 PM
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You literally just said I was making shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:04 PM
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Your op. It's very odd you're trying to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:00 PM
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Nope The intent of the op was clear. You think women are inferior to men. There's no other interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:57 PM
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The same is true in reverse. You didn't say that in your op. You said women were whiny little brats expecting privileges they didn't deserve. That is nothing like neither sex is equal to the other/equality doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:52 PM
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You are. The whole premise of your op is that women are inferior to men. Now you're trying to backtrack from that because being called a misogynist has offended you for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:44 PM
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I prefer to annoy people on reddit who can't debate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:28 PM
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Annoying the op was funny but it's gotten boring really quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:20 PM
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You're backtracking now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:19 PM
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Oh. I thought we were just messing about because you couldn't counter the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:18 PM
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You didn't define cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:17 PM
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Do you like sweets?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:17 PM
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What are you defining as a cookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:14 PM
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It's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:13 PM
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Which kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:12 PM
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Godwins
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:12 PM
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Sets a stupid hypothetical. Ignores most responses they can't counter. Has the cheek to call others low tier. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:11 PM
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The discussion is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:10 PM
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I didnt say unknowingly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:00 PM
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Which kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:00 PM
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Step parents can be forced to pay for step children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:00 PM
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Of course it is. The problem is solved. Accountability taken. But hey, if it's not, then financial abortions certainly aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:58 PM
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Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:53 PM
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Having an abortion is taking accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:31 PM
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There's an obvious difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:27 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:26 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:26 PM
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Women control what dicks cum in them. Not always Every woman tracks her cycle. No they don't. And cycles vary even if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:26 PM
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It clearly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:20 PM
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You haven't given anything to cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:03 PM
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No. You're ignoring the context for why these laws are needed in the first place. Evening the playing field is only a disadvantage if you dont want to give up your advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:02 PM
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I saw a thread recently asking men If men could get pregnant would you want kids? Most said no If men could get pregnant they wouldn't. So abortion would definitely not be outlawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:01 PM
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Easily led, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:59 PM
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Women pay for kids that aren't theirs all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:59 PM
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Tell me again how many single parents are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:55 PM
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They dont discriminate. They prevent discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:54 PM
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There's research saying exactly that. You have nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:41 PM
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Way to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:38 PM
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To correct the disadvantage. Like disabled parking bays. They dont give women more. Just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:33 PM
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You haven't provided me anything to dismiss. Some feminists hate men But that wasn't what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:30 PM
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Hiring a woman over an equally qualified man or over a more qualified man disadvantages than man. Hiring the man disadvantages the woman. Contracting a woman owned business over a male owned, disadvantages the make owned business. Contracting a male owned business disadvantages a woman owned business Subsidizing women owned businesses over make owned disadvantages men who own these businesses. Subsidising men owned business disadvantages women owned business Focusing on girls in education has hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:29 PM
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So again, you're equating things necessary to prevent women being discriminated against as discrimination against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:25 PM
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Which laws and practices have caused boys to fall behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:21 PM
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No. I just know you don't have any. Whereas I have evidence feminists don't hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:12 PM
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They dont disadvantage males They protect women from disadvantage. There's a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:11 PM
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Yes. Still funny. 'TERFs' aren't trying to make politics female only. They're trying to keep women's rights female
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:07 PM
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I didnt see any laws in the post I replied to Correction disadvantage is not discrimination. Do you think disabled access is discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:06 PM
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Show me the evidence you have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:05 PM
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By saying the population is half male when discussing TERFs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:02 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:01 PM
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There is no evidence feminism is 'man hating movement '
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:54 PM
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What supremacy are feminists looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:53 PM
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TERFs, it's the closest they can get to advocating a females only politics in a society that's half male. That's a fairly ironic sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:52 PM
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Indeed Achieving equality is not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:48 PM
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The definition is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:45 PM
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For men too is not the same as about men I think they just don't understand feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:37 PM
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Cool I never understand why men think feminism should be about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:34 PM
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Women gaining equality is not discrimination against men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:29 PM
