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I didn’t get Red Pilled until after college. I was a good student and It’s actually disturbing how many times I fell for this. Thank goodness for MGTOW and Red Pill...
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 11:54 PM
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Awesome, thanks for replying. Sadly I live alone in a big city so I don’t have a social circle. I’ll have to cold approach looks like.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:19 PM
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I’m usually pretty direct, “do you have any plans this weekend?”
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:11 PM
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Thanks dude, appreciate the feedback. Looking forward to getting back out there.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:35 PM
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Awesome dude! I'm going to be working on day game in a few weekends (sadly I'm too busy the next couple of weeks). I'm pumped and ready to get after it. We should DM and discuss strategy
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 06:33 AM
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Nice! Great advice thanks. Physical escalation is my next skill to tackle. It's awesome hearing success with it.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:59 AM
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Great advice man. People overthink it I find. Just keep approaching and get comfortable... if you are jacked and not creepy you are more or less good to go. I’m just starting to go to the gym so it won’t be awhile until I see those results
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:12 AM
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Good point. I'm going to try some physical escalation next time. It's my biggest weakness for sure.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:01 AM
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Physical escalation is my biggest weakness right now. I'm going to try and improve that next time I go out.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:01 AM
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Thanks man! You are 100% correct. I'm by nature "one of the good guys." Physical escalation is something I definitely need some serious work on. I'll try some subtle touches next time.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:00 AM
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Great post. I'm a huge believer in fragrance as most guys don't wear anything and smell is surprisingly primal when it comes to attraction. However, make sure you wear something undoubtedly masculine like Comme des Garcons 2 Man. You wouldn't want a chick to smell like musk and wood so why would a chick want you to smell like roses and cotton candy (not even joking, mens fragrances are dangerously unisex these days). In order to rock fragrance however, one has to have his style down. If one look…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 11:41 PM
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Thanks man! Appreciate it. It's unreal how things change once you swallow the red pill. You are no longer confused and see things for what they are. For many the Red Pill more or less saved them (myself included) as they can now look after themselves and handle women. It's wonderful that something like this exists.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 11:22 PM
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Ah interesting...so in this case was she just passing the time with me/being polite? Or did she want me to chase?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 11:19 PM
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Ah interesting. I think in this case she's gone. I'll just find another. This time though...I'll wait a day or two before texting.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:57 PM
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Thanks man, I'm always down to learn more. What questions do you usually ask/open with?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:56 PM
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Oh it’s very interesting since everything in The Rational Male is accurate and seeing it play out in real life is crazy. The whole social dynamic is like a science. You see clearly betas vs alphas, and why alphas succeed. The alphas succeed because they show genuine indifference. Betas desperately latch on. It’s funny because betas can be jacked, stylish and successful. The main difference is indifference to women and action vs non-action. Today actually I was with one girl. I was friendly but s…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:11 PM
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Ah interesting, I’ll do that. Do you have any experiences with this?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:03 PM
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Thanks man! Appreciate that. The main thing is you learn and improve next time. For me it’s escalating and continuing, not running away.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:03 PM
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Look. I'm not wasting any more time with you. This is my last response. You aren't mature enough to swallow the Red Pill. In order to view the world through a red pill lens one must view the world objectively. Stop taking everything personally. If you aren't willing to change, things won't get better. Also, a muscular 5'10 guy (you're 5'9) with low body fat is roughly 170-175 lbs. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:52 AM
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Wow. You're hopeless dude.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:27 AM
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My SMV is about a 7. I am good looking and stylish but skinny and broke. I could wait, focus on my professional life and let women come to me through my success, but I don't want to wait. I want to get laid now and I know it's possible if I put in the time. I know that I won't be able to wheel 10/10s but I am okay with 7's and 8's. Hell even 5's I would be down for at the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:52 AM
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In my opinion this is correct but also difficult to explain. If you have a 10/10 SMV this phrase is 100% correct. If you have a semi-high SMV and are in a closed environment in which you see the same women day after day this is also correct. However, if you are alone, with an okay SMV (7-8), in a giant environment, this simply isn't correct. For example, if you walk down the streets of New York (with a SMV of 7-8), and you don't care about women, women won't care back. I live alone in a huge cit…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:46 AM
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Thank you! I am so happy I swallowed the RedPill. Now looking forward to what the future has to offer.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:14 AM
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If you follow these steps you will be able to attract women. If you don't you will stay miserable. It's as simple as that. 1) Loose weight. 5'9 185 lbs is too heavy. Run constantly and lower portion size. 2) Read The Rational Male. 3). Read The Book of Pook. 4) Change your style (if you haven't already) and invest in a good cologne. Study malefashionadvice if you are unsure. 5.) Approach women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEkZQhWCbM8&list=PLc0ltYftQGHmChlepDMpbAI7gGRZW95CL&t=19s&index=4 I mus…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:11 AM
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If one wants to learn guitar as something fun to do, they have to put in the time. I view women the same. If you want to sleep with them, you have to put in work.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:43 AM
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Thanks for reading and replying. I have a mission and it is the most important thing in my life. Fucking women is something I want to do in my free time. I understand however, that one must work for it (like playing an instrument or sport).
