| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 168 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-Card | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 04:56 PM | |
| 144 | Enough is enough! | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 03:05 PM | |
| 47 | How do you guys do it? | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:23 AM | |
| 14 | When should I break it off or keep trying? | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 01:08 AM | |
| 6 | [FR] First non-tinder date in ages | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 07:36 PM | |
| 3 | Drying up during dates? | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 11:26 PM | |
| 2 | Am I just a hopeless case...? | Icanfly91 | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 02:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardI dont get it? | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardWhen I first joined seddit I did but since then I learned that it is about more than that | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardLiterally hours :'D | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardYeah, I dont know how sex usually goes but this felt special | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardFor me seduction is not about improving myself just to attract women. I do it to become an overall better person in all kinds of interactions. Women are just a bonus. Game has also evolved to more than just lines and stuff. I can just as well try to seduce a girlfriend ;) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardWell, something around that? But I guess it depends how you define foreplay (where and when does it start). For me it was as soon as we started making out in bed. So if you dont count that maybe deduct an hour... | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardDo I need to learn how to game? I could just improve myself with her (if it comes to that). Getting into relationship doesnt have to mean that you have to give yourself up. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardI lost my faith in that app as well... just became so hard to even get a date despite a decent amount of matches. But hey, in the end its a numbers game. Day game or whatever has his advantages but so has tinder (you usually know what the girls want) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardUhm, till the end? I dont know for how long we had actual intercouse maybe like 20 or 30 minutes? But with lots of switching up. The damn long foreplay didnt make things easier for me, try keeping an errection up for like 2 to 2,5 hours and then with a condom.. And yes I did (but earlier in the day) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardUhm, till the end? I dont know for how long we had actual intercouse maybe like 20 or 30 minutes? But with lots of switching up. The damn long foreplay didnt make things easier for me, try keeping an errection up for like 2 to 2,5 hours and then with a condom... | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardWhat about one-night stands? These usally happen on the first date eh? :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardI count on it | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardNah, I dont think so. My study subject is rather unpopular and for many peope boring. What helped is how I presented myself (well groomed, made her laugh a lot... just normal guy who didnt appear to only want to fuck her) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardNot even close. I am not much a guy for scales but she is pretty (not one of these fake instagrams beauties, more like a natural beauty) and got a banging body ;) I would also call her out of my league but I guess I underestimate myself. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardYes, she made it goddamn easy for me but it's not like I didnt have to do anything ;) She made signals which I totally overlooked but at the first make out we both initiated it (like leaning forward at the same time?)... But yeah, I got mostly lucky | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardSome people here like to say that sex is overrated but man... so much passion and emotions. There is obviously good and bad sex, guess I got god damn lucky and got the best sort. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardI do not consider myself hot or whatever but I have been told that I am not bad looking. According to her tho I am hot. So really no idea where I am on that scale in general. I am a student with not that much money available after counting my appartment (shared) and all the bills. But I probably have a good shot at a nice job once I am finished. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardWhy? Because of the circumstances? | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardCall it luck, fate or whatever. Play the numbers, improve on your mistakes and you may get lucky :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Enough is enough!Oh yeah... I always feel awesome during or after the gym. The hard part is to actually go there, once you are there its easy. But sometimes you have shitty workouts where you somehow have half the energy than usually. Think it's pretty damn similar with girls. Sometimes you have wonderful interactions and sometimes they just suck. But its the high from these awesome interactions that make you come back. Gonna be a long way but I hope I reach enough highlights along the way that keep me going. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Enough is enough!That is something I have to figure out along the journey. Above I pointed out some stuff where I see myself failing: Kino (I never use it), eye contact (mine is pretty weak even with alcohol), smiling (mooore), tonality (mumble a bit too much and way too flat) and I also need to lead... A lot of that stuff, if you do it right, will make you more charismatic. Go with a certain ease into the conversations, focus on having fun and find the right words... Some of that stuff you can actually improve … | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Enough is enough!Well... If you start preparing just 1 day earlier it should give you enough room for 3-4 gym sessions. Now start a whole week earlier and you can go to the gym all the time :) | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Enough is enough!What I need to do? Heck, if I knew I wouldnt be in this situation. Whats not working is basically everything. Even if I get approached by girls I manage to kill the interaction. I can probably list a few things where I need to improve during interactions: Kino (I never use it), eye contact (mine is pretty weak even with alcohol), smiling (mooore), tonality (mumble a bit too much and way too flat) and I also need to lead... So yeah, it is not that I dont know what to talk about or whatever but it… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Am I just a hopeless case...?Gotta take action. I have come a long way from being the lone video gamer trying to go pro to being a decent human being with many people around me. But all the theory doesnt help at all if women who have taken an interest in me apparently still scare the shit out of me. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I just a hopeless case...?Too old man... 25. I never really cared about it until a few years back. Making up excuses. You are young and seem to already care about it. You will manage | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Am I just a hopeless case...?Yeah... /u/BestSC86 has put it quite right. Being my age and having basically no reason at all just your own screw ups all the time... You put a lot of pressure on yourself and once you get in a good spot you suddenly stop functioning. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Am I just a hopeless case...?Sadly she is in a line of many missed opportunites. I know where I fail but just cant manage to fix it | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Am I just a hopeless case...?That actually seems pretty spot on. Will try | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | When should I break it off or keep trying?Dunno about directly asking but I will try subtle hints | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | When should I break it off or keep trying?Yeah, I have my issues. I am usually not as boring on dates as my writing indicates (non native). But I could probably turn it up a notch, thats true. | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | When should I break it off or keep trying?Taking longer walks outside is not really an option with the current weather situation. Last time tho we played billiard. Probably missed lots of chances for easy kino. Something is always holding me back. Gonna try to get more sexual during the meetings | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | When should I break it off or keep trying?Yeah... probably the best course of action, gonna do it if I get the chance | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How did your first Tinder Date go?Met in the evening for a few drinks or beer. Not really a fan of meeting for coffee. Greeted her with a hug. Picked up on things we talked about on whatsapp, so we had some starter topics. Was overall less awkward than someone would suspect it to be. Didn't close tho but thats mostly because I suck at closing. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Drying up during dates?ha... yeah, thanks You might have realized, english is not my native tongue | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First non-tinder date in agesThanks :) Actually made it to the second date (dont think she will flake). She seemed a bit nervous at times, fumbling with a bracelet, her hair. God, I am an idiot not picking up on those signals... I never had the self-awareness that I am actually not looking too shabby, came to that realisation only a while ago and I haven't fully grasped it yet I think and that makes me acting a bit too careful. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First non-tinder date in agesThank you :) The thing is: I apparently don't learn. It's the same with every date. It's not that I am intimidated by those girls but I still have a hard time getting physical (or starting it at least). About things like high fives, in what kind of context should you do it? She said something really cool? I don't even do stuff like that with friends, so doing it with a date is quite a step... I am afraid that it would come off as forced, awkward. She had really nice earrings and maybe I should h… | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?I have a gym membership but haven't been there since early december... always finding excuses (was injured, then sick bla bla) Gonna go there tomorrow! Then one step at a time. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Once I do stuff I can do it for hours but the inital blockade is quite big... like a reaction that needs a certain amount of energy or heat to start but then burns out in seconds. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?Thank you! I will give it a shot :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?I try to do the last 3 things on that list but its the problem of doing seem consistently... Skydiving is quite expensive. Not sure if I could afford that as a student but it always peaked my interest! | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Not so far fetched I think! Willpower and self-confidence, trying to improve the latter for quite some time but only small results :/ | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?yeeah... at least it cheers one up! | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?I try, but 1 on a scale of 100 is not really enough eh? Just do it! :D | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?In my mid 20's | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Thanks, will give it a look :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?That sounds extreme, dont want to hit anybody on the head :p But I see were you are going with this, thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys do it?Thank you! Tried meditation but didn't get to do it regularly. Definitely gonna try it again. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Will do, thanks :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Imagine watching myself from a spectator point of view? Interesting, will give it a try | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:46 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys do it?Thank you! Will try :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:45 PM |
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