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Do you think it's fine to have something just for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:27 PM
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Stating women can never be equal to men shows prejudice against women. This is so blindingly obvious even the 5 yo you are pretending to be would understand it. Calling all women whiny little brats shows dislike for women. Again, blindingly obvious. Painting men as superior shows prejudice against women. If I posted that men could never be equal to women because they're less emotionally intelligent and can't give birth and they're all rapists you'd be screaming about misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:02 PM
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Ive been trying that throughout the thread It's not helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:50 AM
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That's just bad faith bro. Lol. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:49 AM
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They absolutely show prejudice and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:48 AM
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You didn't answer the question. If you dont know what misogyny is, you're not capable of stating what you said isn't misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:45 AM
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Do you understand what misogynist means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:42 AM
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No. You dont even understand the argument being made. You try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:41 AM
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Women should recognize the benefits derived from this system, as it enables a platform for expression and advocacy that would not exist without it. Men give women rights. Women are nothing but whiny little brats who want more privileges than whats already been granted. Men and women can never be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:40 AM
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Real arguments? Op got his posting style from Trump. Uh, uh, uh, you're just dumb bro, lol, bad faith, dumb bro. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:38 AM
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Best be careful you don't bite the hands that birth you too much. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:37 AM
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Why do you think women need men to provide mortality, stability and protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:35 AM
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Your op.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:34 AM
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I doubt you'd know a logical fallacy if it hit you in the face. And how can you, a powerfu man, be bullied by a weak and powerless woman?! Either men are powerful enough to overpower women whenever they want or their not. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:25 AM
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No I don't. Who cares though?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:55 AM
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Nah It's just hypocrisy. If men were as powerful as you think they are then you'd acknowledge that the SA stats are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:54 AM
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Both sides are crying. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:53 AM
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Questioning the stats is downplaying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:52 AM
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What's that? The male loneliness epidemic? It's not women who are crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:50 AM
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Such a hypocrite. Arguing that men are superior to women because they are more powerful then denying how they use that power by downplaying SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:30 AM
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You think you're entitled to rights you don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:24 AM
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It seems nah They want it both ways They want to pretend men have ultimate power over women whilst also pretending that women have taken away men's rights. Make it make sense 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:21 AM
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You dont know? You think all men in positions of power are incels with low testosterone? Doesn't that disprove your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:19 AM
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High-school boys are scared of girls. They can't even approach 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:18 AM
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If equality is impossible, why do so many men on reddit whine that not only do women have equality, but they, in fact, have more rights than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:06 AM
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What basic concept have I not grasped? You've admitted you are powerless. Women now have equality. Some men even argue that they have supremacy. So tell me again how men are so much more powerful than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:05 AM
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Not limited. None. You're just a little brat whining about the power you don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:39 AM
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Women can murder too. They can brainwash. You dont have the legal right to take anyone's rights. You would then lose your rights because you are powerless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:26 AM
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Every single one. No you couldn't You can't remove workers' rights. Rights to freedom. Human rights. You are powerless. You have no power to remove any rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:20 AM
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What rights can you remove from someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:18 AM
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Right. So you have no power and are not in any position of power to grant or remove any rights. Didn't think so. In a few months, your president will be a woman. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:13 AM
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Huh What rights are you enforcing op? What position of power are you in? Women are nothing but whiny little brats who want more privileges than whats already been granted Says the whiny little brat scared of equality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:03 AM
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How many of those men had sex with the photoshopped pig? Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:42 AM
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It's ancient, so it doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:40 AM
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That's the joke 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:11 PM
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Sorry, 1995 is ancient so it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:03 PM
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It could be. But they'd do it regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:51 PM
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From pornhub? How do they collect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:20 PM
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Tbh I've never watched lesbian porn so I wouldn't know. Where are you figures from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:15 PM
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Probably because most straight porn is made for men and is vile
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:10 PM
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Yes. Link to the one that specifically discuss the op?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:57 PM
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I did None of your post proves it's a lie None of the other studies you linked to are about female v male incarnation length for murdering a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:52 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:36 PM
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Where's your proof it's a lie? But I'm glad you consider 1989 to be ancient and therefore null. I'll remember that the next time I see ancient sources used
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:29 PM
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And yet people with kicks are feminists. Men who view feminists as the enemy, view women as the enemy anyway. They're scared of the threat of equality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:19 PM
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Nah It's an inevitable result of society and men in particular being scared of feminists and equity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:36 PM
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The demonising of 'feminists' isn't accidental
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:26 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:19 PM
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Which influential ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:10 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:09 PM
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They being?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:08 PM