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:41 AM
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I believe that your mission should come first. However, if you are bored or want to bang a chick, do something about it. Don't wait for them to come to you. If you want a girl, go get one. If you fail, work on it. I don't like the mentality of letting them come to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 02:11 AM
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Hey man, you aren't alone with this. I went through a similar thing. I had a very close friend who was cool, intelligent but ultimately selfish, very lazy and self-destructing. I ditched him as softly as I could (made excuses, eventually he got the point). In my opinion friends should have similar mindsets and ambitions. If one doesn't have similar mindsets and ambitions the friendship is forced and not natural. If you stick with him you will suffer and he will benefit. It shouldn't be like that…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:52 PM
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Thanks man! That’s a good way of viewing it.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:23 PM
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I wouldn't pursue. 17 can get you in legal trouble. Find a girl who is 18 or above.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:32 AM
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Thanks man, great advice.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:23 AM
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Thanks man! Appreciate you taking the time. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:49 AM
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Ah, Interesting...I'm hoping to get to that point through experience and approaching.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:48 AM
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I'm stuck in a shitty small town until the 11th lol, there are no women around.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:48 AM
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Good call, will do.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:42 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate it. Low body counts are definitely best, but finding a virgin over the age of 21 is next to impossible unless you want to settle for a super religious and strange chick.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:14 PM
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I agree, but in today's day it's almost impossible to find one that isn't a hyper-feminist or super religious and odd.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:13 PM
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Similar with me man. My Dad vaguely knows what I'm doing.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:35 AM
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Thanks dude. I've learned a long time ago that JADE doesn't work with him. He's just too rigid in his ways and always will be. He doesn't really know much about me truth be told. I don't plan on informing him anytime soon. I'll tolerate his BS and then go back to my life when these two weeks are over.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:33 AM
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Thanks man, it's nice to talk to someone who is in a similar situation. Great advice.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:59 AM
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Thanks for reading and commenting. This is great advice. I think I'm going to tolerate him as it's only two weeks and he is my dad after all.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:58 AM
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I am going through a similar thing. I left the small town I grew up in for a big city. I became more ambitious in every area of my life, including women. I went back to visit my small town recently and was astonished how beta and weak my old childhood friends were. Sadly I realized that I used to be like that, although while I changed, they did not. They say shit like: "there isn't the respect with girls like there used to be" or "no...approaching isn't my style." Sadly finding highly alpha frie…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:09 PM
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From what I saw it consists of two kinds of guys. 1) Guys who were too weak for the red-pill/truth and instead took the easy path of extreme hatred and/or laziness or 2) Brutally Ugly guys (sad) who more or less look deformed and have no chance in hell of wheeling a chick (brutal truth) unless they were crazy rich. Most guys are average looking but think they are ugly. However, they can dramatically increase their appearance though low body fat and high muscle development. Although on /braincels…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:50 AM
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I'm going through the exact same thing. It's very VERY frustrating. I have went out, approached, and been rejected by up to 30 women a night. However, I'm not going to give up and neither should you. The main thing is you learn from your mistakes and keep doing it. It's honourable to fight. It's dishonourable and cowardly to give up. DM me and we can work though this together since we are in the same phase. Hell, I'm actually going to a park right now to approach.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:36 PM
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Great advice on rejection! Very well said. In a few weeks I'm going to be going out and approaching over and over until I get laid. I'll be getting rejected constantly and this will help me power through.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 05:30 AM
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This might sound strange, but it has worked for me. Keep in mind I'm still learning cold approach game. I'm not jacked but I am a stylish guy, this might not work for you if you haven't worked on your appearance (style, hygiene, muscles). Me: "Hey do you want to grab a coffee sometime?" Her: "Wait what? Do I know you?" Me: "No, but you know, it would be a fun thing to do." This follows with either A, B or C: A: "Uh, no thanks/I have a boyfriend" - Find another chick. B: "Oh really? Yeah okay sur…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:50 AM
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I went through the exact same thing. I grew and matured while my childhood friends did not. When I hung out with them (childhood friends), it was obvious that the connection we once shared wasn't there. We still wish each other the best and text from time to time but that's about it. I made new friends with similar ambitions and interests. I rarely see the old friends.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:10 AM
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For me it’s thinking “whatever happens, I can handle it. This isn’t life or death.”
