IamtherealFadida Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What would you tell your younger self? Yep	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/21 04:30 AM
3	Likelihood of having to pay support? Australian here. I feel so sorry for you guys and "alimony"? We don't pay it here thank fuck. I'll be highly reluctant to have a de facto/marriage again. If I lived in the US I would 100% not	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/21 06:11 AM
2	How do you deal with hating yourself for having Freetime away from your kid/s? Gaming is great. 52M	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/21 05:41 AM
2	Louie C.K. Divorce Yep. I want the kids 100% of the time. She's happy with 50%. Waiting til that becomes 25%	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/21 05:39 AM
2	When she divorces you after many years together Husbands: 😂😂😂	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/21 05:35 AM
1	Best State for Men to Divorce? The state of denial (I'll get my coat)	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/21 06:59 PM
1	Struggling a little bit, would just like to know I’m doing the right thing!! I was paying 100% of the bills after separation, and now she won't repay them. $4k worth. While she was unbeknownst to me hooking up elsewhere	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 08:51 PM
4	What would you tell your younger self? I love helping with the homework (homeschooling because of COVID). I also did all the swimming, hosting of playdates, joined their martial arts class to keep them interested, read the bed time stories. I got 25-30 hours less sleep a week, paid for everything. The whole time she was on Facebook. The whole time. Left the kitchen in filth Complained I didn't show her enough affection, after sleeping 3 hours out of 48 and waking up to hours of cleaning. Eventually she wanted a separation and then sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 07:23 PM
1	Struggling a little bit, would just like to know I’m doing the right thing!! Fellow Australian here going through the same thing. She also wants 60% of the house, even though she has chosen to be underemployed. The whole thing is soul destroying, not just the financials	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 07:15 PM
1	Home valuation question As an honest person I concur 100%	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 05:29 PM
5	What would you tell your younger self? Yep. My life is a mess because I knowingly settled	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:43 PM
5	What would you tell your younger self? While they sit on Facebook watching shitty reality tv and blaming you for putting on weight, because "you're not sweet enough"	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:39 PM
4	What would you tell your younger self? THIS. Even in separation she wants more. More time to herself. More of my money. I woke up at 6.30am, cooked, cleaned, washed and remade the beds, washed and put away all of the kids clothes, moved and cleaned the guinea pigs, walked the dog, went bike riding with the kids. While I was making the beds and getting ready to lie down for an hour (my day hadn't even started, working a 10 hour night shift- awake 26 hours straight) she comes in and asks why I didn't get our daughter a treat as she was…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:37 PM
2	Today is the day I told her Because you can care for someone but not love them.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:28 PM
1	Daddy’s little girl Living in the same house for a year. Kids 11 &10 know we are separated but I currently see them at least 13/14 days. Ex wants to "nest" which will mean I only see them half of the time..The thought absolutely kills me, while she is happy to only have them 50% of the time. Looks forward to it in fact. I often break down when the kids do/say something which shows how much they love me.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:24 PM
2	Rushing into a Separation Agreement Yep. Some out of date shit about the kids needing their mother as the primary carer	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:19 PM
1	Rushing into a Separation Agreement 100%. Separated a year but living together most of the time. My Ex broke it off but constantly tells me I should leave because I am the male. WTF?! My response is "you wanted out, you leave". She has a place to go on her weekends "off", and a boyfriend. She wants me to go somewhere on my weekends "off" (last one was 10 weeks ago) as I don't allow her to "mother as she wants", which I can only conclude means her on Facebook while they YouTube. I'm happy to "nest" but I'm not getting a place just …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 04:16 PM
1	Missing family life Yep, my Ex is exactly that. I did 75% of the paid work, at least 50% of cleaning, washing, 75% of the cooking, >50% of the activities, 50% of the school runs. And she's claiming 60/40 on the house because she was "unable to work more" due to domestic responsibilities. Even though she told the counsellor she was "winding down to retirement" (at 45, with zero savings). She knocked back extra work because it interfered with her yoga class....	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/21 03:43 PM