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Cross examination isn't. Harassment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:06 PM
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Did they? If so I'd imagine they'd want to protect victims from harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:00 PM
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Godwins (Also debatable)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:53 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:52 PM
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Its not a smack down Especially not when you agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:48 PM
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So you agree with the femists We support the ability of all to report intimate partner and sexual violence free of harassment and intimidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 PM
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No. You said you agreed with victims being able to come forward. That's what the letter says
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:41 PM
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Then you agree with the letter too! Go feminists!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:30 PM
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Schrodinger's rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:26 PM
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Presumption of innocence, extends beyond the court of law. But not to women, according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:21 PM
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I dont dehumanise men The letter doesn't actually mention men. Just victims. Are you against victims speaking out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:17 PM
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Why are you asking questions you know the answer to? I dont see a problem with the letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:15 PM
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You do know that feminists exist outside of reddit? How many feminist organizations wrote open letter to support Amber Heard again? No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:08 PM
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Some feminists. Most dont do any of your 3 examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:01 PM
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Of course if there is a natural difference in how people are treated based on attraction, this would also apply to when they're in a dating scenario too, This is what I'm saying. I'm asking why the op thinks this is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:32 PM
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This is public.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:29 PM
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Why are you on a debate board if you dont want to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:26 PM
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Yes. The examples are all related to dating/relationships Ive no idea why you'd think it wouldn't be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:56 PM
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No. It's that people behave differently when they're attracted to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:46 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:43 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:41 PM
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You're on a debate board
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:39 PM
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What is the point in this? Are women not allowed to be attracted to men now? Isn't that what pisses you all off? Everyone, men and women, behave differently when they are attracted to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:38 PM
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If you cant argue your point without resorting to wrestling then I can see why you're scared Also that's not how you spell "geez". Yes it is exclamationINFORMAL exclamation: jeeze a mild expression used to show surprise or annoyance. "Jeez! It's not fair!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:31 PM
1

So that's a yes? Jeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:23 PM
-1

It's only damaging if you agree it has merit or pay any attention to it. Which most sensible people won't. Who cares if some men are so insecure they want their partner to be a virgin? Let him keep looking None of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:12 PM
5

Are you scared of feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Are you gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:41 AM
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We've gone from 1000s of offer of sex to now 1000 likes and only 20 offers And still zero actual sex. Unless you're gay? Are you unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:27 AM
1

Are you gay? 20 is not thousands. Best looking is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:22 AM
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Offers are not actual sex Decent looking is subjective, as is below average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:57 AM
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That the idea that an obese, ugly woman can have sex with any man is nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:53 AM
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Some women do care. For a variety of reasons. Some don't. I dont. I dont view sex as bad or dirty or sinful. I dont view people who like sex as tainted or worthless. That tends to be the problem with men who have an issue with promiscuous women. Weird they never seem to apply it to themselves. Guess I'm not a hypocrite either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:51 AM
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Offers? From good looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:45 AM
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Because men who feel like that view women as objects and prizes to be won or owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:41 AM
1

You could just as easily say men don't women who earn more than them Why blame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:47 AM
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No I'm proving you wrong Your responses are increasingly bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:55 PM
5

Then working is just playing at having a job with realistic dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:47 PM
5

It isn't. Women have always worked/provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:47 PM
1

You could just admit you were wrong and you've contradicted yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:46 PM
3

Raising children isn't playing house
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:41 PM
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No it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:40 PM
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I'm neither. Nor am I insecure. I'm right. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:35 PM
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Ah. That explains the lounge around comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:27 PM
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Nope. You just value the wrong things. Anyway, you were wrong and you're contradicting yourself again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:26 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:24 PM
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It's easier. I wouldnt say it was easy You do all of the same things as a mother who has to work, without having to hold a job. Also true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:21 PM
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I get paid very little comparative to people who are overpaid, sure. It doesn't change that earnings are not the best way to measure how well people work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:18 PM
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That's good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:10 PM
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No. I earn well. But there are many other facets to my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:08 PM
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Do you have kids? It's dangerous being reliant on another person for financial stability, for a number of reasons. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:07 PM
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Because of childcare. But besides that, earning money isn't the only goal of work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:06 PM
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You contradict yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:02 PM
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Because of childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:02 PM
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You lack an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:58 PM
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Men do less childcare than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:58 PM
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that’s the way it’s supposed to be No it isn't I take it you don't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:57 PM
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You're contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:55 PM
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It's not true. But at least you can admit you're sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:54 PM