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:41 PM
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Lol yikes...
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:37 AM
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Oh if you are super stylish girls will bang. Like if you are owning your look and standing out.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:17 PM
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You’re right actually thanks, girls are attracted to work ethic but that’s more for a dating/long term thing. In terms of fucking or one night stands girls are attracted to being jacked and being sure of yourself.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:16 PM
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Thanks dude! I'll do that. Going to a beach later today actually. I'll work on my game there (approaches + sealing the deal).
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:48 PM
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Thanks! Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:11 PM
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This makes no sense...
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:45 AM
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One shouldn't dwell on the past or have regrets. They should always push forward towards improvement and forget about their past self. That isn't you anymore.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:40 AM
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I couldn’t agree more man. Sadly we didn’t understand this before RP. At least we know now.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:55 PM
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Very interesting, you basically nailed it. I have two friends who clean up on Tinder. One of them is very successful and his job more or less gets him noticed every time. Regardless, his profile looks like: 1) Dog Pic with him smiling 2) Him with a group of well dressed suits smiling. 3) Him at an exotic location and smiling. Girls message him first saying shit like "wow how is it being a *job title*?" My other friend is very good looking with an average job, he looks like a muscular River Phoen…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:44 PM
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Usually all relationships ended by her are your fault. There is one exception however. The only time she ends a relationship and it's not your fault is when it comes down to you not giving up a hobby or behaviour for her. You shouldn't change your identity for a chick. It's totally unhealthy...
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:07 AM
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Ah yes, I've been here many times. The moment you serve a chick, she looses interest. Even at clubs, saying "want to have a drink with me?" vs "can I buy you a drink?" is huge.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:55 AM
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I have experimented with Tinder several times. In my experience it only works well with very muscular good looking men (quick fuck) or men with good high paying jobs (potential mate?). If you don't have these, brace yourself for a lot of rejections. I don't recommend Tinder. I recommend focusing on your mission path and allowing women to come naturally.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:42 AM
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Do NOT end it all. I have been here. I know the truly awful feelings you feel. This is true suffering and I'm glad you reached out. There are periods where your emotions may not be as strong. Use these periods to think objectively. Step 1: Get a Job or work towards a career. I don't know your background, but I know that you should do everything in your power to get a job. Try to ignore your feelings and focus on this. Step 2: Work to advance in your career. Make it your purpose to become powerfu…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:36 AM
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I feel your pain man, I've been there. You aren't alone. In my experience there are two rules to solving this: 1) Remain on the Mission Path (your goal, something that will dramatically improve your standard of living and make you more valuable, example: Graduating from School, better job etc) 2) The Mission Path is the most important thing in your life. Women will come naturally if you keep these rules in mind, it's hard to believe but it's true. Suddenly one will ask you a question at work or …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:25 AM
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Going out for Ice cream is a timeless classic.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:04 AM
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Honestly it depends what YOU like. A scent can say a lot about your personality and leave a lasting impression on women, it's very powerful. Avoid buying things simply because they are popular. Remember that the best selling designer fragrances have likely already been smelt by women... Fragrances I have gotten huge compliments on: Wonderwood by Comme Des Garcon and Epic Man by Amouage.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:02 AM
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Great article. Ultimately what defines us is what we accomplish. We can't accomplish if we don't have discipline.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:27 AM
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Very interesting post! I'm glad you brought this up. One has to know this if they want to be with the hottest women. Never settle for the anything expect the best.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:31 PM
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