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That's a strong reaction. Why is your masculinity threatened by parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:53 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:44 PM
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Doesn't stop it being outdated nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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Huh. Yet you think you can speak for all men? I'm not sure how that's even related to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:20 PM
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Because they do less childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:19 PM
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Source on the 2%? It's not in the article Yes it is When it comes to what’s best for kids, most Americans think both parents should be equally focused on work and home. A 77% majority say that, when children are being raised by a mother and a father, they are better off if both parents focus equally on their job or career and on taking care of the children and the home. Some 19% say kids are better off if the mom focuses more on home and the dad focuses more on work; only 2% say a dad focused on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:19 PM
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Those are outdated nonsense too. Plus you repeated yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:18 PM
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Nah That's just outdated, sexist nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:06 PM
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Why wouldn't the role of the father be to be bonded and attached to their children and to care about their emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:50 PM
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You literally described all the ways you think women are sooooo much better at being parents If that wasn't your point I dont know what is. The point you missed is that the more parenting men do, the better parents they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:40 PM
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Because women do more childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:03 PM
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I thought you said men wanted to be sahds? Now if they don't earn as much they're bums?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:03 PM
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I'm not triggered. I think you might be though Only 2 % of people surveyed thought men should be the sahd Your figures don't specify marriages with children or without But this article shows that women with kids are less likely to earn more https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:55 PM
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Because of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:23 PM
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Pre kids it's fairly equal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:21 PM
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The stats don't back this up. Een when women are the higher earner they are still far more likely to take career breaks, go part time or give up work If they don't give up work they are still more likely to do more housework and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:21 PM
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Way to say men are shit dads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:17 PM
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No. You can split it. Or use childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:17 PM
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Which is kind of disgusting since men never had any problem with it. Yes they do. They whine endlessly about being atms and women being gold diggers. About losing 'everything' in the event of a divorce. I don't know a single man who doesn't want to be a stay at home dad, The vast majority of men don't actually want this. We want to get spoiled too, we want our women to start providing and bring $ to the table. They do. Most couples earn at least equal amounts pre kids and in some cities women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:16 PM
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serious threat to men than emotional abuse. In the UK, 70% of physical domestic abuse cases are committed by women according to independent studies (not biased arrests) https://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/full/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020 The study you've linked to isn't from the UK. It's a study from the US from 2011.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:56 AM
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Wrong or wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:30 PM
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Quote where I said anything like that? Don't get pissed off because you know I'm right. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:26 PM
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Wouldn't that be amazing? Pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding take up a tiny % of the child's life. There's no way women should have to do that and all the rest of the work It's your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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Professional childcare is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:44 PM
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How do they risk child neglect? Or spousal resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:33 PM
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What if they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:13 PM
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Do you think women who work care less about their family and more about themselves/their job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:08 PM
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And in that area, whoever cares less wins. This doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:45 PM
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You did. Or you implied it. That’s all you need to have a gender pay gap — man insists, woman defers Indeed. But women also insist. You're blaming men now lol You appear to be suggesting the options are men as breadwinner or childlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:31 PM
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Sure. It's more common than it should be. But it's not inevitable and it certainly doesn't mean men don't like or live their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:21 PM
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I feel a bit sad for you if that's genuinely how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:14 PM
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You genuinely think no men like parenting? Do you think all women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:06 PM
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No, because they want to. Some men like their kids. Believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:03 PM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:00 PM
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Experience informs views To suggest no man wants to do more parenting unless forced to is... extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:49 PM
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To your views? Fairly relevant I'd say. But I understand if you don't want to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:38 PM
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Are you in a relationship? Or have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:36 PM
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But they are. You cant say they haven't changed at all. Men do more parenting now than ever. Not enough. But definitely more. I never said any of those things did work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:27 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:08 PM
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Burden? Maybe. Reproductive control? Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:52 PM
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Yes you are You're laying all the responsibility for change on women Men need to change too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:50 PM
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A) not that often when used correctly. Especially not if used with multiple methods. B) no. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:30 PM
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Nah Unless they tell a prospective partner, they'll never know. Just need to avoid the insecure saddos
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:29 PM
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Not really and no it isn't We're on topic for the op and your comment about excuses. I'm all for holding women accountable for their choices and lack of will to change But not by blaming them entirely and letting men off the hook. Whether it's socialisation or biological women are more likely to want to work less post kids. Men less likely. That's not an excuse. It's something we have to work with if anything is going to change
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:24 PM
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But relevant to yours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:46 PM
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So? It's still a big part of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:15 PM
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Contraception and sterilisation exist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:14 PM
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It's relevant to your comment about excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:14 PM
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Relevant to your well being though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:08 PM
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No, but they can not get someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:08 PM
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It can be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:53 PM
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No it isn't. Men control their own reproduction. It's nonsense to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:39 PM
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So it's not an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:27 PM
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women are the sole determiners of who reproduces, which they are, No they aren't. Men are more involved in parenting than almost ever in recorded history. Excellent. They should be Combine this fact with women regularly overestimating their contributions ( Just women? people often vying for that often just want power. And those who don't want 50/50 just don't want to give it up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:22 PM
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You do though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:20 PM
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My point is that men aren't barred from doing it. They choose not to. You dont need to be a sahp to do your share anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:07 PM
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Men never have this option. Clearly they do 15% of sahp are men. Around 4-5% of men in western countries are unemployed. also hard to be around for your kid if the woman you are with kills it. So that’s a tough one. Yes that is a totally valid point. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:59 PM
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Huh. Yet loads of them manage it when they're not making up bullshit excuses Weird eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:43 PM
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How is it relevant? Some women (not many) work construction. Some work 12 hours as nurses or carers or cleaners. Some men sit in an office. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:31 PM
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Sure they do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:30 PM
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Most women who have kids would prefer to prioritize their time parenting their children And men don't? It’s relevant because life and biology are inherently sexist. Not sure why a short period of time over 18 years would be relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:17 PM
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No. Why would that be relevant? Men are responsible for looking after their kids up to age 18
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:46 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:46 PM
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Why would it be societies job to ensure that men can have kids and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:21 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:39 AM
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I didnt say all. I said on the whole. I think, on the whole, most women are happy being and want to be the default parent. Husband is hostile isn't an excuse but workplace is hostile is? How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:13 AM
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Average is Average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:10 AM
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Average salary for a brcky is 32 k
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:01 AM
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Your second 2 sound like excuses... You don't think wanting to be the default parent has anything to do with it at all? Even if it's socialised?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:19 AM
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Why would that be relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:53 AM
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Glad to hear it. It really is the best way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:52 AM
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Aren't they? Then why do they enable it so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:48 AM
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What is there to elaborate on They asked a question. I answered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:04 PM
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Oh well as long as the rest of reddit can see it you're sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:04 PM
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They do, but equal quantity is not feasible. Sure it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:03 PM
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Where have I done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:03 PM
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Yeah, you're right I think the pp is fully responsible for everything (That's more sarcasm btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:02 PM
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It means no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:02 PM
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No I didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:53 PM
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No, fully And you didn't state sarcastic. You stated ironic which is not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:52 PM
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Sucks to be them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:52 PM
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It's great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:51 PM
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Because kids deserve an equally involved dad Don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:51 PM
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Where did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:51 PM
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Not seen any of those from women on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:46 PM
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No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:45 PM
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What part?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:44 PM
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You seem a bit emotional about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:44 PM
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Are men supposed to spend 100% equal time as the mother? Sure. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:43 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:42 PM
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Guess I live on another planet then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:42 PM
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No I was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:41 PM
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For what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:41 PM
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For an opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:41 PM
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What excuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:01 PM
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Ummmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:43 PM
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Why does anyone post anything on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:56 PM
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Or doing less or more parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:55 PM
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They wouldn't That's why it's a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:18 PM
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I dont think no one cares. I do. You clearly do. But on the whole? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:57 PM
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Most women don't breastfeed for very long. And even if they do, there's no reason for men to not do their share
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:55 PM
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No I don't think men care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:48 PM
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Nope. I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:39 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:37 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:35 PM
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Men are entirely responsible for their own behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:34 PM
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Yup I did say that. Women enabling men's shitty behaviour doesn't absolve men of responsibility for their behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:29 PM
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Women don't care about men being the default parent. Or even an equal one. They still want them to parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:27 PM
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And if they truly don’t care, then men are right to not parent Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:11 PM
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AITA is full of made up nonsense. It is not reliable for anything. Men do less parenting than women. That's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:09 PM
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Not enough to indicate women care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:08 PM
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Nonsense on reddit doesn't count. And it's not a reasonable excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:06 PM
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Except they're not. The number of women not the default parent hasn't changed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:05 PM
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Nah. Even if they did, which they don't, it's not a reasonable excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:04 PM
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But they're not, not for that reason anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:03 PM
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The status quo of women being the default parent is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:02 PM
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Nope. Even if you had, which you didn't, it's not a reasonable excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:01 PM
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No you didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:59 PM
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No you didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:56 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:56 PM
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provided real world examples No you didn't. It's nonsense Men do less childcare than women. I didn't. No. Because you know women do more housework
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:46 PM
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I didnt ask about reddit strangers You could have chosen 2 men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:40 PM
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Well if men working and leaving women to care for the kids is them not parenting. I didnt say not parenting Or don’t make as much as their husbands they chose because they were more financially successful. That's the whole point of the op You're proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:25 PM
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No it doesn't Their still the default parent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:10 PM
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Due to women calling men pedophiles for doing so. You think women call their kids dads paedophiles for looking after their own kids? C'mon. I've heard loads of excuses but that's ridiculous Don't see how it's relavent Just interested. Odd you picked 2 women to make your point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:09 PM
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You still don't have an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:07 PM
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None of that implies they aren't happy with the status quo of being default parent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:06 PM
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It's not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:03 PM
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You didn't answer how often you vacuum No, women definitely do more childcare. That's not debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:02 PM
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The declining birthrate is because of women having less kids, not none.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:35 PM
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There's is bias in such reporting, so it's unreliable at best and misinformation at worse. That goes for men too. My mom vacuums once a month and sweeps and mops her kitchen once a week. My stepmom vacuums Your mum and step mum huh? What about you? Childcare can be separated Women definitely do more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:35 PM
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Not really I think most women are happy with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:31 PM
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And which one is more likely to ? Which one has more incentive to ? Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:29 PM
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Meh. Doesn't change anything Both sexes need to change
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:26 PM
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No. The post is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:23 PM
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It's in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:20 PM
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That's a generous take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:20 PM
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It's not even an excuse. He even says women should be at home anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:17 PM
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And by women who enable that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:15 PM
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Of course they opt out. They do less housework and childcare even when both parents are working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:14 PM
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Nah, you just don't have an argument Except the usual sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:13 PM
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Posts like mine that says both need to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:12 PM
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Yup There's also this For both studies, infants demonstrated a general preference for faced stimuli over other objects, except for male infants who showed no preference between dolls and cars at around 15 months. Infants' prior experience participating in motor-intensive activities, with wheeled toys and parental attitudes appeared to relate to female infants' preferences for dynamic toys. These results indicate a range of factors influence gendered toy preferences and suggest that nurture plays…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:10 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:04 PM
1

Yup As do men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:01 PM
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Yes I agree However in the meantime, it's not an excuse for men to opt out. And American mat leave is notoriously shit. Meaning women learn to be parents while working
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:00 PM
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And by women who enable them to not do enough parenting. By agreeing to go part time or give up work after having kids. From the op
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:57 PM
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Not really. You set your own tone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:54 PM
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Women manage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:53 PM
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Of course it has time to be socialised. Studies show caregivers interact with each sex differently from birth. A new born infant days old has rubbish eyesight and doesn't know what its looking at if that's the roure you want to go down. Can you give me a link to this robust evidence for newborns?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:52 PM
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That's not an argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:48 PM
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Because I'm right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:48 PM
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Then you don't actually want it. Don't blame her. It's not a compromise A compromise would be sharing it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:47 PM
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Paternity and maternity should absolutely be equitable It's nonsense to suggest men can't learn the 'house skills' while working though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:46 PM
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So I'm back to where we started If you actually wanted it, you'd do it. You dont actually want it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:42 PM
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Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:41 PM
1

So your first comment was a load of rubbish then? Why are you blaming your partner when you agree with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:40 PM
1

Which is the point of the op
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:39 PM
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Is that her not parenting or caring about her kids? No I don’t see the logic. Not surprised given your comment is completely illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:38 PM
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Doesn't sound like you've fought for it. There are loads of options other than her being a sahp. Also, I was very clear from the start pre marriage and kids I wanted equal parenting split and would not have settled for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:34 PM
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Yes I've had kids. We split child care equally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:31 PM
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If you wanted it you would
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:28 PM
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Doesn't mean they don't sing and dance and do stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:24 PM
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They dont work harder As in they don't work harder than women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:22 PM
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There's no such things as 'before socialisation' Babies are socialised from pre birth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:22 PM
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They make the choice in what jobs to pursue So do men. And which man to date and marry Men choose which women to marry You marry a higher earner, you’re gonna be the one with the weaker case for professional priority But as I've proven, even if you don't, you're still more likely to give up work, which as you say is the fault of women Men choosing not to reduce theor hours is their fault. Not sure why you're trying to excuse men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:21 PM
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Especially in things like toy preferences between male and female infants. Did you see the study where they told the adults the baby was the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:18 PM
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Behaviours are not the same as physical attributes We know socialisation has an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:15 PM
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Men do that shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:12 PM
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chance for socialization which confirms these innate biological preferences of No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:10 PM
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If it was there would be no overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:08 PM
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OK? How does that mean it's women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:07 PM
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Your opening argument appeared to he we should let men not parent as much because they work harder. They dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:07 PM
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The preference is socialised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:06 PM
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Because of twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:59 PM
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Again, men do parent but DIFFERENTLY than women So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:58 PM
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I didnt say earned more. I said no real difference Also Women are more likely than men to reduce their hours or stop working when they have children – even if they earn more, new analysis show However, 13% of women who earn more than their male partner leave work after their child is born, compared to just 3% of men who are the higher earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:56 PM
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You’ll rarely see a woman on construction sites or as loggers or fishers. You rarely see men doing those jobs either. Women are nurses, carers, cleaners. Teachers. All physically demanding roles. Sometimes dangerous too Parenting should be a shared responsibility but couples should try to make compromises depending on how much free time they have, their work responsibilities, etc. No. It should just be shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:55 PM
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If men don't want to parent, maybe they shouldn't be parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:53 PM
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Everything is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:52 PM
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Not in the way you're suggesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:47 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/aug/29/women-in-20s-earn-more-men-same-age-study-finds https://diversityuk.org/gender-pay-gap-grows-childbirth/#:~:text=Funded%20by%20the%20Joseph%20Rowntree,pay%20per%20hour%20than%20men. https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/women-institute-for-fiscal-studies-b923673.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:47 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:43 PM
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Men and women are different. They are. That doesn't mean men can't love or care for their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:40 PM
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Women absolutely do quit or reduce hours when they are the higher earner. Even if they didn't I'm not sure why that would mean men weren't also to blame. There's no real difference in earnings pre kids anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:39 PM
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I meant mid as in middle. Not the best or worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:35 PM
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What they need is caregiving, love, and high attention to their needs, which women and moms tend to be much better at. Quite the self own, as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:35 PM
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Nah. There's lots of ways to ensure both parents are fully involved. And post pregnancy and bf there's really no excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:32 PM
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Humans do lots of things differently to other mammals. Men can be very good parents. You do them a disservice to suggest they can't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:31 PM
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Women seem to manage while working physically demanding jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:28 PM
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You did. So it's not about women not being good enough but about your company not being good enough to attract the top talent If it was, you wouldn't have the mid developers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:26 PM
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Partly women's fault. Partly men's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:23 PM
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No you said the best talent went to different companies. Your company just wasn't attractive enough. Wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:23 PM
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How is that different to the op?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:19 PM
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Ah. So your company wasn't good enough to get the best talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:18 PM
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more labor intensive and dangerous jobs than women? Some do. Some don't. provide the same level of parenting as women who likely work in white collar or easier/safer jobs. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:17 PM
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And they couldn't find 1 single girl who was good? Not 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:04 PM
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What mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:03 PM
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Again, did you read the op?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:00 PM
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Women are shoved in jobs thanks to DEI and HR. You can become a programmer with no experience and little to no knowledge of the role so long you have a vagina. Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:57 PM
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Did you read the op?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:55 PM
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Most companies still don’t provide equitable paternity leave which starts fathers off at a deficit from day 1. Depends where you live. Lots of places do but the uptake is abysmal. So why arent men taking paternity leave even when it is available? Why arent they fighting for their employers to provide it? They don’t have the same hands-on learning that the mother does, They dont have days off?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:53 PM
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Do you have kids? That's some self own if you do. What happens after toddler age?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:46 PM
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That's not what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:45 PM
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Men are naturally worse parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:40 PM
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I'm not sure this makes sense. According to Google the wages are fairly comparable Both average around 40k (us) So why would men choose the 'harder' role?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:37 PM
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Sure is stinking up this particular thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:03 AM
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If anyone ever needs a clue as to why some men struggle to get dates, they'd only need to read this thread. Talk about bitter. Its coming out your pores. Also, you didn't date anyone. The 'experiment' isn't even valid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:52 AM
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You could also argue humans have 'evolved' to not rely on bm. But yes, I agree with your point that humans are not biologically suited to raise children as we do now. Nor did women biologically evolve to do nothing but cater to their child (and husbands) every whim for 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:24 PM
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Way to dis dads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:24 PM
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It certainly reads like your personal beliefs If you believe evolution, THEN you must believe in evolutionary psychology. This is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:52 PM
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So you don't think evolution is fact but you do think survival of the fittest as applied to human mating behaviour is? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:34 PM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:27 PM
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No it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:25 AM
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I dont believe in free will, and humans are definitely animals. Evo psych is still bullshit. You've a cheek to talk about anyone pretending whilst spouting crap like this 'is gross mucus in her disease ridden hole. Especially women as the truth takes away their power. How can they be seen as innocent angels when there dark side is exposed'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:01 AM
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I havent screamed about anything It's fairly common place to expect people who have replied to you to be replying about something relevant you've said. This is just more inane waffle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:57 AM
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I dont 'believe' in evolution like I dont 'believe' gravity. Its just a fact. Evo psych is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 AM
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That's the op. Which I agree is ridiculous but that's what I was commenting on and what you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:14 AM
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And me not doing so means nothing. 😂 you replied to me. you brought up evo psych and claimed it was relevant. Now you can't be bothered backing that up? Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:50 PM
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You didn't dismantle anything. Can you answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:41 PM
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Where does evo psych say men should want to buy hand bags?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:37 PM
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The who?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:34 PM
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Evo psych is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:00 PM
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No they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:54 PM
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The main, fairly obvious difference is bodily autonomy. Men don't need to give up bodily autonomy to be a dad so they don't get to opt out of it. Don't want to be a dad? Don't get anyone pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:15 PM
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Which women say or expect this? The only people I ever see talking about biology in this context are those who think women are biologically suited to raising children. I've never seen anyone say men are biologically suited to buying handbags
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:12 PM
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If things were 50/50 at least some of the issues women face would be resolved. I dont think we need to go any further than that Sadly, though, I dont think we'll ever reach 50 / 50 so women will remain disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:34 AM
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Women enjoy sex. Biologically women are less likely to have pathological sex drives. Unlikely to pay for it or use force to get it But that doesn't mean they don't have healthy sex drives or don't enjoy sex Op seems to lack even basic knowledge on sex and women and has clearly been brain washed by the usual misogynist myths about women More to be pitied than laughed at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:10 AM
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You seriously need to stop using reddit subs as proof of what women are like. It would be like women using only porn to prove what men are like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:04 AM
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Do you literally think humans have sex exactly like animals? Only to make babies? Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:00 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:57 AM
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Why would women pretend? Serious question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:56 AM
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Doesn't mean it's not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:08 PM
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But you said you wouldn't have kids if you were poor. So being poor isn't relevant and you'd be able to split 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:58 PM
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Again, I'm not sure what that has to do with what we were discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:50 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:43 PM
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What's that got to do with what's being discussed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:34 PM
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Shifts? Weekends. Being self employed Wfh. There's loads of options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:32 PM
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It's not that hard Lots of people do it to save on childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:30 PM
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He also said everything should be 50/50 so he seems a bit confused You cant tale turns but it is possible for both parents to work and share childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:26 PM
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Why can't he do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:12 PM
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You are 100% responsible for finances and also some parenting and housework. And your partner is 60% responsible for parenting and housework and 0% responsible for finances? Isn't that just as bad as the men you're criticising for paying for dates? I dont see how it's different And if you want a parent at home, why didn't you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:42 AM
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Its neither bad faith nor nit picking. Youve claimed to wait equality but don't have it. You're not sharing 100% of responsibility when only you are responsible for paying bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:34 AM
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Parenting And your partner isn't paying any bills It's not equal from either of you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:23 AM
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Your op is about being 50/50 and being equal. So why aren't you doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:05 AM
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Why don't you want to raise your kid yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:59 AM
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Can't see any good reason for not having sex prior to marriage and loads of negatives to waiting. Will you expect your future spouse to be a virgin too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:22 AM
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What women initiating divorce have to do with it? Are men incapable of raising their kids post divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:22 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:26 PM
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Men are not owed sex. Women don't owe men anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:22 PM
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Single fathers result in well adjusted human beings. Huh. Yet so many of them leave them to be raised by awful single mothers What's up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:16 PM
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Men literally say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:22 PM
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usually around 2%, of fathers are unknowingly raising someone else's children Meaning 98% are raising their own children 49 in 50 are raising their own children. Should we normalise paternity tests for such an tiny tiny % of cases? No. Of course not. requesting a paternity tests is framed as a direct insult to the woman. Because it is If you want a paternity test, get 1. Literally nobody stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:19 PM
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Whose the daddy? Man or bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:14 PM
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